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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:So I'm 15 years old and am attracted to a police officer guy a my school. Problem is... he seems to like me back as well. I know it is wrong to like someone so old, he seems to be like 30 something years old or in his late 20's. So we always look at each other and its like if we know there is something going on. Because when he is not looking at me I look at him and he turns to look at me and I look away, because he caught me looking. When he is looking at me I look at him, and he is still looking at me. I have also noticed that he tries to have physical contact, not in the extreme, but as a slight arm brushing . So I really like him and I noticed that he doesn't have a marriage ring on his finger. Like if he is not married or engaged or anything. Problem is... I can't stop thinking about him and I just want to know if it is wrong to love him like this. Any tips also, to try and forget him for a while? I even had a few dreams of him. Sometimes he is a good guy and sometimes he is bad. Besides, this police guy at school also makes an effort to be around me or to have a good spot to make sure where I am. In the hallways he is also there and he is like really tall, like 6 ft. or more and he always stands taller and prouder when I go by, making other cops and securities look smaller. I'm like 5ft. tall and I have always admired tall people.Help Anyone?? Good Advice please?
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (13 May 2012):
 It's OK to have a Crush on an older guy, but realistically (and I mean no offense) he has NOTHING in common with a 15 year old girl (or rather he shouldn't have anything in common wit ha 15 year old girl).
I actually find it a little worrisome that this guy who is in a position of authority/power seems to be keen on a 15 year old. Down right wrong.
I think you need to stick to people around your own age or maybe a couple of years (2 maybe) older but not 15 years older, for now it's just TOO big of a gap. Age wise, experience wise, maturity wise.
The whole trying to have physical contact with you sounds like the beginning of some rather creepy grooming. Like testing your reactions.
My best advice stay clear of him, do NOT encourage this semi flirting/stalking/"whatever it is" and if he keeps it up talk to an adult at your school.
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