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holly-x-dolly
writes:dear cupid, im 14 and i havnt snogged anyone. when it comes to it i get really nervous. i now how to do it and i know im missing out on alot of fun. im not an ugly girland guys do want to go with me. please give me some advice thank you xxx Reply to this Question |
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reader, holly-x-dolly +, writes (29 January 2008):
holly-x-dolly is verified as being by the original poster of the question heyah thanks for the help. loven h xxx
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reader, Devilish Angel  +, writes (24 January 2008):
 I wasn't kissed till I was 17. Don't worry about it. It'll happen. Just relax and worry about other things for now.
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reader, lynnb84 +, writes (24 January 2008):
dont worry about it. It will happen naturally, when the time is right. I was a really late starter. I never had a boyfreind till i was 19! I thought i was never going to have my first kiss, but i did and it was worth waiting for. So just dont worry, you'll have one soon enough.
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reader, Annalisa +, writes (24 January 2008):
 Kissing is first and foremost a way of showing affection.
You need to be with a boy you really like and are good friends with. If you go out and know you both like each other, he will probably make the first move, in which case, just relax and go with the flow! If he's too shy, encourage him by touching his arm when you talk, hold his hand when you walk... and when you say good-bye, give him a peck on the lips, then look into his eyes and smile, as if to see if he kisses you back.
Remember that a first kiss makes everyone nervous! Every time you kiss someone for the first time, it's a little scary. But one of the sweetest moments in life!
Good luck!
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reader, BECKAHDOTSHIM +, writes (24 January 2008):
 dont worry about it im 16 and im in the same boat as you there i have learnt that people will but onli when they feel they are entirely ready your time will come and if you feel that strongly about it talk to a friend, a boyfriend or your mum they will help you ,
you can make it happen by making a date more romantic a picnic is a good 1
hope this helps
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reader, Sams_WonderWoman +, writes (24 January 2008):
 Snoggling....I never heard that word before. but as I read your answer I, I knew what you were saying...a new word for sex!! But before I go on, I want to say that you are only 14 and should be thinking of other things to do and let your body mature more until you are at least 18. You can get hurt and tear places that could cause you damage. I can remember when I was 14, the guys I knew were not into girls. Girls mature faster than boys and want boyfriends, but the guys of the same age consider the girls as bothersome and yucky. Just a year or two difference and they are singing a much different tune. Sex should be between two people who love each other..that is so beautiful and wonderful. Lots better than just having sex for fun. You know what I consider to be fun? Riding on the world's tallest roller coaster or any other thrill ride. Sex should not be entered into lightly, you could be thrown into a situation that you have no control over like getting an std, get pregnant, ruin your relationship with your parents. Guys that you really love don't want an easy girl to spend their lives with. I even saw a question posted here on what I just said. It was a bout a married man of many years wanted to divorce his wife after he found out she had sex with many guys, almost the same age as you are now. So just think about what I said, and consider keeping yourself until you find that special man that you will marry. You will pay dearly for what you have done in your past, and nothing you can do will help.I hope that you make the smart choice...so you won't be paying for dumb mistakes you did in the past. I hope the very best for you...and you can send me a message if you want to...I will be doing some research on what I just told you...and will send them to you so you can see that I know the problems you will have if you don't wait!!God Bless you!!!
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