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14, got really drunk, and fooled around with my best friends man while my BF and her were downstairs...

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Question - (5 October 2006) 7 Answers - (Newest, 7 October 2006)
A female , Little girl x writes:

Fourteen, and in major trouble.

Saturday night i got really drunk, like really out of it. And i ended up in a room with my best friends boyfriend. She was downstairs with my boyfriend talking about me, while i was getting licked out and giving her boyfriend head. I dont remember much only some bits, but he keeps texting me saying how great it was, and that we should carry on, as its been a week and it hasnt come out. But i dont want that, i want my boyfriend, and to think i risked me and him its unbelievable. Not to mention my best friend. Both boys are so fit, but i love my boyfriend and am so scared.

Help xx

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A female reader, helpful girl United Kingdom +, writes (7 October 2006):

helpful girl agony aunti dont want to offend you but you are 14 and you shouldnt even be thinking about sex nor oral! i say you text him back and say it was a terribel mistake that will never be repeated i love my boyfreind and my best mate to bits and you should feel the same way too. but as for now you will live with the guilt but in future try cutting down on the drinking as you are an underage drinker and your parents can get done for that, as well as trying to take it steady on the sex and oral too as your underage to have sex, that way this mistake will not be repeated if you can try stopping the 2 all together.

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A female reader, Charmedone United Kingdom +, writes (7 October 2006):

Charmedone agony aunti am apalled by gerryaston's advice how dare you say to a 14 year that what she is doing is right you clearly have no idea what your talking about otherwise you would not encourage this girl in what she is doing is right how would you feel if you found your gf has done exactly the same to you. I am ashamed and digusted by you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2006):

First of all you are 14 and you shouldn't be drinking anyways. At 14 you have no idea how to hold your liquor. You don't deserve your boyfriend or best friend even if you were drunk. you weren't so drunk to not remember giving your friend's boyfriend head or him eating you out, were you? If you have any type of conscience you tell everyone the truth, and cut all ties with all 3 of them.

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A male reader, gerryaston +, writes (6 October 2006):

Enjoy both of them for as long as you can get away with it.

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A female reader, Claris +, writes (6 October 2006):

At 14 i don't think you really know what you are doing - you can't love your boyfriend if you cheated on him in that way regardless of how drunk you are!

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A female reader, Charmedone United Kingdom +, writes (6 October 2006):

Charmedone agony auntDon't do it again tell him it was a one off and that it will never happen again plus at 14 you shouldn't even be doing sexually stuff i was gonna say your bf but it's plain and clear that it wasn't. You clearly don't have any respect for your bf or your mate otherwise you wouldn't have shagged her lad and you can't have much respect for your self i'm sorry to be harsh but it's the truth. In future if you are to engage in sexual relations make sure you use protection and last but not least your sober. Hope this helped xx

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A female reader, pica +, writes (6 October 2006):

So don't do it again. In fact, give up the sex and the drinking - although you've already said you don't stoop to that with younger guys. PS why keep telling us your age? Could it possibly not be 14 after all?

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