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Premature ejaculation with a handjob!

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Question - (14 December 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 14 December 2011)
A female Romania age 22-25, *teph10 writes:

My boy friend is 18 years old. When I give him a hand job, he ejaculates within 2 minutes, sometimes in a minute. How can I stop his quick ejaculation? Should I squeeze his balls? I did it once, he said it hurt. Do you think it will work if I put my finger on his penis tip?

When he ejaculates, he becomes so crazy, he doesn't let me to touch his penis. I asked him the reason and he replied that he can't tolerate. I don't know he does this. Once he quickly ejaculated, I got so angry and I continued the hand job for some moments. He was moving like crazy. It seems to me it was really painful for him. Is that normal?

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (14 December 2011):

DoubleM agony auntGuys who masturbate a lot are likely to ejaculate quickly. I'm not saying that is the situation here, but it is certainly possible.

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A male reader, olderthandirt United States +, writes (14 December 2011):

olderthandirt agony auntSlow and steady is the best...He neds to deny himself when he masterbates. that will extend the times you two have together. Self denial is an art.practicepractice practice. NEVER squeeze his nuts that could cause real pain and damage.

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A female reader, shrodingerscat United States +, writes (14 December 2011):

shrodingerscat agony auntWhen he gets close, just stop.

Wait until he calms down for about a minute, then continue. You can do this as often as you want.

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (14 December 2011):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntI've known men who lasted less than a minute in my hands. I regard it as a compliment, personally.

If you continue to jerk after he has cum, yes, a lot of men do find that unbearable. And holding the tip would be just...cruel, I think.

You may want to try a stop and start sort of technique...never jerk continuously for more than 15 seconds...vary it with just talking or something...otherwise there isn't much you can do. Most penises follow a "you use hands; I will cum" principle.

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A male reader, unknown2u United States +, writes (14 December 2011):

Why on earth would you want him to last a long time with a handjob? It just hurts your hand. You want him to last a long time with intercourse. The faster he cums with a hj, moresoe with a bj, the better, no?

And yes, after he cums, it's sensitive and he doesn't want it touched. It's called a refractory period. Particularly for young inexperienced guys, they really need to be left completely alone after they cum. No touch on the genitals at all, and maybe not even hugging. As they get older and more experienced it's less of a problem, but for young guys new to it all, please let them set the pace. Hands off until they get their heads together. It might only be a minute or two, but that bit of time is very important.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2011):

Why are you trying to stop him from cumming in 1-2 minutes? If you want to prolong the fun for him then just learn to sense when he's close and slow down or back off for a little while.

Manually blocking the ejaculation at the tip of his penis isn't good for his parts down there. Don't do that.

The penis head can get VERY sensitive right after a guy cums, which is why your BF doesn't want you to touch it afterward. It depends on the guy but it's literally painful for some guys to keep stroking it.

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