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writes:I am curious if anyone has a similar problem? My vagina gets extremely wet when I'm doing anything sexual. An ex said he's never seen anyone get that wet before and he used to have to pull out occasionally during intercourse to dry me off with a handtowel. My current boyfriend jokes about needing a snorkel and goggles and I think he's afraid of going down there because it's so "gushy." He says that I'm probably just very excited but I'm wondering if any women have the same issue and what you do about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): I just think that you get extremely excited and love having sex
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008): I can certainly relate. I have the same issue except my current fiance loves it so much, he can't get enough of it. We've taken many pics just for our own purpose and viewing and i must say it actually turns me on just seeing my own wetness. My fiance feels blessed as he has never been with a woman that can get so wet before ... not to mention i am 38 years of age. I was always like that though,I am very sexual also. Just thought I would let you know. Don't worry about what your current boyfriend is saying he can use a towel and dry you out if it's too wet for him
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reader, BigSis  + ♥, writes (26 April 2008):
 I wonder if the questioner still gets wet....because I've just noticed the original question was posted a year old....ooops!! heh heh!!
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reader, BigSis + ♥, writes (26 April 2008):
This is not a problem at all!
It's a perfectly natural thing to have happen to you. It just means that you're getting highly aroused, and i'm not ashamed to say that it happens to me all the time.
If you feel that you get too wet whilst having sex, then do what your boyfriend does, simply dry yourself off a little and get on with it.
Just enjoy the fact that you get extremely wet, I do.
Have fun!!
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BigSis xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): My boyfriend turns me on so much and I get so excited and extremely wet. My bf loves my wet pussy and he tells me this everytime we have sex. He loves it very warm and wet is what I give him. I remember being so wet and having multiple organsms, I came so much that the mattress was wet. My bf is very large and I am sore after we have sex because he really enjoys himself and always has an orgasm when we have sex. I do kegel exercises all of the time. I am not too tight but I make my man groan.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): I have the same issue. I always thought that it was a problem until my boyfriend was fingering me on our couch one day and I got so wet it was running down his arm. He told me " holy shit babe.." and I gave him a look like I was embarassed and he told me it was a good thing.. Makes him feel like he knows what he's doing. Its only happened with him and it turns him on everytime I get THAT wet. He turns me on something fierce...More than anybody else Ive been with anyway. So I think its the same thing as when a guy gets a hard on.. we just get Really wet when we get MAJORLY turned on. You know?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): Why does everyody keep calling this a problem cause it aint.... the wetter the better. for real if ur man dont like it he prolly got a lil sugar in his tank lol cause every man loves a "super wet" (term for a gurl whos vagina produces large amounts of lube) for real talkin to ur guys bout a new gf thats the first thing u brag about shes a super wet. so women for the sake of real men every where please dont try to "solve this problem" get rid of the little boys n find yall some real men
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): I have a solution. Tell your boyfriend to pour a little sand in your vagina before each encounter. Not regular sand but there is something in adult toys stores called wet be gone which is a pussy sand. It sounds silly but there are plenty of women out there with this problem. you should check it out and it's inexpensive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): Cmon.
this isnt really a solution but i think it should be.
the solution is: dnt have a solution!
guys LOVE wet pussys it turns them on so much.
just embrace it cos all my bfs have loved my wetness
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): My wife is the same way. I love it. I have a rather large penis and the extra lubrication she has helps with penetration. You are lucky.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): I know that it is not a problem, you have to be proud of who you are. If that area gets wet like that and your boyfried doesnt like it, and makes jokes about it, why are you even with him. I wish I had a woman with that so called problem I would love for it to gush.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): I get extremely wet as well during an sexual activity. It is so embarassing and has become a problem. I spoke with my gyno about it and she's switching me to a different birth control. She mentioned there's a surgery that they can freeze the glands that produce the lubrication. That would be the last resort. Any other suggestions??
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008): no one gave a solution to this problem. are u all saying there is no solution? all u are doing is telling us what u think about the issue. tell us how to end this coz to girls like me it IS a problem and we want it to end whether or not u think so. so pliz give us a solution not opinions
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2008): I also get extremely wet during any type of sexual activity. I've had the gamut of responses to this from past lovers. Some thought it was awesome, while another called it "soupy". The man I am with now loves it, although I still sometimes feel a little tiny bit self conscious about it...You just have to be at ease with your body, especially your vagina! The wetter the better!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008): I think that the wetter the better and if your mate cannot feel you, maybe you could lend a helping hand or something to grip the situation. It might be what they are used to feeling on their own? Or maybe the guy is small and insecure? This has been a benefit to sex to be nice and as wet as you can get from any woman I've been with and unless it is some type of strange smell/color discharge it should be embraced and enjoyed.Enjoy your gift of vaginal wetness. I would guess that there are more small guys out there than extreme wet or loose-fit ladies, just look around at all of the little big guy vehicles on the road. overcompensation much?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): i get that all the time. one time i thought the condom broke because it was so wet, but it was just me. guys shoulnt make fun of it, if anything they should like it, less work for them
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2008): Hi, i'm 31 years old, i get very wet too just to think about my bf, we are so good together, the funny thing in me is that never in my life i was wet at all, this is the only person that has made me get so wet, and i think he loves my wetness, at the beginning of our relationship i felt weird, because was my first bf making me wet, but i think is good, i enjoy it!!!
Just relax and enjoy the moment, if he loves you, he'll accept you however you are.
cm*
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007): Wow,
That is such a turn on.
:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): I have had the same problem, but my girlfriend (I'm lesbian) loves it
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2007): Ok, this sounds like a problem but, I cannot really see who it is a problem. I have never been to this website and have never posted here. I will never post here again after this. I hope this helps some of you get your problem solved. After reading through a majority of these posts I notice two things that seem to be present in each case. We have a man that may or may not like oral and a woman that has a decreased self confidence level. I would say I am an average sized guy. My girl gets extremely wet but based on the posts I read here she is not in the same category as you women. I have been with numerous partners before her and some did gush as you would say. I have never had problem feeling anything. I think if friction is a problem then kegel exercises are the answer. Even if a man has a dick the size of a pencil your vagina should be able to tighten around it. So work out those PC muscles and find a man that likes oral sex. Better yet find a man that likes you. If a guy really loves you it shouldn't matter how wet you get. Even if he had to wear SCUBA he would make it work. Come on. Wetness should not be something your concerned with. Men that haven't figured out that your not perfect either, figure it out, embrace your wife/girlfriend and get sexual. Quit being so up tight. Lady that won't ask the gyno. What do you pay that person for. That person is a Vagina Doctor. You pay that person. Ask that person he/she is a professional. They will not be embarassed and neither should you. If that is not the case, switch doctors. Find a doctor your comfortable and find a man you are comfortable with. Someone who loves you, your wetness, your vagina, your breasts, your personality, your looks, your hobbies, etc.... Don't settle for someone that doesn't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): Wow, I can’t believe how many women have this apparent problem. I see it as an indication of how well I’m doing but that is a man’s point of view. I’ve slept with a lot of women considering my age and have never experienced anything like this that I have with my current girlfriend. She seems to want to pee during sex and she feels like she does from time to time. After searching on the internet it seems to be 1 in 4 woman experience, I’m lead to believe it’s just before ejaculation. Does it feel like this for other woman? The only way to describe it is it’s like a water fall; I have to change my covers every time we have sex. She gets very worried at that alone but I love my girlfriend of 6 months extremely large amount (love you moo). I have no problems going down on her and neither should that be a problem with the person you love and they should understand a woman’s needs. I reassure my girlfriend during and after and she seems to be getting better. Its hard to understand because there’s no clear answer, the only advice I can give is pee before sex, talk to your partner maybe have sex in the bath where if you feel like peeing just go and more than likely your about to experience the best orgasm EVER. Or put a towel down on the bed and lay back to enjoy the moment. I love it when my gf gets wet but that’s me bragging. Hope I’ve been of some help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2007): i get that problem to
my docter said to see if its worry or excitment dont worry about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWow, I can't believe how many people have written in about this!
update: my boyfriend & i remember back in the beginning he was able to feel me better and orgasm inside of me when i used the today sponge as birth control. someone who posted a while back said she thought the sponge soaked up extra moisture. i had to go off the sponge because it caused some bleeding, but i think i'm going to go back on and try to fit it in better.
i haven't been keeping up with the keigel exercises like i'm supposed to, but i have a feeling if i work harder on that it'll help.
we can feel each other if he gets me doggy style - it's much tighter that way(does anyone find that as well?); missionary it's harder especially if my legs are wide open. the friction is much better if i keep my legs tight together in the missionary position and also if we stand up (we're about the same height), but i can't really come that way; my legs have to be wide open.
we've also gotten into anal sex which my boyfriend loves and which i've come to enjoy a lot (after getting over the initial pain and awkwardness). often we'll have sex doggy style and when he's ready to come we'll have anal sex and he comes really hard that way. (though i can't come in these positions!)
also if i'm already really turned on and get on top of him i'll come pretty quickly, and i'll rub my breasts in his face and that keeps him excited and hard.
he can get me off just by foreplay - kissing, playing with my breasts and fingering me and i'm happy with that. he did try to really go down on me again and when he got up i saw that his chin was totally dripping with my goo! i had no idea it was that much! i felt so sorry for him and after that i said, "you don't have to go down on me anymore" because if a guy isn't into that and has to deal with a bucket of cum on his face it can't be that pleasant at all! he'll still kiss me and lick me a little there which i find very pleasurable, but i don't want him going too far in and drowning or something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): It is completly normal for some wemen to get wet this is called squirting its normal to do it and yes the guy will pull out its pretty much female ejaculation. Quite normal
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2007): sweet heart i'd say it's a good thing....Not a problem.
Heck, i've come across some "dry" women.
So yh... i wouldnt say "it's a problem yh"
(^_^)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007): its nice to know that i am not the only person with this problem. i have been spending the last hour on the website to see if i am confusing peeing with cumming.
if this helps explain things more. i feel like my bf, who is quite large (thank god!) pushes up against something - it's almost like you can feel him push on it. i'm worried its my bladder! i'm still not sure! i have never had this problem with any person who i have previously been intimate with. my bf seems to enjoy it - we will switch positions which helps - it usually only happens when i am on top. but he will try and make it happen in the missionary position and it still happens, but not as often.
there are times it has been so bad that we have had to move to the couch to sleep.
does anyone have any advice? or can tell me what the "button" is it feels like he presses?
thanks
flooding female
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007): hmm well i have that same problem . its so embarassing. any one help
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): i havnt had sex but when iv been fingered. i get really wet, the lad i was with takes the piss aswell, he sed i was really really wet, he got a buzz coz he thrt he was good , he doesnt understand its embaressing for us girls, dont worry if anyone has a prob just tell them so thats you and you cant help what happens to your body, its normal for girls :] xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): I have that very same problem. I am not sure what to do. I am thinking of maybe trying a doushe before I know that I am going to be involved sexually.
For the most part my man says he is turned on and says it is ok but we occasionally have to stop and dry off. I will keep you posted to see if the doushe works
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): I use to have the problem. Try Ortho Tri birth control. Trust me after you go on it, you'll wish u were wet. My personal experience
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007): yes i do also. extremly whenever im touched. its a turn on for me and my boyfriend. he has never gone down either because i stay so wet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): I too am amazed at how many women have this problem. I'm sick of it! I feel like I have to explain every time we have sex so he don't just think I'm loose or something. I'll say "man you get me so wet" just so he knows that's what's going on. I also had to dry myself off a few times during sex. He says it don't bother him, but it bothers me. I'm very self conscience about this. I love having sex, but often don't initiate because I know how wet I'm going to get and can't feel it as good anyway. I'm about tempted to put a tampon in or something. Why is it that nobody has come up with an answer for this question? There's got to be a solution.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2007): I like wet pussy and im only 15 yr 's old but will go for anything that wants me
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): Wow i am amazed at all the lady's that have the same problem as me. I am married and find the wetness to be even more annoying now as my husband isnt that big in size. I wasnt insecure about it in the beginning but more so now as he wants less sex. I would want nothing more then for him to go down on me but that is definatly out of the question now. Imagine having to stop sex several times to dry off..i mean its a hot moment but come on. P:S i have only had sex with him so its not like i am broken in.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): this is good. It means you are healthy and excited. Maybe your boyfriends have it too easy and don't have to work to make this "unseemly" wetness happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): poster what do you mean you couldn't ask your gyno????? The person has a full on view of your crotch with their hand up there, and you can't ask about wetness???? They get far more embarrasing problems (read std's). If you can not be open with your gyno you need to find a new one. Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): Problem?? I Don't see this as a Problem!!! This is what I don't like about my current girlfriend, she is Dry as a Bone... No moisture at all. Your boyfriend must be in Heaven. He is a Very lucky man indeed...
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): I get wet like that too and the suggestion to use INSTEAD is amazing. I enjoyed using them during my period, when I can be hot and horny the most. INSTEAD, INSTEAD, INSTEAD! Thanx poster for suggesting this one, some of you should try it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): I saw a lot of replies with the same problems but no solutions. I have the same problem getting too wet. Some have found this to be great, for the one on the other end it inhibits you sexually. I am embarressed by this and I do not enjoy sex because I don't feel a thing. It is taking a toll on my marriage cause I am always thinking ahead of time about this and then not enjoying the moment. There is no friction just wet. What can be done about it? Just wiping it off? What causes this? Someone please reply with an answer. I don't want to have to plan my sex acts all the time. I want to be able to have sex in the middle of the night after being woken up by my husband. Please someone with answers- let me (us) know!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): I have the a same problem with being "Too wet". Right now its Friday night and I am sitting at work. My husband and I tried to have sex earlier when I went home, but it all ended as I find he won't stimulate me as much anymore manually or orally as he says I get to wet and he can't feel it. I don't want to go through life without oral or manual pleasure and trying to talk to him about it isn't working at all. Every other man I've ever been with has been turned on by this and have loved oral sex with me, but now I'm married to a man who thinks its a turn off. I've used my Kegal Master and that helps but it takes a good hour out of your day to do the exercises. There's not alot of time most days. Not only do you miss out sexually when your partner isn't turned on by it, it affects the bonding you have with each other as it hurts the feelings of woman who's having the "Wet Vagina" problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): I have this wetness condition also. My husband thinks it's amazing and yet I always feel self concious about it when we are having sex. I actually have to put down three or four towels because I orgasm like a human geyser. Is it true that most men find this extremely erotic? My husband tells me that most men would kill to find a woman that can do what we can. I always feel like it must be pee coming out. However my doctor assures me that that is not the case and that I should be thankful. Most women my age are usually complaining of genital dryness. I need to know that men really are turned on by this more than they are turned off.
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reader, ONLYME27 +, writes (21 August 2007):
I too get very, very wet - conversations with my fella can make me wet. I sometimes cant feel him and hes huge which is annoying but he said its the most amazing hes ever had - so wet and warm and hes said its amazing to be inside.......he loves it so I do. The fact that Im wet turns him on as he feels its a sign of how excited I am.
Sometimes I cant feel him but then he slows down and this seems to help get the feeling back again - TRY IT.
I LOVE GETTING WET FOR HIM - WE BOTH TASTE IT AND ITS NATURAL :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): I have no difficulty with wet or even very wet vaginas, but I think it is because I am so wide that I can feel everything. I actually love when my partner gets super wet. It turns me on. I actually reach down and feel the vagina during intercourse. If I feel slime leaking out, my hard-on becomes like a rock. I had one girlfriend who was so wet that there was a huge wet spot about 1ft x 1ft on the bed covers. That was so awesome. As for going down on a woman, I have no problem when it is super wet, as I just rub my face in that wet beaver and smear that slime all over my face and body. In general, the wetter a vagina is, the better. I can tell you, being wet is far, far better than being dry. I don't like to use any lubricants at all. The best lubricant is the natural moisture of the vagina. Oh, and one of the best turn-ons is rubbing the clitoris in a lighted room and watching goo leak out of the vagina. Nothing is better than that. So, you women with wet vaginas or super wet vaginas, you have something special and shouldn't worry about it at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): Ok I'm a guy and reading this cause I've been having similar problems with my gf.
To all those people that say this is a blessing... I don't think you understand how wet some girls get. My gf gets so wet that I literally can't feel a thing, and I'm above average in length and girth.
I don't care how "amazing" and "wonderful" you may think this may be, but sit there and try and have an orgasm with no contact. Try it for five minutes, or an hour, you wont get anywhere. That is what sex is like for me, and I imagine that is what it is like for others expressing their concern.
Now in my case, I can give my gf multiple orgasms in a single session, and can last what I consider to be a reasonable time (20 minutes or so) but our last 8 sessions I haven't come to orgasm even once. And that is considering I am fully erect and as I said before I am NOT small.
SO please, I understand that you may think you know what people are saying in this thread, but sex can be more of a chore than anything in this sort of a situation.
If anyone can figure some sort of solution out I would LOVE to see it here!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007): I've been reading down through the posts here, and the answers all seem to lead to my problem as well. I do not even have to be having intercourse for me to become soaked. I get/already am extremely wet even before my boyfriend starts to finger me. I'm embaressed for him to touch me, because there is a slight odor from this "wetness". He has not complained, but I still feel awkward engaging in these activites. Like many women here have written, my ex-boyfriend cracked jokes about me being,"too wet for him".I haven't tried many things; just cleaning well and drying off before engaging in these acts. Since my current boyfriend has not said anything to me about it, i'm starting to wonder what he really is thinking as we're engaging in anything sexual.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007): I have the same exact problem! Me and my boyfriend have to stop multiple times during sex so i can whipe really quick, but then, I just too wet all over again. It's frusturating because he makes comments about it like "damn babe,your too wet" and I worry that sooner or later he will become unhappy with our sex life. 9months ago we had a daughter but I had a C-section so it couldn't have stretched. It just seems like after pregnancy i'm gushing with vaginal lube and none of these answers i'm reading on the internet are helping.I even do the tightening of the muscle thing and that doesn't seem to work for us either. We are exsclusive so he is the only man i've been with for 2 years. I can't seem to figure out the problem or how to fix it. HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): well babe mine does too! most menhave complained but i think if they arent happy then tell them they wont get it atall. one thing i do is douche like half an hour before having sex, it calms things down abit haha xxx
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