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writes:Okay this might sound like a really strange question and I'm not entirely sure what I'm asking but basically I'm a virgin and I've never done anything with a guy before and I've never masturbated properly (I think I'm doing it wrong) but when I get turned on I get REALLY turned on. So much so that sometimes I can't think straight, I can barely control myself. But this is usually through fantasies and dirty thoughts. I guess what I'm asking is when I'm with a guy and I feel that way will everything just go on instinct or will I have to really focus to coordinate myself? And will the strength of my feelings weaken when I have released the tension for the first time? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): hey what you will find is that when u have sex the guy as u say will do it and usually now how to make u orgasm im 17 and have only slept with one girl and as far as i no she was happy at the end. as a result of watchin porn i guess i learned the tricks of the traid but this might not be ur style i mean u might not be compfortable watchin it
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGloria how can I message you if your advice is anonymous? :S xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): I have read a book about this stuff.
1. The way that turns you on is maturbating.
2. It may actually hurt a little the first time.
3. No, you don't have to think. Men, I have read, just wan to do it. so really, it doesn't take much work, let them take control I guess.
Please message me!
Hope this is useful!
xx(I hope these are hugs)
gloria
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reader, TasteofIndia + ♥, writes (13 August 2007):
Hey sweetness,
I do think that when you do hook up with a guy that things will just happen and you'll figure it out. Half the fun IS figuring it out anyways!!
As for masturbation, I suggest going to this website: http://www.clitical.com/
It's the ultimate site for female masturbation! I think you'll love it!
Don't worry about being with a guy. When it happens for you, you'll know what to do!
xxIndia
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