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I'm a virgin and I've never done anything with a guy before and I've never masturbated properly (I think I'm doing it wrong)

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Question - (13 August 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

Okay this might sound like a really strange question and I'm not entirely sure what I'm asking but basically I'm a virgin and I've never done anything with a guy before and I've never masturbated properly (I think I'm doing it wrong) but when I get turned on I get REALLY turned on. So much so that sometimes I can't think straight, I can barely control myself. But this is usually through fantasies and dirty thoughts. I guess what I'm asking is when I'm with a guy and I feel that way will everything just go on instinct or will I have to really focus to coordinate myself? And will the strength of my feelings weaken when I have released the tension for the first time?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007):

hey what you will find is that when u have sex the guy as u say will do it and usually now how to make u orgasm im 17 and have only slept with one girl and as far as i no she was happy at the end. as a result of watchin porn i guess i learned the tricks of the traid but this might not be ur style i mean u might not be compfortable watchin it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007):

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Gloria how can I message you if your advice is anonymous? :S xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007):

I have read a book about this stuff.

1. The way that turns you on is maturbating.

2. It may actually hurt a little the first time.

3. No, you don't have to think. Men, I have read, just wan to do it. so really, it doesn't take much work, let them take control I guess.

Please message me!

Hope this is useful!

xx(I hope these are hugs)

gloria

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States + , writes (13 August 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntHey sweetness,

I do think that when you do hook up with a guy that things will just happen and you'll figure it out. Half the fun IS figuring it out anyways!!

As for masturbation, I suggest going to this website: http://www.clitical.com/

It's the ultimate site for female masturbation! I think you'll love it!

Don't worry about being with a guy. When it happens for you, you'll know what to do!

xxIndia

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