I keep thinking about her past even tho she is still a virgin but its the fact she has done more then me! How do I get past this?

A male age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have just got my first girlfriend she used to like me four years n she sed i wos the first she told she liked! bt the ting ws at the time when she liked me i wos a bit silly n thort i cud do better that wos cuz i had other girls telling me they liked me! i did used to regret not doing neting with cuz i realised hw decent she was! bt after four years me n her got together, the thing is i am 20 n have been lookin forward to getting my first girlfriend cuz i always knew i would take care of ne girl i got with. I was glad i got her bt i have started to feel depressed bout myself cuz in that space of four years she had two relationships VV short they both cheated on her n she had a fling bt she is still a virgin! and in that spaced of four years i havnt done much I feel like turning back the clock to b with her four years ago! why did i start feeling depressed i didnt expect that to happen to me?? n i keep thinkin about her past even tho she is stil a virgin bt its the fact she has done more then me! bt she wasnt honest n upfront about her past! help me get rid of this feeling!! n I keep wanting to ask her about her past! i dnt want to tho i jus wanna go to the future! she the sort of girl i would marry bt its jus this past thing i cnt marry someone if this keeps happening to me!

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