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I just can't bear those memories of his previous relationship. What should I do?

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Question - (10 July 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 July 2012)
A female India age 30-35, *wasti writes:

Hi friends. I am going through a typical situation these days. I have a boyfriend. We are in a relationship since 3 years. 3 years back we had broke up for some misunderstandings. After our breakup, my boyfriend got a new girlfriend. She was a real flirt girl. She tympassed with him and ditched him. But meanwhile they had come physically close. After their breakup, I consoled my boyfriend and we started loving each other again. Since then, we share a good love relationship. He too loves me a lot. But the problem is whenever he tries to be physically close with me, I always remember that my boyfriend had been physically close to that girl and donot allow him to come close to me. I start thinking may be he has an addiction of girls. He will use me. I just can't bear those memories of his previous relationship. This is making me away from him gradually which I don't want. Now how could I deal with this. What should I do now? Please suggest. . .

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A female reader, Swasti India +, writes (12 July 2012):

Swasti is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Swasti agony auntThanks guys. 4 ur kind advices.

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A female reader, curious1987 Australia +, writes (11 July 2012):

curious1987 agony auntI think you should talk to your boyfriend, but remember, everyone has baggage.

when you love someone, you can talk to them and tell them everything. so if you both love each other, you can talk to him and he won't judge you. good luck. xx

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A female reader, Swasti India +, writes (11 July 2012):

Swasti is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Swasti agony auntThanx 4 ur advice kitty. . . I myself have tried this way many a times. But I am not just able to do this. Whenever I go away from him, I just can't spend a single moment happily. I can't live without him. This thing only is confusing me to come to any decision.

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