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I base myself on past experience to give advice and I guess I fallow my head not my feelings.I'm down to earth and verry friendly. I'm honest and direct, I speak my mind and hold on to what I realy believe in. Truth hurst but sh*t a lie is way wors.

Learn to love your self and the world you live in. Is probly my best advice. And also karma is a b**ch.

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How to talk dirty with a man?

Q.   How to talk dirty with a man? I love and respect him; I just need sth different. I need some erotic expressions ( not silly but serious and sensual to drive him crazy and wild). Something unusual and interesting! By the way to say that online,,, I ...

A.   20 August 2010: You wanted to dirty talk via internet? I miss read the question sorry! Enywais you got good suggestions. Keep us posted!... (read in full...)

31 and never been kissed!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have a big problem. I'm 31 years old and male and have never had a girlfriend. I never even been on a date with a girl. I really like girls but am very unlucky not to have met someone. I haven't even ever kissed a girl before. ...

A.   20 August 2010: Lower your standards.... (read in full...)

Whenever we hang out he's always in his own little world! Why?!?

Q.   Dear Cupid, ok so there is this guy, lets call him Mark. Well long story short he has a gf but we messed around during the summer because i was hoping that he would start developing feelings for me. Stupid idea i know and i do regret it. Anyways ...

A.   20 August 2010: Hes just not that in to you... Get over it and find someone new...... (read in full...)

Do I stay in a dead-end relationship that's going nowhere, or do I start again?

Q.   Hi cupid, I've been in a relationship for 6 years now, but I am really not happy. My partner only wants sex once a month, which doesn't seem right to me. I've tried to speak to her about it, but the only response I get is, If you're not happy, t...

A.   20 August 2010: Every time a women gives you an opstion like that "if your not happy then there is the door" TAKE THE DOOR. Shes pushing you away by saying that. Part of her wants you to get out... So go you will be MUCH better off.... (read in full...)

Is this height difference ok?

Q.   Is 26cm or 10inches difference too bad between couple? What are some adventages and disadventages in this? Would you, guys, be mind to have a girlfrient who is too short( 5'1)? ...

A.   20 August 2010: Hey! I'm 5'2" and I have had Boyfriends who are 6"! Chill Its doesnt matter! ... (read in full...)

Should I get a boyfriend so I can fit in with my friends?

Q.   Im a 16-year old girl who is in the 11th grade when I look around in my hallway at my school i feel upset cause all of my friends that i've known for a long have a boyfriend and im get sad cause i get called a tomboy by my friends and even guys i ...

A.   20 August 2010: Noooo!! Dont change who you are just to "fit it". At your age I wish I was more like you are now. Girls in High School are too "boy crazy". They forget about them selves just to be what they think a boy will like. Do you see guys stop playing sports ... (read in full...)

Why do guys always go for the "hot" girls vs the "cute" ones?

Q.   I guess this question is more for guys but women your advice helps to. So my question is, why do guys always go for the "hot" girls vs the "cute" ones. By hot I mean girls who have a lot of sex apeal and of course they are beautiful. The ones ...

A.   20 August 2010: Strontiumdog, I wanted to thank you for your answer. :) But no i'm not after the popular jock kind of guy. I also prefer a nice nerdy guy i could say who is atractive but doesnt know it. :)... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant?

Q.   Dear Cupid, So exactly one week ago i had sex for the first time, it was August 12, 2010. My partner had a condom and i dont think it had a hole on it, he ejaculated inside of me and pulled out right after. I was suppost to get my period a few days...

A.   19 August 2010: Not ready to have a child = not ready to have sex. No your not pregnant you are just stressed. Being stressed will disturbe your mentrual cycle. And also you being this young your menstrual cycle isnt evin stable yet sooo dont worry about it.... (read in full...)

How to talk dirty with a man?

Q.   How to talk dirty with a man? I love and respect him; I just need sth different. I need some erotic expressions ( not silly but serious and sensual to drive him crazy and wild). Something unusual and interesting! By the way to say that online,,, I ...

A.   19 August 2010: In bed I use (if its real hot sex) -Fuck me harder/faster -Oh fuck yeah -You'r so huge -I feel you so deep inside of me -Oh *His name* ! What helps is that I dont evin need to think about these things because I just say out loud ho... (read in full...)

I'm afraid she's going to break up with me

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 3 months now. We are both 17 and entering our senior year of high school. She recently has gotten a job so I do not get to see her as much but ever since then I've noticed a small change in her. She ...

A.   19 August 2010: To me this could go 2 way 1- You need to calm down, she says its ok so dont keep bringing it up because that will push her away. You need to trust in her, get it? -OR- - Shes going to break up with you and there is pr... (read in full...)

He's 17, I'm 13, he wants sex but I think I'm too young!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I'm gay and in my first relationship he's kind and he's everything I want in a man but since he's 17 and I'm 13 it's quite strange but it's both of our first relationship he wants to have sexual relations but I think I might be too you...

A.   19 August 2010: Good girl! =) I think you did the right thing! You will be proud of this later on trust me! ... (read in full...)

Why do guys always go for the "hot" girls vs the "cute" ones?

Q.   I guess this question is more for guys but women your advice helps to. So my question is, why do guys always go for the "hot" girls vs the "cute" ones. By hot I mean girls who have a lot of sex apeal and of course they are beautiful. The ones ...

A.   19 August 2010: Thank you DirtBall :)... (read in full...)

Why do guys always go for the "hot" girls vs the "cute" ones?

Q.   I guess this question is more for guys but women your advice helps to. So my question is, why do guys always go for the "hot" girls vs the "cute" ones. By hot I mean girls who have a lot of sex apeal and of course they are beautiful. The ones ...

A.   19 August 2010: HoneyPie I'm talking about physical apearence not sluts who will give them selves right away to enyone. Cute girls look inocent but arn't always so inocent. We just choose to keep are sexuality for are man. Men dont like it when all the other gu... (read in full...)

Why do guys always go for the "hot" girls vs the "cute" ones?

Q.   I guess this question is more for guys but women your advice helps to. So my question is, why do guys always go for the "hot" girls vs the "cute" ones. By hot I mean girls who have a lot of sex apeal and of course they are beautiful. The ones ...

A.   19 August 2010: Dirtball you just brought up a whole new question up haha! What is a good personeality? I sometimes feel as if i'm doing something wrong because men I meet seem to not want a relationship... I think they think I'm too needy or something. Because ... (read in full...)

Will he ever come back? I'm devastated and any advice would help

Q.   Me and my ex had an awesome relationship although we moved into it too fast, im 18 he just turned 23. We dated for 3 months and were together everyday and i slept at his house almost every night he would come over and hang out with my parents and he ...

A.   19 August 2010: No he wont. Its better for you and for him. You need to spend time with your friends and you have alot of self learning to do. You will find someone els when your truly ready for it.... (read in full...)

Why is he so jealous and insecure?

Q.   hello, most likely there's some questions about this.. but i really need some advice here. My boyfriend... (who i've been dating for 2 years now) is a very very jealous guy. i've never given him any reasons to not trust me or anything. i'm with him ...

A.   19 August 2010: I have to disagree with Dreame. Jalousy is not proof of how much a persone love you and doesnt want to lose you. Most of the time a jalous persone is afraide you do something they would do in your position. (By that i mean what he would do if he ... (read in full...)

In love with my stepdaughter...

Q.   I recently slept with my step daughter, she's 20 i'm 40 and now have these deep, deep feelings of love for her and everything I try to I can't get her out of my heart, she has mentioned to other family members that she has feelings for me as well. ...

A.   19 August 2010: Stop what you are doing and end all contact with the Daughter and the Mother. Move on and let the mother move on as well. The daughter will find someone els, so will you and so will the mother. Don't ever come between a Mother and Daughter... (read in full...)

Why do guys always go for the "hot" girls vs the "cute" ones?

Q.   I guess this question is more for guys but women your advice helps to. So my question is, why do guys always go for the "hot" girls vs the "cute" ones. By hot I mean girls who have a lot of sex apeal and of course they are beautiful. The ones ...

A.   19 August 2010: Thanks guys it helps alot! :)... (read in full...)

Can any men give me some insight to this please?

Q.   My bf Anthony is acting strange...hes 15yrs older so I can't really guess why having noo experience with men his age :p I've known him six months and he told me he was forced to live with his folks because of the bad economic situation. But, I've ...

A.   19 August 2010: You should know better then this. Think with your head leave your emotions out of this. Get out of this relationship and move on.... (read in full...)

Drama over liking the same guy. Advice?

Q.   Okay so me and my friend like the same guy. this guy is nice and pretty hot. and me and him flirt alot but its bothers my friend and we had fights about it so i stopped. this guy told me he likes me and i told him i like him. we text and talk alot. ...

A.   19 August 2010: I agree with Nick. She should be happy for you because the guy obviously chose you over her. But you need to understand that him choosing you over her is probably what is hurting her the most. So maybe it would be good to have a girl to girl talk ... (read in full...)

How do I get confidence?

Q.   i really want a boyfiend but i don't think i will get one because i don't have any confident. How do i get confidence ? ...

A.   19 August 2010: You'r a teenaged girl, lack of confidence is verry comon at your age. You don't need a boy friend to be confident, you need to love youself and know what your good at. Tips: -Don't be afraid to look at people in the eyes when you talk to them... (read in full...)

Is 13 too young for sex?

Q.   I like sex but i am only 13 years old am i too young?...

A.   19 August 2010: Be carfull with that. If you have had more then one partner this WILL ruin you reputation. And this goes for women of all ages because of the double standers but what ever. Sine you are 13, and 13 is young for sex you should be evin more carfull ... (read in full...)

Should I visit a prostitute to lose my virginity?

Q.   I'm a male virgin. I've never kissed a girl, I've never been on a date and I've never had a girlfriend. I've been told by numerous women that I'm not handsome or as some put it, ugly, even though I thought I was average looking. Guess I can appr...

A.   19 August 2010: Stop making it a big deal, thats what drive women away. We dont care if you are or not. If you act desprate we will think that that is the only thing you want from us. Sex isnt what makes a persone, you are what you make yourself. I have a friend... (read in full...)

My Plan to get back with my girl (please critique)

Q.   I need help with this situation, as I'm slightly confused. 5 days ago, I saw my girlfriend for the first time in 3 weeks, as she is off working at a camp over the summer. We have been dating for 4 months and we haven't seen each other on a consiste...

A.   19 August 2010: I have been in a relationship similar to yours this passed year. It lasted 8 months. Turns out he cheated on me and left me for this other girl. I was one hour away from home for school and we would see each other on week ends. We fell for each... (read in full...)

Am I pregnant?

Q.   Hi Everyone!I really need all your opinion about my problem now,i missed my period this month got my last period last july 8 then after one week me and my bf had unprotected sex im really worried now because i feel sick and tired and hve ...

A.   19 August 2010: Get a pregnancy test, because you are stressing about this it might be all in your head (the symptomes i mean) But to be sure you realy should get a pregnancy test.... (read in full...)

She thinks we're friends, but ...

Q.   My "friend" is always lying to me and forces me to do things. If I don't she starts crying and says she will go home. She thinks we are best friends and I can't just tell her I don't want to be her friend anymore because we have known each other ...

A.   18 August 2010: I had a “friend” like that once. She use to make rumors about me and I would affect my reputation. Once I found out it was her I got her out of my life right away. Don’t let your self get manipulated by “fake friends” like that, she probably tells ... (read in full...)

How do I get her to stop bringing up her past?

Q.   I've known my girlfriend for a little over four years and have been with her for a little over a month and a half. A year and a half ago, she got out of a terrible two-year relationship that's left her very emotionally fragile. I know I would never ...

A.   18 August 2010: Maybe what your wife needs is a therapist. It seems to me there are things that have happened in her past relationship that really traumatized her. It would be good for her to make peace with the past, because it is not healthy for her nor is it for ... (read in full...)

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