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How do you walk away from someone you are madly in love with?
Q. Hey How can i walk away from a relationship thats broke down and is unfixable or isnt getting any better even though it kills me to think i wont be with him anymore coz i am absolutley madly inlove with him? Any help will be very appretiated Tha...
A. 8 June 2011: Stay busy you will see it will pass. We have ALL been there and will againe. xox... (read in full...)
My lying and flirtatious girlfriend wants me back. What shall I do?
Q. hi everyone. i was with a very beautiful girl. shes i guess one of the most beautiful girl in the city. but shes no good other than looks. im not the most good looking guy around, but i have a fantastic personality. id loved her selflessly, i co...
A. 7 June 2011: Don't take her back.. You can do MUCH better. Like you said, all she is is a pretty face.... (read in full...)
How do I get over him when I loved him so much?
Q. I was recently seeing this guy and I really liked him, we finished it about five weeks ago due to circumstances. I was fine for a while but recently I just can't stop thinking about him, I dream about him all the time! I just don't know how to get ...
A. 7 June 2011: Focus on yourself rather then him. Do things with your frand and family. Try to not stay alone with your thaughts and when you think of him, get controle over your mind and remember all the reasons why it didn't work. Its about self controle and not ... (read in full...)
How do we fix our problems in the bedroom? Our relationship is great apart from the sex!
Q. hii.. i m 21.from india... i into this dilema..if it is... i have a bf whom i love very much...he is 24.he has a very adoring and caring nature.. im very happy when im with him... but the prob is that he is not very good in bed... i mean he does not ...
A. 7 June 2011: I have had a similar probleme with an ex, he was a little small in had no experence. What I did was change positions during sex, witch made him last longer and in time it will get better. Try finding other positions witch work for you and try ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel bad about their past?
Q. I have this gf with whom I always liked but she rejected me back than (she didn't want to get into a relationship, when she just ended a messy one). Still, we knew each other (this was years ago, way before I even tried to make a move on her) when ...
A. 7 June 2011: Um I don't think hes laughing at you, he probably doesn't even care. I think you should forget about what happend and focus on what you have with her now. Be happy you have her and you know, enjoy the moment. :)... (read in full...)
Does all of this sound reasonable? I no longer know what's right or not....
Q. I have a few questions: Whenever we argue, my boyfriend refuses to make up. When I offer affection, he refuses it. He says that offering affection doesn't change anything and in fact makes him angry because it's a sham - i.e., affection doesn'...
A. 7 June 2011: Ooook I don't think you guys have a healthy relationship and hes mentaly abusing you. You are NOT crazy. He has anger problemes I think. Arguments are NOT one sisded, you cant argue with yourself. I'm sorry for being blunt but I realy think that you ... (read in full...)
How do you walk away from someone you are madly in love with?
Q. Hey How can i walk away from a relationship thats broke down and is unfixable or isnt getting any better even though it kills me to think i wont be with him anymore coz i am absolutley madly inlove with him? Any help will be very appretiated Tha...
A. 7 June 2011: You need to cut all contact with him and focus on other things like hobbies, friends, family.. Try to keep yourself busy because letting go will be hard but its the best thing to do.... (read in full...)
With a married man...
Q. Hi, I'm with a married man...he's five years older than me, he's very cute and I really like him. It all started from when he came to my house to fix the meter, he told me to get some fuses and plain panels, he wrote them down on a paper and he ...
A. 6 June 2011: I think you should leave him alone and cut contanct with him completly.. He is MARRIED!... (read in full...)
How can I help change her self-loathing and get our sex life back on track?
Q. hi this is my situation. I have been with my fiance for 7 years. Over this period my girlfriend has put on around 5 stone and had we have had a wonderful baby boy. The weight gain has not affected how attracted i am to my fiance i still think she is ...
A. 6 June 2011: Maybe if you guys would take nice long walks, with the baby to (I dont know the age of your child) exercise is a great way to gaine self confidence and it would be a good famaly acitivie to take up. :)... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to look, but NOT touch?
Q. I happen to have a wandering eye. I don't cheat but I do look at a girl if she's my type. My type is a girl who is thick in all the right places. Mostly in the legs and ass. My girlfriend is definitely my type. If I'm talking to another girl that ...
A. 6 June 2011: I don't think its wrong to look at other ppl who you find attractive, I mean who doesn't? If you'r girlfriend feels insicure about it it may be because of the flirting? But other then that I don't see a probleme with finding other ppl atractive.... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me what I'm doing wrong?
Q. So... My lovelife hasn't exactly been the best... My first girlfriend I dated for two years and she had intimacy problems. She said she'd rather play video games then hold my hand and we never kissed. After two years of dating, I thought if i rem...
A. 6 June 2011: I wouldn't be able to tell you what your doing wrong since I don't know you, but I can tell you that we have all been hurt in menny way by love. You must not be desperate because that is one thing girls wont like and wont want to date someone who is ... (read in full...)
I am 17, in love with a 47 year old married man, my parents don't like him, what should I do here??
Q. I am in love with a married man. He loves me back but we have never been physical and he has not cheated on his wife except for being in love with me. He has wanted a divorce with his wife for a long time, even before he met me and before we were ...
A. 3 June 2011: Isn't this illegal? Your parents might be able to press charges if something happend that you to become intimate. Be carefull. You don't want to put yourself in danger eather.
But one thing, I dont think he will devorce his wife for you.. I think ... (read in full...)
Should I just tell him to move on because I have, even though I miss him??
Q. What should I do? Do I check up on him or move on? I loved my ex boyfriend so much, but he dumped me saying he doesn't want a relationship. After a month of no contact he rang to me tell me he wants us to be friends cos he's moved on, got a...
A. 3 June 2011: No, don't text/call him. I think you should just leave him be and think of yourself and focus of other things. Life is too short to always worry about an ex. :)... (read in full...)
Trying to decide between one or the other, any suggestions??
Q. Need advice! I met him early Jan this year and started dating and are still dating, but the relationship has been troubled basically from day 1. Initially it was baby mama drama! A whole lot of drama! The ex (baby mama) would go over to his place 4 ...
A. 3 June 2011: First of all yes you should leave guy 1 and guy 2 is hes (situation) realy sereouse? Just be carefull of what you get yourself into. But I think you deserve better then having drama with ex's all the time.... (read in full...)
He asaid he doesn't know if he wants to be with me - should I break up with him or wait for him to make up his mind?
Q. What would you do if your boyfriend told you he doesn't know if he wants to be with you or not? Would you break up with him, or hang on and wait for him to make up his mind? Thank you for any answers. ...
A. 3 June 2011: Break up with him.. I believe the second I have an indecision about someone it means I don't want to be when them. I break up instently. Hanging on will only give you more pain.... (read in full...)
Aren't there ANY women who don't want kids out there?
Q. Why is it that women say that the things they want in a boyfriend or partner tend to be things like: confidence, kind, generous, loving, make me feel special, sense of humour? It's total nonsense. All they want is someone to father their chi...
A. 3 June 2011: I know I'm young but I am not programed to have chirldren. I don't even like kids and I do not see myself ever having one eather. I think there are some wommen, a verry few percent of us maybe, who don't want kids. Probably verry hard to find so I ... (read in full...)
She rejected me first - why does she need me now?
Q. So, here's my problem. I've known this girl for years now and I developed a crush on her. By that time I tried to make a move (2-3 years ago) she had a boyfriend and to be honest, I was in a long-term relationship myself. Once, we went to a bar and ...
A. 3 June 2011: I dont think your plan B. I think the timing was right now and not before. Dont stress and enjoy it, i wish you the best with her. :)... (read in full...)
For the guys: Why do you put kisses at the end of texts? Does it mean anything to you?
Q. What is it with men and putting kisses on the end of texts? I'd like for the majority of answers to men just so i know, but women feel free to answer too with your opinions:) Okay so, i don't wanna be judged on the age different or whatever, thi...
A. 3 June 2011: I know i'm a girl but I think your question is interesting. I use to put xox's and smilies in my texts when I was younger but now I don't to it onften unless I realy want to show the mood of my text is. I find it verry strange that a man that age is ... (read in full...)
Trouble with my boyfriend and thinking about breaking up......
Q. Dearcupid, I am at the most confusing stage. I love my boyfriend a lot. We met online. He is 26 and I'm 16. I have asked this question before,please check. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-torn-between-my-ex-and-my-friend.html He disappeared...
A. 3 June 2011: You REALY shouldn't be with him. You'r 16, I don't understand why a 26 year old man is even in you'r life in that way. I'm 21 and wouldn't date a 26 year old because I know that we wouldn't be at the same point in life. And you guys are waaayyy ... (read in full...)
Do most girls like a certain type of scuzzy guy?
Q. Do all girls think that scuzzy-looking barfly guys are hot or is it just a certain type of girl? All of my girlfriend's ex-boyfriends look like the type of dark-haired scuzzy bar-hopping, goateed, jewelry-wearing guys I would, as a woman, stay fa...
A. 1 June 2011: Because in the movies there is always this "bad boy" who falls in love with this one good girl and he changes his whole life for her, thats why. But this is not a movie its real life and in this life people will not change unless they realy think it ... (read in full...)
What is the deal with this girl?
Q. So I saw my ex this weekend. We have been broken up for 6-7 months and had agreed to cut off all communicaiton with each other. Nevertheless, she made the extra effort to come and see me at a bar with some mutual friends. She was well aware that ...
A. 1 June 2011: The reason she is doing this is because she is trying to fill in the pain she has from the brake up by gettin attention from other men. I think she still loves you and missis you, witch is completly normal but her way of fixing things is not the ... (read in full...)
I'm so nervous about meeting this guy!
Q. Can someone please try to help me keep calm lol ?. I met a guy in a bar last week . We arranged to meet up again tomorrow, but we haven't spoken since Friday, as i told him i would just text him tomorrow to see if he is still going out, as i know ...
A. 31 May 2011: I think you need to stay calm and confident. He might be a great guy but don't look at him as if hes too good for you, maybe thats why your so nervous. But I'm sur he will agree to see you again. until then try to relax and don't push things too ... (read in full...)
I was good to him, so why did he feel the need to do this?
Q. So I have dated this guy for about a month and hade to break up with him because it was just not going to work out. But he has left me feeling realy bad about myself. See the first weeks I started to get to know him he realy seemed nice and ...
A. 25 September 2010: Mmm Thanks you guys this helps. :)... (read in full...)
How can I tell my friends to butt out and mind their own business?
Q. hey, im just going to jump straight into this lol, im fed up of people calling and making me out me be all this bad person. im 20 years old and i admit i used to be "easy" and really didnt care what people thought of me and just had fun, (well wh...
A. 22 September 2010: Just so you know, I have been in the same situation.
So first off, your number should of been kep to your self but I'm sorry to say your friends are not truly good friends. If I were you I would just tell them to shut the h**l up.. Your past is ... (read in full...)
He wants my virginity as a bootycall
Q. I'm 21 he is 29, lately he has been wanting to take it to the next level (intimacy), the thing is im still a virgin and not sure if he his the right one ... After being friends for the past few years, I asked where he sees our "relatio...
A. 23 August 2010: Huney 2 weeks tops and you whont evin remember his name! ;)... (read in full...)
He wants my virginity as a bootycall
Q. I'm 21 he is 29, lately he has been wanting to take it to the next level (intimacy), the thing is im still a virgin and not sure if he his the right one ... After being friends for the past few years, I asked where he sees our "relatio...
A. 20 August 2010: Omg what a A*Hole !!! Well You didnt give your self to him yet GOOD! Dont you ever do it eather! Dump him and move on. He doesnt respect you. You will find someone who L.O.V.E.S you and wont try to use you like this. PLEASE dont let him have you! ... (read in full...)
We only kissed but now he thinks it was something special!
Q. How can someone be so desperate? I went on a road trip with one of my friends, we had agreed that what ever happend on this road trip stayed there, not to get attached or enything, plus i knew him well and knew he slept around so he isnt really m...
A. 20 August 2010: Oh dont tell me your one of thoes guys who dont beleive in love.
Deff. of love from the dictionary:
1 a (1) : strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties maternal love for a child (2) : attraction based on sexual desire... (read in full...)
My BF's teen is a problem!
Q. I live with my boyfriend and he has a teenager. The teenager is so spoiled. I talk to my boyfriend about it. He thinks I am complaining about a lot of little issues. I feel like he does not care about my concerns and is use to how the teenager is. ...
A. 20 August 2010: Omg teenagers are just crazy by nature. let him be hes not your son enywais so I wouldnt give myself extra stresse for that. His son needs to experence life enywais so he can learn from it so meh..... (read in full...)
Becoming attracted to my ex, what should I do?
Q. i've been goign out with my girlfriend for 10 months now and i really love her, but lately i've been getting more attracted to my ex what should i do ?...
A. 20 August 2010: Eh remember why shes your ex maybe?... (read in full...)
Why would a girl lie about NOT having had an orgasm?
Q. ok so i have this new GF and she swears shes the **** in bed and that only two guys have ever made her have an orgasm and it was because she loved them. so wen we have sex i put out all my best moves and stuff and i no im good because every gi...
A. 20 August 2010: Wait, DirtBall is right. Women say that EVERY TIME. No realy we do. Most of us. And hes right with the ego thing to. All this is going to your head. She could of been a real bitch and tolled you you where awfull. But she said it the polite way. *no ... (read in full...)
We only kissed but now he thinks it was something special!
Q. How can someone be so desperate? I went on a road trip with one of my friends, we had agreed that what ever happend on this road trip stayed there, not to get attached or enything, plus i knew him well and knew he slept around so he isnt really m...
A. 20 August 2010: Bahahaha!! Pazush, I love it! Man whores have feelings to. hihi
But the thing is he probly just likes me because i'm a chalenge to him. I don't want to give myself to someone who just wants me to prove a point. I want someone to love. ;)... (read in full...)
Do I deserve her? How do I come to terms with myself?
Q. [OP original title] i have been dating this girl for 10 months. i liked her for along time and i went for it,i still think its a miracle that im with her. for he first nine months of our relationship i was really happy when i was with her, she so b...
A. 20 August 2010: Shut up! you DO deserve her! You know why!? Because YOU LOVE her TRUELY and you wouldnt hurt her. Am I right? GOOD!
Nice guys finish last? Not in my book! Or eny other girls book for that matter.
You need to stop being so insecure tho thi... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't love me, he misses me, does this mean he loves me?
Q. My x says he doesnt loves me any more but still misses me. Does it mean he still loves me?...
A. 20 August 2010: No he just doesnt want to lose control of you... (read in full...)
Why would a girl lie about NOT having had an orgasm?
Q. ok so i have this new GF and she swears shes the **** in bed and that only two guys have ever made her have an orgasm and it was because she loved them. so wen we have sex i put out all my best moves and stuff and i no im good because every gi...
A. 20 August 2010: She probly faked it.
Or probly doesnt want you to feel so special because sounds like you where just a one night stand?... (read in full...)
We only kissed but now he thinks it was something special!
Q. How can someone be so desperate? I went on a road trip with one of my friends, we had agreed that what ever happend on this road trip stayed there, not to get attached or enything, plus i knew him well and knew he slept around so he isnt really m...
A. 20 August 2010: not what i said...... (read in full...)
Is this a one-sided relationship?
Q. Is this a one-sided relationship. Hi all. My b/f and I have been together for 6 months now, its a LDR. We are great together and I am so happy and in love with him. There is a 7 year age gap with me bieng 24 years old. Now there is one little sn...
A. 20 August 2010: Since he tolled you at the verry beginning that it would be a hard relationship because of his work. You kind of accepted this on your own. If it was me I wouldnt of gone out with this guy because I need someone who will be there for me. If you need ... (read in full...)
Its only been 4 months since I found out he cheated and I am having a hard time trusting him, but now he is blaming me and says if I carry on he will cheat again!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5years and recently i found out he had cheated on me twice. I love him so much and i stayed with him as he promised to never do it again. But i find it so hard to trust him now and i think i am pushing him away as i ...
A. 20 August 2010: I agree with EyesWideOpen!! You realy should leave him, he doesnt deserve you and he will keep doing it again and again.
Tips to get over it faster:
-Go out, call your friends. Keep busy it will take your mind off things
-Do some soul s... (read in full...)
We only kissed but now he thinks it was something special!
Q. How can someone be so desperate? I went on a road trip with one of my friends, we had agreed that what ever happend on this road trip stayed there, not to get attached or enything, plus i knew him well and knew he slept around so he isnt really m...
A. 20 August 2010: Well yes I care for him because he was my friend long befor this happend. But also a man whore so I dont understand why hes acting like this with me.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 6 years breaks up with me almost every week!
Q. I have been with my bf almost 6years now and he breaks up with me every week. We always get back together cos i love him. When ever he doesnt like when i do something he leaves me. I dont know what to do this time? I love him as he is my first ...
A. 20 August 2010: Your relationship might of been serious at one point but its clearly not serious now. He obviously doesnt respect you enymore. He is using you. Leave him for good and find someone who treats you better.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have been sleeping with my cousin since the age of 15?
Q. well... i was 15 at the time,and was staying over at my cousin's house, me and my cousin (female) would always play fighting and that.. except this time it got out of hand and we ended up sleeping together... she was 14 at the time... since then ...
A. 20 August 2010: Well normal yes and no.. Its normal for a guy and a girl to be sexualy attracted no each other evin if its your cousin. Its just not normal when you think about it morally. I don't know if your family would accept it or not. And this must count as ... (read in full...)
How to talk dirty with a man?
Q. How to talk dirty with a man? I love and respect him; I just need sth different. I need some erotic expressions ( not silly but serious and sensual to drive him crazy and wild). Something unusual and interesting! By the way to say that online,,, I ...
A. 20 August 2010: You wanted to dirty talk via internet? I miss read the question sorry! Enywais you got good suggestions. Keep us posted!... (read in full...)
31 and never been kissed!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a big problem. I'm 31 years old and male and have never had a girlfriend. I never even been on a date with a girl. I really like girls but am very unlucky not to have met someone. I haven't even ever kissed a girl before. ...
A. 20 August 2010: Lower your standards.... (read in full...)
How to talk dirty with a man?
Q. How to talk dirty with a man? I love and respect him; I just need sth different. I need some erotic expressions ( not silly but serious and sensual to drive him crazy and wild). Something unusual and interesting! By the way to say that online,,, I ...
A. 19 August 2010: In bed I use (if its real hot sex) -Fuck me harder/faster -Oh fuck yeah -You'r so huge -I feel you so deep inside of me -Oh *His name* ! What helps is that I dont evin need to think about these things because I just say out loud ho... (read in full...)
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