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I'm very insecure because of my stretch marks since childbirth! Any advice?

Q.   i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half... we're both definitely in love with eachother. there's just a few things that are really making us fight...Note i'm 18 years old... i have a 2 year old baby (yes i know i'm young) and after i had ...

A.   23 December 2008: Insecurity is human, and for someone who takes their looks as seriously as you seem to, something like that is a serious blow. I would suggest that you talk to him calmly and explain how you feel. I think you will find that he will be receptive ... (read in full...)

I don't know what to do. Would it be selfish to tell him how I feel?

Q.   I feel rather daft asking a relationship question to the internet as oppose to my friends. When i was 13 ( I'm no 18) i met a boy at school, we quickly became best friends and couldn't be apart. We stayed out late very afternoon just talking,...

A.   23 December 2008: For your sanity, it sounds like you need to talk to him. You need to tell him the things that you've said here, but you need to go into it being ready to be turned down, or at least deferred. He sounds like he's been through some shit lately, and ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend gets an erection every time we hug

Q.   My boyfriend is 18. I'm the same age. Whenever we hug, I feel his erection. And when I look at him he says 'Sorry'. (It's cute. Lol) I know that it's not his fault.. But I was just thinking that perhaps there's a way to get rid of this? It's really ...

A.   22 December 2008: As a guy I have to say I hope you don't fuss over it too much. It really hurts to have a girl be upset over something like that. I can't necessarily speak for all guys, but at least some guys feel like we're sick or perverted because of it. I ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is not demonstrative, should I cool it?

Q.   I have a problem with my boyfriend. We have been dating for two years now. I love him very much, but he does not show that he reciprocates that love. My boyfriend claims not to be very "verbal." I, on the other hand, like to call him and send him...

A.   22 December 2008: The question for you is: do you feel that what you get out of the relationship is worth what you put into it? A good relationship is a lot of work! But in a good relationship, you feel like it's worth it all and love them even when you want to rip ... (read in full...)

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