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Is my relationship good or am I being played by my boyfriend?

Q.   Hello I would like some outside views of my relationship. First of all, I am 27 years old, I am professional and have a great career that it is everything for me. I was engaged for 5 years with a guy that was a little bit controlling and he used to ...

A.   16 October 2008: well, it sounds like a perfect relationship. Something I am striving for as well, something everyone should. what you explained is a "adult" relationship, and what you described as your previous is obvioulsy a very childish relationship, which I can ... (read in full...)

How can I call him without his partner answering?

Q.   Should I just ring him? I am totally besotted with a man who got on great with me but had a partner! Nevertheless - I gave him my number and we were going to meet up but circumstances meant we missed each other on the day! - However, he never ...

A.   16 October 2008: well you do know your just a booty call obvioulsy right? he calls you when he wants, talk to you when he wants.. and your left to suck itup all by yourself can you really imagine havinf a relationship like that ? think about what it says about wh... (read in full...)

I'm devastated... the love of my life confessed to me that he is really a woman.

Q.   Not sure where to begin and not sure of what kind of advice I'm looking for either. I met a wonderful 'man' online 8 years ago. He was the most caring, thoughtful, sweet and honest person I have ever met. We had a history... a love that was just ...

A.   14 October 2008: It shouldn't matter whether she is male or female you fell in love.. it happened now it shouldnt make a difference.. maybe it happend for a reason.. to me to love only men or vice versa is like racism to me.. why would you discriminate agianst who ... (read in full...)

I'm confused about my sexuality - do these feelings make me gay, bi or what?

Q.   Ok, I'm a 15 years old girl who's a little scared and confused about her sexuality! I'm attracted to guys by their appearance and personality. But, I'm attracted to girls sexually, appearance, and personality! Does this make me gay/bi or what?!...

A.   14 October 2008: I just went through that myself.. I dated guys all my life until recently I am now dating a girl.. I dont think it should be a matter of labelling yourself. you should just date who you like.. rather if they are male or female.. experiment.. now im ... (read in full...)

How to be secure in love...

Q.   How to be secure in love... When you enter a relationship, it opens up hundreds, thousands of uncertain feelings. Little potholes in our sanity and they can easily make their ways into becoming tunnels. I was the most confident person in the wo...

A.   14 October 2008: I do not have a particular answer for you but I have the exact same problem like word for word in which you described.. I think that it is a natural part of relationships especially at our age, but also it is the impact of the society on our lives ... (read in full...)

It's like we say "I love you' out of habit now. I don't want to hurt her - which is worse, staying in this comfortable but sparkless relationship or leaving?

Q.   Ok so here goes. I've been in a relationship for the past 8 years with a wonderful woman. She is sweet, kind, funny, smart, all the things you could possibly want in a mate, but for some reason the spark is all but gone. I'm just not physically ...

A.   14 October 2008: I dont think your a jerk.. but you have to say something Ive been in this kind of relationship myself..but really sometimes no matter how hard it hurts you have let go.. your just wasting time.. the hardest part is rebuilding your life without her.. ... (read in full...)

She wants to have a 'break'. How long should I wait for her?

Q.   My Girlfriend and I are on break, its been a hell of a week thou...Today, i went to her house and talked to her and saw her for the first time in a week. She says She loves Me and She promised To come Back and be my baby again. We Kissed And hugged ...

A.   14 October 2008: I am sorry to tell you but everytime I say a break with a partner.. it means theres someone else or im not getting what i need.. but usually someone else..... (read in full...)

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