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Bigger does feel better but is it SAFE? My husband and I have experimented with large sex toys.

Q.   Dear Cupid, My husband and I have been happily married for 30 years. We are both in our early fifties and enjoy sex tremendously. Over the past year my husband decided it was time for me to experience the feeling of being penetrated both ...

A.   26 September 2008: Firstly I want to say I am very impressed and hope you both continue having fun! Secondly, as long as you continue to use lube, clean your sex toys very thoroughly (especially when going between anal and vaginal) and be careful not to over... (read in full...)

How is sex different to porn??

Q.   Everyone always says sex is very different to porn. But in what way?...

A.   26 September 2008: Wow, this is really useful :) thanks everyone :)... (read in full...)

My wife was not a virgin and this discovery has hurt me deeply. Please help!

Q.   my wife told me that she was not a virgin before we got married, myself was a virgin and only lost it to her.now we are married and truly love her but hurt her past and at times i illtreat her. so i will never experience breaking a virgin i ask ...

A.   26 September 2008: I know that you come from Malawi and things are different there, but it's important you know that your wife hasn't changed: she's still the same person. If it's important to you she probably knows this and is very ashamed about it. You have to be ... (read in full...)

Is it really important that my parents should know that I'm bisexual?

Q.   This is quite long, apologies in advance... From the 1st July last year till the 10th February this year I was in a relationship with a girl. We would quite often stay over at each other's houses and sleep together. I was fifteen/sixteen ...

A.   26 September 2008: thanks for the advice :)... (read in full...)

Is Sarah Palin a suitable candidate for VP?

Q.   [Part of a DearCupid series on the forthcoming Nov 08 presidential election] Sarah Palin, John McCain's choice for vice-president, is a strict anti-abortionist, pro-guns and against sex-education. Her 17 year old daughter is now pregnant. ...

A.   3 September 2008: Sarah Palin is a complete idiot and I hope to hell she vanishes into obscurity when McCain loses the election. Which he will. I'm British but I still follow this story avidly because there's no way I'm letting those two maniacs into the most ... (read in full...)

Why does everyone condemn FWB? We are just doing something we both enjoy...

Q.   I have had sex with this guy a couple of times now. It is not very serious, but whenever we have had it has been great. Well he is really a f**k buddy. I have never ever had one before. I know most people think it is wrong to have a f**k buddy bu...

A.   28 August 2008: As long as you remain sure of your feelings towards this guy and remain prepared to end it whenever there's a problem I say all power to you and I hope you have fun ^^... (read in full...)

I am attracted to my aunt and I want to have sex with her! What do you think?

Q.   My aunt is 42 and she's hot and very beautiful. We have a good relationship. We have never been totally alone, but we talk all the time when we see each other. I have noticed 2 times when she looks at me, she looks at me with a sexy-look, and w...

A.   27 August 2008: It's a crush, like anything. You are probably imagining her "looks". I think the other aunts have given good advice: leave it completely.... (read in full...)

Poll Question: Would you rather hear a lie that brought a smile or a truth that brought a tear?

Q.   im curious.. which would you rather?.... poll question :) a lie that brings a smile? or the truth that brings a tear?...

A.   26 August 2008: A truth, definitely, unless it's a white lie about something unimportant.... (read in full...)

Philosophy does not draw people into a verbal frenzy but I love it! How can I make others interested in it?

Q.   I am a hardcore philosophy geek. Some people have have sports, some people have music, I have philosophy. Whenever I try and get to know someone I lisen to them talk about their hobbies but when whenever I tell them I like philosophy they ...

A.   23 August 2008: WOW! I'm sorry, but I think this is the best hobby to have :p Maybe you just need to change your friend circle because there are lots of people I know who really love arguing about philosophy and politics and religion. It's just a question of who ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure whether I had sex or not

Q.   hey everyone i really need some help... im not sure whether i actually had sex or not... i know that this seems weird but im really not sure, ive been with my partner for a year and a half now yet i always vowed that i was gonna stay a virgin till ...

A.   23 August 2008: Don't panic! Your hymen is a thin piece of flesh that covers the lower bit of your vagina. It's on the outside so you should be able to find it... but it's possible it could be broken anyway; mine broke when I went mountain biking and it didn't hurt ... (read in full...)

What do women find attractive in a man???

Q.   What do women find atractive in a man? I want your opinion, thanks to those of you who answer, its well appreciated....

A.   18 August 2008: Being really intelligent. Able to listen to me and being interested in like current affairs and stuff, and sharing interests in that area. Seems obscure but it makes me butter in their hands :P... (read in full...)

What pet names can you call a guy?

Q.   A guy calls you 'baby, huni, sexy.' But what can you call a guy? ...

A.   15 July 2008: Darling.... (read in full...)

How do porn stars last so long?

Q.   I watch porn and I was wondering.. how do they last that long? They can't all use Viagra can they? What's there secret?...

A.   4 July 2008: They don't, frankly. If you see at the end when the guy gets himself off with his hands... it's because he's been filming for so long they're desensitised and can only do it with his own hands. I don't know exactly what they do, but possibly... (read in full...)

Is it bad to keep painting and repainting your nails?!?

Q.   Hey everyone I don't know if any of you will know the answer to this question but every question I have asked so far has been answered so maybe I'll get lucky and someone will know this one I like to paint my nails alot and I like to change ...

A.   8 June 2008: You might hurt the cuticles or the surrounding skin by continuously adding the polish-remover chemicals. If you're worried try adding moisturiser to the nails and fingertips (there are special moisturisers for this, I think) and you should see an ... (read in full...)

Has my clitoris become desensitized from using an electrical device for stimulation?

Q.   I've been masturbating with an electric toothbrush since I was about 13. I had a relationship with a girl (I am bisexual) last year and when she was stimulating me I found she needed to finger me very strongly for a long time before I felt proper ...

A.   8 June 2008: Thank you :) That's very helpful :)... (read in full...)

I'm addicted to my sex toys to the point where I've lost interest in men!

Q.   Last year I brought my first sex toy from Ann Summmers and I enjoyed it so much that I now have a large collection of toys. However, I am now addicted to them and I use them at least three times a day. It has come to the point that I even use them ...

A.   5 June 2008: Maybe you feel like you don't need men because you have the sex toys. I would put them away for a while and channel the sexual passion you have into looking at men and thinking about their bodies. I'm sure you won't have lost interest in them ... (read in full...)

Is there any possibility she may get back in touch with me?

Q.   ive been meeting a girl on the weekend for the last few weeks. we both really like eachother. the problem is that she and her ex are still texting and things and see eachother every now and then. he slept with someone behind her back, months ago ...

A.   4 June 2008: I would think she's just struggling to get over her ex. I know this might be hard but the best thing would be just to give her space and time and make sure she knows what a great guy you are, that you really like her and that you respect her - ... (read in full...)

Was I flirting? How to I talk to him or his family?

Q.   i like a lad, i am 16, he is one or two years older. my brothers play for a football team, they are the blacks, that lad helps coach the reds. i know all of his family, i mean i have seen and talked to them a bit, but i mainly know his mum, i talkto ...

A.   4 June 2008: In answer to your first question - if you think you were flirting, you were ;) flirting isn't a case of it is or it isn't, it's just behaving in a way that lets the other party know you like them. And by the sounds of it he'll probably have an idea ... (read in full...)

If someone is acting like you do, does this mean this person is attracted to you?

Q.   Hiya just need a bit of advice-when your sitting with someone and they mirror what you do i.e you pick up ure drink-they do it. You touch ure face or hair then they do it or you move you arm to another position and then they follow-does this mean ...

A.   4 June 2008: Yes... I would think. They're trying to make you like them by thinking the two of you have the same personality and behaviour. However make sure it's only you they're doing this towards rather than everyone to stop you getting the wrong end of the ... (read in full...)

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