He pays more attention to the dog than me!!!
Q. I would be grateful for some outside opinions on something that has been bothering me. Earlier in the year I moved in with my boyfriend and since then have been quite annoyed with how much attention he gives his dog. I'll come right and out an...
A. 7 September 2006: The only thing you can do is talk to him about it. This animal has been part of his life for a long time and has probably been there when he had no one else, so maybe he's used to giving the dog all the attention! Anyhow, if this is causing problems ... (read in full...)
Im female and slept with my best friend!! Dont know what to do now!!
Q. I am a female, and the other night, I got very drunk with my best friend who is also female, and we share a flat, we slept together, don't know what to do now?...
A. 7 September 2006: Well you could talk about it, get it out in the open and discuss where you go from here or you can just let it go and not mention it again. She's probably going through the same thing as you at the moment so you don't want any hostility or ... (read in full...)
I just cant manage 2 orgasm
Q. Hi, i hav been with my boyfriend 4 nearly 2 years now and when we have sex i really enjoy it but i just cant manage 2 orgasm. I get a lovely feeling but when i get this feeling i want to stop i just cant seem to let my self ejaculate. What am i ...
A. 5 September 2006: I have your problem too, as do many women. It is hard for some women to have an orgasm during sex, as unless the penis touches your g spot, the clitoris is on the outside so doesn't really get as much attention as it needs during sex. This is ... (read in full...)
Ive fallen for a close friend, she just wants to be friends, but I really love her!
Q. I've fallen in love with a close friend. She's a genius, she's funny, she's kind, she speaks 5 fluent languages and she's the most beautiful girl I have ever seen. A few months ago, just before I found out she was with another guy, I tried to tell ...
A. 5 September 2006: It does sound like you really like this girl, so I think you will regret it if you don't give it one more go. Ask her again, let her know how much you care for her, buy her flowers etc and really, just give it your best shot. You know her well, do ... (read in full...)
I have decided to give up drinking and people think I'm a freak!
Q. Hi I recently made a decision to give up drinking. I have drank for 10 years and to be honest never massively enjoyed it...... I loved the social aspect but it always gave me headaches and terrible next day hangovers, as well as occasional memor...
A. 4 September 2006: You sound very sensible and should stick to your guns on this one. There's no reason you can't enjoy the night and the day after too, if you don't drink! People do find it hard to understand this, I am one of them, then again, I'm only 19 so I'll ... (read in full...)
He appeared to snub me, but am I over reacting ?
Q. Hi, I would like someones opinion on what has just happened to me and what i should do. I just watched my boyfriend run a race and went to congratulate him after. He was with his workmates as they entered as a team, and basically i feel like iv...
A. 3 September 2006: Sounds like he was acting like a bit a of a jerk there, but people can be like that sometimes when they get caught up in the heat of the moment. But the first person he should look for when he's happy is you! You do need to bring this up with him, ... (read in full...)
Caught masturbating by my brother!!!
Q. my brother caught me masturbating to porn...what should i do if he tells my parents and what should i do about him?...
A. 2 September 2006: Although this is a very embaressing situation, nothing more will come of it. Your brother was probably more embaressed than you! Even if he did tell your parents, they will understand and certainly won't bring it up, it's perfectly natural!
Just ... (read in full...)
One way trust...What should I do???
Q. hiya, i asked for a male friends number so i could thank that person for looking after my friends at a party while i was busy and my boyfriend has blown it out of portion saying its weird that i should ask for this guys number to thank him for being ...
A. 1 September 2006: This guy is very insecure and is putting these problems onto you. He doesn't trust you because he has problems with himself and these need sorting out before he can have a proper successful relationship.
Don't allow him to control what you do. ... (read in full...)
He fingered me after he masturbated...Can I get pregnant???
Q. some one fingered me after they had just masturbated, could i get pregnant? the next day i came on my period but i heard about some one who had still got pregnant this way so i just wanted to check. ...
A. 1 September 2006: Well, people do say that this is possible, as the semen could still be entering the vagina before the sperm have all died, so officially, yes you could get pregnant from this.
However, it is difficult to do this, as once the sperm are in the open... (read in full...)
Its been 33 days since my last cycle...Am I pregnant???
Q. I think I might be pregnant. It's been 33 days since the start of my last one. My boyfriend and I have been cautious all the way- he's never entered me without a condom, the condoms have always been tested for leaks afterwards, and he's always h...
A. 1 September 2006: If you used the condoms correctly, it's unlikely that you're pregnant. Although they're not 100% effective and I think you need to get a test to put your mind at ease. Get one from your doctor, a pharmacy or just a shop. This will give you piece of ... (read in full...)
Are my girlfriends on to something or just talking?
Q. Will this Long Distance relationship work? I have been dating my boyfriend who lives 2 hrs drive away for a year now. We talk on the phone every night and spend every weekends together. We are getting along really well, and already are thin...
A. 1 September 2006: I think your friends are just looking out for you but maybe the green eyed monster is sneaking in a bit there! You obviously trust this guy a lot and care for him, as you don't want him to miss out on anything, and he cares for you too so why cause ... (read in full...)
Hes not so good in the workplace, does this mean hes bad relationship material ?
Q. No one is perfect? I met a guy from my working place, his working attitude is not so good, kind of messy and sluggish at times. He likes me, I hestiate cos Im worried that he can't be a good lover, since he is irresponsible in work, shall I give h...
A. 1 September 2006: Maybe he just doesn't really care about his work but if he was in a relationship that he really cared about, would he make more of an effort? Or maybe that is his personality through and through? The only way to find out is to give him a chance. ... (read in full...)
Why cant I ever Orgasm... ?
Q. Hi why cant i have an orgasm? Im 27 and have been with my husband for 10 years married for 2, i just cant seem to have an orgasm, he is a very considerate lover spends a lot of time on foreplay (a lot of time) but no matter how much i try to re...
A. 1 September 2006: I have exactly the same problem as you: I have never had an orgasm with a man, but I can do it to myself if 10 seconds! It's just one of those things I must accept: I'm just too good at doing it to myself, how will anyone ever compare to how I know ... (read in full...)
Im 21 and a virgin, can you give me some tips with the ladies please
Q. Hi, im a 21 almost 22 yr old guy who is a virgin, i have only ever kissed two girls. i dont know that many girls. i have recently started using an online dating service to try and get to know more girls. i was wondering if you could give me some ...
A. 1 September 2006: I think you need to just chill out about all this: girls can sense it when you're desperate or nervous and it puts us off. You need to stop panicking that you're 21 (which really isn't that old to be a virgin) and just see what happens. When you're ... (read in full...)
Strippers, porn...what's wrong with women saying that we will not accept this rubbish in our relationships?
Q. I just read a post about a woman who was upset her partner is going to a strip show...I was appalled to see the advice that'''oh you should trust him' 'all men do it etc' To me this womens feelings are completely justified and she is demonstr...
A. 1 September 2006: I guess it all depends on the woman. I love and trust my partner and know he would never cheat but the fact still remains that, although a man is in love, he still finds the bodies of other women attractive too and there's nothing we can do to stop ... (read in full...)
He dumped me because he still has feeling for his ex! I miss him so much!
Q. I met this guy in high school. i have been talking to this guy for over two months. i have known him for over a year. we met and he was my valentine. we talked for a month and out of nowhere he stopped. He then had a girlfriend and several months ...
A. 1 September 2006: You need to get rid of this guy, he is just messing with your head! I can't believe you've allowed him to do this the number of times he has, never mind any more. He will never get over this girl; that's a fact. Everyone has someone it their life ... (read in full...)
She treats him like he does not exist, how do I tell him she's not right?
Q. hi my friend was dating this girl but she dumped him for someone completely different. he still likes her but she won't go near him she treats him like he don't exist. his mom is friends with her mom and she acts like she really don't care. is there ...
A. 1 September 2006: The sad thing is, people in love will not listen to anyone telling them it's not right. They just have to live out their own mistakes and then learn the lesson for themselves. We all have to do this a few times before we learn that people will hurt ... (read in full...)
He is married and I am in love, what should I do?
Q. I am 16 and i am in love with this guy that is a lot older than me, i dont know what to do because i see him a lot and when i see him he turns me on, but he is married. I have tried to forget about him but when i see him again it starts all over. ...
A. 1 September 2006: This man is obviously too old for you and you need to get him our of your head. The only advice I can give you is avoid him. When you're obsessed with someone like that, the only thing to do is not to see them, then you can start forgetting about ... (read in full...)
I'm a week late, could I be pregnant?
Q. well i had unprotected sex when i was ovulating, about 5 days after i started spotting i took 3 pregnancy test but all are negative, and i'm almost a week late for my period. pregnant? ...
A. 1 September 2006: If you had sex while you were ovulating, there is a chance you could be pregnant. A lot of women find that the tests don't pick up on the pregnancy hormone for a while so just keep trying with the tests, maybe go and have one at your doctors. Good ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend is gettin bored of me....
Q. I have been seein my boyfriend for 10 months now and a think he is starting to get bored of me beczuse everytime i ask him does he want to come to my house he always has a excuse as to why he cant come and i am reli worried because i like him alot ...
A. 31 August 2006: You need to confront him: that's the only way you will find out what's going on inside his head. Maybe he is getting bored of the relationship, young guys often do after a while, so don't let him lead you on anymore. Tell him if he doesn't make more ... (read in full...)
My parents are always at each other, its now depressing me alot....
Q. I need help. Im 14 years old. My mum and dad always argue. Its really derressing me. Its like they hate each other. My mum tried to tell my dad how she felt, but that made it worse. Please dont tell me its their problem, cos I'm getting dragged ...
A. 31 August 2006: It must be so hard for someone to have to see their family splitting apart like this, especially when it feels like there's nothing you can do. They are probably going through a hard time at the moment but are still being very inconsiderate and ... (read in full...)
Ive turned into some who doesnt care about anything since she left me...
Q. i have just broken up with my girlfriend and i realy loved her. she messed with my mind and now i have turned into a person that dosent care anymore about life or anything. how am i supose to get over her? ...
A. 31 August 2006: I would suggest that you get some counselling to get your head straight. Whether this girl messed with your head on purpose or not, I think you need to work on getting over what happened and move on.
It's sad when people say they don't care abo... (read in full...)
Things are not the same since I cheated, I really regret it, I love her!
Q. I cheated on my girlfriend a good while ago and I am very sorry. I was going to tell her but I couldnt get up the courage. Eventually one of her friends told her. She didnt talk to me for a while but after a while she gave me one more chance things ...
A. 31 August 2006: Well, I think this is definitely a lesson learnt, isn't it? Things will never be the same after one of you cheats, that's just the way it is. Whether you two can make something good from the situation and end up stronger is up to you two and how ... (read in full...)
Torn between long-term bf and this other guy! But the other guy has a new gf, now. Should I just forget about him?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for nearly two and a half years. i love him but things aren't the same anymore. i know a man through friends who i am very attracted to and last year we ended up kissing. nothing ever came of it, as he knew i had a ...
A. 31 August 2006: The question is whether or not you want to be with your boyfriend? If you're thinking about being with other guys, I don't think it's right for you anymore. I know it can be hard to let go when you've been with someone for so long but you have to ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for my best friend's brother and she's pissed off at me! What should I do?
Q. I am an 18 year old girl who has fallen for her best friend's brother. I understand it may be weird for my friend to imagine us together, but we really love each other and I do not understand why she can't be happy for us. She has made it clear...
A. 31 August 2006: I suppose it depends on who is more important to you, your best mate or her brother. I know she is acting a little immature about all this, I'd be happy if my brother was with one of my mates, as I know she'd treat him right! Anyway, she is ... (read in full...)
I moved in with my gay lover... And the sex moved out
Q. I am gay and have been living with my boyfriend for the past six months. Ever since we moved in together sex has been almost a thing of the past. He just doesn't seem that interested any more. It is so frustrating! When sex does finally occur it...
A. 30 August 2006: This can often happen when things start to get too comfortable. When people start moving in together and moving past that original exciting first few months, things can go a bit off and it takes a bit more effort to keep them going as they were.
... (read in full...)
What is happening with our sex life
Q. Hi, lately I have been having mixed feelings that have even confused myself. Even though my bf of one year and I ahve agreed with each other that we don't want to ahve intercourse with each other, recently we were kissing and hugging on my bed like ...
A. 27 August 2006: I sounds like you are both a bit confused with all this so it's my advice to wait a while longer before you go any further with him. You seem to really care about each other but both have issues (you about your body and him about trust etc) that ... (read in full...)
My partner is controlling and calls me down. What should I do?
Q. hi my partner is bossy he likes to be in control of everything and he thinks he knows everything he keeps phots of his exs and if we fall out he will call me down and say they were better i feel trapped we have a daughter hat will i do...
A. 27 August 2006: This man sounds like he is no good for you and you need to get out of the relationship. Nobody has the right to say things to purposely put you down, no matter how mad they are, especially not the person who is supposed to love you.
My advice t... (read in full...)
Trying to decide between two guys...who do I pick?
Q. Hello, I need some help and advice. I have to decide between two men and I just dont know what to do. One is my ex. He makes my heart beat faster and when he touches me its like electric shocks go through me, ive never felt this with any...
A. 27 August 2006: Don't get me wrong, being single is most definitely much easier! But it doesn't always make us happy, as the easy way out is not always the right way.
It sounds to me like your ex is the guy you really want. Very few people will ever feel abo... (read in full...)
Why so many arguments?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. We love each other very much but lately we keep arguing, I dont know what to do?...
A. 25 August 2006: Maybe you're both getting a bit suffocated by the relationship so lash out at the other because you secretly want more space. Spend some time apart so that the time you spend together will be more valuable and you won't argue through it.
Is it... (read in full...)
Don't care for the boys at school. Where are other places I can meet guys?
Q. I'm 14 and all the lads in my school are not boyfriend material. I'm looking for a boyfriend and don't go to any clubs. Where can I meet some nice guys other than school? thanks x x...
A. 24 August 2006: I hate to say this, but you don't need to be worrying about boys at 14! The reason the boys are not boyfriend material is because they're still kids, just like you should be! Have fun with your mates for now, you have the rest of your life for guys ... (read in full...)
I broke it off because she wouldn't tell her parents about us...
Q. I broke up with my girlfriend because she didn't tell her parents about us. I gave her almost 3 months to tell them she said she didn't know what they may say and that she is stupid. Did I do right? ...
A. 24 August 2006: I think you are right to do this: a person who is not willing to accept the relationship they are in and tell the people they love about it is not ready for such a commitment. You did the right thing: you are proud of what you have and obviously ... (read in full...)
Is it my personality they're interested in, or is it just sex?
Q. Every time that I start talking to a boy, it seems as if they always seem to bring up sex, but they also talk about other important things as well. I was wondering should I take it into consideration that all these boys want to do is have sex with ...
A. 24 August 2006: I think it is safe to say that a lot of boys are only interested in sex, especially when they are youngish. Some never even grow out of this! I know grown men who don't know how to have a relationship coz everything is always about sex!
But m... (read in full...)
I think I was too 'easy' with him. Do I try to win him over or just learn from this experience?
Q. Hi, Ok so here it goes........... I fancy my best mates cousin who is only a couple of months younger than me (im 19) well we all meet up for her b'day and he tried to kiss me whilst i was dancing with him, i pulled away and everything seemed f...
A. 24 August 2006: I think this is definitely a good lesson learnt, honey. If you give out to men too soon, they lose interest in chasing you and also lose respect for you if you continue to see each other. However, I don't think that all is lost. Maybe talking to him ... (read in full...)
My BF just doesn't seem interested in me sexually - is it because of his 'slutty' past or is it me?
Q. Ok so here's the deal. I've been going out with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. We are great friends and we have a pretty good relationship with a couple minor fights every once in a while. When I first met him he was a total slut, he would sl...
A. 24 August 2006: I was completely in your position a few months ago. My boyfriend has slept with over one hundred women and it kills me, especially when I have to see them. When we first got together it was great, then it went off a bit and he used to lose his ... (read in full...)
Got drunk, slept with my best male friend. Now I have deeper feelings and am getting depressed about it...
Q. He's been my best friend for more than two years now, and I've been in love with him from the day we met. We recently had a brief fling that started as a night of drinking too much. I knew it was a bad idea because I knew he wasn't really interested ...
A. 24 August 2006: This was a silly thing to do, as I'm sure you know but it was also unfair of him to do this, if he has any idea of how you feel, which he probably does. He's given you false hope of something that will probably never happen and that wasn't fair.
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Im not sure if its lust im feeling towards him or love!?
Q. How can you tell the difference between love and lust? Ive got really strong feelings for a friend but i dont want to tell him untill i know for sure its not just lust. I think about him 24/7, i cant sleep at night if i know he's gone on a d...
A. 24 August 2006: Well lust is where you think about the person in a sexual way only, i.e. all your thoughts revolve around sex with them. I think love is when you could spend the rest of your life together and not mind if you never had sex again because just being ... (read in full...)
Im worried that I have left it too long before being intimate with someone again and scared that now I never will be....
Q. I lost my virginity when I was 16 to my boyfriend and i havnt slept with anyone since i broke up with him. That was 3 years ago!!! furthermore, ive only kissed 2 people. The problem is that because im so self conscious about myself, whenever i have ...
A. 24 August 2006: I think you need to take a step back and calm down about all this. You are older and wiser now than you were when you first had sex so, when you do, you will respect it more and, if it's in the right circumstances, you will be more comfortable and ... (read in full...)
He suddenly asked if I would be ready for a baby ? He doesnt know im still a virgin!!!!
Q. Hi, I have been seeing my b/f for 5 months.He told me he loved me 4 months into the relationship. We have not been 'intimate' yet, shall we say and I realy want to but the thing is he does'nt know I am a virgin.(He isn't) Anyway.... Yesterday i...
A. 24 August 2006: Firstly, you need to speak to him about this. Tell him you're not ready and he can take or leave you as you are. He has no right to make you feel guilty or bad for not doing this, this is your life! Having a baby so young and so early into a ... (read in full...)
All my guy friends always hook me up with thier friends, why dont they date me when they all say im hot!?
Q. I am a 21 year old single female and have a lot of guy friends. I just got out of a serious relationship so I am not looking for something real serious. My problem is that it seems as though all my guy friends are never interested in me, even though ...
A. 24 August 2006: These guy friends of yours are just that: friends. They value you so much as a friend, they don't want to jeopardise that by coming onto you. They don't want things to go wrong and for them to lose a friend they value so highly. That's a good thing! ... (read in full...)
Do I break it off with my current gf to pursue this new crush? What should I do?
Q. I have had a crush on a girl for about 6 months. Last night we fooled around while drunk. The part that really gets to me is that after this she invites me to sleep in her bed with her. We cuddle, she plays with my hair, rubs my arm and we ...
A. 23 August 2006: I think you have to follow your heart. If you think the relationship you're in now is going nowhere because of your future plans, you need to give this new girl a go. You say you've fancied her for a long time so you can't let this chance pass.
... (read in full...)
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