I sometimes agree with the nasty things they say about my GF, should I finish it ?
Q. ok me and my girlfriend are kinda having problems. i love her to death but my friends hatee her. non of my friends like and they say mean things that i sometimes agree with . should i keep her or dump her? please help me!...
A. 26 April 2007: This is typical of a young lad like you and you shouldn't feel bad about it. You're young and you want to be young so just embrace that and get out there and have some fun! Don't get tied down. Your friends call her because they're probably jealous ... (read in full...)
I have never ever had an orgasim even though I have been with a number or partners and tried everything you can imagine including doing it alone with no luck.
Q. Can I get some advice? I have never ever had an orgasim even though I have been with a number or partners and tried everything you can imagine including doing it alone with no luck. PLease help if you can guve me any tips on how this can be ...
A. 26 April 2007: If you've never had an orgasm alone, it is unlikely you will have one with a partner. For a start, you probably won't be relaxed enough and secondly, you won't know how to get yourself off! You need to invest in some toys just for you and get to ... (read in full...)
Do I stay or leave? He aint too nice to me but we still have a good time!?
Q. I don't know whether to stay with my boyfriend and try make amends or leave him. The problem is that he use to have this prejudice toward me because I am not from the same "background" as him. He use to constantly remind me that he never went out ...
A. 26 April 2007: I just don't think you two are very well suited. A man like this isn't very well suited to anyone really and unless he finds someone equally as snobby and annoying, I don't think he ever will be happy unless he is shocked into changing. You should ... (read in full...)
Is this normal that my Penis doesnt stand right up to attention when lying down!?
Q. I am 16 and have had 2 sexual partners. My first, was very kind and considerate about everything but one thing she did just slightly mention once was that i have a "soft-cock". at first i didnt register what she meant (and she definitely did not ...
A. 25 April 2007: This is not abnormal. Every penis lies down on the stomach when it's hard and the man lies down, it's just the way it points!
Don't worry about it, I'm sure it's fine. ... (read in full...)
Football mad to win the girl of my dreams
Q. Do you guys think it's OK or am I getting obsessed? I'm kinda worrying about this obsession. I'm quite a loud and funny person and always make my mates laugh. There's this girl I really fancy. Well at lunchtime about 20 boys play football on the ...
A. 25 April 2007: Your mates are just jealous. If this makes you feel good and you get the attention you want, you're not doing anyone any harm so go for it - it's obviously working if you're getting all this attention!
Guys can be just as jealous as girls and it s... (read in full...)
Had unprotected sex.and scared I might get pregnant! How do I tell my Mom?
Q. Hi..I've done somethin really really stupid. Ive had sex..unprotected. I'm scared I might be pregnant and I don't know how to tell my mum. Please give me some advice :( Kaya x...
A. 24 April 2007: You are awfully young for having sex, never mind unprotected sex and you need to speak to a trusted adult about what has been going on. Tell them who you've been sleeping with and let them know it's not been protected. It doesn't matter whether it's ... (read in full...)
She orgasms within seconds then tells me "it's over"...
Q. Hi, I've been with my girlfriend for a few months but sex is very frustrating for me. She becomes very wet as soon as I put it inside her and comes almost instantly.... she assures me that she is not faking and it does feel genuine as I can...
A. 24 April 2007: It is so refreshing to hear a man saying this as opposed to a woman! Now you know how we feel most of the time! I must say, I really envy your girlfriend, being able to come so quickly and easily.
But if you're not happy, then you have to talk to ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure but is this guy using me as a 'f**k buddy"?
Q. hiya a guy who ive known for a year and a bit , who i slept with a few times then broke it off when i began to fall for him ooh and also said how he has a girlfriend contacted me a few days ago . when i asked him if he was still with his girlfri...
A. 24 April 2007: I think you've answered your own question there, honey! That is exactly the same as a 'f*** buddy', so no matter how he phrases it, you're still being used for sex when it suits him. Girls don't react as well to this arrangement as men do, we often ... (read in full...)
She hates to admit she's wrong and won't apologize, sometimes! Any advice?
Q. My girlfriend has a problem with apologies. She hates to be wrong, so whenever she is, she quick changes the subject. I have no problem with leaving solved problems in the past, in fact, I prefer it that way. Its just that sometimes it hurts when ...
A. 24 April 2007: This is just part of her personality, I'm afraid. We're all proud to some degree but when it's hurting those around us, we really need to do something about it. Youre' not that old, so I'm assuming she isn't either and this is an immature trait. ... (read in full...)
I did anal sex with him and now he doesn't want to marry me because he thinks I did this, in my past?
Q. I have been engaged for 6 months. In the arab world, we tend not to get sexually active until after marriage. My fiancee and I had anal sex. He now wants to rethink our relationship because he thinks that I did this in the past with other men. I ...
A. 22 April 2007: He has no right to say this to you. He did it with you so what does that say about him if it's such a terrible thing to do before marriage?!
I'm really not going to go on like I usually do to women in these crazy situations because I know not... (read in full...)
I tend to ruin relationships because of my obsession for my goals, how can I work round this ?
Q. I am quite an ambitious person and get attached to my dreams or goals i have set for myself in life. Sometimes people get a clue about them and they start to create hurdles and difficulties in seeing that i do not achieve them. I would say, this is ...
A. 22 April 2007: Most of us have goals we want to achieve for ourselves away from our relationships but the trick is to make both sides of your life successful. You may achieve all the things you want in your career etc but could you honestly say your life had been ... (read in full...)
Im 14 and I have a wierd smell down below.... what could this be ?
Q. Okay. I Will Try Not To Write An Essay. I’ve Been With This Guy For Like 7 Months He’s Really Nice And I Love Him. But He’s Way Older Than Me, I’m Not Going To Tell You How Old He Is But He’s Way Older Than Me. Im 13 But I Told Him I’m 14; I Am 14 ...
A. 19 April 2007: This really isn't a problem, it's just natural bodily smells. We all have them and whatever you do to clean it, it will never smell like roses! If he wants to go down on you, he knows what to expect so stop panicking and enjoy it.
Just carry on... (read in full...)
I obssess about guys that mess about with me! How do I deal with this?
Q. i think theres something wrong with me.im 18 years old, single. sometimes i love being single, but i have so much trouble with guys. they either like me TOO much(is this possible or is it just me)and they ring me constantly, or they mess me around. ...
A. 19 April 2007: I don't think you know what you want right now. When you have them, they're not what you want and once they're gone, you start getting a thrill off the memory of them, even though the reality wasn't good at all. We often do this to ourselves when ... (read in full...)
Why is it that SOME girls like guys to be experienced and guys hate it when their girls are more experienced??
Q. I dnt understand something could some help me, im really confused between the brains of a male n female i know they are both very different bt i just want to make sense of it! Why is it that SOME girls like guys to be experienced and guys hate it ...
A. 18 April 2007: This is a simple example of the different ways men and women think about sex. Women are embracing sex more these days but men feel they have always and still should, control it. We want our men to know what they're doing so when can get something ... (read in full...)
Hubby visits prostitutes so I cheat on him with casual sex with other men! How can we stop this destructive path we are on?
Q. I need help... My husband of 13 years got found out a few months ago, he has been seeing prostitutes for 6 years every 2 weeks and each week he has been trawling the streets. We are going throught the councellng route and I have asked for help for ...
A. 18 April 2007: You need to break away from this man, first and foremost. He has disrespected you and put you in danger in the worst way possible and I can't even imagine forgiving someone for this and moving on. You are on a very destructive path indeed and you ... (read in full...)
I get a thrill from cheating on my husband, but feel guilty afterwards! What do you think?
Q. i am happily married woman...yet i cheat on my husband...i always feel bad afterwards...but i get a kind of high thinking about it and doing it..till its over..what do you think?...
A. 18 April 2007: I think you're in need of excitement in your life and you stopped getting it from your husband. I honestly don't think you can still be in love with your husband if you can do this to him, so why stay? You say you get a thrill from being with these ... (read in full...)
Bars, internet dating hasn't worked for me! Where do I meet decent men?
Q. Hi all, does anybody have any ideas where to find decent men, i come from the midlands and have not got a clue where they are hiding. Im at that age now that i want to get into a proper relationship now I have tried internet dating but its not for ...
A. 18 April 2007: I don't think you ever find what you want when you're looking. Don't be that woman who's constantly looking for someone because you only end up hurt because you're closed to reality, you're so desperate for this to happen for you. I feel your pain, ... (read in full...)
Should I ask my new GF what she likes in bed, or just experiment and see what happens ?
Q. Is it ok to 'ask' my new g/f what she likes in bed, where she likes to be touched, get her to show where to be touched and how ? IE clitoris etc etc or should I just experiment and see what happens and how she reacts? any help welcome...
A. 13 April 2007: Either idea is good, just depends on what kind of girl she is really. If she's open about sex and stuff and you think she'd appreciate talking things over first, then do that. If she prefers to keep things from the bedroom in the bedroom then just ... (read in full...)
My ex bf went out one night with friends and didnt come home. Found out he cheated, too. How do I cope with this?
Q. Hi, I need some help. Ive just got back with my ex after 15 months apart. He ended it with me. He went out one night with friends and didnt come home. He rang me the next day to say that it was over and swore that there was no-one else. He has just ...
A. 12 April 2007: Someone once said: fool me once, shame on you: fool me twice, shame on me. If you go back to him, you do this at your own peril, as you know what he is capable of. If you do take him back, he may be a wonderful partner and have changed his ways but ... (read in full...)
He is always too tired to make love after playing sports! What should I do?
Q. Hi, my husband works two jobs, always busy and I know that he is tired, but he spends his spare time, playing sports, or watching tv. he says that he loves me, but I feel so lonely all the time. I told him how I feel, but he doesn;t seem to care. ...
A. 12 April 2007: He needs to start thinking about you and not just himself. We all have our own lives and that's healthy but when that starts to ruin your marriage or relationship and makes them feel lonely, things need to change.
You need to talk to him. He ... (read in full...)
My husband's lack of interest in sex is wrecking our marriage! What should we do?
Q. my husband has no interest in sex at all and i want it,he says he doesnt no why he isnt interested but im getting fed up and its spoiling our marraige what shall we do...
A. 12 April 2007: You need to talk to himand get this sorted. It's 2007, it's not just men who need sex! Making love is a important and special part of most relationships and marriages and, if you want it, then you have to sort this out and fact!
You need to find ... (read in full...)
Am I staying because I'm afraid to be a single Mom or do I really love him? Help!
Q. Please help me, iam in a realationship with the father of my child, we have been together 3 and a half years, we are on the verge of breaking up!! i dont know if i love him or if iam just scared of being a single mum, please help i dont know how to ...
A. 9 April 2007: You have to ask yourself what you feel for this man. Forget about the baby for now, just think honestly about whether or not you love him and want to be with him forever. I know it's hard to make the break when there's a baby involved but he can ... (read in full...)
Our friend is is way too promiscuous! We are worried- how can we get her to stop behaving this way?
Q. My best friend is 18, she lost her virginity at 16 and never slept with anyone else until about 9 months ago, and since then she has slept with 35 men. All of our friends our worried, and the thing is that she is even starting to sleep with other ...
A. 9 April 2007: I think you do need to just tell her how you feel! She needs to know how she's looking from the outside and that the people who care for her are worried. She's putting herself at risk, not to mention having no self esteem or self worth.
If sh... (read in full...)
I'm against him using porn. Shouldn't he understand?
Q. hi i am having problems with my boyfriend. once before i found pornos and i broke em and threw em away.i take that very seriously and i find it disrespecful. i told him if i find them again me and him are done. i am pregnant with his child and it ...
A. 8 April 2007: A lot of women have a problem with their partners watching porn but I think it is a perfectly natural thing to do for a man or woman. Whether it's arousal, curiosity or just a laugh, we would all watch it if it came on and we weren't bothered who ... (read in full...)
Shes pregant with my kid but wants to be back with her ex.
Q. I need opinions! Please ! I have been with my girlfriend for 8 months she left her boyfriend of 8 years for me ! She is pregnant now and since she has become pregnant has been thinking that she wants to go back to her ex. We are amazing together...
A. 8 April 2007: I really don't know whether she will come to her senses but she sounds to me like a scared, insecure little girl who only knows one person to turn to when she gets low: her ex. After 8 years, this is all that can be expected, even though he may not ... (read in full...)
I cheated on him twice but now I want to put things right, what can I do?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, and i have cheated on him twice and they were the two biggest mistakes of my life. I just want to put things right between us because I love him so much. I need help what should I do. ...
A. 8 April 2007: You have been with him since you were very young and this was always going to happen, whether it was now or later in life, or both. We all need that time to mess about and explore the world and ourselves, being with someone from 13 is way too young! ... (read in full...)
He says he likes me more than a friend but I don't particularly find him physically attractive although he has a terrific personality!
Q. ok i really really like my friends personality, hes just like me, we have so many things in common and get on so well, we can talk for hours. thing is hes told me he likes me more then a friend and im confused as i honestly dont find he physically ...
A. 8 April 2007: We have all been in this position, wondering whether we're letting a great guy pass us by because we're being shallow and vain. But the fact is, it's not shallow, if you're not attracted to someone, you can't force it. I believe you need that spark ... (read in full...)
Everything started out great, it was dark, we were kissing, we took off our clothes, and right before game time...I lost my bat!!!!
Q. I recently just tried to have sex for the first time ever with my girlfriend. Everything started out great, it was dark, we were kissing, we took off our clothes, and right before game time...I lost my bat! The whole time I was just asking "Why ...
A. 8 April 2007: This happens so often, I really don't know why men start panicking so much! People are always on here asking why they were a 'man down'! It could be for so many reasons but there's nothing wrong with you, as you had one earlier. Maybe it was nerves ... (read in full...)
I'm only 14, I told him I'm pregnant, He laughed at me and called me a slag, But I thought we were in love!!
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 19 months and i feel i really love him now. i am only 14 and so when i got with him i was young and i didnt know what love was but now i feel i do. i didnt sleep with him till i became 14 because i thought i was too ...
A. 4 April 2007: You need to get rid of this guy and start thinking about what's best for you and the baby. He is nothing, he's a loser, you don't need him making this situation any worse.
Once he's out of the picture, you can decide what you're going to do. Do y... (read in full...)
I feel trapped and bored...is it him or just me? I don't want to lose him so what should I do?
Q. Im a 20 year old male in my first gay relationship. Ive been with my boyfriend for over six months now. In the first couple of months everything was fine and easy. I didnt feel uncomfortable around him, never had to think about what I said and ...
A. 3 April 2007: I think it's very soon for the 'honeymoon period' to be over, personally speaking, but maybe that's all it is. A lot seems to have happened in such a small space of time in the relationship so maybe the honeymoon period was cut short by what you did ... (read in full...)
Dating 3 weeks, we want to have a baby!! But whats considered the right time to move in together!?
Q. ok let me start this out by saying i'm 24 nearly 25 in june and my new girl is 20 nearly 21 in september we've been dateing for 3 weeks nearly a month and i've slept with her once. she's stayed at my house twice and we didn't do nofthing the fir...
A. 3 April 2007: I think this is all moving too fact for the pair of you and you both need to slow things down. What about your lives? What about achieving the things you two want to? Why not spend some time enjoying each other's company before moving in and having ... (read in full...)
Not sure if I could be pregnant with all this irregular Pill taking.. What do you think ?
Q. i have been on the pill for 4 months but missed my usual 11am pill on sunday so i took two when i remembered (12 hours later). i kept up my usual time but i kept forgetting because i traveled to a different time zone (but i always took them within ...
A. 2 April 2007: Taking two pills at once does nothing more than taking one will do, just messes up your body. It all sounds a bit confusing to me and I think you should have used a condom if you were unsure: it's always better to be safe than sorry. However, it's ... (read in full...)
She's having an abortion...don't I have a say in this? What should I do?
Q. judgement day .. my 22 year old girl says she will have an abortion on Wednesday. Her parents are acting suspicious as to the fact that she is pregnant. She is a christian(pentecostal family) she says she will do it. I am also christian. We don't ...
A. 1 April 2007: You can't pressure her into doing anything. This is her body and she is the one who will have to make most of the sacrifices, both in the short and long term. I know you're hurting but think how she feels: this is in her body, she will feel close to ... (read in full...)
Having an affair and I have no guilt from my behaviour. What do others think about my troubles?
Q. I've been having an affair with someone from work for over a year and a half now. I have a marriage where we sleep in separate beds no sex or any type of mutual passion for either one of us. My wife also suffers from depression and bladder problems ...
A. 1 April 2007: You need to set your partners free if you want to be together, give them a chance to be happy with someone else too. It sounds like she knows things aren't working either but is sticking around, either with hope it will sort itself out or fear of ... (read in full...)
How do I get her to trust me, after she's been abused by her bf?
Q. there is this girl that i like and i am planning on asking her to be my girlfriend. the problem is that she has had really abusive boyfriends and can no longer trust boys as she used to. is there any way that i can convice her that i am a good guy ...
A. 1 April 2007: You sound really nice and she is lucky to have someone like you interested in her. It is hard to change someones view of people once they've been wronged, especially if it's gone on for a long time, but it can be done. We're never the same once ... (read in full...)
Will someone please tell me why I treat my gf so horrible yet I love her so much?? Help me!
Q. will someone pls tell me why i treat my gf so horrible yet i love her sooooo much,im never there when she needs me yet shes always there for me no matter when.i have had numerous gf prior to this one,yet i didnt treat them as bad as this.i know if ...
A. 1 April 2007: It sounds to me like you have issues with women in general and maybe need to change the way you feel about us. Maybe she allows you to treat her badly so you continue? Maybe it's a power trip to have a woman stick around no matter what you do to ... (read in full...)
My bf is going to visit his ex gf-the girl he fell for hard! What should I do?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a month now he's 16 and im 15. i do trust him its just...He told me about this girl he really fell for and has never liked anyone as much as her before. He met her on holiday and became really depressed when he had ...
A. 1 April 2007: I think it's inappropriate that he's going to visit her at all. I'm all for male and female friend relationships but he had more than that with this girl, he fell for her big time and I don't think people ever really get over the person they fall ... (read in full...)
How do you ask your girlfriend for sex for the first time?
Q. How do you ask ypur girlfriend for sex for the first time Ive got to the point where i want sex with my gorlfriend, but i don't know how to bring it up...
A. 28 March 2007: I think, because of your age, you need to talk about this before getting down to it. Usually, I would tell people to 'go with the flow' and see where the night takes them but I think, if she/both of you are virgins, it needs to be discussed first so ... (read in full...)
How can I get back with my ex? I've been a right prat!
Q. me and my ex have split 4 months ago due to certain incidents, I was a rite dick to be fair. We had a brief moment where things were going well. I've changed so much since we split and I realized how much she means to me, we have a baby together i ...
A. 28 March 2007: You've obviously hurt her very badly and she needs to realise you have changed and that you deserve a second chance. Would you give yourself a second chance? If you really want her back, it's going to take a lot of effort but it sounds to me like it ... (read in full...)
When my nipples are touched I feel really wierd! Could this be due to something that happend when I was younger ?
Q. I know this may sound wierd but please dont laugh. Whenever I touch my nipples i feel overwhelmingly depressed or sad and I feel like every thing is wrong and I often feel a bit sick. Do you think this feeling could be from something that happened ...
A. 27 March 2007: I feel exactly the same as you, almost vulnerable?! It's not nice, is it? Write to me personally and we can discuss this privately if you like.... (read in full...)
I'm a 22 year old virgin..still waiting for someone special to share that with. How long is this going to take?
Q. im a 22 year old male im still a virgin im waiting for that special some one to enter my life ive been waiting for a long time but ive had know look how much longer should i wait ...
A. 26 March 2007: Keep waiting, trust me. I'm only speaking from a womans point of view but I'd say the same for anyone with your question. You've got this far, it's not like you're at school and it's all people talk about all day long! If you feel you want to wait ... (read in full...)
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