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My boyfriend is pressuring me into getting his name tattooed on me!

Q.   my boyfriend of 4 years is pressurising me a lot to get his name tattooed on my breasts or butts. he insists that this is a definite way of expressing my love for him. i am not sure of social and/or clinical affects of this. i love him deeply ...

A.   14 September 2006: DONT do it,evern when my brother was killed i had a tat dun but in japanese, if he dumps u cause of it then he dont love u, as the other lady said a tat is for life!... (read in full...)

She takes prozac but I don't want to give up on her...

Q.   does anybody have any experience of having a girlfreind who has/is taking prozac. how does this effect the relationship. The reason i am asking is that there is this young lady who i have been trying to get her to be my girlfreind at various times ...

A.   14 September 2006: well dun that is the best u can do, running away would of just added to her problems, hopefully she will cum off them in time as long as she has love & support and most of all understanding, i know ive been on them, but ive been tryin for a few ... (read in full...)

I asked her to tell me a secret, she did but was it a joke ?

Q.   Was in bed with my gf last week and we were chatting. She then asked me to tell her a secret, after being pushed for a while I told her something that happened to me in my childhood, I then asked her the same her reply in a stone-cold serious face ...

A.   8 September 2006: well i would ask her again and i would book to get an aids test dun NOW! dont just take her word for it now either way, she dont have to know about the test! IF IT WAS A JOKE ITS SICK AND NOT FUNNY, NOT IN THIS DAY AND AGE Please let us no the answ... (read in full...)

Three week's ago, he told he didnt love me. It's like he can't let himself be happy! What's going on?

Q.   I'm 38, hes 46, he had been divorced 2 years and has twins with x, she got it all as he still hasnt sorted that part out yet, house and contents,the car and he gets the twins fri-sun once every 2 wk's. we were m8's for 8 months before we got ...

A.   7 September 2006: Dont know if this will change any of your minds about what u think or if your advice will be differant, but i didnt put in my first statement that my boyfriend found out in March that he has lymphoma caner and he dont understand why i have stuck ... (read in full...)

Three week's ago, he told he didnt love me. It's like he can't let himself be happy! What's going on?

Q.   I'm 38, hes 46, he had been divorced 2 years and has twins with x, she got it all as he still hasnt sorted that part out yet, house and contents,the car and he gets the twins fri-sun once every 2 wk's. we were m8's for 8 months before we got ...

A.   4 September 2006: thank u for your answers, i know what i have to do but its hard, and im fed up with startin again! ... (read in full...)

How much is too large an age gap?

Q.   I am 28 and my boyfried is 2 1/2 years younger. It's not an issue for us, but is that too big a gap? His friends don't seem to approve although they are my age. Princess...

A.   1 September 2006: its only 2.5 years thats no problem, perhaps his m8's dont want him to av a girlfriend, god i wnt out with a man 10 yrs younger, my partner now is 8 yrs older than me,take no notice.... (read in full...)

What is the average penis size?

Q.   what is the average penis size?...

A.   1 September 2006: would say about 6, but its not what u got but what u can do with it........well thats my motto ... (read in full...)

What nicknames do guys like to be called?

Q.   What nicknames do guys like to be called? Girls get called names like babe and sexy etc. But what do guys like to be called? Thanks...

A.   1 September 2006: well i call my fella my his name,babe or hun and hes fine with it... (read in full...)

How will breaking up affect my son??

Q.   Have been with my wife of 10 years for 11 years and have a 9 year old son. Have come to realise recently that I no longer love my wife i've just got the feeling that i am going along with the pretense because it's easier. I have met a girl at work ...

A.   1 September 2006: It will hurt your son at first as mum and dad are not together any more and he probly wont see you daily like hes used to, as long as you and your wife can stay friends if not then at least not fight infront of him, and reasure him thats it nought ... (read in full...)

Tatoo turn off!!! How do I tell her?

Q.   I have a dilemma. My girlfriend has a tattoo. It's not very large, and its right in the small of her back. The problem is, I really don't like it, and for a bad reason. A tattoo in that spot just has negative associations for me: 'tramp stamp' an...

A.   1 September 2006: well i to have a tattoo in the same place its in memery of my brother who was killed nearly 5 yr ago,so does go for me to!... (read in full...)

I proposed but he said no, I feel so shut down!

Q.   hi there, my partner has been married before for ten years and he had 2 kids with his ex wife. i proposed to him on our anniversary and he said yes but a couple of weeks after that i asked him if he really wanted to be engaged to me because i wasnt ...

A.   1 September 2006: hi, it was dream of mine to get married but now i dont care about that any more, if you both love each other and want to be together a pice of paper isnt goin to make it any better. Try to put this behind you as long as your happy & inlove dont ... (read in full...)

I proposed but he said no, I feel so shut down!

Q.   hi there, my partner has been married before for ten years and he had 2 kids with his ex wife. i proposed to him on our anniversary and he said yes but a couple of weeks after that i asked him if he really wanted to be engaged to me because i wasnt ...

A.   1 September 2006: hi, it was dream of mine to get married but now i dont care about that any more, if you both love each other and want to be together a pice of paper isnt goin to make it any better. Try to put this behind you as long as your happy & inlove dont ... (read in full...)

I've fallen for my best friend's brother and she's pissed off at me! What should I do?

Q.   I am an 18 year old girl who has fallen for her best friend's brother. I understand it may be weird for my friend to imagine us together, but we really love each other and I do not understand why she can't be happy for us. She has made it clear...

A.   31 August 2006: Please be carefull as u could end up losing your friend, this happened to me about 2 yr ago, but I was the one who had the m8 goin out with my brother, I lost them both for a while but got my brother back. This is what your mate could be scared of!... (read in full...)

I've fallen for my best friend's brother and she's pissed off at me! What should I do?

Q.   I am an 18 year old girl who has fallen for her best friend's brother. I understand it may be weird for my friend to imagine us together, but we really love each other and I do not understand why she can't be happy for us. She has made it clear...

A.   31 August 2006: hi yar i went through this about 2 years ago and i lived next door to my m8, u noticed i said lived, well we still live there but we are no loger friends. I to told them keep me out of it (oh she was married to!) but when her family found out it was ... (read in full...)

To Swallow or not to swallow....

Q.   My girlfriend and i r 15 and we've been together for around a year, we're each others soulmates and are truely in love. while having oral sex, should she swallow if i ejaculates in her mouth or not? ...

A.   31 August 2006: as all the other answers ii is up to your girlfriend, just remember your both only 15 you have lots of time, dont rush things x... (read in full...)

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