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Are tampons comfortable?

Q.   im 13 and i started my period not long ago and i use pads but there really uncomfortable and panty liners :/ i want to try a tampon but im not sure if it hurts? if its even more uncomfortable? and whats its even like to have one "in"?? please help ...

A.   25 December 2010: Ohh and it's best to get the ones with the applicator...... (read in full...)

Are tampons comfortable?

Q.   im 13 and i started my period not long ago and i use pads but there really uncomfortable and panty liners :/ i want to try a tampon but im not sure if it hurts? if its even more uncomfortable? and whats its even like to have one "in"?? please help ...

A.   25 December 2010: Heyy I'm 13 too and I started not long ago and had to start using tampons and trust me if you put them in right you can't feel them there hope this helps (: x... (read in full...)

I hate myself and the way I look....and I'm only 13!

Q.   Heyy, Well basically I'm 13 years old, quite intelligent, got wa few good mates ect but there are a few things that bother me... 1. Well at the moment I have braces (I can't wait to get them taken off) and I, as a typical teenager, someti...

A.   25 November 2010: Thanks for all the advice hopefully if I do this I might feel better about myself thanks for your time (: ... (read in full...)

I hate myself and the way I look....and I'm only 13!

Q.   Heyy, Well basically I'm 13 years old, quite intelligent, got wa few good mates ect but there are a few things that bother me... 1. Well at the moment I have braces (I can't wait to get them taken off) and I, as a typical teenager, someti...

A.   25 November 2010: Thanks for all the advice hopefully if I do this I might feel better about myself thanks for your time (: ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to still feel scared of your parents when you've been on your own?

Q.   Hi, my bf and I really want a baby - his family are thrilled whereas mine think I'll be throwing my life away if I get pregnant. I'm 20, my partners 21. I'm too scared to start trying because of my parents reaction. My mum said she wouldn't be ...

A.   25 November 2010: You have your own life to live so live it. If you and your partner are completely sure this is what you want and your in a stable and loving relationship I think you should go for it in the end I expect your parents will not regret the dicision you ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to still feel scared of your parents when you've been on your own?

Q.   Hi, my bf and I really want a baby - his family are thrilled whereas mine think I'll be throwing my life away if I get pregnant. I'm 20, my partners 21. I'm too scared to start trying because of my parents reaction. My mum said she wouldn't be ...

A.   25 November 2010: You have your own life to live so live it. If you and your partner are completely sure this is what you want and your in a stable and loving relationship I think you should go for it in the end I expect your parents will not regret the dicision you ... (read in full...)

I love him but he lives 500 miles away...

Q.   Well basically I'm 13 and I dont know what to do.... I met this guy online and he's really sweet and I really love him and he loves me but he lives 500 miles away in Essex and I want to be with him so badly but I can't because he lives that far away ...

A.   22 September 2010: My parents are also very over protective of me and hardly give me any space and also he isn't a pedophile we've spoken ect. before and he's made alot of sacrifices like he said he wouldn't join the army ( because I don't really like the idea of it ... (read in full...)

When I asked her out she said no... but all my friends are saying she really likes me!!!!

Q.   Ok, I really like this girl. Everyone has told me that she likes me, but when I ask her out she says no. She says that she doesn't like me "any more" but one of her friends tell me that is a bunch of bull. What can I do and how can I win her back???...

A.   22 September 2010: Ignore your friends she said no .. but to win her back would be difficult you could try flirting with her a bit or maybe take her out on a date just to the movies and then see if you can try and make a move but if she says stop stop trust me... Hope ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend too tight

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend for about 6 months now and she's a virgin, age 22. We try to have sex, but she's really sensitive "down there," much more so than any of my previous girlfriends. Even when she's really wet I can't get more than 1 ...

A.   22 September 2010: Maybe get her to masterbate a bit. Try and get her used to being touched down there. Try buying her a vibrator which she can use to practice herself. As chigirl said dont force her open as this will cause great discomfort and pain :/ Hope this ... (read in full...)

Confused about my brother's feelings for me.....

Q.   I told my brother that I'm in love with him 5 months ago. and that I wanted to make love with him. he get very angry and didn't even want to see me again. and we had no communication at all, till yesterday. he came in my room and we were ...

A.   22 September 2010: You may have feelings for your brother but what youve got to understand is that hes being unfair tempting you into doing something you will regret. Dont have sex with him as this would be incest and you will most likely regret it. So please do not ... (read in full...)

If I stay over with him more often will it eventually lead to sex? He promised we would not have sex until marriage but I'm worried he wont be able to control himself!

Q.   I have been staying over at my boyfriend's hostel room like every once a week. And each time he will rub his penis on my vagina although i am still wearing my panties. I would like to stay over with him more often but I am afraid if that continue...

A.   22 September 2010: Perhaps it is encouraging him a bit with you being there as he clearly does have feelings for you and usually the human body reacts to the feeling of when someone elses body touches it especially if they have emotional feelings for that person. ... (read in full...)

If I stay over with him more often will it eventually lead to sex? He promised we would not have sex until marriage but I'm worried he wont be able to control himself!

Q.   I have been staying over at my boyfriend's hostel room like every once a week. And each time he will rub his penis on my vagina although i am still wearing my panties. I would like to stay over with him more often but I am afraid if that continue...

A.   22 September 2010: Cindy has a good point... Are you going to be able to keep saying no and Isn't it a bit harsh sleeping in the same bed with your boyfriend and not letting him do anything :/. I dont know if he does see it this way but he could see it as you ... (read in full...)

How do I break up with her?

Q.   I've been in a long distance relationship with a girl for well over a year now, and I think it's time that I break up with her. We are both Americans and first met 2 years ago while studying abroad in Germany for a semester. We are quite different ...

A.   22 September 2010: The best thing to do is do it in person but tell her slowly... Don't just tell her straight up that you dint want to be with her anymore... Tell her yoir situation ( but leave out the bit where you say she's put on weight coz that would not help ... (read in full...)

My cousin is in love with me but I don't have any feelings for him!

Q.   i am presently single. it so happen that one of my cousin has fall for me. he also proposed me but i refused him because i don't have any feelings for him. even though he continue running after me. he is always sending me text messages with ' i love ...

A.   22 September 2010: You should really tell someone about someone that your close to because it sounds like he is sexually assaulting you ie. Pushing you up against the wall to try and make his move :/... Trust me you should tell someone your close to maybe your parents ... (read in full...)

How can I make my cousin have sex with me?

Q.   I am 16 years of age and my girl cousin is 15 and a want to have sex with her so badly but i dont know how to ask her, or what to do to make her have sex with me!! I have been trying so hard since 14-15 to have sex with her and i dont know if she ...

A.   22 September 2010: Firstly you really shouldn't have sex with her as she is your cousin and she may not want to have sex with you because you are related. Secondly you can't make her have sex with you she has to want it as well. Thirdly it's a big risk the only way ... (read in full...)

Is it just my hormones that are making me feel this way?

Q.   hi im 15, well basically ive been sort of anxious and annoyed, about my sexuality because ive always liked girls from a young age and always want a girlfriend, but i noticed by accident(lol honestly) i managed to get on gay porn when i was looking ...

A.   21 September 2010: It might just be that it was different to what you normally watch.... Or just your hormones but when you get older you will find out what your sexuality is hope this helps (: x x... (read in full...)

I am ginger with glasses, how do I make myself more attractive?

Q.   I am ginger with glasses and people give me a har time over it. How do I make mysel more attractive without dyeing my hair (I love my hair as it is) or getting contacts....

A.   21 September 2010: My best advice is to get a really nice haircut and maybe spike your hair up a bit and then get some glasses to suit it and maybe change clothes (only if you have to) to suit the hair and glasses that's all I can think of hope it helps (: x x... (read in full...)

Is it my boyfriends business my credit card debt?

Q.   So confused...... I have been with my boyfriend for the last couple of years. His finances are in order, mine are not. I used to be debt free but ended up going back to school and acquired my credit card debt while I was in school ( not from ...

A.   21 September 2010: It would be best if you told him as if he finds out without you telling him he will wonder why you didn't tell him and might get a bit aggravated but overall it's your decision ...... (read in full...)

Why did my husband lie?

Q.   Six months ago I found my husband on MySace, Facebook, Tagged, Yahoo personals, Fling, and a few more like that. At first he claimed someone hacked his email and it wasnt him. Then he claimed he did not remember and didnt know about them. Finally ...

A.   21 September 2010: Maybe he was just bored... I mean he was at home by himself alot may e he met these girls and talked to them just to satisfy his boredom... And perhaps he lied because he was scared of what you would think of him or was worried It would affect your ... (read in full...)

I woke up naked in bed with my girlfriend's sister and I had not even been drinking! Should I tell my girlfriend?

Q.   i woke up naked in bed with my girlfriend's sister.i got no memories on how this happened.all can remember is that i was invited to her birtday party.by her sister i had two soft drinks and thats it.should i tell my girlfriend about it or should i ...

A.   21 September 2010: Perhaps your drink and your girlfriends drink was spiked either by your girlfriends sister or someone at the party ? Perhaps someone whoose jelous of you and your girlfriend ? That's all I can think of ... Hope this helps (: x... (read in full...)

I love him but he lives 500 miles away...

Q.   Well basically I'm 13 and I dont know what to do.... I met this guy online and he's really sweet and I really love him and he loves me but he lives 500 miles away in Essex and I want to be with him so badly but I can't because he lives that far away ...

A.   21 September 2010: By the way hes 16 and i never really talk to my parents about anything :L ... Thats why they dont know about him Also im worried that if they did know about him that they would stop me talking to him .. :/ ... (read in full...)

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