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| | Xx...Lenii...xX's profile:Hi. My name is Elena but everyone calls me Lenii. I live in uk. I like to think that I am pretty easy to talk to about problems. I love helping people and I am very understanding which is why I set up this account. I hope to help a lot of people so yh... add me on myspace/msn =D I give advice over msn too!
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Do I break my heart for him???
Q. I met a man, years ago, when I was just a kid, if you call 17 a kid, we were flirtatious, mostly innocent....I got my heart wrapped up in him, he was my fantasy, the knight in shining armor on a beautiful white horse. In reality, he was twice my ...
A. 2 October 2007: Firstly, you should save that, its like poetry.
secondly, i think you know the answer you just dont want to believe its the right answer. forget him. if you continue leading him on you're just gonna end up getting hurtall over again and you know... (read in full...)
I'm 14, went through depression and self-harm. I've feelings for a boy my age now, please advise.
Q. I'm 14 and i feel down. Until about month ago i went through 7 months of depression i turn to self harm. I lost my mates at school and got into fights every day at school, i try to walk away as i do not look for trouble it finds me. With self harm ...
A. 28 August 2007: I think what u need is someone who has been through the same thing and understands you. Please email me and I can give you my MSN address so we can talk whenever you want to, I can be there for you to get your feelings out whenever you want to. ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and met a guy on holiday. I love him but he lives 9 hours away! How do we work this?
Q. I met an amazing guy on holiday - we've slept together and already said "i love you" to each other. Now I've come back home to England and I miss him so much...I want to be with him and am considering staying with him next time I visit (in 4 ...
A. 28 August 2007: may i ask how long you were on this holiday for?... (read in full...)
What's with the sudden anal sex craze?
Q. I'm 45 and over the course of the last 4 years I have dated 3 guys and each one of them requested to have anal sex. My boyfriend of 7 years before never asked for this........what's up with the anal sex craze and why is it so much better than ...
A. 23 August 2007: i thought anal sex was a way for gay guys to have sex. i was also under the impression that it was quite dangerous. am i right or wrong here??? :s... (read in full...)
Having problems with my family! Any advice?
Q. hi ya at the moment im feeling that my family have been treating me like they hate me!! me my mum and dad always argue over silly things and i feel like are trying to start a arguement with me on perpose. plz help i used to get along with them b...
A. 23 August 2007: its part of growing up. no matter how perfect life is, this always happens to girls your age. id reccomend keeping out of your parents' way for a while so they can cope with the stress. if you find something you enjoy (like reading or playing games ... (read in full...)
He lied about kissing another girl! Now I feel like I can't trust him.
Q. hi there, i was wondering if i could have some advice about my current relationship. Basically, my boyfriend almost kissed a girl with whom he works with a few weeks ago. He said that they become very good friends and that he regreted what happened, ...
A. 16 August 2007: bravo! i totally agree with sweet-thing and if he really loved you he would have come home the night he kissed her and told you straight away. ... (read in full...)
Dated my cousin and now Dad has found out and will be talking to me! What do I tell him?
Q. Hey guys... I had a wonderful relationship with my 1st cousin.. Then after 3 weeks we broke up because we knew people already knew that we we're together... She has been played around by this guy... When my uncles found out they got really pissed...
A. 16 August 2007: how can you do it with your 1st cousin is what gets me. its so wrong. whatever happens to you is just a result of what happens when you do dumb things. tell the truth and take whatever they throw at you and it'll all be over in no time.... (read in full...)
While seeing each other or talking on the PC we run out of things to talk about...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for just over 6 months. While seeing each other or talking on the PC we run out of things to talk about, he then often plays on his guitar and ignores me or goes in a mood and it upsets me. What do I do?...
A. 7 August 2007: erm. do something else? you cant expect him to stay on if your not talking about anything. just go offline and then talk to him again tomorrow, its all very simple really. if your together at the time and run out of things to talk about then just ... (read in full...)
My 'friend' is chasing my ex, am I wrong to be angry?
Q. Am i wrong to feel betrayed by a freind who has made a move on my ex boyfreind? i was with him a long time before we broke up 2 months ago and a good freind of mine and his has started telling him she luvs him, misses him all the time, and keeps ...
A. 7 August 2007: i think you are definately not in the wrong. if i were you i'd just keep away from her. if she does stuff like this all the time then im sure she'll get whats coming. i know this isnt a lot of help but trust me if your patiant and keep to yourself ... (read in full...)
Do you think he still loves and cares for me or do you think that he never did?
Q. Do you think he really love me and care? right i am 16 years old. he is the same. i knew him for about 8 months and we wouldve been goin out for like 7 and a half. We been on and off. And he is the first guy i TRULY loved, and he really showed me...
A. 7 August 2007: hes trouble. if he wants to change that bad he should put up more of a fight. just ignore him for now. if he still loves you he'll come back. if he does come back you should make sure you tell him that you wont go back to him unless he leaves his ... (read in full...)
She contacted me to ask if I was ok if she slept in the same bed as her male friend. I said NO and she got mad! Was I right?
Q. Hi everyone. I'd like to share a little story with you of something that may of been the final nail in the coffin of my serious, long distance relationship of 2 years and 13 separate meetings. Some of you may remember that my ex was booked to go...
A. 4 August 2007: leave it now mate. whats done is done. if it wasnt over this i think you would have broken up later anyway. dont worry too much over it. if you werent comfortable with it and she didnt care then obviously somethings up. sorry you broke up but im ... (read in full...)
She dating someone else, and I have very strong feelings for her! What's a guy to do?
Q. Hey, I have this friend who I'm really close with. A year ago we dated for about a month and became close friends after we split up. We are very good friends to the point where we can talk about pretty much anything to each other comfortably. About ...
A. 4 August 2007: k heres what you do. wait till she breaks up with this boyfriend. (trust me it will happen eventually) and then when she does get together with her and tell her everything you've just posted on this site. tell her your feelings, you could even get ... (read in full...)
Being Raped hasn't ruined or changed my life...i kinda enjoyed it...Whats wrong with me?Am i a freak?
Q. Hi,im Naoko im 20 years old and when i was 19 i was raped... I just wanna know if im a freak Being Raped hasn't ruined or changed my life...i kinda enjoyed it...Whats wrong with me?Am i a freak?...
A. 4 August 2007: your not a freak. maybe it was done so that you felt it was just normal sex. to have enjoyed being raped probably means it didnt seem like rape at the time. its not at all your fault and there is nothing wrong with you so just relax. =D
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Lately i have been having these feelings where i want a boyfriend so much that i get depressed.
Q. Lately i have been having these feelings where i want a boyfriend so much that i get depressed. It has been going on for a long time but why do you think i have them? Please Please Help Meeee xx...
A. 4 August 2007: you are hormonal. i know exactly how you feel. i went through exactly the same thing. i would recommend joining a drama group, or youth club where you can meet new boys. trust me, you do not want a boyfriened in the same school as you. keep meeting ... (read in full...)
She got drunk so I ended it. Now she leaves abusive messages! What do I do?
Q. Hi everyone, hope you can give me some advice. I'm a 22 y/o gay woman. I just ended a relationship I was in for six months, basically because the girl I was dating was nice when sober and mean when drunk. When we first started seeing each othe...
A. 4 August 2007: i think you should go to the police. they cant sayits stupid- its harassment! save all the messages she leaves and take them to the police, they'll know what to do. hope this helped and good luck =D XxXxX... (read in full...)
what do I do with my anger at God?
Q. I am 46, my brother is 34. I just found out that my father molested him from age 10-16. I thought I was a grounded christian. Needless to say this has shaken my fundamental belief system to the core. I feel so lost, sorry for my brother, guilty. I ...
A. 4 August 2007: You cannot blame god for this. I'm a very religious greek orthadox. I pray every night and after dinner but the honest truth is. I dont know if god exists or not. Nobody does. Everything happens for a reason and for all you know it could have just ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be so heart broken over a girl rejecting me...8 months ago?
Q. I really loved this girl with an unexplainable love (at least to me). I didn't even think she noticed, however I did signal it to her one day and she noticed. She wasn't frightened, she wasn't angry or concerned. It seems she liked it. So we ...
A. 4 August 2007: Well it obviously hurt you a lot. if you were shaking at the time you must have been pretty darn nervous and then for her to get her friend to tell you instead of telling you herself! Was she really worth it? I think your just finding it hard ... (read in full...)
More than just a crush on a tutor
Q. More than just a crush on a tutor I have had feelings for one of my tutors (in his early thirties) at my university all year. As he had recently resigned for another job in a different city I decided to ask him out to dinner before he leaves...
A. 4 August 2007: Stop. Now. Your going to get hurt. He's only thinking of himself now, which means if you do meet him he'll still be thinking of himself and that can lead to anything if you get my drift. so yeah, just dont. :) sorry i couldnt be more help. XxXx... (read in full...)
I found out I was pregnant and I don't know how to tell anyone.
Q. I am 14 and I have been having lots of sex but with my boyfriend, we tried diffrent things and I like them all. I found out I was pregnant, I don't know how to tell anyone, I feel so sick no one knows but me. How do I tell people oh and I think I ...
A. 3 August 2007: why do people have sex underaged when they know it leads to this???? and some1 better reply to me coz im more confused than you. anyways my advice is tell parents, doctor, the guy that got u pregnant and anyone else who can help you. and next time ... (read in full...)
So I'm not jealous about porn, looking at other females or anything.. is anyone else out there like that??
Q. I see that probably about 90% of females are really bothered by porn and I kind of get it but at the same time I don't. I know some of my friends are this way but is anyone else out there not bothered by it? or bothered by anything for tha...
A. 3 August 2007: i think this is wonderful. i just hate guys that look at porn behind your back and im sure thats why most girls do find it uncomfortable. but right on i say! in my eyes its just spending time together isnt it?
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Should I give my boyfriend a 3rd chance to salvage our relationship of 7 years?
Q. My question is really simple. Should I give my boyfriend a 3rd chance to salvage our relationship of 7 years? We've broken up 3 times in the last 9 months, with the final time coming back in June. After our last break up, I met a really great guy, ...
A. 3 August 2007: wow. gay guys lives seem like a big soap opera to me. its wonderful. i think you should go with wherever your heart pulls you. this guys hurt you and he has to know this. by giving him another chance your giving him what he wants and he knows this. ... (read in full...)
Do you think it is advisable that I voice my suspects to her? I don't want it to be an accusation, I want it to show her my solidarity. I really want to enjoy the evenings when it's the three of us.
Q. I started dating my boyfriend in February. He has been living with a very close friend (girl) ever since last summer. I get along with her very well if we're alone but sometimes if it's the three of us it gets a bit awkward. Lately I found out by ...
A. 3 August 2007: i think this is very thoughtful of you so a big well done on your part. if it was me in your position though i would maybe try and secretly help her get a boyfriend like taking her out and introducing her to other males. im sure fate will find her ... (read in full...)
We want to do more than just make out but we're only 13; what can we do?
Q. my boyfriend and i really like each other and want to do more than kissing and pashing but we ae only 13. what can we do?...
A. 3 August 2007: DONT DO IT!!! Trust me it will ruin your life. your still growing and if you do do it you'll regret it when your older. your too young and im 100% sure this time next year you wont be together. i know these things. so...DONT DO IT!!
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He kissed another girl, said she came on to him and apologised.
Q. Hey, I'd really appreciate some advice. I was going to go out with my boyfriend and some of his mates last night but decided I was too tired so told him I wouldn't be making it. He seemed a bit upset but whatever... This morning I got a text fro...
A. 3 August 2007: aaaaaaaaw he seems sweet. normally that is used as an excuse but maybe he was just panicing out of guilt. forgive him. if it happens again though, dump him. but anyhoo... FORGIVE HIM!!! :D
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How old should I be before I get a boyfriend?
Q. I'm going into middle school. How old should I be to have a boyfreind? Not to kiss or anything, but just to talk to and hold hands....
A. 3 August 2007: this is how i see it:
aged:
0-10 = not real bf just a guy you get on with and have fun with
10-13 = bf just to hang round with, hold hands and ask for a hug
13-16 = trust me this is where you'll get a LOT, dnt have sex with these guys... ... (read in full...)
I desperately want to help my friend with his relationship but he won't let me.
Q. My friend wont let his gf go on the pill in case she gains weight *she a stick so she need a bit of weight* and they use condoms but only 60% of the time. He's 18 and shes 17 ive tried to explain to him that she wont become fat and if she did he ...
A. 3 August 2007: dont say anything. youve said all you need to say and youve been loyal to your friend, but hes thrown it back in your face. if he screws up his life its his fault not yours. just keep to yourself and let him learn his lesson, even if it is a harsh ... (read in full...)
Me and my mum don't get along. What can I do to repair this?
Q. Well me and my mum are not close. I mean like I don't want to tell her anything. I can never tell her anything and I am starting to hate my mum. She doesn't know what to do cause I lock myself in my room and don't talk to anyone. All I want to do is ...
A. 3 August 2007: 1. DONT EVER SAY YOU HATE YOUR MUM!
you probably caused her enough pain when you were born, so be grateful she had you and brought you into this world.
me and my mum fight but i have never once said i hate her so take my advice:
it is your ... (read in full...)
Ex has emailed and now all the old feelings are back! What do I do?
Q. I really need people's opinions on this, so please help if you can..... i went out for 4 months last year with this guy lets call him A. I was head over heels in love with him, even though we didnt have the greatest relationship, anyway i lost my ...
A. 3 August 2007: heres whats probably going through his head. he broke your heart for another girl, but u must have seemed pretty easy to lose your virginity to him. so now hes broken up with his "ex" and he wants you back. he probably did the same with his ex. he ... (read in full...)
Can somebody please tell me what she might be thinking?
Q. Hi, it's just me. I'm still feeling fairly possitive today, despite the fact that I dreamt that me and my ex were getting back together last night. I woke up thinking: Right, a step forward.. What can I do to sort this o.... Oh, it was just a ...
A. 3 August 2007: from my point of view (and its a good point of view) you want more from her than she is able to give. she has to be able to worry about stuff other than you (all girls do). it seemed like she didnt want to forget you, she just doesnt want to cause ... (read in full...)
Am I still in love with my ex? Do I love my classmate?
Q. Ermm.. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4months a few weeks ago. Now, he's with one of my close friends. I really support them, and wish them the best. I thought I could get over him and I thought I did. I guess I was wrong. Whenever he talks to me ...
A. 3 August 2007: well, you seem pretty young so I'd just wait. You've got a lot ahead of you so just be patiant. If a guy asks you out just say "yes" or "no". simple. i wouldnt worry about boys when there's better stuff to do when your young. (i would know). So just ... (read in full...)
Really like this guy, but I lack confidence. What can I do?
Q. Hi there, bit of a juvanile question but here goes. Im 32 years of age and there is a guy I like he works in my building (large building) and I notice him on regular occasions in the canteen or in the lift etc, I have never spoke to this guy and ...
A. 3 August 2007: You could try talking to a work friend about him. im sure if you have friends at work they'd be more than willing to help you out. also if there are drama classes or anything like that around your area for people your age group you could try them ... (read in full...)
Where is a good place to meet viable men?
Q. Where do you meet people to date? I don't know where to meet worthwhile guys. I go out to the bar but all that those guys seem to be interested is sex, I don't go to school anymore and I work in a small office where there are no guys my age. I don't ...
A. 31 July 2007: just a suggestion: try bulletin boards, newspaper, social places and look for some activities to do in your spare time. and dont worry about it. when the time is right you'll know you've found the right guy. good luck hope this helped. XxXxX... (read in full...)
Why does she call me bad names all the time, or why do I get the feeling that she doesn't want to see me happy?
Q. I want to know why my mom is so against me? the reason I ask is because she only has two kids but, your mom is supposed to be there for you when no one is. But in my case my mom never helps me, she always talks bad about me, if I need help with ...
A. 31 July 2007: lol i know how you feel. i dont know much but if you want to know why shes doing this i'll tell you what happened 2 me and u decide for urself.
when my mum was a kid she was the youngest and my gran (she had 6 kids) always favouritised my uncle... (read in full...)
We've been dating 7 years, but I still have trouble completely trusting him
Q. Hi. Ive been with my guy for nearly 7 years now, and i read on here a few days back (a response to someone elses problem) that if were still dating, dump him, as he doesnt want comitment. Me and my guy are still dating, we would get married but i th...
A. 31 July 2007: just leave him . he may not cheat now but if you stay with him it seems like he could end up cheating in the long run. sorry im not 100% sure on this one but good luck
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I have been sleeping around, but wonder if this will turn off the guy I really like
Q. Hi. I'm 16 years old and I have slept with 5 people.. All being within the past 3 months. 3 of which were on holiday, so they don't matter to me. However, 2 were in England, one being one of my good friends (we've discussed it and have decided to ...
A. 31 July 2007: well i would call u a slut but the truth is you're not doing anything worng so im gonna take your side here. the 3 guys on holiday dnt matter any1 would do that. ditch the older guys coz hes a waste of time nd probably an ass. the guy u like dont ... (read in full...)
He keeps changing his mind about our relationship
Q. should i finish with my boyfriend as he never wants to spend time with my children and always changes his mind about our relationship? one minute he tells me we should move in together, and the next that he needs time to get his head around the ...
A. 31 July 2007: leave him. if he cant accept that you have kids hes not worth it. if you stay together and it does work out then it could end up affecting your relationbship with your kids. hope this helped.
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The love of my life went out of town and I had sex with his best mate!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 month...he's the love of my life, and I want to spend my life with him. We've talked about Marriage, and moving in together. Eric is the best friend anyone could ever have, and its not in his character to ever-EVE...
A. 31 July 2007: well at least you know what you did was wrong. i think you and brian should just put this all behind you and if you cant then maybe you're just goin to have to tell eric and deal with the cosequences. if you do decide to tell eric, talk it over with ... (read in full...)
I am cheating on my boyfriend with his friend
Q. Ok, I have been with my current boyfriend for 6 years. We have twins together who are 18 months old and we are not married because I know that we are not right for each other we have had so many problems and he has been in jail like 5 times since ...
A. 31 July 2007: this is so wrong. if i were you i'd take the kids somewhre far away and just start over fresh, otherwise you and several other people are gonna suffer. sorry i couldnt be more help. XxX... (read in full...)
I emailed him a song to tell him I fancied him. Now he's put it up publicly! What does this mean?
Q. I sent this guy im intrested in a song online and made it very clear that I'm crushing on him. I was unaware the song would go public (on his page where all his friends can view it)......hes been online and has seen the song and i sent a message ...
A. 31 July 2007: boys are weird. he either put it there to humiliate you or put it there because he is unsure of whether or not he likes you. the next time you get a chance just ask him why he did it. if he's not gonna give you the chance then just try and avoid ... (read in full...)
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