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17 July 2009: I'm 15 getting ready to be 16 and i have a bit of a issue. I have a bunch of guys wanting to date me. My choice is hard to make because in some way i love them all dearly. So help me please? Austin- Hes a ex, he broke up with me because he did...
He wants me to give him a blowjob at church!
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13 May 2009: ok i feel so stupid for doing this.. im only 14, hes 16. but i need some more help. Like i said about my bf wanting sex i told him no lets wait, and i plan on keeping it that way. he said ok. well my parents dont want me to date, so i have to see h...
I'm 14..should I have sex with him?
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12 May 2009: Umm ok, lets try this one... My boyfriends has problems i mean thats very clear... just all those other things i asked are kinda stupid..but he wants to have sex. but i dont think i am ready. what should i do? Also he keeps talking about having a ...
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She feels strongly about me but loves her boyfriend.. it's tearing me apart!
Q. i am in love with a woman that has a boyfriend of over a year now, we have been seeing each other for several months now and been intimate. she says she loves her boyfriend but he doesn't love her. she insists on remaining with him. she says she ...
A. 3 August 2009: oh.. i've been in this spot before.
All you can do is make her choose.
if she doesnt pick you.
it sucks.
but life goes on.... (read in full...)
What could these tiny bumps on his "area" be?
Q. My boyfriend has little tiny bumps around his penis area that do not itch and are not red. He does shave once in a while. Most of the time he trims though. What could these be?...
A. 3 August 2009: i would say after he shaves. because they stay there for awhile. i wouldn't worry about it.... (read in full...)
This guy likes me, I have not dated, how will I know if I like him?
Q. i know this guy who likes me, but i'm not sure if i like him the same way or not yet, as i have never had any experience with dating as i have always focused on school and spending time with my family. how will i know if i feel the same way about ...
A. 21 July 2009: Ask him?... (read in full...)
Why do people judge other people because of their size?
Q. i know this isnt relationship... but what exactly is wrong with 'fat' people? people slag them off, call them names, pick on them, bully them, talk about them! i dont get what the difference between a fat person and a thin person is? is it not the ...
A. 21 July 2009: Its because they have nothing better to do.
My best friend is a guy and i asked him about this.
He simple said because there "ew"
Im like no some of them are amazing people. Just like me and you.
Hes like "no, they are huge and sex would b... (read in full...)
Am I pregnant... or just paranoid?
Q. Heyaa (: im 13 yearss old (14 in august). I was at a kind of party thing which was my best mates.. there was a lot of alcohol and a lot of people got pissed. When it came to night time, the people that stayed the night slept in tents (this includes...
A. 20 July 2009: Take a test and find out!... (read in full...)
Which position would be good for first time sex?
Q. well i am about to have sex for the first time with my gf (yes i have a condom) and i was wondering was position would be good for the first time...my friend told me like cowgirl (woman on top) but ya......
A. 19 July 2009: boy on top the girl.... (read in full...)
What do I do about this crazy Myspace situation?
Q. I am 33, married with one child but I look really young for my age. Most people thought I am a college student. I met this guy at work who is 22 and has a maybe 3-4 year relationship girlfriend. He and I look about the same age. He is cute and looks ...
A. 19 July 2009: Try telling him how you feel.... (read in full...)
What am I to think when my ex talks to me almost every day, does he want me back?
Q. i have been going out with this boy for two months we have known each other now for more then 6 months. anyway he was lovely at the beginning arent they all? i was careful so i played a bit hard to get. its been a while since we broke up. over msn ...
A. 19 July 2009: Try just comming out and talking to him about it.... (read in full...)
Hard to let him go, what should I do?
Q. I meet this guy and we have been knowing each other for one month and something days. And I read some advice about someone elses question and she was going to end it. I gained feelings for him and then lost them later on, cause I felt used. now I ...
A. 19 July 2009: i know. its hard to let go. but you have to do it trust me. one day he will look back and be like crap i wish i didnt let her go. guys come and go. just do what he is doing to you. that sure will kill him in the inside!... (read in full...)
Pregnancy gone wrong? I've been trying for a baby....
Q. Ok i'm 21 and trying for a baby. But I hope dates don't confuse you. My last menstruation was june 8, 2009. I was expected to have my next period july 7. But I had unprotected sex july 2, july 5, july 7, (i'm trying the every other day thing) I ...
A. 19 July 2009: You can still have your period and be pregnant!... (read in full...)
Is it possible for ex's to see each other again?
Q. Is it possible for ex's to see eachother again? My ex boyfriend has suddenly started speaking to me regularly after nearly 2 years since we were in a relationship and he's very flirtatious and keeps trying to arrange for us to meet out and go on a ...
A. 18 July 2009: I think ex's can date again.
But this time you know what to look out for.
... (read in full...)
I have been stealing cigs and smoking at night because it makes me feel better
Q. hello, well i am 13 years old and lately ALOT ALOT of people have been walking out of my life and been treating me like worthless peice of trash. im very depressed i try to act happy when i am by my sister or mom, but lately i have been stealing ...
A. 18 July 2009: hi,
i'm 14 almost 15.
and i used to smoke. but i didnt steal them my aunt gave them to me.
i was depressed like you.
but when i smoked after a while it made my lungs hurt and hard to breath.
and in gym i though i was gonna die because i was ou... (read in full...)
Should I tell anyone she was raped? Or just stay silent?
Q. My friend told me yesterday that she had been raped two weeks ago, i was in complete shock and didnt really know what to say, i promised her i wouldnt say anything to anyone, but she says she crys her self to sleep every night since then, in worry ...
A. 18 July 2009: This is a hard one...
You could tell itll be the right thing to do. but it could ruin yalls friendship. but she will get over it. and like it when she dont have to cry herself to help everynight.... (read in full...)
Cheated on me with her cousin and dumped me!
Q. Im not kidding you, I was with a girl for 8 months and I truly loved her but, she ended up cheating on me with her cousin, I fell into sadness and depression and felt as if I would never find anyone. One of the reasons she dumped me was because I am ...
A. 17 July 2009: Well move one. Sounds like she never loved you to begin with! dont worry you'll find someone out there better!... (read in full...)
I'm 22. She's 14 and has a crush on me. Is it legal?
Q. Hi, a girl had a crush on me and she would like to have a relationship. She's only 14 y.o. while I'm 22. I never had sex before and she's attracted to me. Would it be legal with her? Thx...
A. 17 July 2009: It is Illegal. But you can date her IF your parents tell you that you can. and you hear it for yourself. just cant do anything sexual with her!... (read in full...)
How do I find a decent guy who doesn't just want sex?
Q. My exboyfriend and I broke up like 3 years ago. But I havent have any other serious relation ever since. I just feel that I dont trust guys. Every guy that I meet they just want to be friends with benefits. How can I find a good decent guy who is ...
A. 16 July 2009: Go to church?... (read in full...)
Should I go out with him?
Q. Hi! so i'm 15 and i like this guy who's 17. He's a really good friend and we've flirted over texts. He's funny and sweet but i don't know if he'll ever ask me out. If he does, should i go out with him? One of my friends has told me he was kind of a ...
A. 15 July 2009: Uhmm...
give it a chance if YOU really like him.
but if he ever pushes you to so something dont to it. ... (read in full...)
I need closure, should I write him a letter?
Q. I wrote a post on here yesterday about my boyfriend cheating on me. I'm still extremely hurt by this as it is all new and fresh. He won't take my phone calls because he is so incredibly angry that I ended things with him. I guess he expected ...
A. 15 July 2009: Don't.
I understand.
BUT DONT.
Leave the guy alone.
he will call you the crazy ex.
Just leave him alone and walk away.
Its for the best.... (read in full...)
Some questions regarding sex.
Q. i have two questions, one is when i have sex with my boyfriend he doesn't like it when i moan its weird because i thought that turned men on even more. and my second question is can you get pregnant while your on your period ...
A. 15 July 2009: First question... Wow. He's just different. Second question... Yes there is still a chance of getting pregnant. Always use a condom!... (read in full...)
Chatting online with his ex....Do you think that's ok?
Q. Do you think it is okay for your fiance to be chatting to an ex on msn??Don't know what they were chatting about but he tells me they don't talk anymore?? ...
A. 14 July 2009: Well maybe you could check and see if he "saved the message or maybe it saved and he didnt know"? well check that out.
And maybe they are just friends.
Just keep a eye on it.... (read in full...)
I don't like anal sex and my boyfriend is being an ass about it
Q. i have a problem with my boyfriend, he stated that i don't agree we have anal sex then this proves i don't love him that much ,,, but i tried it and i hate it hurts alot and i don't get it it's not like we can't have sex other wise , now i don't ...
A. 12 July 2009: Tell him straight up "I don't like anal and i won't do it, sorry but it's what i wan't to. Not just you."... (read in full...)
Should I still worry if I'm pregnant?
Q. We almost did it last June 1, the tip of his penis sort of entered the tip of my vagina, the upper tip part. I got my period on that month, it wasn't late or whatsoever. But i can't help but worry. I need help, advice. Should i still worry? I'm ...
A. 12 July 2009: I wouldn't worry.
Just as long as he didn't cum in you.
You should be fine.... (read in full...)
Protective and jealous but doesn't want to be with me
Q. okay so lately my ex boyfriend has been acting really protective and jealous but he says he doesn't want to be with me.....i don't understand...how can he be over me but get so mad every time i do so much as talk to another guy???...
A. 12 July 2009: he does still have feelings for you XD... (read in full...)
Says he made a mistake, wants me back but I'm not sure of his reasons
Q. Me and My live in boyfriend of 3yrs split up in October of last year. He was the one to end the relationship. We've kept in touch by txt eachother. He tells me that he made a big mistake and wants me back. That he still very much in love with me. ...
A. 11 July 2009: Give it a chance.
People make mistakes.
It'll be ok.
If not, Then you could always say it isn't working out.
So try it!... (read in full...)
Partner has become extremely jealous
Q. i've been with my partner for nearly 3 years. things are pretty great at first but after some time, he's jealousy starts kicking in. he became paranoid, and cannot stand if i was even talking to a guy in uni. he can't stand if i have male partners ...
A. 11 July 2009: Tell him, If you don't trust me then it's your own problem. Because i am going with my friends out. And you can get over it.
If you truly trust you, or cared.
He would let you do things.
My EX Did the same thing to the point he would take ... (read in full...)
What are people's views on dating a third cousin?
Q. hi, i recently got back in touch with my third cousin. we're both 19 and related through blood. every year when i was born i would spend a week up north with my cousin and we grew up together really close.we used to kiss under his duvet when we ...
A. 11 July 2009: I say go for it, you love who you love.... (read in full...)
He said "I guess I could call you every day but I really don't want to!"
Q. I can't believe my boyfriend just told me that he is 'JUST NOT THAT KIND OF PERSON WHO WOULD CALL HIS GIRLFRIEND EVERY DAY!' He would felt like he is reporting to me if he has to, it's not necessary and why would he? After a while, a big discussion. ...
A. 11 July 2009: Yes, it seems like he has better things to do.
Hes making you less important.... (read in full...)
He is cheating on my friend and I don't know what to do!
Q. ok... well me and my bf broke up... after a year on and off. and i am happy about it. i pretty much moved on at this point. because we broke up because he loved another girl...(she lives states away) they been dating for about 5 years etc.. ...
A. 22 June 2009: yeah well see... she knows he as a gf. and she doesnt care. i know hes gonna try and use her for sex. thats what i mean. he is a dirty lier. and she wont believe anyone.... (read in full...)
He said choose me or your best friend! I can't bare losing either of them
Q. hi. ive just turned 16 last week and ive been giong out with my boyfriend for over 6 months now i love him so much. he means so much to me but now hes been arguing with my best friend and he says he wants nothing more to do with her and he said ...
A. 17 June 2009: say no that i love you both. and if you really loved me you wouldnt make me pick. ....... because that is wrong that he is making you do that. my bf "EX now" did the same thing he finally got over it though. he found out that he cant make he choose.... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant but my ex says I must have an abortion!
Q. I am pregnant and my ex boyfriend wants me to get an abortion. He is very stern about the idea and says that i am ruining his life and i am ruining his family goals. i am 19, he is 25. We split up about 5 months ago and then tried working things ...
A. 17 June 2009: no you dont... if you wanna keep it. then keep it. it takes BOTH parents to sign the papers to kill the baby.... (read in full...)
Mom at 12! Pregnant again at 13!
Q. ok so i was 12 when i got pregnant with my first set of twins and now im 13 and my boyfriend the father of my last set of twins got me pregnant again and its twins again they will only be 11 months apart and im only 13. What am i supposed to do? I ...
A. 16 June 2009: wow what the heck!!!!! stop it. im sorry but you are wayy to young for kids. i suggest stop. and grow up some. and does your bf know he can go to jail!? ... (read in full...)
How can I change my parent's minds?
Q. Okay well my bf and i have been dating for a months or so now and he wants to go out to the movies this weekend problem is my parents won't let me. I'm 15 and I'm really responsible. I know the obvious reasons why they don't want me to go out with ...
A. 23 May 2009: i am going threw the same thing! message if you wanna talk.... (read in full...)
Fine line between love and hate?
Q. right, there a girl at my schols says she dont like me, and i'm okay with that dont like her either, although she is fit, we've spoke now and again, anyway she's aways telling people that she dont like me, Why's she always talking about me if she ...
A. 21 May 2009: she likes you... but is scared to tell you..... (read in full...)
Help!!! Torn between the two...
Q. Dear Cupid, I been dating this boy for 5 months and the relationship is boring. He acts different around his friends and at school he acts like he doesnt see me. For the past week this other boy came along and he is always there. He likes me and I...
A. 17 May 2009: go with the new guy. whats the point of dating a guy you really dont like. so break up with him in a good way. and start to date the other guy.... (read in full...)
I'm not allowed to hang about with her any more...
Q. My good friend just started dating someone who is not that great of a guy. He smokes, he does drugs, has sex and is only 15. My mom told me that if he is hanging out with her I'm not allowed to hang out with her but I want to, she's my friend....
A. 17 May 2009: umm... hangout with her. just dont do bad things.... (read in full...)
What can I do to make her find me more interesting?
Q. i really like a girl that i met on myspace so i recently invited her to my house and she came over. we talked and i think she kinda likes me but im not sure. what can i do to make her like me and what can i do to make her find me interesting?...
A. 15 May 2009: umm... find things yall have in common and talk about it. and just ask her questions to get to know yall better.... (read in full...)
I'm scared he might get me pregnant!
Q. See i wanna have sex with him... BUT he scared me the other night when he said...."hunny if we get into the mood i may forget to wear a condom and then what?" and i was like uh no you better not. and he said " well if i do, then we will have us a ...
A. 15 May 2009: ok yeah im young like duhh.
but i know i am ready is aall... (read in full...)
My girl wants to use a strap-on, on me
Q. My girl friend asked me if i would let her use a strap-on on me.i told her i would have to think about it and i just dont know what to tell her now.i dont know if that would make me gay...
A. 15 May 2009: ok. i may be really young but i live with my bf. and ive asked him to use one before. its not because of what you think. she just wants to try new things :) dont worry.... (read in full...)
Fat joke that wasnt funny!
Q. my boyfriend I have been dating for 3 months told me he doesnt want me to lose weight as other men might fancy me, after seeing my hurt reaction he laughed it off saying he was joking but at the time did not seem that way...
A. 15 May 2009: my boyfriend has done that to me too... you wanna good come back next time he eats in front of you.. sayy... "you really shouldnt be eating that looks like you as well could lose a few pounds". it worked for me, he stfu. so you should try it.... (read in full...)
Torn between THREE boyfriends at the moment!
Q. Here is what happened: I'm originally from France but study in the UK. My boyfriend (alex, not real name) of four years is still back in France and we managed to keep that long distance thing going for almost 1.5 years now. Last time I visited him ...
A. 14 May 2009: well i do care and know a lot. my parents dont want me ive been on my own. and i know what kind of men to pick. even though i get the crazy ones. LOL. but i was just saying i always would go the ones i love the most, no matter if they are poor. i ... (read in full...)
Torn between THREE boyfriends at the moment!
Q. Here is what happened: I'm originally from France but study in the UK. My boyfriend (alex, not real name) of four years is still back in France and we managed to keep that long distance thing going for almost 1.5 years now. Last time I visited him ...
A. 14 May 2009: its simple.. who do you love the most? and go with that.... (read in full...)
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