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RIP Beloved George Michael

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27 December 2016: We lost George Michael just a day ago. He has sung me to sleep, awaken me in the morning, and told me a story as I looked out into the rain. My heart just sank when I heard the news, and I just didn't want to believe we've lost yet another one. It's ...

How do I give up someone I know is the one?

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13 June 2016: First off, true love endures. It can withstand challenges, mishaps, and crisis. The important thing is, the one you believe to be the one, has to feel the same as you do; and be willing to struggle to keep it together as much as you want to. See,...

May We All Find Peace And Love This Holiday Season

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20 December 2015: I wish to offer my most sincere wish of good tidings, good cheer, and peace in a troubled world. If we all watch the news and read social media; we would think the world has gone mad. The mass killings of innocent people. The plight of people who ...

WISHING ALL THE AUNTS AND UNCLES A VERY HAPPY HOLIDAY!

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25 December 2014: It has been a most enjoyable year being on Dear Cupid, and reading all of your wonder articles and advice. I am very inspired by the powerful advice given by all of you, and I am proud to be amongst such intelligent and thoughtful people. I ap...

Whoa! I'm on intimate terms with my Postman!

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7 September 2014: I was sitting down to dinner with the great guy I'm currently dating. Just casually discussing current events. One topic that arose, was the issues of privacy; and the recent scandals about hackers hacking into the mysterious "Cloud" storing the ...

This Is For The Broken-Hearted on Valentine's Day

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14 February 2014: Hello,readers! Here it is again! The day you see those gigantic red symbols called valentines; which are supposed to be hearts. They don't even look like a heart. Well, if they stick a knife through it, tear a hole, then fray the edges, it will b...

How To Get Through The Holidays After A Breakup

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21 December 2013: It is approaching the Holidays and the New Year, and many of us ended relationships in the year 2013. Some of you have been single following a breakup for a lot longer; but you start to reminisce about the good old times, when you were all cozy with ...

Guide for adult dating

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2 November 2013: Ladies and gentlemen of the adult-dating world, may I have your undivided attention? We're now in the 21st century; and you need some pointers that might minimize your frustrations; and keep you sane while trying to find a date, a partner, or sp...

When will I finally get over the breakup?

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24 August 2013: So, you have been recently dumped. You had to dump someone else. Maybe you're still in the "no contact" phase after the breakup. Months or years have passed. There is still an ache in your heart for that person. Sometimes it overtakes you ...

Your Ex Is Sending Mixed Signals

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29 July 2013: Many of us may be in recovery from a recent breakup, or you are several weeks into the no-contact period. You broke up months or years ago. There is this dull pain in the pit of your heart. You're going about your life. You relapse and cry ...

How Does The Dumper Feel After Dumping You?

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17 July 2013: I was dumped three months ago, not really on bad terms; I just didn't see it coming. I frequently see questions from those dumped; pleading for a way to help the pain to stop. They need comfort and a shoulder to cry on. They feel wretched and ...

I got dumped and I know how to survive a breakup and didn't know I could

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10 July 2013: Well, as the story goes; people all over the world in different languages, know how it feels to get dumped. Generally it stinks. In my case; there was a lot of fun. No real arguments, and being two very mature people; we are well-schooled, a...

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I still feel embarrassed 8 months later.

Q.   I expressed interest in guy that I was interested in 8 months ago but he turned me down. I felt disappointed but brushed it off and acted like it was no big deal. However, the long term effect was embarrassment. I thought he was interested in me...

A.   17 January 2017: Sure it will, once you forgive yourself. It was a blow to your ego; and you took the rejection far too personally. People tie their level of attractiveness to the responses they get from other people they feel sexually and/or emotionally-attracted ... (read in full...)

He says my body is his.

Q.   My partner of 3 yrs and i have a beautiful little girl who is 1. Lately my partner has been trying touching me and trying to penetrate me whilst we are playing with our daughter which i have put a stop to. He has started sayimg he can touch me ...

A.   17 January 2017: That's raising red-flags! Most inappropriate and unacceptable. Your body is yours, and to be given only when you wish to give it. That vibe raises far too much to speculation; and you were right to end it. Forced-penetration is rape, without... (read in full...)

I fear he doesn’t like what I consider to be my best trait.

Q.   Well, this is a minor problem compared to most of the problems on here. I would never leave my boyfriend over this, but it is rather an annoying thing is that I think he really doesn’t like my eyes…let me explain. Maybe I am bothered because...

A.   17 January 2017: If you have your own perceptions and choices of certain beauty-traits to be admired; you can't expect others to always admire them in same way, or to the same degree. He's with you, he has chosen you, and he probably admires other features... (read in full...)

Am I assuming too much? Should just leave now, as he resembles some qualities of my ex?

Q.   Modnote: Two very similar posts started off the same and were from the same poster. The two have been combined herein. without repeating the identical start . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . So I have been going out with this guy for...

A.   17 January 2017: First and foremost, sweetheart, get-over your ex. He's no standard to set your future or potential mates by. My ex wasn't this and my ex wasn't that; my ex did this, and my ex did that. That's why he's your ex, and should be deleted from memory. Let ... (read in full...)

Can two cheaters make a relationship work?

Q.   I was in a serious relationship with a guy (it was long distance where we had to fly an hour to see each other). Then one day, I find out he had been texting this other girl 10 hours a day, and they were seeing each other for 3 hours a day for ...

A.   17 January 2017: I'm not sure why you're wasting so much brain-activity over your ex? You haven't let go. You're way too busy doing follow-ups on all his relationships; and that takes quite a bit of time and effort. You're torturing yourself. Are you writing ... (read in full...)

I text my bf on an alias phone pretending to be an admirer. And he fell for it.

Q.   After forgiving my cheating bf who got me and another woman pregnant 5 yrs ago, i forgave him and we are now back together for the past year. i put up with him going to spend time with his son at the other woman's house of which sometime he sleeps ...

A.   17 January 2017: Sweetheart, please bury Rosy; decide if you want to keep your man, or go. This is all unhealthy and not going anywhere good. The trick was no better than the butt of the joke. Time to think of your child, get a real life, and dump the guy if you ... (read in full...)

What can do, I am still learning how to negotiate conflict in a relatonship.

Q.   My relationship recently ended with my girlfriend of nearly a year. There was a falling out at my uncle's wedding where my girlfriend was heavily intoxicated and left the dinner table to vent to a bartender about things she did not like about my ...

A.   15 January 2017: Although your parents have a right to be offended, and deserve an in-person face-to-face apology; they don't get to decide who you date. You're a grown man, and should make those decisions on your own. I'm curious as to how you've overlook... (read in full...)

I text my bf on an alias phone pretending to be an admirer. And he fell for it.

Q.   After forgiving my cheating bf who got me and another woman pregnant 5 yrs ago, i forgave him and we are now back together for the past year. i put up with him going to spend time with his son at the other woman's house of which sometime he sleeps ...

A.   14 January 2017: If you look for trouble you'll find it. You played on a weakness, and you've opened a can of worms. You used deception to create a trap, but who really got snared? Rosy doesn't exist, so he was simply bated into your mean little trap. I think yo... (read in full...)

Should I try to win back my friend after criticising her uncle?

Q.   My best friend's uncle is making me feel uncomfortable. He is an older unemployed man who might be in his late 30s. Everytime I go to my friend's house he calls me names like "my baby, sweetie" which he normally does not use with any of the females ...

A.   13 January 2017: I agree with your boyfriend to some extent. It doesn't necessarily mean she is not a true friend; because she may be totally embarrassed. Family comes first. She may be protecting you both from each other. She has a right to defend her uncle; a... (read in full...)

Boyfriend of 5 months constantly mentions how good looking he is

Q.   Dear Cupid, I (25 years old) have recently started going out with a 26 year old guy. He is a gentleman, treats me well, but I've noticed one red flag (or at least, I think it is a red flag) about him. He constantly mentions how good looking he ...

A.   13 January 2017: He's young, immature, and conceited. He has gotten a lot of attention and it has gone to his head. Insecure? No, he's too narcissistic for that. In fact, it's quite common-place these days. He's a victim of the media. He's been spoiled by all t... (read in full...)

Could it be her using fake profiles?

Q.   I would like your opinions about what has happened four times in the last four months, i have been on a dating site for few years now, I've had two girlfriends,so the one ghost me a year ago, I've ask a few women friends of mine about this, well I ...

A.   13 January 2017: Find a new dating site. You seem a little paranoid. What did you do to that woman? It couldn't be karma? Just find a new dating site; and your troubles will be over. She'll still find you on Facebook; but she has to show some sort of identific... (read in full...)

I want the words to tell him I don't want to just sleep him, I want a relationship

Q.   Hey! So I've been dating this guy for around 2 months. He lives in Harrogate and I live in Manchester. We both drive and can see each other all the time. But he has just got out of a relationship literally a month before we started dating, he has b...

A.   13 January 2017: Regardless of gender, people just coming out of a breakup are not good candidates for new long-term commitments. They are undergoing emotional and psychological changes that prevent them from being in the proper state of mind to take on yet a new ... (read in full...)

Is this the old him again

Q.   I broke up with my husband two months ago we spent a month apart. We split as he had issue with favoritism towards his kids and a dislike of my eldest girl and my father. He also tried to control me. Generally his attitude stunk towards my kids and ...

A.   12 January 2017: What solution do you have short of divorce? You seem quite distressed and I'm not sure why this man is your husband if he doesn't like your children? There is no magic spell or potion anyone can offer you to resolve such a rooted issue. You marr... (read in full...)

Am I wrong? Is she being unreasonable? Would be unprofessional to tell her what transpired, when I was asked not to by my management?

Q.   I was called into a meeting today at work to discuss something, which wasn't a HUGE deal but which was asked to be kept confidential until he other people involved had been informed. My friend at work asked me what the meeting was about and I sa...

A.   12 January 2017: Confidentiality means you keep what you've discussed to yourself. If your friend would expect you to risk your job when you've been informed by management not to disclose information; you can't trust that friend to protect your privacy either. ... (read in full...)

How can I get rid of our anxieties and start to date?

Q.   I really like this guy I met online. We have spoken a lot and he's asked to meet me. I am extremely shy and it (has) taken me a while to get comfortable with meeting new people. Sometimes it stops me meeting people because I get so worried about ...

A.   12 January 2017: You should meet in a public place for your own safety. If he has social anxiety, maybe he's not emotionally-equipped for online-dating. If he admits to women he meets online he has a social anxiety disorder; I think you might want to take that as ... (read in full...)

Should I be concerned ? He came home from his class, wearing cologne

Q.   My boyfriend is a self defense instructor at our gym. He teaches an hour class one evening each week voluntarily. I noticed this evening that he came home from his class, wearing cologne. This is the first time that I have ever noticed him wea...

A.   12 January 2017: Did he get the cologne for Christmas? It's the first time you noticed, but are you sure it's the first time he's worn it? Could it be you've never really noticed, period? I think you need more substantial evidence to decide that he's up to ... (read in full...)

How can I stop him bringing up my ex'?

Q.   My boyfriend constantly keeps on about my past. I'm 4 years older than him and had a long-term relationship with someone else before we met. He's only ever really had flings and more casual relationships before me. We've been together 4 years but ...

A.   11 January 2017: Okay, everyone has jumped on boyfriend; now lets look at this from a different angle. I sense a lot of insecurity here. He's feeling inadequate for some reason; but he's too stupid to communicate exactly what's going on in his head. I suspe... (read in full...)

He has lied and I don't know why

Q.   My boyfriend has lied to me about how serious an ex relationship was but I don't know why. He said he and the girl were just friends and they flirted a bit but that was it however while over at his house a few days ago I found an old valentines c...

A.   11 January 2017: You said an old Valentines card? How old? Before you met? How can you tell how much anyone likes anyone else; when you don't seem to know how much your boyfriend loves you? You are spending too much time snooping around and concentrating on... (read in full...)

We are five hours apart. Could it be worth it?

Q.   How do i know if it's worth the pain? Me and this guy met online, we live about 4 or 5 hours away from each other, he's just coming up to very big exams... We both really, really, like each other... infact, i think im falling for him, hard and fast...

A.   11 January 2017: Considering how young you are; I doubt your parents are going to like the fact you would consider traveling five hours to see some boy you've met online. In fact, I doubt they even know about him. You should be asking their opinion, not ours. ... (read in full...)

My sisters deserve better. What can I do?

Q.   Hello all, im in a very strange situation.. I hate the husbands of my sisters. I regret they didn't marry other people. My sisters are both beautiful and good people. My first sister's husband might not be a very bad guy but he embarrasses her in ...

A.   11 January 2017: Unfortunately, it's not for you to decide. Everyone has a quirk, or flaw. So no matter who they marry; you'll find some kind of fault you may not like. You don't have to like either of them. They're not married to you, and you have the option to ... (read in full...)

She flirts with me at work but flat out rejected an invitation out. What now?

Q.   I have liked a woman at work a lot and I was sure she felt the same, we are both bi-sexual. We've been flirting loads but I know she's not had a partner or sex in 14 years (she told me)and does seem to have a lot of walls up. However she has ...

A.   11 January 2017: Stop using your job as a dating pool. It causes drama, and people do talk. Gossip about you wouldn't have started if it was all about work. She shouldn't be discussing her sex-life with a co-worker anyway. That's inappropriate, and opening ... (read in full...)

Can a seven year relationship be over because of a lie said 6 years ago? Am I completely in the wrong here ?

Q.   My Partner [30 F] of 7 years broke up with me [32 M]for lying. She found out I met my son (1year old at the time) when I was abroad 6 years ago. Myself and my partner had just broken up at the time so I was single when abroad. I never told her I...

A.   11 January 2017: Well, if she's out of the picture, you can devote more time to your son; and make up for lost time. Personally, I don't really see any justification for the lying. Then, it is illogical why you wrote this post if she is abusive; and so angry ab... (read in full...)

Why would a man persist with a LDR if he was not attracted to the woman? Why even tell the woman he "loves" her?

Q.   Would a man have a long distance relationship with a woman who he wasn't attracted to and even tell her he loves her? Why would he want to do that if he later admits he is not attracted to the woman? Is it loneliness ? Is this a common thing ...

A.   10 January 2017: That's what we call friendship. It means you've been placed in the friend-zone, you're a chat-buddy; and/or you're his back-up plan, when he has no other female companionship. If you're meeting men online, you've got to be tough, smart, and disc... (read in full...)

Can a seven year relationship be over because of a lie said 6 years ago? Am I completely in the wrong here ?

Q.   My Partner [30 F] of 7 years broke up with me [32 M]for lying. She found out I met my son (1year old at the time) when I was abroad 6 years ago. Myself and my partner had just broken up at the time so I was single when abroad. I never told her I...

A.   10 January 2017: She's brutal, crazy, and selfish. Let her go, and see your son whenever you want and as often as he wants to see you. I see no reason to want someone who hits you, doesn't want you to see your child, and has something against an innocent little b... (read in full...)

I'm not sure if I should hang in there or let it go ...

Q.   Hello everyone, I'm not sure where to begin? I came out of a very bad relationship. I try not to say anything negative about anyone, but imagine the worst things you can do and she pretty much did it. This ended about a year ago. I met...

A.   10 January 2017: Perhaps she is a genuinely nice person, but she seems flaky and unreliable. How long will you both allow your past dead relationships control your present? It may come to just cooling things down to a crawl, and both of you need to take a timeout ... (read in full...)

My abusive ex is dating again. Would it be weird or wrong if I warn his new Gf about him?

Q.   Hello all, Ok here's the short situation I was married have two kids with the guy. He cheated and abused me verbally and physically. We ended up getting a divorce and I'm finally free of him. He is living in another county now. He does n...

A.   10 January 2017: You can go through the legal process to get child-support without having anything to do with him. It is done completely through the legal system; and the money can be deposited to an account for your children. That money is owed the children, and ... (read in full...)

I tried my best and I want him back. But were my words about his ED too confronting? I apologized, but he has big trust issues as well.

Q.   Hello, I met this guy at the airport and he was my passenger then we exchanged the phone numbers. He moved to California for his job and he is 45 years old. I am 30 years old and live in New York. He comes to visit his family here, in New York. ...

A.   10 January 2017: Now comes the "AHA!" moment! You can't like people so much you let them make a complete fool of you, sweetheart. Now it's time to put this obsessive infatuation to rest!... (read in full...)

Don't want this to get out of hand. Should I let this messaging everyday friendship develop?

Q.   Hello everyone. I'm a 19 year old female, looking for some wisdom, perhaps telling me what I instinctively know myself but I just need somebody else's perspective. I've recently gone to university and made a great male friend, and currently...

A.   10 January 2017: Stick to your guns about your criteria and standards for what you consider boyfriend-material. You're very wise for your age; and you have to lookout for yourself. No matter what others may choose to do with their minds and bodies. It's pretty c... (read in full...)

How should I act towards him for the best outcome?

Q.   A while ago I kissed someone from work who I had liked for a while. He told me he had feelings for me and we began texting. -But then later said because his ex works at the same place nothing could happen. And then kissed a different co wor...

A.   9 January 2017: This is why I enforce ethics and conduct rules around the office. People start these little liaisons, and your business is turned into a set for a soap opera; and the next thing you know someone wants to sue for sexual-harassment. You have to ... (read in full...)

My crazy abusive ex got a job where I work.

Q.   I was in a emotionally abusive relationship for years. I finally had the strength to get away. For years, the cycle was that she would do something horrific to me, and then break up with me. We would proceed not to speak for a while until she ...

A.   9 January 2017: No worries! If a co-worker harasses you in anyway, you report it immediately to HR. It helps when you have a co-worker to corroborate incidents that can be construed as intimidation, retaliation, or stalking. The law protects you on the job; and ... (read in full...)

How do I make my boyfriend more comfortable with talking intimately on the phone?

Q.   My boyfriend can't talk intimately over the phone, and when I do it makes him uncomfortable. Everything's great when we're face to face together but we're in a long distance relationship and spend a couple of days each month together. We've been ...

A.   9 January 2017: Women are better at verbalizing their feelings and needs than most guys. If you're really talking about sexting? No, most fellas just feel silly doing it. In your early teens or just for a hoot, it's cool now and then. It helps when there's ... (read in full...)

The sex is frustrating for me, any advice?

Q.   Hello aunties. I've been seeing thisguy for a while and sex is very frustrating for me. Almost nothing he does turns me on and I feel embarrassed because he does take his time with foreplay: kissing, sucking on my nipples ( which are almost numb ...

A.   9 January 2017: Just because you fancy the guy, doesn't mean you're physically-attracted to him, or ready for sex. I think the guy is in your head, but not in your heart. Of course you should followup on the link provided by Ivyblue to checkout any physiological ... (read in full...)

My abusive ex is dating again. Would it be weird or wrong if I warn his new Gf about him?

Q.   Hello all, Ok here's the short situation I was married have two kids with the guy. He cheated and abused me verbally and physically. We ended up getting a divorce and I'm finally free of him. He is living in another county now. He does n...

A.   8 January 2017: You may as well not get involved. Mind your own business. Just be sure he pays his child-support. He could easily convince her that you're just a bitter ex. He has his backup-story and his version of what goes on. She'll write you off as baby-mama ... (read in full...)

What do I do? How can she still want to be with someone who she is not sexually attracted to, nor IN love with?

Q.   Apologies if I ramble but I have some much to get off my chest ?? My Fiancée of nearly 14 years and the mother of my 2 beautiful daughters (11 and 6) had told me she loved me but is not IN love with me several years ago. We have also not had...

A.   8 January 2017: I think you want her more because she has rejected you. Craving the forbidden. Retro-jealousy! It is a blow to your ego to be rejected. Your jealousy and rage over her possible cheating makes you hold-on tighter; because your possessive-nature ... (read in full...)

How can I cope with my husband cheating on me two years ago, with a blood relative? He has cut contact with her, but I'm still trying to cope with his betrayal

Q.   My husband was adopted as an infant. He later found his birth family. Since then he has had sex with his half sister. It is tearing me up inside. I'm still with him, he does not have contact with her now, but I wonder about his heart. T...

A.   8 January 2017: Maybe the problem is you can't forgive him. Not only are you having difficulty dealing with the betrayal, but your sense of moral-values or boundaries have been violated. A half-sister is still a sister. They share a biological-parent! That eats ... (read in full...)

How can I get over this guy? Or at least no longer act like an idiot in front of him?

Q.   Okay I need help with ways of coping when seeing the guy I like. We work together and he's a young doctor and I assist him about once a month. Every time I see him I get extremely nervous to the point where my heart starts to pound so hard, I ...

A.   8 January 2017: Focus on the patient. That's who you're there for. You have to be a professional at all times. The patient is watching you. That sometimes makes them uncomfortable, if not angry, to think they are in the care of what could be misconceived to be an ... (read in full...)

What should I do about my ex-partner and eventually getting him back?

Q.   How do I get my ex boyfriend back?? I was with him for one year but friends for years before that. I have previously been in an abusive relationship(6 years ago) The partner at the time lied and lied to me that he wasn't cheating, to the point...

A.   8 January 2017: I think you need to concentrate more on the therapy and sorting things out. You had a relapse, and you ended that relationship for good. So allow therapy to help you to come to terms with that as well. Your ex doesn't want you back, and to be ... (read in full...)

How long does a relationship 'break' last?

Q.   How long do relationship 'breaks' generally last? My fiancé has suggested two weeks but then said it could be indefinitely, I feel she is messing with my head. ...

A.   8 January 2017: How long does it take for someone to get-up the courage to say they want to breakup with you? I guess it depends on how much courage they have, and why they need a break. Breaks are a cowards way of avoiding an issue they don't have the balls to... (read in full...)

Why was my BF not receptive enough to my naughty Snapchat video?

Q.   I sent my BF a racy Snapchat video. I don't want to say exactly but it was definitely "naughty" and involved private parts. Well, it took him 2 hours to see it and respond. He said... "Mmmmmm. How am I supposed to sleep tonight after seeing t...

A.   8 January 2017: Hey, something like that does come as a surprise; but I think timing is the key! It sounds like he gave you the appropriate response; but do you think he might have felt you might have gone a little further than he might have expected from you? ... (read in full...)

How to get over the embarrassment of rejection?

Q.   I expressed interest in guy that I had my eye on 9 months ago but I was politely rebuffed. I felt embarrassed but brushed it .However,I try to be polite and friendly whenever our path cross but things are extremely awkward between us.I wish things ...

A.   7 January 2017: Yes, but only when you stop holding on to it. Your pride is hurt, and you're punishing yourself with shame for a very human mistake. Let him be standoffish and behave anyway he likes. Stand proud and be yourself at all times. Retain your dignity,... (read in full...)

I tried my best and I want him back. But were my words about his ED too confronting? I apologized, but he has big trust issues as well.

Q.   Hello, I met this guy at the airport and he was my passenger then we exchanged the phone numbers. He moved to California for his job and he is 45 years old. I am 30 years old and live in New York. He comes to visit his family here, in New York. ...

A.   19 December 2016: He sounds pretty flaky, and it seems he has you wrapped around his little finger. The more you tell of this guy, the more he is now coming across as a manipulator. Your original post about this man made it seem as though you struck a sore ner... (read in full...)

I tried my best and I want him back. But were my words about his ED too confronting? I apologized, but he has big trust issues as well.

Q.   Hello, I met this guy at the airport and he was my passenger then we exchanged the phone numbers. He moved to California for his job and he is 45 years old. I am 30 years old and live in New York. He comes to visit his family here, in New York. ...

A.   27 November 2016: It isn't wise to uproot your life under such uncertain conditions. He was being polite; but his feelings may not be as intense as yours, and may never have been in the first place. Women are more likely to follow their hearts than us men. Don't ... (read in full...)

I tried my best and I want him back. But were my words about his ED too confronting? I apologized, but he has big trust issues as well.

Q.   Hello, I met this guy at the airport and he was my passenger then we exchanged the phone numbers. He moved to California for his job and he is 45 years old. I am 30 years old and live in New York. He comes to visit his family here, in New York. ...

A.   23 November 2016: [EDIT] "When are sometimes quick to jump to conclusions when a man looses and/or can't get an erection. Just as you did." Correction: "Women are sometimes quick to jump to conclusions when a man looses and/or can't get an erection. Just a... (read in full...)

I tried my best and I want him back. But were my words about his ED too confronting? I apologized, but he has big trust issues as well.

Q.   Hello, I met this guy at the airport and he was my passenger then we exchanged the phone numbers. He moved to California for his job and he is 45 years old. I am 30 years old and live in New York. He comes to visit his family here, in New York. ...

A.   23 November 2016: Honestly, I think the distance and his bruised-ego are the culprits behind his behavior. He's not really getting over your comment; and I think it is possible his ED is a condition that he has not been treated for. Probably because he hasn't yet ... (read in full...)

Is this the old him again

Q.   I broke up with my husband two months ago we spent a month apart. We split as he had issue with favoritism towards his kids and a dislike of my eldest girl and my father. He also tried to control me. Generally his attitude stunk towards my kids and ...

A.   14 October 2016: The children are choosing sides, based on how you and your husband get along. They see something wrong, and it appears the disagreements about how they are handled are battled right in-front of them. You two disagree with each others ... (read in full...)

Is this the old him again

Q.   I broke up with my husband two months ago we spent a month apart. We split as he had issue with favoritism towards his kids and a dislike of my eldest girl and my father. He also tried to control me. Generally his attitude stunk towards my kids and ...

A.   13 October 2016: There is no mention of how old the children are. I would think they are teenagers and older. Has your husband ever given specific reasons he doesn't like your dad and daughter? It's difficult to give advice without more details about where th... (read in full...)

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