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| | Wise Woman of the FOREST!'s profile:Hello there... I'm Chloe from good old England.
I try to help people with their problems bcause I'm lovly like that... but my advice is like marmite, you either love it or you hate it- I'm sure I'll get over it whatever it is...
Anyway the whole reason i started this thing is cos I have a pretty good life. I admit it has a few ups and downs but I always bounce back, mainly because of my hyperness.
Anyway, I hope I can help you with your problems... because theres nothing worse than frowny faces... :(
KEEP SMILING! :D
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If I overdose on birth control pills will I be safe?
Q. before getting married i have indulged in sex wid some other guy and have takenpills to not get pregnant.so my question is that will i get pregnant after marriage because i have eaten so many pills to not get pregnant before marriage while doing ...
A. 13 August 2009: If you take too many morning after pills, if that is what you're on about... then you could be seriously damaging your chances of giving birth. Sometimes 3 in a lifetime is enough to push it over. However if you're talking about taking the pill ... (read in full...)
I've been having unprotected sex, can I be pregnant?
Q. I've been having protected sex, he rarely penetrates without a condom but never cums inside of me. I have irregular menstrual cycles and havent gotten my period this month Im approximately 7 days late. Should I worry? Can his pre-cum have gotten me ...
A. 16 June 2009: Yus, you could be pregnant. You should always use some form of protection during sex, unless you want a child. You can skip periods though and it means nothing, but I wouldn't rest on that. I would take a pregnancy ASAP, well as soon as you can ... (read in full...)
Is my colleague into me?
Q. Hi, I'm a young woman working in a hospital setting. Last year, a new guy joined the same department. We clicked. He gave me his sandwiches, we once had lunch together. I had a boyfriend, he seemed single. Once I tried to set him up with someone ...
A. 16 June 2009: He likes you... by the sounds of it, A LOT.
You should suggest a movie and ask if he'd like to go with you to see it, just catch up for a while. Then when you feel closer again, why don't you casually say something about you and your boyfriend brea... (read in full...)
MEN please give me your opinion. What does "Seeing" someone really mean???
Q. I finally got the guy I wanted, but I don't know if it's the right nature of relationship I wanted, though the potential is there. We dated about two years back but it was after his ex of two years had dumped him after cheating, so I was sort of...
A. 16 June 2009: I know I'm not a man, but some of my friends explained to me a while back, that the difference between seeing someone and going out is significant. When you're seeing someone, you're with them, kind of testing things out, but you can still see other ... (read in full...)
I slept with my best friend's ex boyfriend, should I tell her or not?
Q. I dont know how to say this... but I dont know if i should tell my best friend about i have slept with her ex boyfriend once even i dont remember that night at all. its not like i have feeling for him... my ass! but... my best friend have a new ...
A. 16 June 2009: Just tell her. If she's happy in a relationship, she shouldn't mind, but if you don't you may feel guilty. Just explain that you don't remember it happening and that if you hadn't have told her, you would've felt it was a burden in your ... (read in full...)
How long should I wait before asking out my friend?
Q. A friend of mine has just split from her boyfriend, he left her, we get on really well with all the flirting etc. i really like her and i think she likes me or atleast she deffiently has at some point as she told me. my question is how long should i ...
A. 14 June 2009: Wait a few weeks, then just come out and say it. During those weeks, show that you really support her and there's no way she'll say no, as long as you don't smother her.... (read in full...)
His friend is getting in the way and almost made us split. Help?
Q. I've been with my first boyfriend for just over 2 months now and we have hit a rocky patch. His last girlfriend dumped bcos of one of his friends that calls him to come out and he has had sex with this person twice in the past even tho she has a ...
A. 14 June 2009: Just let it go.
If he really loves you, he won't cheat on you. The more you let the green eyed beast take over your mind, the more likely he is to cheat. Just be like you were before you started seeing each other. He's going out with YOU not her.... (read in full...)
I would love to go to her party...
Q. Hi guys, I'm sure everyone has been through something like this, so i'm hoping your experience can help me out here :) Okay, so there's this girl who I quite like and she is having a birthday party soon. Quite a few of my friends are invited, b...
A. 13 June 2009: Just say to her, "so I heard you're having a party soon." And offer her help with things, she should invite you.
Don't go through her friends, it just seems weird.... (read in full...)
My ex beat up the guy I made out with... how can I make him stop this?
Q. I'm 15, and my ex is 17. I recently dumped him, like 2 weeks ago, after 5 months. We both agreed that the relationship was coming to a halt and there wasn't any way to save it. And we've both been getting on fine since then, he's my best friend. ...
A. 26 April 2009: You have to make him understand that you're not together and that you are free to do as you please.... (read in full...)
He told me he had feelings for me... to keep his friends off his back!!!
Q. Recently, i got told by the boy i love that he had a feeling for me but i found on friday night that he only said it to keep his friends off his back. I was so upset but yesterday we were both at a little social gathering and he got a bit drunk and ...
A. 26 April 2009: The guy told my friends he had feelings for me and then I got with him, but nothing happened since. We're pretty close still and he's really considerate towards me. It was a bit awkward for the few days after. I was recently told by his friend that ... (read in full...)
I want to ask a guy out but I'm afraid
Q. Okay i really like this guy, his name is Eric and well i like him but i think he likes some one else and well... i want to ask him out and i scared in case he says no and im also scared in case he does like some one else....
A. 26 April 2009: I'm in your situation.
I know I should take my own advise and ask him out, but I want to make sure he likes me. I would get a friend to ask what he thinks of you and if he says he likes you too I would ask him out.
I had that going for me, but I mi... (read in full...)
Is he breaking up with me?
Q. I find out my boyfriend breaking up with me in Aug. when the lease is up I'm not on it. And he said no but found a text in his phone saying 'she's going bye bye' and he says that's a joke. Why wait? Why if he is going to do it then why is he saying ...
A. 26 April 2009: Are you helping to pay the lease?... (read in full...)
My 14 y/o daughter wants to have sex with her b/f
Q. My 14 year old daughter has just told me she wants to have a sexual relationship with her 15year old boyfriend. What should i do?...
A. 26 April 2009: There's nothing you can do. Just tell her to make sure she takes precautions and doesn't do anything she'll regret. If she's set on it, she won't change her mind, so offer her some good advice.... (read in full...)
I was wrong, she won't forgive!
Q. My ex best friend was being really mean and saying that she was sleeping with my boyfriend. So I asked someone for her password and hacked into her Facebook account and messed about with it. I KNOW IT WAS WRONG!! But it was fun at the time I guess. ...
A. 26 April 2009: I agree with Original Iraz.
When my friend started acting like that, I dropped her and found a new friend. Just leave her and her bitchy ways. She'll only do it to you again. Trust me.... (read in full...)
I was wrong, she won't forgive!
Q. My ex best friend was being really mean and saying that she was sleeping with my boyfriend. So I asked someone for her password and hacked into her Facebook account and messed about with it. I KNOW IT WAS WRONG!! But it was fun at the time I guess. ...
A. 26 April 2009: I agree with Original Iraz.
When my friend started acting like that, I dropped her and found a new friend. Just leave her and her bitchy ways.... (read in full...)
He blocks my emails and keeps his distance -- what's up?
Q. Here's my dilemma, I met a guy a few years back, we hit it off immediately. In the beginning we spoke on the phone all the time chatted on line also. We met in person 4 times. Everytime we met in person, he blocked my e-mails and kept his ...
A. 26 April 2009: My friend is the same way. It's because you live so far away and you only see eachother for a brief amount of time. It hurts him and he doesn't want to get too close to him in case you break his heart. Maybe you should stop meeting him and find ... (read in full...)
My family is against our relationship.
Q. Hi, I'm 16 years old. I have a bf, he is 12. Some people think that it's wrong because I'm 4 years older, but I don't care because we love each other very much but the problem is that my whole family don't like him, so I can't come home to him and ...
A. 26 April 2009: You should wait for a few years before you have a relationship with him. He's a bit too young to know what love is. I know you won't like this, but I think you should stop seeing eachother and stay in contact until he's old enough to know what he's ... (read in full...)
Is there actually any clues to what a guy will be like 2 weeks into the relationship?
Q. I haven't been out with loads of guys. But all the guys I have been out with were total idiots. But they were all like really nice and sweet when they first asked me out. This is why I would go out with them, but then they would turn out to be ...
A. 26 April 2009: You should be friends with them before hand then you can decide for yourself whether or not they are good people. You just haven't been lucky. Guys will be nice to you to get you to go out with them and once they have you, they don't feel the need ... (read in full...)
Why am I so unlucky in love?
Q. I am 30 years old and never had a boyfriend and I don't know how to get one. At this stage giving is my only option. It's very unfair why I have no luck at all. The guys have it easier. I am shy and quiet with a weight problem....
A. 22 February 2009: Join some sort of club, then you can make friends and gradually get closer to them and then ask them out?... (read in full...)
My friends say I shouldn't trust him and that he's lying but I don't know what to believe.
Q. I like this guy but he cheated on his ex of two years twice. He promised he won't do it to me and he wants a chance to prove it. My friends say I shouldn't trust him and that he's lying but I don't know what to believe. I really like him and I don't ...
A. 22 February 2009: Well, give him a chance and if he cheats drop him.
It's your choice not your friends. If you like him you should go for it...... (read in full...)
I really think I'm in love with him... but he has a girl...
Q. Hey, well I'm in LOVE with someone who has a girl. He's taken, but he never looks happy around her and I always notice him looking at me, I try to stay away and I do, but whenever I turn, his eyes are on me. When I found out that he had a girlfriend ...
A. 22 February 2009: I was in the exact same position.
Just have to wait until he finishes with her, then move in for the kill.
=3... (read in full...)
Is there any point being in a relationship with someone who never gets in touch with you?
Q. Is there any point being in a relationship with someone who never gets in touch with you? A simple question, does anyone have a simple answer?...
A. 20 August 2008: haha! I should have looked...
No, if she can't be asked to get in contact you should find someone who loves you enough to be there. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder but to be honest I think it just makes the people grow apart. Find some... (read in full...)
Is there any point being in a relationship with someone who never gets in touch with you?
Q. Is there any point being in a relationship with someone who never gets in touch with you? A simple question, does anyone have a simple answer?...
A. 18 August 2008: No, if he can't be asked to get in contact you should find someone who loves you enough to be there. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder but to be honest I think it just makes the people grow apart. Find someone who really appreciates you ... (read in full...)
He booked a yacht last weekend for dinner and does all the sweetest things possible..what do I do??
Q. well my problem is a little wired...i am 19 years old and a guy is totally head over heels for me..i like him too but dont love him..he is known among the girls for being the casanova and has broken million hearts but the girls still love him..he ...
A. 18 August 2008: I think you should play hard to get. If this guy really loves you he will continue doing sweet things for you even if you don't sleep with him. Just tease for a little while and when you feel you trust him make his hard work worth while.
Enjoy the ... (read in full...)
Does she want me or is it just because she's used to me and doesn't want anyone else to have me?
Q. Hi i had been with a girl for 2 years and towards the end we started to argue and il be honest i didnt treat her very well during this relationship ( i regret this very much) so we ended up breaking up. After only 3 months we started chatting again ...
A. 18 August 2008: I think that she doesn't want you and her to end up like you did last time. Perhaps you should wait for a while, because she could still love you but be pacing it. If nothing happens tell her that you want a serious relationship. If she doesn't I'm ... (read in full...)
Why do I get so jealous over these girls!?
Q. Hey, I'm having a really huge problem, everytime I'm with my boyfriend and we see a good looking woman, I immediately think that my boyfriend likes her, and thinks that she's better than me. I know it's ridiculous, but my jealousy is ruining our ...
A. 13 August 2008: Stop thinking he will leave you for these women he doesn't even know. If he's with you, he's chosen you over all the other girls.
Build self confidence. Jealousy is usually a by-product of insecurity and low self-esteem. Whether you feel bad abou... (read in full...)
I started my periods and I don't know how to tell my mum.
Q. hello erm i dont really know how to put this but i started my periods. and i really dont know how to tell me mum! like she has a draw full of black pants and pads and things and i put on some of the black pants and put a pad on and yes im basically...
A. 13 August 2008: I agree with uncle phil and honeygirl.
Just say it casually, that's what I did.xx :)... (read in full...)
Should I really wait for him to make up his mind?
Q. Posting again to see if I can get some advice/answers =[ This is a follow up to this question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-know-if-he-does-decide.html...
A. 13 August 2008: I think you should... It seems that he's slowly getting closer and closer and if his brother rang you telling you that he wants to settle down then there's a chance he does. I would wait a while though, don't rush into things...
The other girl coul... (read in full...)
Is it normal for your parents to want you to pay back money you borrow?
Q. Hi, I just want to know: Is it normal for your parents to want you to pay back money you borrow? Please reply =] Love ya all tasha x...
A. 13 August 2008: Yes it is. If they borrowed money from you then you would expect it back, and if you don't pay it back they won't keep lending you money. And some of the time they let you get away with it... (: it's all good.xx... (read in full...)
All I want to know is, do you think this boy likes me?
Q. From now on to make it easier, #1= the person who doesn't like the guy i do. #2= the person who likes this guy alot. #3= the true friend who doesn't hate him and doesn't fancy him either. #2 won't stop going on about him. my friend text him and ...
A. 12 August 2008: * If he wants to talk to you all the time,
* If you turn around and you catch him looking at you,
* If he starts acting nicer when you're around him,
* If he says "yes" to all the things you ask him to do,
* If he treats you... (read in full...)
I constantly feel ugly and end up with other men to boost self-esteem
Q. hi i am a female aged 19. iv been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years. we have a 3 month old baby. i have always been a bit insecure and have always been paranoid about how i look. since having a baby however things have just got worse. i hate ...
A. 6 August 2008: You are not ugly. Everyone is beautiful in their own ways...
Look at yourself in the mirror and note down all your good features...
Get your friends to tell you what they like about your physical appearance. Eg. Your lips could be pouty or your hai... (read in full...)
Does anyone know of any good ways to reduce the the cramps and general discomfort during periods?
Q. This is not quite relationship directed, more of an issue of those monthly 'lady problems'! I suffer from quite uncomfortable periods and after 3 years of taking the pill i forgot how unbearable it was when i stopped a month ago. So when i starte...
A. 6 August 2008: Try plain ibuprofen first, if you have cramps. If ibuprofen doesn't work, try Pamprin, Midol, next time. If it still doesn't work, put a heating pad or hot water bottle on the painful spots, take a bath, or exercise. It might help to cut down on the ... (read in full...)
Haven't had a period since 2 months ago, tests came up negative, what to do next?
Q. ok readers i'm 16 and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months so before you say i'm too young to be having sex or what ever just know i love him and i'm not asking for your opinon on how young i am ok so we have been having sex and u...
A. 6 August 2008: If you've been stressed I suspect it's that or that you've had a change in your diet and you aren't eating the right things. If the tests came out negative i doubt you are... After two months it should be clear whether or not you are.
I agree with... (read in full...)
Should I change the way I am so I feel better about myself or what?
Q. hi.. i'm very self conscious of myself. i dress myself and act myself and stuff, but when i'm around other people i just get upset. it's like everyone looks at them and i'm just there, and i feel like people would just make fun of me. when people ...
A. 6 August 2008: Awe I really feel for you...
It's probably because you're pretty.
A lot of girls get extremely jealous of other girls because of their looks...
Here are some steps to take...
1. Identify what you're terribly conscious about. A certain aspect o... (read in full...)
The two are completely different guys and one of them is my BF, but I can't tell who I actually want!
Q. Just like so many others, i am having a problem of choosing between two guys. 4 years ago i met this guy, J. we became the closest of friends, alternating which one of us liked the other more than friends but always one or both of us not wanting to ...
A. 6 August 2008: I think you are getting annoyed with N because he is too clingy and the reason for that is because you hang around a lot with J, which makes him insecure because you could get up to anything when you're alone together. What makes it worse is that ... (read in full...)
My best-friend's 16 year old is in love with me, and I don't know what to do! What are my options?
Q. My best friend that I know for almost 8yrs has his own family (wife, 2 sons, and 2 daughters) and his own business. His family loves me like I was part of them. He has always been an unique person that likes to have fun, so we as guys look at girls, ...
A. 6 August 2008: Do you like the girl?
If you do then ask your best friend if it's OK if you start seeing her. You are after all the same age aren't you?
Well it says you are anyway lol.
If you don't however speak to the girl and tell her you aren't up for a rel... (read in full...)
I seem to have "pimples" on my boobs, Is it something I should worry about?
Q. hello... i seem to have "pimples" on my boobs. it's understandable because i have an acne problem all over my body. the doctors always try to give me medicines to help it but they don't seem to work. But i never heard of anyone having them on thei...
A. 6 August 2008: Yes it's normal.
I sometimes get them... It's just natural I suppose...... (read in full...)
If he really did love me then why are we breaking up over something so silly??
Q. So I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months but have known him for about 5 years as I was in a relationship with one of his friends for four years before that, so knew them though each other, but they were never really close friends! So when ...
A. 6 August 2008: His mate was obviously trying to split you up...
He was probably jealous of what you had or he wants you for himself...
As for your ex looking happy, it's most likely an act and that he was really rather upset when you broke up.
Next time, don't ... (read in full...)
We both love each other deeply but can't feel the way we felt before the break!
Q. im in love with a person and in october 8 we will be 5 years its a really long story we had the best times ever we traveled together we did everythin together but we separated for 3 months 6 months ago and when we got back together everythin chan...
A. 6 August 2008: If you love him why did you break up with him?
Maybe it's a good idea to become friends so you can become close again and then maybe continue the relationship some time in the future.
Perhaps you should leave it for a while, he's the same person a... (read in full...)
Why do I like my friend when she continues to hurt me?
Q. ok sorry this is quite long and a bit complicated..but here goes! I used to be good friends with a girl two years below me who gets on my bus...let's call her A. A used to hang out with my group of friends last year, as she fell out with some of...
A. 5 August 2008: tis alright.xx :)... (read in full...)
Why do I like my friend when she continues to hurt me?
Q. ok sorry this is quite long and a bit complicated..but here goes! I used to be good friends with a girl two years below me who gets on my bus...let's call her A. A used to hang out with my group of friends last year, as she fell out with some of...
A. 3 August 2008: I always take my best mates side, but I have been in this situation before.
Stick by your best mate but continue speaking to A as someone you know, just not like really matey like you used to be as this will annoy your bessie. Hope it help... (read in full...)
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