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I live in Australia, The best country in the world... Filled with brilliant beaches, cities and most importanly my fellow Australians! Very proud to come from the land down under.
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We're trying to conceive, is there a chance I'm already pregnant or is my mind playing tricks on my body? What could you recommend? Any medications that may help?
Q. Hi i need real help, Im trying to have a baby with my husband but i cant seem to get pregnate and its really brothing me. ive been trying for about 2 months. he has a high sprem count everythings fine there. i went to the obgyn and she to...
A. 17 April 2008: Question, I have seen a few posts on this site and am wondering if it is an American Vs English and Australian or not... the word Pregnant. Is it Pregnant or pregnate? I believe it is Pregnant...
Ok your problem, If the doc has told you everythi... (read in full...)
I have to be whipped and shed blood for my country to consider me a "woman". I'm scared!
Q. In my country a girl must be whipped and shed blood for there to be a good harvest. If we flinch we dissapoint our clan. We then also aren't considered women... just girls. If I succeed I get a husbund. But I'm scared. Do you have advice?...
A. 17 April 2008: Um, What part of South Africa are you from? I am sure there are places you can go and get help.... (read in full...)
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and half months and we already had sex.
Q. if i am on the shot and he cums in me more than once and one time the day before i get the shot is it possible that i could be pregnate?? he tells me that i am the first girl that he has never used a condum with me and that he wants me to have his ...
A. 17 April 2008: dear god! Someone tell me what is happening to our CHILDREN when they are doning things like this.
Darling, you can't spell pregnant.... Do you think it is a good idea to have a child??? Go and study,pay attention in class. Do someting with your... (read in full...)
I re-used a condom 3 wks later. Am I Pregnant?
Q. hey... so ... here is my problem... me and my boyfriend had sex with a re-used condom about two weeks ago. the condom we re-used was first used about three weeks before we used it the second time.. does the sperm die off or what? he cleaned it out ...
A. 17 April 2008: YUCK!!! I would be more worried about getting an infection if i were you. That is foul spend the 25cents and buy a NEW ONE!!!
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Should I move to California to be with my boyfriend?
Q. okayy. my boyfriend and i have been together fer almost 3 months. ive known him for like 8 months altogether because he dated my best friend. we have a great relationship, im about to turn 14 and he just turned 15. the only things wrong with our ...
A. 17 April 2008: Stay where you are.
Um, if his best friend is a lesbian why is he sleeping with her and why is she running about naked? I don' think htis is a good relationship for you my dear. Stay where you are and wait for a nicer boy to come a long!... (read in full...)
After seeing my own daughter masturbating on a porn site I've become sexually attracted to her. It's so humiliating, how can I stop these feelings of lust for her?
Q. After seeing my own 19 year old daughter masturbating on an internet home-video porn site I've become sexually attracted to her and can't stop looking at her and thinking of her in that way. I haven't been with a woman sexually in a long time, may...
A. 15 April 2008: These people need to back off!! You came here for some advice not to be judged, it seems to me you are a good father but at the same time you are a man, you have some issues that need to be looked into but good on you for realising them and taking ... (read in full...)
I really don't want this divorce as we're still great friends.
Q. Help! I'm going through a divorce and yet still great friends with my hubby, and really don't want the divorce ...I would love to stay married to him, after all we have shared 25 yrs of marriage and 3 great kids. I'm seeing this guy and love him,...
A. 15 April 2008: You don't want a divorce and yet you love another?? hmmmmm
Ok I think that your marriage is over, maybe you are just feeling guilty, nervous or frightened somewhere in the back of your mind? 25 years is a long long time to be married and its natr... (read in full...)
I should focus on somebody who is single, but feelings are feelings aren't they?
Q. Hi there, i've had a pretty eventful year, a 12 month relationship which included the birth of my first son has recently ended, but that's not what i wanna talk about. There's a girl that i work with and we've been acquaintances for well over 18 ...
A. 14 April 2008: Leave it alone, If she has children with this man then at the very least don't those children deserve the chance of their parents being together?
I know it must be hard for you and yes you may well be in love / lust with her but she is in love with... (read in full...)
She's just told me she's no longer attracted to me. How can I save this relationship?
Q. I'm engaged for a year to a beautiful girl. We've been going out nearly five years. She has just told me that she is no longer attracted to me. She doesn't want to break up, just some space. She says she wants it to be like it used to be, when she ...
A. 11 April 2008: Give her time and space, start doing your own thing. Maybe when she realises that you may not always be there she will stop taking your for granted?
My other half and I went through this about 3 years ago, I just got too comfortable in our rela... (read in full...)
I've only just turned 12, I'm pregnant and I lied to him about my age!!
Q. I met a really nice man nearly a 8 months ago, i'm 1 month pregnant and in a loving realationship with him. He was my 1st and i want him forever he adores me and asked me to marry him but i lied to him i told him i was 16 but in fact i've only just ...
A. 11 April 2008: How old is this man? Do you realsie by lying to im you may have now made him a criminal? It wont matter in the eyes of the law that you lied he will still go to jail. YOU MUST TELL HIM AND YOUR PARENTS.... (read in full...)
Please give me advice on what I should do..like should I tell him I'm in love with him? Oh...and he's my teacher!
Q. Tommorow me and my friend might tell my teacher we love him, but i'm not sure what to do. It's been on our minds so much and we dont have anyone to talk to. after we tell him, we're never gonna bring it up again, obviously. I just cry and cry and ...
A. 11 April 2008: Noooo don't tell him, he is right emails like that can get him into lots of trouble and chaces are the feeling is not returned. It will pass and in a bit of time you will be glad you didn't tell him!... (read in full...)
Shy guy likes FRench teacher
Q. I've got just a couple of weeks to make a move on my French teacher, of whom I've been crushing on for a year now. We seem to get on well but the she always seems to be holding back a bit and I'm wondering if this is just professional boundaries (or ...
A. 11 April 2008: I say give it a shot, what have you got to loose?
Just ask her out for coffee or a drink!
Good luck buddy!... (read in full...)
My ex has been telling people we had sex, which is not true. How to react to the rumours?
Q. my ex boyfriend has been telling people we had sex. its not true. what should i do? [Moderator's note. Respondents may treat your situation as common defamation until you can provide us with complementary details. Feel free to write en détail plea...
A. 11 April 2008: Oooh this happend to me at school too!!
Spanna, I did exactly what you said and it worked! The poor sod ended up leaving the school because so many people gave him crap about it!
the other one I heard from my cousin was this " really? I must hav... (read in full...)
How can I talk to her and try to meet her?
Q. sorry bout the length of this but i think u need to know the full story. ok. so i have known this girl my whole life. so we have know each other our whole lives, went to the same school for 4 years till i left. but she is still in the same school....
A. 11 April 2008: Yep I think you are on the right path, Tell her it needs to be done, I think you come from a very strict background so these things are even harder to do.
May I suggest keeping the family out of it for awhile? Try and meet her by herself and see ... (read in full...)
I found out my friend is seeing other boys apart for me, how should I explain her this?? We're not committed in fact, so why does it bother me?
Q. Lately I've had a thing with this girl, and we've been talking for a couple hours a day on the phone, we've had sex already, basically we're like friends with benefits. Anyways, I was away with work on the weekend, and I promised I'd call her on ...
A. 11 April 2008: Tell her the truth, Tell her how you feel,
Do you want to have a commited relationship with her? Maybe she has commitment issues and feels scared or traped when someone trys to get to close which could be why she lies.
Hmmmmm its a tough one, but... (read in full...)
People say "he's so not into you" - but is this true? Could he have feelings for me?
Q. well i have posted a lot of questions regarding my crush and now i am here with another 1..i would really appreciate a lot of answers to this..and thanks to all the agony aunts and uncles..u guys rock!!!so getting down to business..well i am in this ...
A. 11 April 2008: Maybe he is shy?? Just say "hi how are you"? next time he yawns make a joke and ask if he had a big night out or something? You cant put to much thought into something that is not there....Just ask him for a coffee or something! Men somethimes like ... (read in full...)
I'm in need of a regular agony aunt I can anonymously get to know.
Q. I need people to talk to about my problems via email, i have no one i can talk to that i know in real life, id like both to remain anonymous but if u pride yourself in giving grounded and most important of all honest advice, even if u think it will ...
A. 11 April 2008: Contact me anytime sweetheart!... (read in full...)
Any kissing tips?
Q. Hi I am 13 And has never had my first kiss yet. I get realy nervous just thinking about it. Please Give me Tips on how to....
A. 10 April 2008: ooooh the first kiss!!
Honey sit back and enjoy it!! Its a blast, just relax!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
Anal sex hurts her.. also she wont let me give oral... HELP?!?!?!
Q. Hey guys, I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months now, we have a good sex life, recently we have been trying to have anal sex, but it hurts her too much. How can i make it comfortable for her?? And another question.. she has only let me give...
A. 10 April 2008: LUBE LUBE LUBE, for that type of sex, its the only way. Plus make sure she really really really wants to try it and is not just doing it for you. Take it slow, you dont need to do it all in one night, take a few nights and work up to it.
Oral ... (read in full...)
He wants me to have sex with as many men as I can....in one night!!!
Q. Hi Im 17 and gay i met this guy and i really like him the only problem is he wants me to have sex with as many men as i can in 1 night and predictivly the rest of my life, as it turns him on. I really like him so i want to do this and i...
A. 10 April 2008: oh my little ANZAC brother............ NOOOOOOOOOO this is not a good thing!! If he loved you and wanted you he would not want to share you!
Sweetheart don't do it, look at why he wants you to, then look at what you think you should do and defi... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he jokes about my weight. What can I do about it?
Q. Hi I have a problem, I've been with my boyfriend for about two months and because of my weight I was too shy to take it to the next level. But we had sex the other day he is very slim and he commented on my weight and hurt my feelings. We were havi...
A. 10 April 2008: Yep.... Its all been said, Don't let him insult you! Just wait until you find a man how is so proud of you and loves you so much he would stand on a mountain to scream it!!
oh and the drug thing??? Soooooooooooo 1990! Move on find a winner n... (read in full...)
I'm being blackmailed by the boys I had sex with...
Q. hi my names nikki and i have a problem with some boys in my school. i'm well known for being a slut at my school which im not proud of but i had sex two weeks ago with three boys from my school and another girl. i was told at the start of the week ...
A. 10 April 2008: yes indeed get the law involved!!!!
My biggest concern is that you seem to be ok wiht the fact you are called a slut,l No no no honey thats not ok!!
You can have sexual partners but never ever let someone say things like that about you! Think... (read in full...)
Why does he need to look at other women?
Q. why my husband look other female ? and when i catch hem he say i didn't look at other female . what bother me is the lie do u think he miss something ? what i should do help thnax ...
A. 10 April 2008: Darling,
Thats how we know they are alive!! I am married and( am female) I can appreciate other men, as my husband can appreciate other women.... We would never ever act on it but its natural to look... Just dont touch... (read in full...)
Please help me I think I blew it with this guy? I´m desperate!?
Q. Please help me I think I blew it with this guy? I´m desperate!? I told him my feelings for him in a note before he left for a deployment, and usually he answers my messages right away , but this one note he answered it 3 days later, and he replied ...
A. 10 April 2008: Ah, Deployment?? Sounds like Military to me.... I am a military spouse. I can tell you from my experiance and that of others, when a person is on deployment they don't really think of home (despite what media tell us) and this is a good thing, we ... (read in full...)
What is the best thing for me to do to cope financially with a baby?
Q. Im 18 years old and I live with my boyfriend and his mother. I have recently found out I was pregnant. My boyfriends mom won't let us stay here if she finds out so we decided not to tell her until we move. I want to keep the baby but my boyfriend ...
A. 10 April 2008: Callaroy gives good advice..... We Aussies know a thing or two!
I am not sure how the US works when it comes to maternity leave and things like that, One trick that I know works no matter where you are from is whilst your pregnant learn to live on h... (read in full...)
To stand by her through this bad time or to leave her to heal herself?
Q. Hi all, recently posted a few times on here. Quick bit backround, I'm 24, girlfriend 34, been going out for 6 excellent years. I used to go out on a friday night for a drink etc... with my mate rob 2yrs ago, then all three of us me,rob and my gi...
A. 10 April 2008: Its hard but let her go, It sounds like you have done everything you cvan for her.... Maybe suggest she has some professional help? Your a young man, find someone who is around your age and have a normal fun realtionship, you only get this time once ... (read in full...)
Is there something funny going on with my internet guy?
Q. To start with i have met this guy online 7 months ago. Since then we always send each other, emails and I'ms. We talk like 3 to 4 times a week.We haven't met personally yet coz he lives in another state.He told me everything about him and I am to ...
A. 10 April 2008: I think you should move on, how can you love and trust someone you have never met? for all you know he is a dirty old man sitting on the other end of the computer telling you what you want to hear...... sorry sweet but find a real person to have a ... (read in full...)
I need to feel safe in a relationship so I need help on this!! PLEASE...
Q. how to even ask, okay here goes well im engaged underage and in love with my boyfriend on the side which is more than my long distant fiance. im 17 years old my fiance is 21 which knows im 17 then my boyfriend is 35 and thinks im 20 i...
A. 9 April 2008: Oh dear,
Sweetheart you are too young to be dealing with all this. I know you don't want to hear that but it's true. It saddens me that your parents are not supportive of you. I think you need to take some time and speak to a professional and get ... (read in full...)
I need to feel safe in a relationship so I need help on this!! PLEASE...
Q. how to even ask, okay here goes well im engaged underage and in love with my boyfriend on the side which is more than my long distant fiance. im 17 years old my fiance is 21 which knows im 17 then my boyfriend is 35 and thinks im 20 i...
A. 9 April 2008: Oh dear,
Sweetheart you are too young to be dealing with all this. I know you don't want to hear that but it's true. It saddens me that your parents are not supportive of you. I think you need to take some time and speak to a professional and get ... (read in full...)
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