I can't get myself to study, about to fail, help everyone !
Q. Hello everyone, before I start talking about my problem I would like to thank you for taking time to read this and answer me. I’m a medical student, which has always been my dream since I was 5 years old. Always being that straight A’s sma...
A. 15 January 2015: Ever been tested for ADHD? ... (read in full...)
My boy friend lied about liking big breasts and now I feel self conscious about my small chest
Q. Hello, this might be a bit redundant as there are some similar questions on this site. Anyway, I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and everything's great. However, I recently found out he's lied about his physical preferences. ...
A. 15 January 2015: Honey, I'm going to clue you in about something. Men like boobs. Big boobs, small boobs, medium sized boobs, lopsided boobs, boobs with small nipples, boobs with big nipples, fake boobs, real boobs, etc.
I am sure your boyfriend loves your boo... (read in full...)
My girlfriend proposed me a threesome. What should I do?
Q. Me and my girlfriend (I'm 23 and she's 20) have been together for over two years. We're serious, Things are wonderful between us two, we really love each other, and we're living together since a couple of weeks ago. The other day we were talking ...
A. 13 January 2015: The best friend thing is a REALLY bad idea if you're going to do it. It is also a bad idea if you are not both 100% certain. I would back out if I were you. ... (read in full...)
I'm so jealous of my boyfriend's ex that I don't enjoy sex
Q. I am so jealous about his ex. He was in a long distance relationship with her when we first met. Then he met me and we just clicked. He decided that we are a better match and finally he broke up with her. Before we started dating before he broke up ...
A. 8 January 2015: This is very common and is called retroactive jealousy. It is particularly common with younger, more inexperienced men and women. We see it here frequently.
So now you know you are not alone. You must also know that it harms relation... (read in full...)
Does it mean he does not love me if he says he'll not put up a fight if I leave him?
Q. If you tell your boyfriend you will leave him and he does not put up a fight does this mean he does not truly LOVE you or care for you enough? My BF says he would not stop me if I decided to leave him as he is not a fighter and if leaving him is w...
A. 6 January 2015: What? No. If someone doesn't want to be with you and leaves you, you let them go, period.
His thinking is correct. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wont cope if they take his licence!
Q. I'm 16 and my boyfriend is also 16. He recently got a speeding ticket for going 89 in an 50. (I know, that's crazy, but he's a teenage boy, aren't they all? Lol) he has a court date set (which I believe is febuary 11) and Is scared they are going ...
A. 4 January 2015: I'm not going to give you advice on how to lessen his punishment. He is a very inexperienced driver and he is putting the lives of innocent people at risk. I hope he does lose his license.
If you think that will depress him, just think what sit... (read in full...)
Could his online message have been meant for me?
Q. I met someone a few months ago. He is very attracted to me (and I to him), and I recently went out of my way to do something nice for him to thank him for something he did. We are just friends and neither of us has said anything...yet. I am still in ...
A. 3 January 2015: Sending you a message? ESP'd that you would Google him?
Step back there, little lady. He may well like you, but you are REALLY reaching for straws here. It's ok to have a crush, but don't totally lose your mind entirely over it.... (read in full...)
I can cope with my ex being with any girl except HER
Q. Help. I am trying to get over a man who was a bit of a player - and moved on from me to be with a girl I know. The girl always plays it down and pretends there is nothing going on (possibly not to hurt my feelings) but the guy told me they are...
A. 2 January 2015: You say you can't cope with it, and yet you must. You cannot control whether other people have feelings for one another.
This is really more about your behavior than theirs. You are acting all jealous and possessive over a guy that is no longer y... (read in full...)
I can cope with my ex being with any girl except HER
Q. Help. I am trying to get over a man who was a bit of a player - and moved on from me to be with a girl I know. The girl always plays it down and pretends there is nothing going on (possibly not to hurt my feelings) but the guy told me they are...
A. 2 January 2015: You say you can't cope with it, and yet you must. You cannot control whether other people have feelings for one another.
This is really more about your behavior than theirs. You are acting all jealous and possessive over a guy that is no longer y... (read in full...)
Am I being nasty or jealous towards my friend?
Q. I have a question concerning two of my best friends. one is a girl and one is a guy. I want to know if i am being nasty and jealous or is my female friend overstepping her bounds. I have been friends with both of these people quite some time however ...
A. 2 January 2015: I think you are feeling threatened in your friendships. You used to have each of these friends to yourself. Now it appears they may be becoming close and might even hook up, and then you would be really shut out or become a third wheel.
These... (read in full...)
15 year old dating and sneaking around to see 19 year old.
Q. okay so i recently started dating this guy and he is 19 and im 15.(we have been friends for a couple of months too) which is only 4 years but i really do like him and im currently still a virgin. but everyone is telling me to sneak around and stuff ...
A. 2 January 2015: If you want him to wind up in jail then by all means carry on with your plan.
He could (and should) be convicted of a very serious crime if he dates you. You need to understand the consequences are very severe. ... (read in full...)
Would you be with someone who wouldn't have sex unless you used a condom?
Q. Hi everyone. A question for both, men and women: how would you feel if someone you want to be intimate with won't do so unless you use a condom? Boyfriend or girlfriend relationship type. Also, if you get asked to be tested for STDS, do you do it? ...
A. 2 January 2015: What's wrong with condoms? It is irresponsible to NOT use them until the relationship is exclusive and it is certain thru testing that neither partner has an STD.
And of course I would get tested, what on earth is wrong with that? ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend turning to porn? Am I not good enough?
Q. Hi, I would really like some help as I feel im goung crazy, basicly I have been with my partner for 3 years now and just the other day I found a website in his history called porncheckorg.con this instantly made me feel sick as I didnt think he ...
A. 2 January 2015: Do you think he is cheating or just watching porn? If the former, you should press to find out the truth. If he is just viewing porn occasionally then it is no big deal and isn't a reflection on his feelings for you. ... (read in full...)
Questions for women who KNOW they are attractive to men.
Q. You can be walking down the street (or in a store), and men would approach and ask for your name and number. Or you're at the club and they offer to buy you a drink. Pretty much wherever you are, men shower you with attention, even if you just met. ...
A. 2 January 2015: Well, I am older now and so don't get as much attention anymore, but I will tell you that back when I was constantly approached by men I will tell you that I was NOT flattered.
It isn't flattering to be approached by strangers when you are mind... (read in full...)
My daughter wont let him in the house, and my parents say to leave him
Q. I'm 43 been in a relationship over a year and a half I love him but he cheated on me with his ex, we got back together and I fell pregnant all my family are telling me to have an abortion and get rid of him I love him it's over between him and his ...
A. 1 January 2015: I'm sorry, but I think your family is right.
Sounds like you have a history of letting your heart make your brain take a backseat. You are ruled by emotion.
A man who drinks heavily and doesn't work is a man who won't be a good partner or ... (read in full...)
She thinks this is funny. How can I get her to understand that I don't like that she when we make love she lets off wind? Why does this happen?
Q. I have what I call a severe prob;em with my partner in that when we make love she lets off wind and never does do anything to stop it and when I said something about it she thought it was funny and laughed at me and wonder if I should end it with ...
A. 31 December 2014: What is she supposed to "do" to stop it? How do you propose she accomplish that? You act like she's deliberately doing it to gross you out, highly doubt that. She's probably inwardly mortified and trying to laugh it off.
She may have a medical ... (read in full...)
Married friend wanted sex, I refused and said I could only offer friendship and now he's conveniently disappeared!
Q. Hi. I'd like some advice about something that I think I already know the answer to. Recently a guy friend, who is now married, got in touch and asked if I'd like to meet up over the holidays. I'm also now in a relationship and told him this. H...
A. 30 December 2014: Two people, one married and one in a serious relationship, one of them begging the other to have sex and the other making movie dates, both presumably without the knowledge of their partners?
Yeah, what on EARTH is wrong with that?
*Rolls ... (read in full...)
Married friend wanted sex, I refused and said I could only offer friendship and now he's conveniently disappeared!
Q. Hi. I'd like some advice about something that I think I already know the answer to. Recently a guy friend, who is now married, got in touch and asked if I'd like to meet up over the holidays. I'm also now in a relationship and told him this. H...
A. 30 December 2014: So he sent you a smiley text. So? What are you going to do?
My guess is you'll ignore the advice and keep carrying on with this married man. ... (read in full...)
Married friend wanted sex, I refused and said I could only offer friendship and now he's conveniently disappeared!
Q. Hi. I'd like some advice about something that I think I already know the answer to. Recently a guy friend, who is now married, got in touch and asked if I'd like to meet up over the holidays. I'm also now in a relationship and told him this. H...
A. 30 December 2014: What are toy doing trying to make a movie date with a guy who is married, who has made it clear he wants to have sex with you, when you yourself are in a relationship? Did you tell your guy you were going on a movie date with a guy who is married ... (read in full...)
Loves me, loves me not. Then wants to see me again. Am I expecting too much?
Q. I'm not sure about what should I do now. I've been with my bf for 5 years and he's going to marry me next year. We used to be so connected and compatible. Our relationship was great. He made surprises and seriously trying hard to make me happy. ...
A. 30 December 2014: You are both so young, and you have been together since you were kids. You can't possibly have much experience with dating other people, except as a minor, which is totally different than having an adult relationship. So you have nothing to really ... (read in full...)
What's going on? What should I do? He manipulated me into ending our relationship two days before New Year
Q. I wrote a few weeks ago because my new boyfriend, who had showered me with attention, flowers, dinners, mix tapes, texts, at the start, had gone a bit quiet with me. The first time I stayed over his house (and the first time we had sex), he had a...
A. 30 December 2014: Aww, that is so hard. I'm sorry that happened to you.
I'm afraid there is only one thing you CAN do-move on with grace and class.
Don't call him. Don't chase after him. Don't beg for another chance. He has told you how he feels, and has m... (read in full...)
With my boyfriend but want to know more about his friend
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and our relationship is doom now. We argue a lot and I feel unconnected with him anymore. We don't have same interest and seems like being in different opinion on many things. I admit that we both feel ...
A. 29 December 2014: This could make a bad situation very much worse. While I understand your desire, it is not a good idea. At the very least, you MUST end your relationship before pursuing anything, and be prepared for the possibility that he may have loyalty to your ... (read in full...)
Is my desire to be bitten weird?
Q. hello everyone i wold like to thank anyone in advance if you answer this question, i has been bothering me for sometime now. my question is, is it weird that i like to be bitten? now let me fully explain. when my husband and i are lets s...
A. 29 December 2014: Ok, food for thought. Plenty of people enjoy pain during sex, and responsible people make sure they don't cause actual injury while they do it. Some people like hooks through their nipples and that sort of thing. Sterility is very important if you ... (read in full...)
Is her mother being disrespectful for seeking too much information about any sexual relations and of intimacy in our relationship? Why is her Mom asking?
Q. This girl I’m in a relationship with for a year and a half, her mom always asks her if we were having sex. I mean we are two grown adults so why would her mom want to know that information, that’s private. She would tell me how her mom would sa...
A. 27 December 2014: Your girlfriend's mom is trying to be her "buddy" now that her daughter is grown. She is trying rather awkwardly to cultivate a relationship where they are more like best girlfriends rather than mother/daughter, not realizing your GF is not ... (read in full...)
I need some reassurance before I make a doctor's appointment
Q. Hi. I am a 24 year old female and I'm currently in a relationship with my ex-boyfriend. We started going out in March this year and everything was perfect( I thought). And we broke up 4 months later cause he didn't trust me. We got together in mid- ...
A. 25 December 2014: Wow! What you are experiencing is not HIV, as there are absolutely no symptoms at first, and it doesn't cause burning while you pee but comprises your immune system.
That said, you absolutely could have gotten HIV from that one encounte... (read in full...)
Abusive manipulative ex bought me an xmas present. I' ve gone no contact but feel guilty for not saying thanks.
Q. Dear all. Happy Christmas!! Please advise. Thanks. I jave recently finally got out of a long horrid relationship with a guy My feelngs have almost gone, and I'm doing ok. Anyway, to get to this point I decided no contact was best, so changed ...
A. 25 December 2014: Ahh, he knows you well. He is a master. Do not fall for it. Heck, don't even unwrap it, take it straight to a donation center or something. Else you'll feel guilty everytime you look at it, which is what he wants.
You have escaped the cycle of... (read in full...)
Flirting leading to some kissing at Christmas work function. Will my reputation be tarnished? How do I handle any reactions at work?
Q. Hello everyone. Ive been at my current office job for about 3 months now and we've just had our annual Christmas work do. I'm 22 and I have had a bit of a crush on one of my coworkers for a while. He is 45 and married. I'm also in a long term r...
A. 20 December 2014: Her job most certainly could be at risk. Some companies have strict rules about dating coworkers, and even if this one doesn't they still may decide to get rid of the brand new younger employee who is putting at risk the older, more senior employee ... (read in full...)
How does a thin boobless/assless woman live a life in our society?
Q. So I'm a petite asian in my early 20's and I have no boobs (32 a cup :( ) nor an ass. I have been suffering from depression lately because of all the insecurities that eat up at me. I am so depressed that I can't sleep at night and I have become ...
A. 20 December 2014: Are you kidding me? Do you have ANY idea how many men love petite, young Asian women? Your body type is just as much of an ideal as big busted blondes. Yes, different men are attracted to different body types, and yours happens to be one that is ... (read in full...)
Flirting leading to some kissing at Christmas work function. Will my reputation be tarnished? How do I handle any reactions at work?
Q. Hello everyone. Ive been at my current office job for about 3 months now and we've just had our annual Christmas work do. I'm 22 and I have had a bit of a crush on one of my coworkers for a while. He is 45 and married. I'm also in a long term r...
A. 20 December 2014: OP, I for one would really like a follow up from you to see what the outcome of this is.
Good luck, and please make better choices in the future. ... (read in full...)
Flirting leading to some kissing at Christmas work function. Will my reputation be tarnished? How do I handle any reactions at work?
Q. Hello everyone. Ive been at my current office job for about 3 months now and we've just had our annual Christmas work do. I'm 22 and I have had a bit of a crush on one of my coworkers for a while. He is 45 and married. I'm also in a long term r...
A. 20 December 2014: Ugh. Yes, you rightfully should be mortified, and yes, your reputation at work will be tarnished. I wouldn't be surprised if some type of excuse could be made to let you go. It is a work function, so they could certainly just let you go over that ... (read in full...)
We had a good date, kissed goodnight, but this morning I am blocked!
Q. Hi, hopefully going to be a short question! If not forgive me. So I started talking to this guy a few weeks ago. I know him through my ex but they aren't good friends they jusy know eachother. He asked when he could take me out we chose frida...
A. 20 December 2014: I don't think you did anything wrong. Sounds more like he didn't feel the spark and didn't have the courage to tell you because he is a coward.
Bullet dodged! ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has slept with 15 of his friends- feeling insecure now,
Q. Hi there, Just looking for a bit of relationship advise Been with my boyfriend for a year now. I'm 21, he's the first guy I've slept with as I wanted to wait until I was comfortable enough with a guy. He however, has slept with 15 girls,...
A. 20 December 2014: OP, if you want to make it work then it's best to take baby steps. The first step may be to open your mind to the possibility that you may actually like his friends. They may be really cool people and, if you smile and graciously try to get to know ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has slept with 15 of his friends- feeling insecure now,
Q. Hi there, Just looking for a bit of relationship advise Been with my boyfriend for a year now. I'm 21, he's the first guy I've slept with as I wanted to wait until I was comfortable enough with a guy. He however, has slept with 15 girls,...
A. 19 December 2014: I do disagree, and have several male friends to this day that I slept with years ago.
Try looking at it this way: your boyfriend is a good boyfriend and a good guy in general if he is still friends with his exes. They didn't break up in a horrib... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend is engaged to another girl!
Q. Hi. I'm so down atm.. I've always suspected my bf was seeing someone else when he moved away to work. Saw him texting a girl Xmas day last year,he denied it. Saw her add in a realationship after doing a few searched on fb, he later got rid of fb ...
A. 18 December 2014: I agree with the first answer. Bypass him and message her on fb. You will not get a straight answer out of him. If this is true in any way he is a cad and doesn't deserve to be protected, and the two of you deserve to know what he's been up to.
... (read in full...)
I am loving who I should't!
Q. I really have no idea where to start. My brother passed away 8months ago from an infection in the valve leading to his heart, it had ruptured and he had gone into cardiac arrest the night he was staying over at my house, I was with him from the...
A. 18 December 2014: Hard to give good advice without more specifics, but I'm inferring from your verbiage that perhaps your guy is married?
It is hard to see things clearly and logically when you're in an emotionally vulnerable state, which you certainly are. But... (read in full...)
He says it to make me feel better but it actually makes me feel worse.
Q. My bf makes such a big deal out if how much he likes mature women in porn ( I'm mid forties) yet I simply don't understand why? I often see the porn he uses and the women all look early to mid twenties just like most typical porn and I never sa...
A. 18 December 2014: There isn't anything wrong with you, other than a little bit of low self esteem (which we all have in some way!)
Try to ask yourself why you are so focused on what sort of women are in the porn he uses, and work on that. Unless he has a porn add... (read in full...)
Like cinderella I want to go to the party, but instead of an ugly sister an ex friend will be there!
Q. Hi ive been invited to my partners office party. I feel nervous as have not met any of his friends or wives/ partners. My major problem is a ex friend of mine and his who he also was very close to will be going as she used to work there and her ...
A. 18 December 2014: Calm down and think about this rationally. What can she possibly do to you? NOTHING. Absolutely nothing. If she causes a scene or speaks poorly of you at the party she will only make herself look bad, truly.
Go to the party, hold your head hig... (read in full...)
Will anyone who follows her first love be second best?
Q. A girl I know told me that the love of her life ,her first BF(broke up years ago after a few years of relationship), will always be the one she carers about. I have a question: is this fair to the guy she marries? I mean her future husband (she ...
A. 16 December 2014: She is young, of course she is going to say that. I would've said that when I was her age, too, and really meant it!
Little did I know the unconditional, deep, amazing love I would know with my husband, who I didn't even meet until I was 40.
... (read in full...)
Unhappily married and strongly attracted to another woman
Q. Hi last week I went out for a Christmas meal and drinks with colleagues and it ended up with just me and a girl. We both work remotely from the office and see each other on the odd occasion but live near each other. Anyway we ended up have a couple...
A. 15 December 2014: Um, I think you should end your marriage and then move on after that is done.
Nobody here is going to give you advice on how to cheat, regardless of whether your wife did in the past. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend isn't bothered by keeping me waiting.
Q. I will keep this short. My boyfriend does not see anything wrong with keeping me waiting. I will say "I can be to your house at 7, does that sound good"?He will say yes and a lot of the time when I get there he is just getting in the shower. He ...
A. 15 December 2014: You will never, ever, ever change someone who is chronically tardy. Yes, it is horribly rude and disrespectful, and people like that truly don't care. They never change. ... (read in full...)
I don't know which to choose but I do want one of them
Q. I don't know what to do , there's 2 guys that like me and I like them they are both very different from each other with their personalities. If they were moulded together they'd be perfect for me. Ok so ill call them a + b . A is older quieter n ...
A. 14 December 2014: Sorry, neither. I hear NOTHING about how much you enjoy their company, how good you feel in their presence, how much you have in common or how well they treat you, let alone any mention of love.
Settling for the sake of settling is no life to ... (read in full...)
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