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I am broken hearted, my boyfriend's children and I do not get along, should I stay with him or leave?

Q.   I have a serious problem. I have been with my boyfriend for three years now. His children say I am a horrible person and not good enough for their father. They have made it clear that I should not be in his life. They are mean, rude and ...

A.   27 October 2009: They are teenagers! They have obviously had a tough time of it emotionally - Theyre parents marriage/relationship breaking down? A mothers death? Not ever knowing theyre mother due to abandonment? You havent given enough information here about ... (read in full...)

My gf is not very sexually minded and I feel only like a friend to her! Any advice?

Q.   right here goes.....I’ve been with my girlfriend for half a year now and whilst I am absolutely head over heels for her, I’m finding that we don’t have much sex. Roughly once a week at most usually, more than once a week (and not much more) on very ...

A.   8 June 2009: I know this may not be of very much help to you..but i really relate to your girlfriend..Ive been with my partner for 5years..and i have a very low sex drive. We have it once a week, but we do explore each other and try different positions and enjoy ... (read in full...)

My married lover just broke up with me

Q.   The love of my life just broke up with me. He is married and so am I. We have been seeing each for 3 years and I am devastated. I know he loves me, but feels confused and guilty. I do not want him to leave his marriage. I am content to go on ...

A.   7 June 2009: Think about his wife. If you dont want him to leave his marriage - what do you want him to do? He cant keep having an affair with you..its not fair on his wife. He is obviously realising this which is why he has broken up with you, maybe to patch ... (read in full...)

Follow up: My husband's "mysterious" trips to Canada

Q.   A follow-up on my original question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-is-my-husband-having-business-trips-.html I thought I'd post a follow-up. Apparently my husband had been living a double life - in Canada and over here. I know this becaus...

A.   10 April 2009: Try maybe suggesting going with him on one of these business trips with him as support or something for him?! - see what he says to stop you?..or if he agree's you go with him then great! ((Thats if you have no commitments in the UK, or if you have, ... (read in full...)

Happy Easter!

Q.   I thought instead of posting a question on [troubled] relationship [issues], I thought I'd post something more upbeat ;-) So, I just wanted to post a short note to say "Happy Easter" this long weekend (Good Friday, Easter Monday/Bank Holi...

A.   10 April 2009: Aaawww Lovely ! Nice To Read Such An UpBeat Message. Happy Easter To You And All ! Sending Much Love And Happiness. Best Wishes xxx... (read in full...)

Caught my preteen sister masturbating with a sex toy.. should I inform my parents?

Q.   Well.. recently, actually about 2 hours ago I walked in on my younger sister masturbating. And the thing that got me, it was with sex toy. She didn't see me at first, but then I yelled her name and she quickly covered up. She is only 12 years old,...

A.   7 April 2009: I think maybe you should be relieved she is masturbating with a sex toy and perhaps being a little bit sensible and safe about it by using a toy, rather than sleeping with other guys and having sex irresponsibly and enduring herself with STD's and ... (read in full...)

Do younger guys like older girls?

Q.   is wrong to fancy a guy of 27 yaers old and i am 29 years old.its just a question.do younger guys like older girls.2 years is probably a huge age gap. i suppose younger guys don,t like older girls....

A.   1 April 2009: It depends on the guy ! Theres no harm in fancying younger guys, as long as their over 16 i guess..lol.. Im 22, and dating a 50 year old man..Whats age when it comes to love?! 27-29..2 years is nothing at all ! I say, Dont Worry about it as long as ... (read in full...)

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