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The affair with a married man emotionally messed me up, should I end it with him?

Q.   I was recently dating a married man....even though i developed strong feelings for this man...i always knew that it was going nowhere....and I never expected much from him..i do feel like i gave more than what i should...but the point is that we got ...

A.   17 June 2008: i'm also going through the same thing i was having an affair with a married man who was alot older than me he still sends me txts and last night we had a row and i told him to get on with his life both our partners had found out about us and my ... (read in full...)

Girl likes me but has a boyfriend

Q.   Hello, I fell for a girl who i know from work, she is great and we always have eye contact and flirt. But then i realised she had a boyfriend. She told me she wasnt happy with the situation and stuff and i accepted that and i told her my feelings,...

A.   12 June 2008: if she wanted to leave she'd just do it lets face it theres never a good time to leave someone is there but maybe she will leave but just wants to get the holiday out of the way talk to her and she how she feels if she tells him now maybe he could ... (read in full...)

I am irritated and sick in the evenings. Could I be pregnant?

Q.   i have been really irritated with every one n everything i even blew up on my cousin n we never got mad at eachother and after i blew up on her i felt bad so i called he back n told her sry..i also am feeling sick but not in the mornings like around ...

A.   12 June 2008: hiya are u due on? the early signs that u could be pregnant are similar to those of being due on so its hard to say anyway the only way is if ur late to take a test and u dnt have to feel sick in the mornings to be pregnant it could be at any time ... (read in full...)

Can anyone advise on how to talk to my mother without her moans or attacks?

Q.   My mum and dad are really controlling, well mostly my mum. I'm 19 years old and I have to be home at half past 10 every night apart from weekends. She says I cant be trusted and she thought I was going "off the rails" when I started seeing m...

A.   12 June 2008: hiya i think its a great idea to c if u can go with ur bf if he moves that way u him and his sis can split the bills and u will have saved some money by not giving any to your mum i hope everything works out but like u said b4 ur bf dnt like ur ... (read in full...)

Would it be wrong to marry my fiancee and keep things as they are with my boyfriend?

Q.   I am not sure what i am doing anymore. I am due to get married very soon, but although i love him in a way, i am having an affair with another man. To make it all worse, it has been going on on and off for 8 years, the other man is married, and ...

A.   12 June 2008: if your married lover wont leave now he prob wont cos there is never goin to be a right time to do it and its unfair on ur bf to marry him if ur seeing another man and c ur bf as a family member maybe u should call off the wedding or go away for a ... (read in full...)

Betrayal: An Emo Girl Heartbreak , How Should I Seek Closure?

Q.   I just had a breakup with my boyfriend, he did some things that were hurtful, that I will forgive then forget who he is. He let two of his friends talk about me , his female friend said that I was fat, and one of his boys said that I was ugly. He's ...

A.   12 June 2008: just forget about him he didnt stick up for u when his friends said things so hes prob not worth having as a bf ... (read in full...)

I'm in my 40's he is in his 30's and just not that comfortable about sex. I'm not satisfied... help please!!

Q.   i'm in my early 40s and my guy who i live with is early 30s. he didn't loose his virginity until 30 and only has had vaginal sex a few times before me. i have been sexually active since teenager years. so i'm trying to get him on board with things ...

A.   12 June 2008: the more u talk about it with him the more uncomfortable he will prob feel maybe he feels like your puttin 2 much pressure on him just make him relax more maybe plan a night in with candles wine etc and show him what u like and try new things with ... (read in full...)

I think my bf cheated on me, we have split up but I cant move on!!

Q.   Hello everyone. Im sorry if this is so long, but I need help and some advice. Ok so i split up with my guy over 3 months ago ( we were together for 2 years) and I know it needed to happen and I dont plan on getting back with him again, but theres s...

A.   12 June 2008: he sounds like a jerk and it was prob nothing to do with u y he broke up with u maybe he was cheating on u but u should just be glad that u r rid of this guy he wont even stand up 4 u when his friends are saying things if u really want to know if he ... (read in full...)

Can anyone advise on how to talk to my mother without her moans or attacks?

Q.   My mum and dad are really controlling, well mostly my mum. I'm 19 years old and I have to be home at half past 10 every night apart from weekends. She says I cant be trusted and she thought I was going "off the rails" when I started seeing m...

A.   12 June 2008: hi vicki are you working at the moment? you say u have a car and all so i assume so my advice would be get out of there its clear both your parents have problems and they are taking it out on you i would just save up find a place and just move out ... (read in full...)

I really like him, but, will he continue to be a flirt if I keep giving him more chances although he knows he is hurting me bad?

Q.   I really like my boyfriend, and as far as i know he really likes me. We waited about two years before we could start going of for certain reasons. We have been going out 3 months. I don't get to see him very often because of both of us have busy ...

A.   12 June 2008: sounds like he will keep doin it sorry to sound harsh but if u act like a door mat he will treat u like one your still young so forget about this guy and who knows if u dump him it may even make him realise wot he had and come crawling bk then if u ... (read in full...)

Did I do the right thing?

Q.   ok heres the story.had a guy i was dating,only to find out he is married 6 months later.stuck around for another two years,thought it might change and plus by the time i had found out i was already in love with the guy.which im aware was very wrong ...

A.   11 June 2008: this guy sounds like a jerk but are u sure u didnt just email her cos u was upset that he wasn't messing round with just u? you say u stuck around for another 2 yrs knowing he was married do u want this guy for youself? by the sounds of it he wants ... (read in full...)

Is he a cheater?

Q.   Why does my husband keep a secret code in his cell phone and doesnt let me know the code? He cheated me before. Does this mean he still cheats? [Added] People tease me about my husband's sex video.I was really feeling sick of this incident whi...

A.   11 June 2008: it sounds like u cnt trust this man y wont he let u know his code it sounds like he has something to hide and the bottom line is if there is no trust then its unlikely to work and i dnt know what u mean about a sex video who was in the video? and ... (read in full...)

How do I find a girl I can connect with?

Q.   greetings anonymous collective, er, hehe, well... i'm going to have a bit of trouble forming my question, because it's not really a question. i am 18 years old and i am... dateless. i always have been. i was a bit late to get into the whole desire...

A.   11 June 2008: hiya i wouldnt worry about meeting girls yet you are still young and doing well in your studies you have plenty of time for fun after your studies but if your looking to meet people then y dnt u get a summer job? its a great way of meeting new ... (read in full...)

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