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Why does my boyfriend take me for granted and annoy me on purpose?

Q.   My boyfriend doesnt say I love you anymore, only texts, and sometimes short texts, doesnt call, and sometimes seems to enjoy annoying me on purpose...what should I do??? I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. About 3-4 months...

A.   5 February 2011: I think it is time to tell him: ' Hi. I have been thinking a lot about our relationship and to be honest i deserve more. I am fed up running after you, fed up of your ignorance and selfishness and the fact that you cannot make any effort to try and ... (read in full...)

Should I stay with my wife and kids, or leave them for the girlfriend I love?

Q.   Wife And Girl friend yep go figure.. Cut to the chase... I have 3 boys, one grown and gone, one grown and very sick living at home may die any time. Younger one also live here at home with my wife and myself. A number of years ago, a tough time sta...

A.   5 February 2011: Here it goes. I dont know what is the thing, she did over and over again. letting you down? Probably it doesn't matter , because the end is the same: your wife hasn't changed. My advice is: don't stay with your wife, if you love the other w... (read in full...)

The constant worrying is driving me insane!

Q.   dear readers my boyfriend and i started having sex about 6 months ago and he uses a condom every time, but the thing is im always very concerned that it will break! he doesnt seem to feel the worry i do and probably thinks im being rediculous...

A.   1 February 2011: You should take contraception. It is 99% safe. wouldnt need to worry about breaking the condom.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't want more children, yet we never use protection

Q.   I'm not sure if I'm pregnant or not. This is all new to me sex and all. I've been having sex with my boyfriend at least twice on the weekends. Sometimes 4 times. Sometimes he pulls out sometimes not. I know you can get preggers pulling out. Lately ...

A.   1 February 2011: Please get a pregnancy test and if you are not pregnant yet, USE protection. Contraceptions are free. yes you want a baby, but into what relationship? It would be so unfair to that poor baby to bring him into this. Secondly, having baby is hard ... (read in full...)

We broke up, we don't talk, what would be a good Valentine gift?

Q.   Well i have a question to ask the community i just recently broke up with my ex fiancee i want to give some sort of background we together for 6 years we had our ups and down i was very immature and lied because she had trust issues with me i admit ...

A.   1 February 2011: my advice would be. Dont send her anything, because she won't appreciate it. Speaking from experience. One it is over, it is over. No point to send anything, it will just take her further and further from you. It must be hard for yiu to go through ... (read in full...)

People don't take me seriously because of the way I look! How can I find a nice guy?

Q.   Ok. I really like the way I look, but people just seem to not take me seriously. I am 16. I am a bleach blonde. a little taller than the regular. I have as some people say the 'perfect nose' (people ask if I had a rynoplasty haha) I have brown eyes, ...

A.   1 February 2011: it must be difficult to hear these comments, but perhaps you should be proud that you are pretty and that you look after yourself. I think you are trying too hard to find a nice guy. You are 16, you will have plenty of time to find a nice guy, but ... (read in full...)

He lies about everything.....how do I find the strength to move on?

Q.   I have known my partner for two and a half years and living at his home for the last year. He has a apartment in Florida and told me that a friend and her two daughters needed a place to live and moved her in. He came back to the u.k and basically ...

A.   1 February 2011: Oh dear! That is so sad that he is treating you like that. It seems like you are there for him, just in case he gets bored of another woman or just to have someone. he seems selfish and narcistic, because everything seems to be around him, he is the ... (read in full...)

I want to get to know this guy better, but I cant leave my boyfriend because of his threats each time I try! Help!

Q.   Please help, I don't know what to do. This is a long story and very confusing too. I'm in a relationship for 6 years, on and off. When i said on and off, I meant, i was looking a better different bf. However, my current bf and I fight all the time. ...

A.   31 January 2011: HI That's not an easy situation. I would like to concentrate first on his begging and crying, etc. that is nothing else than emotinal blackmailing. he knows that you will give in if he does that. he says he will kill himself. I had a boyfriend ... (read in full...)

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