He is living a double life, as a gay.
Q. Please direct me, i just found out my ex-husband is living a double life. He's living as a gay man in Las Vegas,but acting straight when he comes home to visit. We have a really good relationship,our families are very close,in fact I know his ...
A. 6 August 2007: I agree with everything DrPsych said.
To be honest, she probably wants nothing to do with him because she's inherited her views on homosexuality from you. I suspect that's also why he feels like he has to hide who he is. Please don't think I'... (read in full...)
He blocked my car, threw my purse and phone on the floor and slammed doors... is my fiancee abusive?
Q. Is my fiance abusive? Last night I was cooking fries in a oil pot thing and my friend called to give me directions to her house. So, I had taken half of the fries out, and left the others in but unplugged it. Well my fiance came in livid because the ...
A. 5 August 2007: From what you say, it's not you. Sounds like he *definitely* has some pretty major anger issues. That's NOT acceptable behaviour for him to display towards another human being. It's hardly the end of the world that some fries got ruined! Another t... (read in full...)
He wants to have a threesome... but i don't. Should i reconsider this in the future or have I done the right thing by saying no?
Q. He wants to have a 3some... but i don't. Me and my boyfriend have being going out only a little while now and we are pretty active but haven'y had sex yet as i am 15. We are both waiting until my birthday in april. I trust my guy with my life as ...
A. 4 August 2007: If it isn't something you want, you've done *absolutely* the right thing in saying no. You should never feel pressured into doing *anything* that makes you feel uncomfortable or that you might regret... and you should also never do anything you ... (read in full...)
I catch her looking at me and it sends shivers down my spine her gaze is so intense... do you think she fancies me?
Q. Has this ever happened to you: I recently met at work this girl who is sooo like me, personality wise, sense of humour that I GET, and we clicked like that from the first day, and had such a laugh together and at the moment we're at the stage of ...
A. 20 July 2007: From what you say, she *totally* fancies you and yep, she totally thought was a date. And it sounds like you reciprocate so I say go for it! :-)... (read in full...)
How do I choose which guy to go after?
Q. Im a 23 year old gay male living in UK. I have been openly gay for 3 years. Recently I have fell for 2 guys. Both have told me that they are very interested in me. One is 19 and the other 17. At the moment i haven't even kissed either of t...
A. 19 July 2007: Hard decision!
I agree with the advice below from Rachel... consider what's good and bad about each of these guys, weigh it up carefully before you make a decision. I also don't think age is everything but a lot of life experience typicall... (read in full...)
The lad I want to date has a mate who gets upset every time he dates anyone
Q. hey i like this lad who likes me and we both want to go out with each over but, he is worryed bout what his mate would say because when he has been with his ex(s) his mate has been in a mood all the time and he has ended up dumping them because of ...
A. 19 July 2007: I'd try and find out why his friend is being like this... it's probably 'cause the mate feels that they're gonna get left out if he's dating someone. Or because they're jealous?
I'd get this lad to have a talk with his mate and take it from the... (read in full...)
He said he wants to meet me, but then he said he might be too busy! Is this a brush off?
Q. I met a guy a week ago and kissed him, we have txt each other and he says he wants to meet me but when i asked him if he was ok for a drink tonight he says he might be busy. He's sent me messages saying i am beautiful and very sexy but should i take ...
A. 19 July 2007: Has he only said he's busy this once? If so, I'd take it as a sign that he actually *is* busy tonight. However, if he starts to regularly do this I'd give it a rethink... but take him at his word for now.... (read in full...)
Is it possible she is jealous I got a housemate?
Q. Female vs Female relationship. I am in love with my best friend. We are seperated by about 1300 miles. She knows how I feel as I have told her. She is unhappily married (no lectures please) anyway I am convinced she feels the same way about me even ...
A. 19 July 2007: Yeah, she's jealous. But she's also *married*. Sucks, but I'd leave this one alone.... (read in full...)
Is there any situation where a guy should hit or smack a girl?
Q. I need a lot of people's opinions on this subject so if you could give me your perspective it would be great. Ok...Is there any situation where a guy should hit or smack a girl? I mean if the girl is hitting him on his head because she is so mad at ...
A. 19 July 2007: No. There's no acceptable situation for violence to ensue in ANY relationship, regardless of the gender of the people involved.... (read in full...)
I don't know whether I still want to be with him... we're just so different, he stresses out and shouts at me quite a lot, then makes it out like he's hard done by, which makes me feel guilty.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months, but I don't know whether I still want to be with him... we're just so different, he stresses out and shouts at me quite a lot, then makes it out like he's hard done by, which makes me feel guilty. H...
A. 18 July 2007: The fact that he shouts at you "quite a lot" sets off warning bells to me. The fact that he then seems to make out that it's your fault that he loses his temper, doubly so. What makes you think that you're "in too deep" to end it? At the end of th... (read in full...)
I was wondering if any men (or women!) that have gone down on a girl... well what does it taste like???
Q. This is going to sound strange. My boyfriend went down on me for the first time last night. It was amazing but I couldn't relax! I mean I can't see how he was enjoying it??? Basically I got a bit curious and thought I'd taste... and... :S I thou...
A. 18 July 2007: I'm sure you have nothing to worry about. In my experience it can taste "strange" at first but then again so does anything you're not used to. Just relax enjoy it, sounds like your bf had no complaints! :)... (read in full...)
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