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Could this mean she still has feelings for me?

Q.   Me and my ex broke up back in August. However we remained friends. About 2 months later I brought up the idea of hangin out 'just as friends' and she said we could. Well one morning she texts me and says that she didn't want to hang out. Well one ...

A.   12 November 2009: Accept the request. Don't rush it and accept her as a friend for now. LISTEN to what she has to say. She may be looking for someone she can trust and then again she may be looking to get back together with you. Men can never tell what is ... (read in full...)

Why does he prefer masturbation over a beautiful loving wife he says he loves?

Q.   I need some good professional or exact advice from a professioal or from someone that has gone through what I am going through! I have a no sex marriage, when I no sex I mean no sex, in any way, touch or any form at all whats so ever. My husband ...

A.   12 November 2009: Upon reading your question, my gut reaction is that your husband is gay but afraid to say it or unwilling to accept it. The 2nd thought is that he suffers from some form of erectile dysfunction and is afraid to confront a medical conditio... (read in full...)

What am I supposed to do...wait for years to hear those precious words?

Q.   I have been dating a guy for almost a year, and I love him dearly. He is everything I have ever looked for. His actions show that he cares very deeply about me, however he has never said I love you to me, and this bothers me quite a bit. I have ...

A.   12 November 2009: Read "Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus" If you are living with him, just leave it on the night stand, if not, leave it where he can see that your are reading it. NEVER mention it or hint at he should read it. He will read it ... (read in full...)

I have a crush on her, how do I tell her without making her feel weird?

Q.   Hi, I have had a crush on this girl for almost a year. I am FAR too nervous to tell her, cause I'm a girl too! Can you give me an idea on how to tell her without making her feel weird, yet making it known enough that she understands? Any help that ...

A.   12 November 2009: You are in a very hard predicament. I am no expert in same gender affection but having had gay friends, I know that coming out is a very hard thing. Be HONEST. It WILL HURT. However, have faith, it will strengthen you over time. There is ... (read in full...)

Bf thinks I am cheating... how do I prove my love and loyalty? I am lost without him as my best friend.

Q.   ugh I hate to say but the man ive been datin for almost a year thinks im cheating on him he hacks into my myspace and things and says im looking for sex with other guys which im not and when i go back and read the thing he sees it says nothin about ...

A.   12 November 2009: Dump him. You have value for who you are. Until you find a man who wants you for you, not what you can do for him, you deserve better. When you look in the mirror and see a person worthy of being loved for who she is, you need to work on ... (read in full...)

Does the truth come out when you're drunk?

Q.   does the truth come out when ur drunk? I always feel like when i have had a few drinks i always say exactly how i feel, its like u have the confidence to say it. A guy that i know well always tells me her really likes me when he is deunk. he alway...

A.   12 November 2009: From a guy who told a girl A when he was drunk and B when he was sober: I was scared out of my wits. I wanted to marry the woman who was may friend but she had told me a) that she was a player and b) she was not ready for marriage. Each time I w... (read in full...)

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