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Should I follow my heart towards him or my head away from him like everyone is telling me I should do?

Q.   Trying to stop myself from falling for this guy yet again (he's an ex boyfriend who seems to keep coming back into my life). Everyone tells me he's a bad guy and I can do way better and I know why they say it, as he has a history of cheating and if ...

A.   16 November 2006: I'm sort of in a similar situation, been off/on w/my ex for a couple of months and because I've told my friends all the stuff that happens they think he's bad for me and I should forget about him. Kind of like why are you still putting yourself thru ... (read in full...)

I don't want to put the pressure on him about me moving, so what should I do???

Q.   Guys - I will try to keep this short. Any help is so much appreciated. So, I have posted before about my boyfriend who lives in Ireland. I live in the UK. WE have been together two years and the general consensus is that I will one day move to ...

A.   31 October 2006: I am almost in the same situation in the U.S. My bf & I were perfect the first couple of months but then I moved an hr away & we have since been on & off (since about July). I recently finished my internship I moved her to do and am considering ... (read in full...)

Is it a good sign or a bad sign that my ex finally answered the phone and spoke to me ?

Q.   I posted a note on here a week ago about my bf/ex bf being so distant. He has been ignoring all my texts/phone calls for about a month now besides 2 texts he sent that were basically telling me he'd call me when he wanted to get back w/me and that I ...

A.   28 September 2006: Just an update: He called me last night saying he missed me even though he hasn't showed it lately and also said he loves me. I told him I was just really confused and didn't know if we were over for good so i paniced & apologized for texting him ... (read in full...)

How do I get him back, Surely he wouldnt come around to help out if he were not interested ?

Q.   Hi its me again from yesterday i asked about my ex b/f who left me. Now he is saying he just wants his stuff and i cannot ever have his love anymore that i pushed him away. he wants to come over to do the yard but i told him thats okay i can do it ...

A.   26 September 2006: I love lostandalone's answer. I have almost the same ordeal going on. I'm in grad school & have money, my currently 'ex b/f' quit college because he ran out of money, he started doing construction which pays well but still doesn't have much to fall ... (read in full...)

What is it like to live with an alcoholic?

Q.   i would like to know from anyone who knows how is it like to live with someone who is an alcoholic but can carry himself well when drunk. The reason i ask cos i think i have fallen for someone who drinks a lot (but make perfect sense while chatting) ...

A.   24 September 2006: I am sort of in your same situation. The guy I've been dating for 4 months came to me & said he wanted to go to rehab. That over a month ago & he has not brought it up since nor went. We have since broke up twice (once was just a misunderstanding ... (read in full...)

Hes a true sweetheart and I really want to help him, but hes so distant, should I just be patient ?

Q.   Question: He started being distant, I love him and don't know what to do! I was dating a guy for 4 months. Everything was perfect in the beginning, but I moved about 2 months into it. I'm only an hr away so we still managed to see each other even ...

A.   22 September 2006: Thank you for your advice, I have had people tell me ideas that were similar. I guess he does drink alot, but he's never been violent or anything like that. I think alot of it has to do w/his roommate (who is 22), who wasn't in the picture the 1st ... (read in full...)

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