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I am a private teacher and a composer, living in the South West UK. I have a number of students at all ages and always listen to what they have to say. I have had a lot of experiences in life and am hopefully able to pass these onto others in a relatively unbiased way.

I have several hobbies which include, music, vegetarian cookery, snooker, photography, art, drama, and travelling. I have a strong sense of what I believe to be right and wrong and am a comfirmed agnostic. I am very liberal minded and can sometimes be too frank for my own good.

Out of all the Agony Aunts and Agony Uncles in the world my idols include Claire Raynor, Maury Povich and especially Jeremy Kyle as he is from my neck of the woods and is also a fellow West Ham United supporter.

I also am a lover of nature and a lover of the principles of nature and believe we should always let nature take her place and go with it.

If my opinion can help in any way then it makes efforts in here very worthwhile.

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This girl I recently got to know told me she likes me; I don't feel the same way but I feel bad about rejecting her

Q.   Hi Everyone, I'm sure there's been numerous topics like this but, there's this girl that's in my summer school class that I just got to know. She just told me that she liked me, but the problem is that I don't feel the same way. She confesse...

A.   24 July 2007: Maybe explain to her that she is extremely attractive but you do not feel the chemistry that should be there for the relationship to work from your point of view. Maybe explain that the love you feel for her is like a love you feel for a very ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with this girl but she says she doesn't want to go out with me because we're best friends

Q.   I'm completely in love with my best friend. She is everything I have ever wanted in a girl. She is smart, funny, is interested in the the same things I am (the list goes on). I've told her that I had feelings for her, but since we are best friends ...

A.   24 July 2007: From this I assume one of two things, either your best friend is terrified of loosing you as a best friend or she quite simply does not find you attractive in that way. When you cross the line from platonic friendship to physical relatio... (read in full...)

Does giving me a hickie mean he likes me too?

Q.   if this boy i like gave me a hicky does that mean he likes me....

A.   21 July 2007: It can mean he likes you or it can mean he is hungary. Joking aside though hickies (Or love bites) are a physical thing and very rarely represent true feelings. A way that he holds your hand or the way that he looks into your eyes would give you ... (read in full...)

Why do I only want what I can't get/don't have?

Q.   why do i always want what i cant have?? When i had the perfect boyfriend i didnt want him and stopped liking him. Now im single,i want my ex back but i cant have him. Can anybody shed some light on this?...

A.   21 July 2007: You sent him away when you were with him now you want him back. I think you need to look elseware and think more carefully and be more gracious realising how good it is when you have it. The grass is always greener on the other side, we all want... (read in full...)

How do you know when it is right to kiss a guy?

Q.   hey guys, i am in love with his guy, and i want to know when the time is right to kiss him, but also how can you tell if he is hinting not just to kiss but hold hands etc. ? pls help x...

A.   21 July 2007: Ask him - he is probably thinking about the same thing. You both seem unsure how to go about it and one of you needs to take the lead a little bit. Try cuddling first and let things occur naturally. If you are both right for each other you w... (read in full...)

My dad says I'm lazy and he refuses to buy me anything

Q.   Help my dad won't speak to me. He is very mad at me for not helping him with his office work. Now he won't buy me anything. He says that I am very lazy. Not even new clothes to wear to school. What should I do?...

A.   21 July 2007: Have you ever heard of You'll scratch my back and I'll scratch yours. It is what makes the world go around. Give and take - give it a try. Concerntrate on what you can give and not what you take so much and it may make you a nicer and warmer p... (read in full...)

Is it ok to spend the night at my girlfriends house?

Q.   My special lady owns a house, so i sometime on weekends spend in her house, i live with my cousin, now my cousin is all over me saying am doing it wrong, me i dont find it wrong, my girl too does not find it wrong too. Am asking for advise about th...

A.   21 July 2007: There seems to be nothing wrong here. Go for it and have fun.... (read in full...)

He as nice to me on the bus, but then sent nasty instant messages on the computer

Q.   This boy who I sort of like is always flirting with me on the bus and on Thursday afternoon on the bus back from school he tried to get one of my best friends to move so that he could sit next to me. He is really nice to me on the bus and he also ...

A.   21 July 2007: He isn't worth it. Maybe he was just doing this in front of his friends or as a dare or something. I would have thought the more genuine article would have had this situation of behaviour the other way around.... (read in full...)

I want to wait until she is old enough to date

Q.   Following up from my previous question whereby I asked for advice concerning the 4 and a half year gap (14/19)between myself and the girl I met I just want to thank everyone for reassuring me about how I am no 'monster' as I put it. Going on the a...

A.   21 July 2007: There is nothing wrong in letting her know that you are in love with her. Please be aware though that the mind of a 14 year old girl can change and by the time she is 16 her feelings may have changed substantially from where they may be at the m... (read in full...)

His mother won't approve of our two year relationship--should I end it?

Q.   I am a 43 yr old Englishwoman. My boyfriend is 24 and from an Eastern European country. We work together and have lived together for over 2 yrs. We are totally in love but his mother doesn't approve of our relationship. Our problem (his mother) ...

A.   21 July 2007: His mother is using the inheritance as her last weapon so to say. What is it about you that she does not like - I gather nothing important as she has not met you and also by the sound of it refuses to do so. The one I feel sorry for is your boy... (read in full...)

I caught my friend kissing a teacher--what do I do?

Q.   I caught my best friend with another female teacher in a cupboard. They were stood in front of me kissing and I didn't know what to do so I pretended I didn't see. This teacher is engaged and doesn't seem to talk to my best friend--...

A.   21 July 2007: My temptation in your shoes would have been to have visited this teacher with a tape recorder on your person. Many mobile phones have this function on them nowadays. This is quite wrong and needs to be exposed for what it is.... (read in full...)

How can I stop having sex with my brother? I know it's wrong and I know it has to stop, I just don't know how!

Q.   My parents went away for the weekend and my brother and I threw a party. After a wild night of drinking and everyone had left we made an attempt at cleaning up. We started messing about throwing stuff and toy fighting until he held me down and ...

A.   21 July 2007: The main problem you have here is not between yourselves but society in general. It is frowned upon very much so like others have said be careful, be very careful. In short though you are doing nothing wrong as you are both consenting to it. ... (read in full...)

My teacher split up with his partner...should I make a move?

Q.   Hi its me again remember before when i said i was in love with my teacher and that he was in a LTR...? Well now they have split up and i really wanted make a move but i don't have the guts because i know almost for sure he'll push me away and thin...

A.   21 July 2007: As a teacher myself I am telling you DO NOT GET INVOLVED HERE. If this was to go ahead you would be breaking almost every rule in the book - he would loose his job, probably go to prison, you would be removed from the school you are presentl... (read in full...)

I'm going to meet a boyfriend's parents for the first time in my life; I'm very shy and so nervous about it

Q.   Help! I have to visit my boyfriend's parents for the first time tomorrow. This is the first time I've ever met a b.f.'s family. I know, surprising for a 35 year old. I'm very introverted and self-conscious and socially anxious (and don't exactly ...

A.   21 July 2007: A meal like this with your boyfriends parents is just an opportunity for you all to get to know each other a bit more. It is so you can see his background and learn a whole lot more about him, and it is so his parents can see that he is not dati... (read in full...)

I'm a Christian and believe in waiting to have sex; I've already had it, however but now I want to wait to have it again until we're married. My boyfriend isn't happy

Q.   I am a Christian and believe in waiting until marriage before having sex. The problem is I have already had sex with my fiance, and previous boyfriends. I still want to wait, but my fiance argues that if I stopped doing it now after doing it for ...

A.   21 July 2007: Having sex is part of what two people do in a relationship. It is the very closest that two people can get together. Any boyfriend would be very upset at this - after all he has already accepted that he isn't the first and why should he now wait ... (read in full...)

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