Computer Trouble, Or Is He Ignoring Me?
Q. I met a man on my holiday and we said we would stay friends. At first5 he ansawered my e mails but now he isnt so I can take it as a brush off. However If I sent e mails and they werent getting to him would it come back as undeliverable or not ...
A. 8 July 2008: Mails can get "lost in the system".
If he, or his Internet Service Provider, or his company techies if it's a business mail address/mail server, have an over-enthusiastic anti-spam filter, which is quite common these days with the amount of spam ... (read in full...)
She doesn't seem to be able to have an orgasm since she went through the menopause. What can I do?
Q. I am 49 and my new girlfriend is 49. We are both very athletic. She has gone through menopause, and now cannot reach an orgasm. What can I do? I have tried everything that I know. she wants to make sure that I am satisfied, but I want to take care ...
A. 7 July 2008: Try reading this article. It might help.
http://www.buzzle.com/articles/sex-after-menopause-difficulties-delights.html... (read in full...)
Do men expect you to sleep with them right away even if you don't fancy them??
Q. Its a pity becasue although I am not spring chicxken I am told I am attractive and lots of married men seem to like me BUt why cannot I find someone who really likes me? I worked with some women once who said if you dont behave more in line of ...
A. 7 July 2008: No you most definitely don't have to sleep with a man right away.
Nor does any man worth bothering about EXPECT you to sleep with him right away. He probably HOPES you will, because that's how most of us are, but expecting it is another matter a... (read in full...)
Confused, I have a girlfriend, but attracted to certain guys, am I gay?
Q. Today I was at a friends house for his pool party, we were messing around and jumping in the pool and stuff and he dived, and his swim trunks came off. Then I jumped in after him(w/ goggles) and then everybody else. Nobody payed any attention to it ...
A. 7 July 2008: For most people, sexuality doesn't settle properly until late teens. Some know for certain much earlier, and for some they still aren't completely sure which way they want to go until very much later. Either way it's not a problem and there's no ... (read in full...)
Me and my cousin are flirting a lot. I want to have sex with her...
Q. okay i am 15 and my cousin is 14 and every time we're together i can't stop thinking about her and we always flirt every time we're together like at our family cottage me her and my sister slept in the top floor of our bunkhouse and me and her were ...
A. 6 July 2008: I just checked this out. Scrazy is absolutely right. The age of consent in Canada was 14, but was raised to 16 in a new law that took effect from 28th February THIS year. However, there are some exclusions to the new law, that might mean it'... (read in full...)
I'm scared my friend's boyfriend will ruin our friendship
Q. My best friend has this boyfriend, I am happy for her and she deserves to have a boyfriend who is devoted and wont treat her like trash, but it seems that she way more concerned about impressin him than spending time with me and our little group, ...
A. 6 July 2008: No, Winker.
If a friend’s friendship with her boyfriend offends, feeling friendly with a boyfriend or even a boyfriend’s friend will offend too. To recommend to befriend a boyfriend to intend to amend… well, to what end? Extend to your friend t... (read in full...)
Can watching pornography, while masturbating, affect your sex life in a negative way?
Q. Ok so Im 15, and ive been watching porn and masturbating since the 5th grade, and was a virgin until this day. I finally found a girl who really likes me, so we go to an area and fool around. I was hard while during the foreplay, but when she began ...
A. 6 July 2008: It's nothing to do with the porn. It's simply that with masturbation you do it "perfectly" for you. You put pressure on exactly the right places, go as fast as you like or as slow as you like. Sex with a woman doesn't work like that.
When ... (read in full...)
Me and my cousin are flirting a lot. I want to have sex with her...
Q. okay i am 15 and my cousin is 14 and every time we're together i can't stop thinking about her and we always flirt every time we're together like at our family cottage me her and my sister slept in the top floor of our bunkhouse and me and her were ...
A. 6 July 2008: You've had some fairly forceful answers, so I hope I can put it into perspective a little.
Falling in love with your cousin isn't wrong, or dirty, or nasty or anything like that. In the UK you could marry your cousin if you wanted, although... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?
Q. I am considering to lose my virginity seeing a prostitute. Now I would like to hear some people's advice who have been in a similar situation. I am male, 23 years old and suffer from a quite bad case of virginity - so to say. I have never even ...
A. 6 July 2008: All right. In direct answer to your questions.
1. No, and no.
2. Yes, and no, but only because I have no need or desire to.
3. No. Yes.
4. Yes. Varied.
5. No.
I think that covers it.... (read in full...)
I feel drained all the time, but my mum won't take me to the doctor
Q. could there be a reason why im totally drained out? im only 16, all my friends are out partying and with friends, yeh i do go out but i just cant be arsed, up until like the middle of may i was really energetic. played rugby, swimming, badminton, ...
A. 5 July 2008: A visit to the doctor's really is a good idea because there are a range of possible causes, some of which do need treatment - although unless you can tell the doctor rather more about the symptoms than you've told us so far, or the doctor spots some ... (read in full...)
I saw my 44 yearold mother having sex - surely she is too old?
Q. I am 24. My mom is 44 she had a divorce after long married life of 28years.She was shattered and had lived a lonely life all alone for a year in her small parental town. When I got setelled with good job in a bigger town she came to live with me in ...
A. 5 July 2008: Get it firmly in your head that lust and sex is just as good, just as acceptable, and just as desirable for people in their forties, fifties, sixties and considerably older.
It's good. In fact it's marvellous. And with the experience and know... (read in full...)
What's the secret of such a happy marriage all these plain, unsexy women in their 50s seem to have?
Q. Without being bitchy I know of quite a lot of women in their 50's who have been married for years and still happy and they are nothign to look at they are to be blunt quite plain but have good husbands. This of course is nice-but what is the sec...
A. 5 July 2008: I'm tempted to say that it's simply because sex isn't everything.
Actually that's true, and a relationship based on nothing but being sexy is very unlikely to last.
The secret to having a successful relationship is, I believe, actually wanting... (read in full...)
I had a baby very young and people seem to judge me. How should I handle this?
Q. why do people always judge me when they see my in the streets, or abuse me and call me all the names under the sun when they see me with my child. im 16 now, just after my 14th birthday i was raped by a friend of my cousins in his late 20's and ...
A. 4 July 2008: There are times, just when the thought is going through my mind that everyone today is a complete waste of space, someone like you comes along and completely ruins my usual cynical, grumpy, lack of faith in humanity.
As I wipe away a tear (literal... (read in full...)
What are the age limits to date a 16 y/o girl??
Q. Theres no real story behind this question but what would you say is the oldest and youngest age a man should be for dating a 16 year old girl?...
A. 4 July 2008: Assuming your flag is correct - the age of consent in Turkey is 18, and has been since 2004. It was previously 15. So any sexual contact is illegal until both of the participants are 18.
From my little experience of Turkey and its rules and laws... (read in full...)
Are there different types of orgasm?
Q. Are there diffrent types of orgasims? I can only get one if a man rubs my upper vaginal area where you pee. I feel good when I have intercourse but don't orgasim. What's my prob? thanx for input...
A. 4 July 2008: From my (limited?) experience, women are different. Some need both penetration and other stimulation; some need more of one than the other; a few seem to explode in an orgasm whatever gets touched as long as it's done in the right way. I don't t... (read in full...)
Is a curved penis a problem, or am I over reacting?
Q. my penis curves slightly to the left (about 9 inches if that means anything) is this normal?...
A. 4 July 2008: Hey guys and girls, have a heart.
I'm gettting an inferiority complex here.
Everyone keeps saying (and this isn't the first question about it by any means) that a curved penis is normal, and better than a straight one! Well, MINE's NOT CURVE... (read in full...)
I had a baby very young and people seem to judge me. How should I handle this?
Q. why do people always judge me when they see my in the streets, or abuse me and call me all the names under the sun when they see me with my child. im 16 now, just after my 14th birthday i was raped by a friend of my cousins in his late 20's and ...
A. 4 July 2008: Ignore them.
Be proud of yourself and of your baby. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks - they don't know you, and if they're as blinkered and prejudiced as to judge you before they know anything about you then they're not people you want... (read in full...)
I'm scared that I have cancer
Q. Im really scared that I have cancer when I go to the toilet for a number 2 there is blood there it is bright red and it can be quite alot. Also there is mucus there too quite a bit of it and when I need to pass wind there is always mucus that comes ...
A. 4 July 2008: First I must say that it's essential you keep your appointment with the doctor. Any sort of bleeding from the bowels needs medical examination and treatment.
Bowel cancer is very unlikely at your age. Mucus and bleeding with soft stools is most ... (read in full...)
For Men: Questions about women!
Q. This is kind of a funny question but why do men like to smell women's hair? Is a womens scent attracting to a man? I know that everybody likes someone to smell good but is this like a sign of beauty? This is just a fun question for men what is it i...
A. 4 July 2008: Smelling hair? Yeah. Monkeys do that too. Maybe it's just some primaeval instinct.
And what is it about a woman that makes us want them? That's fairly basic too. They're female. It's as simple as that.... (read in full...)
How can I be a good Christian and still have a life? My parents are too strict.
Q. My parents and I don't get along very well. Ever since a really bad incident a little over a year ago, they don't trust me with anything. I'm still allowed to do stuff, but you know, they still have that dissappointed tone. I'm a Christian, and I ...
A. 4 July 2008: Parents ALWAYS want to control their kids, although most manage to back off and allow the kids to grow up into reasonably balanced people. It's not a Christain thing, it's just a parent thing. They happen to be particularly religious people, so it ... (read in full...)
What's the clue that a western boy wanna go to bed with a girl?
Q. Hello,guys,I'm a Chinese girl.I'm wonering what's the clue that a western boy wanna go to bed with a girl. I have a friend and he's enlish.He wanted to invite me to watch a film in his own apartment.Before that we are only common friends and we t...
A. 4 July 2008: Most western boys want to go to bed with a girl. Any girl. Although that doesn't mean they (we!) are all going to try to do it with any girl that happens to be around.
Friendship is important. Even if he does show signs he wants to go to bed w... (read in full...)
I am feeling overwhelmed, trying to be a good mom, but I really need help, how do I get it?
Q. ok so im a mum of three 6,5,2 and married i feel like i cant cope my husband works long hours so i have to get up early and get the kids dressed then do all the housework dinner is always ready then he will go out to football training or casino and ...
A. 3 July 2008: Erm.. did I understand you correctly?
He works long hours, fine. But you work all day and all evening with the house and the kids, AND work weekends - yet HE has time to go to the casino and/or football training?
It's not on. It's far from be... (read in full...)
I want to have sex, but my nervousness is interfering, with my performance, any suggestions?
Q. So I'm an 18 yo guy, and still a virgin. I've had the opprotunity to have sex twice. Both times I was nervous as hell. Like beyond nervous if you can imagine. There was very little to no forplay going on before we tried, and both times I went limp. ...
A. 3 July 2008: Ever see the film "Cabaret"?
It went something like this (I may be misquoting slightly):
"No, I'm not going to sleep with you. I've had sex with just two women in my life, and on both occasions it was a complete failure."
[A few hours la... (read in full...)
Help! Do I study hard or quit, I am torn, what would you do?
Q. I’m doing triple science award for GCSE and I’ve been doing this for about 5 months. I'm not an academic kid to be honest (i have dyslexia, dyscalculia and a form of short term memory loss) and I’m in a class full of brain boxes at a very ...
A. 3 July 2008: Is all the hard work really worth it?
No.
Probably not.
Unless... there's always an "unless", isn't there? Unless you want to continue your academic success into one of the top universities. Oxford? Cambridge? If you have the ability and... (read in full...)
The Understanding Male Species...or not?
Q. After reading several of the replies submitted by Agony Uncles here on Dear Cupid, I have come to realise, or should I say, believe, that the majority of them are really very sympathetic, kind, loving, caring ~ but most of all understanding. But ...
A. 3 July 2008: Is that how you read my reply, Collaroy?
Read it again, because that's most certainly not what I was saying, and the differences between men and women were the last thing on my mind when I wrote it. My thoughts apply to both men and women eq... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?
Q. I am considering to lose my virginity seeing a prostitute. Now I would like to hear some people's advice who have been in a similar situation. I am male, 23 years old and suffer from a quite bad case of virginity - so to say. I have never even ...
A. 3 July 2008: You're going round in circles with this and not getting anywhere.
One point that I don't think anyone has made yet: there are millions of girls out there. In your whole life you will probably only meet a few hundred of them at the most, and that... (read in full...)
How do I ask my husband to do stuff for me without sounding too much like a nag?
Q. Hi everyone. I would just like to know something about my husband that I dont understand. He is really a great guy. Easy going and not too full of nonsense. But what baffles me, is that when I ask him to do something, there is a procrastination. Thou...
A. 3 July 2008: Ha!
You have an average, absolutely normal husband. No, it's not a communication breakdown. No, you shouldn't be asking him differently. As your friend says, it's a male thing. Many (most? all?) of us are like that, although we frequent... (read in full...)
I'd like to save my marrige - but it feels like it's only me trying.
Q. I'm confused! My husband cheated on me numerous of times (5) I got herpes from him, separated for nine months almost got divorced and dicided to give our kids one more chance to have mom and dad together. And now after being 5 years back together I ...
A. 3 July 2008: Cheating once might, possibly, be regarded as a silly mistake and a lesson learned. Five times just isn't forgivable under any circumstances that I could think of.
It's probably going to happen again. And that won't be good for you or for the ... (read in full...)
The Understanding Male Species...or not?
Q. After reading several of the replies submitted by Agony Uncles here on Dear Cupid, I have come to realise, or should I say, believe, that the majority of them are really very sympathetic, kind, loving, caring ~ but most of all understanding. But ...
A. 3 July 2008: Actually, no. Far too many people, men and women, expect far too much from their relationship, which I believe is why so many relationships break down.
To be caring and considerate is, naturally, important from both sides. Would my wife say that... (read in full...)
I'm dating an older guy online, could he be using me?
Q. Hello. I have a question to ask.... I am a 15 year old girl...and i'm dating a soon to be 22year old male over the internet. My friends think it's wrong and my parents don't know about my relationship with this guy.. I want to move o...
A. 2 July 2008: There's a lot of panic about Internet relationships when there's an age difference like this, and nine times out of ten it's completely unnecessary.
BUT, and I hope you're reading this carefully because it's a very big BUT, there is a risk and... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?
Q. I am considering to lose my virginity seeing a prostitute. Now I would like to hear some people's advice who have been in a similar situation. I am male, 23 years old and suffer from a quite bad case of virginity - so to say. I have never even ...
A. 2 July 2008: I think it would be a great pity if your first time was with a prostitute.
Not because it "devalues" sex. It doesn't.
Not because of any morality. That's a matter of personal values and/or religion if you have one.
Not because you... (read in full...)
I need help before I get sacked!
Q. HI there! I need your help! I am very reluctant to my work most of the time. I procrastinate works. And feel asleep early, wake up early in the morning with depression, and generally become ineffective in my office. Since I am in new office my ...
A. 2 July 2008: Check that you're eating healthily and a variety of different foods - and that doesn't mean eating everything that the "experts" tell us is good for us. Enjoy food. Eating and enjoying what we eat is an important part of our general health and ... (read in full...)
Anyone have any idea how we can arrange an underage marriage?
Q. Ok so I am under 18 and I have this boyfriend who is 38. He and I want to get married but I know my parents won't allow it. No body even knows about him. So my question is, what can I do to be with him? Legally I mean. We have been ...
A. 2 July 2008: I don't think you can do anything legally except wait until you are old enough.
If I understand the laws of the USA correctly, you have to be over 18 to make that sort of decision - and doing something drastic like going abroad where the laws may... (read in full...)
This is starting to really worry me now, could I be pregnant?
Q. This is starting to really worry me now, could i be pregnant? It's been constantly plagueing my mind these last few days, well, here's the facts and inordetlly someone can help, i had unprotected sex with my man 5 days ago, he didn't come whilst ...
A. 2 July 2008: Yes you could be pregnant. You need to get a pregnancy test done as soon as it's going to produce reliable results (14 days, I think??).
Unprotected sex is crazy, for loads of reasons you already know. What you also need to remember (assumin... (read in full...)
What size and shape of girl do men prefer?
Q. I'm really curious. Do guys Prefer Skinny, slim, curvy or overweight girls? If you had to pick a clothing size for a girl what would it be?...
A. 2 July 2008: OK, so I do really, really find women of all shapes and sizes beautiful and desirable - which doesn't mean I'm going to go chasing after all of them...
The women who make me look twice when I first see them are generally fairly curvy, but that's a... (read in full...)
What size and shape of girl do men prefer?
Q. I'm really curious. Do guys Prefer Skinny, slim, curvy or overweight girls? If you had to pick a clothing size for a girl what would it be?...
A. 2 July 2008: Oh yes. Absolutely.
Skinny, slim, curvy OR overweight is good.
The criteria for a girl worth loving is that she is human, has at least a few of her bodyparts in reasonable working order, and is aged somewhere between 16 and around 70.... (read in full...)
My husband kissed a girl who stays with us. I need some advice what best to do.
Q. Am married for 5years,am having a son of 4years and and within a month am expect our second child.my husband has been always faithful to me.he shares with me everything and it hard for us two to keep secret for each other.In our house we have a girl ...
A. 2 July 2008: A kiss or two doesn't have to be the end of the world, and nor does the desire to have sex. There are very, very few men (if any) who never have the desire to have sex with another woman at some point during a marriage. Actually doing it is quite ... (read in full...)
Is eating large amounts of dried fruit bad??
Q. I love eating dried fruit in between meals and for snacking on and i realised yesterday how fattening it is because of the suagar-sugar on the dry papaya and apricots etc....Im gutted-all the dry fruit seems to contain the same calories and fat!!! I...
A. 2 July 2008: Dried fruit is difficult for your body to digest. Most doesn't contain ANY vitamin C which is the important vitamin we usually associate with fresh fruit. Some dried fruits are a good source of iron, and others contain beta-carotene (which is, or ... (read in full...)
My step-father and I are masturbating together everynow and then...is this ok?
Q. HI I am a 15 year old boy My stepfather and i are masterbating together every now and then I was just wandering if it is ok??...
A. 2 July 2008: I think you know the answer, because it's not the sort of thing you would ask about unless it made you feel uncomfortable.
Don't do it.... (read in full...)
Tonsilitis? How can I reduce the swelling? Help!!!!!!!
Q. it's 5:00am in the morning. I know a little late for somebody to be up now isn't it? Well it's cause about an hour ago, I decided I was going to go to bed, but before I decided to go to bed, I decided to look inside my mouth, cause it had been ...
A. 2 July 2008: It doesn't sound silly, but you shouldn't worry that much! Your body is quite good at keeping your airway clear and warning you fairly rapidly of any problems even if you're asleep. If you are able to swallow water then it's nothing to be very ... (read in full...)
Tonsilitis? How can I reduce the swelling? Help!!!!!!!
Q. it's 5:00am in the morning. I know a little late for somebody to be up now isn't it? Well it's cause about an hour ago, I decided I was going to go to bed, but before I decided to go to bed, I decided to look inside my mouth, cause it had been ...
A. 2 July 2008: A throat infection like you describe usually needs antibiotics.
Gargling with soluble aspirin if you've got some can help to take the pain away and can reduce the swelling, but don't do it if there's any risk you're allergic to aspirin AND make... (read in full...)
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