Where can I find someone who wants to date me?
Q. I am 22 and never been on a date because no man has ever asked me out and I don't know where to go to find men who want to date me. I don't frequent bars or clubs. I have tried doing some volunteering activities and in college I previously joine...
A. 27 October 2017: It's 2017, The world wants trans-gendered bathrooms, equal pay for both genders and cars that work on electricity. Times are changing, sitting down and looking pretty won't work as much anymore. Everyone is getting more skilled and as result ... (read in full...)
Do I need to' know' he is the one?
Q. I’m 29. My parter is 10 years older. We’ve been together 5 years. I love him; he loves me and everything is great. I just want to know what people think of soul mates? Or when people say ‘when you know, you know’ i guess i just know that our re...
A. 26 October 2017: Please don't get carried away with Hollywood's next romantic comedy about "soulmates" and "the-one". I don't think it's always about something clicking, it's about the fact that you appreciate having the person in your life. Although not against it, ... (read in full...)
Guys, do you miss the other woman if the affair ends suddenly?
Q. Guys, do you miss your mistress when your affair ended suddenly. I just ended my affair with a married man. Without stating the reason why. I know it’s wrong to be in love with him. So please spare me all the nasty comments. I feel kinda ...
A. 26 October 2017: To an extent sure, why not? I'm assuming it was more of sex-thing rather than a lets-run-off-into-the-sunset thing. You need to realise that he's a cheater...cheaters tend to lie...so you shouldn't be too surprised if he's lying to you. Chances are ... (read in full...)
I found out my husband went for an adult massage before we married
Q. I just checked my husband phone and found out that he went to adult massage before we marry 2 months back. His friend asked him to join last week and he rejected it as he said hes broke now. Yes he is financially unstable now as he loss some from ...
A. 26 October 2017: It's a bit odd he's doing something like this so early in the marriage but it could be that he's adjusting to the sudden change from the single life. Form what i understand he didn't cheat per se although he actions weren't right. Men tend to do w... (read in full...)
How can I gauge how much he loves me?
Q. Guys help please.. What does it mean when he says he thinks of me sometimes all day? I am trying to figure out how he feels i guess... I know i am in love with him pretty much and i think of him everyday all day see.... Now that would mean that well ...
A. 16 October 2017: Men are very simple being. If I tell a girl I've been thinking about her all day that pretty much indicates that I like her. As for love, that's a different ballpark, something that needs to come from the horses mouth.
Don't stress it out just go ... (read in full...)
I'm struggling with taking care of my ailing mother!
Q. I'm struggling right now. I'm feeling guilty and I just don't know what to do. About 8 months ago my mother suffered with gout. During the time she suffered from anxiety and depression. She found it hard to get out of bed. She self diagnosed herself ...
A. 16 October 2017: I can relate, I also have an ailing mother and It's not always easy. Feeling stressed out is perfectly normal especially when around energizes that are sad or angry. You must learn to take time out for yourself. Do things that intentionally bo... (read in full...)
We just don't DO anything!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together since we were 17 and although we are happy, I feel our relationship is just really boring. I was watching a show the other day and this couple did so many fun activities together and when we talk his sister, ...
A. 16 September 2017: Here's my two cents from the mind of a guy relatively within the same age bracket. We're very simple beings. All you need to do is just tell us what you want. Doing boring activates without your input means that everything is peachy on your end. You ... (read in full...)
Struggling with my sexuality because of bad experiences with women
Q. I know what the problem is, I just don't know how to fix it. Growing up, every experience I've ever had with women was bad, including my own psycho mother. A part from just being friends, women left a really bad taste in my mouth. Sometime ...
A. 27 September 2016: Thanks for the detailed responses guys. I have responses for you both. @singinbluebird I don't think i support your answer, it's just not that simple. When i was younger i liked girls just as much a guys but because of the constant let dow... (read in full...)
Should my stepbrother and I date in secret? Our parents have told us that we can't.
Q. me and my step brother like eachother but my step mom and my dad have set us tow down and said we cant date but i want to know if we should date secertly or not ...
A. 28 March 2016: This one is a bit sticky, but it all comes down to the stigma of society. It's really up to you, you two are not related so it should be fine. It's just explaining your relationship to others that can pose a problem. You guys are young, so it may ... (read in full...)
He's at least 10 years older than me. Should I go with it?
Q. hi I started going to the gym and began to have a crush on a guy. I'm thinking he knows I like him because he introduced himself to me and said to ask him if I need help with the machines. The only thing is that he's probably at least 10 years older ...
A. 28 March 2016: It's fine. As you get older you begin to realise age is soooooooooooo unimportant. It's just the stigma of society. If you like him, take a chance. Not to mention he's the older one which I believe makes things easier. He could very well end up ... (read in full...)
Why am I pushing this good man away?
Q. I have been dating a man for 6 months. Everything has been great. He's very sweet, very gentle, and would do anything for me. I find myself pushing him away within the past few weeks, distancing myself for no reason....picking small fights, turning ...
A. 15 March 2014: From what I understand girls like when guys bring drama in their lives and excite them. Maybe you feel a tad bit bored by him so as a result you subconsciously try to get more out of him so you can see different sides of his personality. Being kin... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but am attracted to the gay guy at work!
Q. I work at a book store near my hometown. I'm pretty shy so it's hard for me to connect with people. It's been a couple of months since I started working there, so it's getting easier. My coworkers are actually pretty cool. Especially one person in ...
A. 15 March 2014: Take a breather, relax. Having a crush on a co-worker is perfectly normal. However, the person you have a crush on is gay.
Because he's gays doesn't mean you have no chance, it just means it's unlikely but you never know. Seeing that he is gay, ... (read in full...)
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