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Hi There,

I live in the North of England and am a 34 year old busy singleton! I am a bit of a nightowl and discovered this site by chance a year or so ago and have been popping in and out ever since, answering questions whenever I think I can help in some way!

Im pretty open minded, a big fan of Bob Dylan, Bill Hicks and Eddie Izzard which gives you an idea of my outlook on life!

Ive had my fair share of romance happiness and heartache and would love to be thinner but am pretty happy and grounded on the whole and hope to advise and help wherever I can.

Love Twirly xx

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Should I cut my losses and let him go? Am I reading too much into it all?

Q.   I have some niggling doubts about my boyfriend that I have been going out with for 2 years. He is 5 years younger than me - I am 36. When I first met him he admitted he had been keeping a few girls on the possibles list until then. This was ...

A.   8 April 2008: Hi Sweetheart, Im so sorry to hear your story, I really feel for you and my advice would be to follow your inxtincts as sadly they are probably right. All things aside, you are in a relationship that is making you feel insecure and under apprec... (read in full...)

Guys, would you be turned off if a girl had someone else's name tattooed on her?

Q.   I have a bf that doesnt trust me at all, and i got his initials tattooed on myself.........i really love him, but i dont know if it's going to work out.....guy out there..would you be turned off about the idea of a girl with someonelses name on ...

A.   5 April 2008: I hope things work out for you with this guy, although the fact that you got the tattoo more to re-assure him than for yourself doesn't bode too well, as it suggests he is insecure and that you are having to over sompensate to appease him. If it... (read in full...)

I'm having an affair with a married man and his wife has thanked me for changing him!!!!

Q.   I have been involved with a married man for 2.5 years. I'm divorced for 1.5 years. my husband cheated on me and he used to hit me. he just never cared for my opinion. he spent most of our 8yrs of marriage in front of a computer and a dead end MLM ...

A.   3 April 2008: Hi There, I think that he needs to make a choice, to stay with his wife or to be with you. Neither you or his wife seem happy, and you say he is feeling guilty, so he needs to decide Sweetie, and there's not a lot any of you can do until he d... (read in full...)

Should my boyfriend pay rent when the mortgage is in my name?

Q.   My boyfriend of 2 years will be moving in with me soon and I'm not sure if he should pay 'rent' because the mortgage in my name only. I don't like the idea of him paying 'rent' but it would be nice it he contributed some. Is that fair? I'm not ...

A.   3 April 2008: Hi There, I think he should definitely pay rent if he moves in with you. There are a coupld of alternatives though. One is that he rents his own place near you, and the other is that he come in with you 50/50 on the house, that way it woul... (read in full...)

I'm afraid of being on my own and so desperate to find another man to fill the empty space.

Q.   I've divorced my husband of 22 years. I'm afraid of being on my own and so desperate to find another man to fill the empty space. I've met this man 18 years my senior while I was divorcing my husband. Dating him makes me feel much better that I ...

A.   3 April 2008: Hi Sweetie I really feel for you and my advice would be to have some time to yourself before rushing into anything too serious. I think if you do that, and have some time to enjoy being your own person rather than half of couple, it will ... (read in full...)

I'm in too deep with a married man, what should I do?

Q.   I am seeing a married man even though I do not want to. I am sorry it is a bit long. He is so kind, does my laundry, buys the groceries, helps a single women with all the things a husband really should do, I gave up trying to tell him not to bothe...

A.   3 April 2008: Hi Sweetie, Im sorry to say that it very much sounds as though he isn't going to leave his wife if he hasn't done after 6 years. If the situation is making you unhappy then you face a really touch decision whether to carry on as you are, or c... (read in full...)

My BF wants me to have sex to his friends to make them jealous, I'm tempted to cede... should I do so?

Q.   My bf wants me to have sex with his friends. he says I am so good he wants to make then jealous. I'm half tempted to do it because a few of then are really cute and I want to keep him happy. Most of them have seen me topless and almost naked at ...

A.   3 April 2008: No! I don't think you should do it! Try to think of what you would say to a sister or a friend if they asked you the same question, and also think how you would feel afterwards if you and boyfriend should break up. If you're coming here to a... (read in full...)

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