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Period 1 month late after b/f fingered me

Q.   ok idk if its normal but my period still didnt arrive and i think its been a bit over a month since i had it the last time, and this happened especially after having had sex with my bf, but we didnt really do it he just fingered xD, idk ... is it ...

A.   23 October 2011: You can't get pregnant from penetration with the fingers. Unless for some reason he had sperm on them and even at that, it's unlikely as the sperm dies after a little while after it leaves his penis. Your body may be going through some cha... (read in full...)

My best friend told me he is gay. How do I deal with the weird feelings I have now?

Q.   so, this isn't really a relationship question, it's more of a best friend situation. I've known my best friend for a year and a half now and we've been really close since we met. Today he came out and told me he is gay. I am most certainly not ...

A.   13 January 2011: Hi thanks for your question. Firstly let me ask you a question. If he didn't tell you he was gay, you two would carry on as normal and be best friends right? So the next time you think about it and it makes you squeamish- just remember, being ga... (read in full...)

Does it seem like she's interested?

Q.   I’m a 17 year-old girl, and I like an older woman (29). I knew the first time I saw her that I liked her, and tried not to due to the age difference and the fact that I thought nothing would ever happen. But I can’t help it. For the past 18 months ...

A.   29 October 2010: Above is good advice... but if you do decide to confess your crush- be prepared for rejection.She may see you as too young for her, whether she likes you or not.Good luck and all the best.... (read in full...)

Masturbating Won’t Make You Blind, BUT

Q.   ~ I recently read an article about masturbation, and it got me wondering about the effects of too much masturbation. The article focused on men being unable to orgasm during sex, but there are other dangers as well. First of all, let me say that ...

A.   27 February 2010: What about if it's a girl masturbating?Is it still dangerous?... (read in full...)

He found out I lied about my virginity 12 years ago!

Q.   I have been married for 12 years and had lied to my husband that that I was a virgin when we got married I was sure that he would never find out as he was a virgin himself. Everything was fine until last month when he met a few old friend at a local ...

A.   1 March 2009: Well think about this.. surely he didn't marry you purely for the fact that you're a virgin? He loves other things about you. It was wrong to lie, but sometimes you have to lie in order to not hurt someone. I say you two should go to a councill... (read in full...)

Is it abuse when a girl hits a guy?

Q.   So I have a girlfriend. We seem to fight a lot. when I make her upset she tends to hit me. The other night we were arguing in the car and I said something to upset her, and she swung her arm and struck me right in the eye. she hit me hard enough to ...

A.   24 February 2009: Yes, it definately is abuse when a woman hits a man. Though not alot of people see it that way, they think its worse when a man hits a woman (okay so men can have the advantage of strength, but that's not the point). Abuse is abuse, whatever ... (read in full...)

Does period pain get less as you get older???

Q.   Me and my sister get really bad period pain and we just sit around forlike 1 or 2 days and we always know when the other persons got her period, but I never know if moms got hers. I mean she doesn't like lay around all day or anything. I just wan...

A.   22 February 2009: Hi, sadly I don't think period pains subside as you start to get older, they only stop when you are in your 40's. Some people get pains worse than others, some don't get it at all. But there's a tablet you can take to stop the pain. It's call... (read in full...)

I am having a baby boy and I need help with names!

Q.   HELLO!! I am very excited, and I know this is a relationship site but I would very much appreciate your opinion? I am havinga baby boy in a like two weeks and me and my husband can't agree on the name. We want something powerful and I was think...

A.   22 February 2009: You said that yu wanted something powerful for a name, and you liked the name Andrew. Well, you are in luck. I came accross a website, it tells you meanings of names. And guess what? Andrew means manly, strong and courageous. Here's the site... (read in full...)

What do girls like? Gift wise, surprise wise...

Q.   what do girls like? -gift wise -suprise wise -generally -having done to them in bed please reply all u women! x...

A.   22 February 2009: Gift - It depends what she likes, thats where listening comes in, boy ;) Girls love a great listener. If you're bored, at least act like you're listening lol. Be adoreable, but not too soppy. Compliment her, tell her how nice she looks (even if... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants sex, don't think I am ready, what to do?

Q.   i am 13 and my boyfriend keeps wanting me to have sex with him......i think in want to too but am still only 13, you only live once!...

A.   22 February 2009: He is pressuring you into having sex. So, if he was really interested in you and he really likes you enough, he would understand that you don't feel ready, and he would wait. Take a moment to think this through. In most cases like this, after... (read in full...)

Is she serious about wanting to make out with me, I am a girl??

Q.   I'm a girl. And I feel like lately a girl friend of mine has been either a) making a very bold move on me or b) having a very interesting sense of humor. She messaged me one day basically saying that if I wanted to make out she was totally down...

A.   22 February 2009: It seems like she wants you to ask as she was persistant with "Just ask", and that she's serious. So if you text back saying that you want to and you find out she was joking, you could always say that you were too ;) Tuyen x... (read in full...)

I think there is something between us..how do I tell her?

Q.   Well, Im 15, bi and recently came out to my friends. One of my friends I am really close to (lets call her X), and I really fancy her and months ago she said she was bi, but then told our other friend that she was not. Then, a few minutes after I ...

A.   22 February 2009: Well I think that the reason she told you that she's bisexual and then told another friend that she's not is because she trusts you. She feels comfortable around you. Like you tested her with the chocolate, she's testing you too. Like when she s... (read in full...)

How far along until I can know the gender of my baby?

Q.   how many months pregnant do I have to be to find out what gender my baby is?...

A.   22 February 2009: Around 18 to 26 weeks. It will be more accurate on determining the baby's gender. Congratulations by the way, I wish you well. Tuyen =) x... (read in full...)

What is the objective?

Q.   I split from a girl 14 month ago after 2 years, she was seeing someone else in the same work place and I found out. I caused no trouble said right ok, if that’s your decision/choice, I respect that so good luck with it. Of course I was hurt. Anyway ...

A.   20 February 2009: Hey, I would first like to congratulate you on beng professional at work with her and even although you two split up, you were still there for her. Not many people are like that with their ex'es, so well done for being the better person and not ... (read in full...)

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