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Should I ditch this relationship?

Q.   I'm in a situation right now where I'm almost 90% sure that I've done the right thing. It always helps to have advice, though, both for the future and the present because I'm not faring too well right now. It started with my boyfriend of 1 1...

A.   10 July 2008: Hi hun, totally agree with eyes on this one and you are being very smart. I know it hurts like hell, but you need to see what is happening here with him and this girl, and don't sit back and watch. Hold your head up high and move onwards and ... (read in full...)

I've wasted my life on a loser, now what am I going to do?

Q.   Not sure where to start here really, but I feel I've got my 'just desserts'. I left a loving relationship (but not exciting one) for someone which was no more than a conman, in respect of who he really was. We've now been married 20yrs and all he h...

A.   7 July 2008: I think your husband is a narcassist. If I am wrong with that label, I apologise! But this is an experiance I am not too unfamiliar with! When you are in such a relationship it is very difficult to fully see the games, triggers, lies, contradi... (read in full...)

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