I asked him to slow down ... did I screw up?
Q. I met a guy on an online app. We are both super interested in each other just that I needed him to slow down as he was coming on way too strong. He started talking relationship stuff even before we met, which would be fine, but I don't trust a guy ...
A. 24 March 2017: Does that mean that he won't want a relationship w/me anymore? I tried my best not to get excited for that very reason, but I did.... (read in full...)
I asked him to slow down ... did I screw up?
Q. I met a guy on an online app. We are both super interested in each other just that I needed him to slow down as he was coming on way too strong. He started talking relationship stuff even before we met, which would be fine, but I don't trust a guy ...
A. 24 March 2017: Not anymore though, he got too ahead of himself. I tried to be cautious as well, but I got my hopes up as well. Now its kind of up in the air.... (read in full...)
I asked him to slow down ... did I screw up?
Q. I met a guy on an online app. We are both super interested in each other just that I needed him to slow down as he was coming on way too strong. He started talking relationship stuff even before we met, which would be fine, but I don't trust a guy ...
A. 23 March 2017: We did meet up and I haven't disabled any of my accounts. Funny thing is he wanted to be the guy that had me take down my profile. I wish I had told him how I felt after meeting him. Right now I'm not interested in dating anyone but him.... (read in full...)
I asked him to slow down ... did I screw up?
Q. I met a guy on an online app. We are both super interested in each other just that I needed him to slow down as he was coming on way too strong. He started talking relationship stuff even before we met, which would be fine, but I don't trust a guy ...
A. 23 March 2017: I really did put the brakes on because I had 2 guys, younger age just like this guy, start something serious then pull out completely. Thing is tho, he is only going to be gone for 3 weeks and then he is back for quite awhile. I just don't want ... (read in full...)
Bad sign or just a poor planner?
Q. After a week of talking, I finally met the guy for date. He was late to the 1st date, which is ok once in awhile. We spent about 6 hours together and we were planning to spend today together. There was never a time set up. There is an event I've ...
A. 22 March 2017: So far, outside of the cancelled date, he has been really good w/calling/messaging and paying attention to me. I really just want to have fun, but after experiencing so much disappointment, I can't help but overanalyze, something I know will ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel like I lost out after the break up with my boyfriend?
Q. So its been probably a month post break up. My ex and I were in a long distance relationship. I really love my ex and care for him immensely, despite the fact that he is directionless, has no goals/ambition, very lazy in everything and he was/is ...
A. 10 March 2017: I know no one is perfect, heck I know I'm not. Maybe it is true that if someone was a prize, I would have to look at myself. For example a guy I went on 2 dates w/, I didn't feel good enough for him because he had a more disciplined lifestyle then ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel like I lost out after the break up with my boyfriend?
Q. So its been probably a month post break up. My ex and I were in a long distance relationship. I really love my ex and care for him immensely, despite the fact that he is directionless, has no goals/ambition, very lazy in everything and he was/is ...
A. 9 March 2017: The funny thing is, I actually knew that he wouldn't change, I didn't have fantasies on how it could have been. That happened w/the 1st guy I dated. Might be completely crazy, but I loved him for him, granted at 1st his situation wasn't too bad as ... (read in full...)
How do I gauge how much interest a guy really has in me? I want a guy who cares
Q. I've been bad w/spotting one sided relationships, so I want a guy who is actually interested in me. I went to an event I go every year, I knew I would meet guys there, but I never expected to find a guy who was really into me. Usually at that eve...
A. 24 February 2017: I was hoping not to be in a long distance, I'll def admit that, but this one is not as bad and if we can manage, we can def see each other more then once every 2 months. Very hard for me to find a guy w/my political/religious and moral views.
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How do I gauge how much interest a guy really has in me? I want a guy who cares
Q. I've been bad w/spotting one sided relationships, so I want a guy who is actually interested in me. I went to an event I go every year, I knew I would meet guys there, but I never expected to find a guy who was really into me. Usually at that eve...
A. 23 February 2017: btw he has no social media, else I would be snooping lol... (read in full...)
How do I gauge how much interest a guy really has in me? I want a guy who cares
Q. I've been bad w/spotting one sided relationships, so I want a guy who is actually interested in me. I went to an event I go every year, I knew I would meet guys there, but I never expected to find a guy who was really into me. Usually at that eve...
A. 22 February 2017: I def not going to juggle multiple guys, that is just to exhausting. Problem is that our frequency of actual in person dates, at least now is going to be very little. I feel like if I talk to other guys and maybe go on one date (99% of the time, ... (read in full...)
How do I gauge how much interest a guy really has in me? I want a guy who cares
Q. I've been bad w/spotting one sided relationships, so I want a guy who is actually interested in me. I went to an event I go every year, I knew I would meet guys there, but I never expected to find a guy who was really into me. Usually at that eve...
A. 22 February 2017: He is legit though, its def not a sexual thing (he isn't looking for that), he is in a military academy. I am def going to take it slow and also date other guys as well, not going to trap myself w/someone who has half or little desire for me.... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I should start dating again right after a break up!
Q. I have posted before about my long distance relationship. I believe it has come to an end as the guy told me he wasn't ready, wanted to be single and told me not to wait for him. For the last week I have been completely devastated and tried ...
A. 12 February 2017: No worries, he doesn't know where I live. I don't find it creepy because he never said anything perverted and I can just feel that he isn't just trying to get in my pants, actually kinda flattering. I have had many creeps and he doesn't give off ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I should start dating again right after a break up!
Q. I have posted before about my long distance relationship. I believe it has come to an end as the guy told me he wasn't ready, wanted to be single and told me not to wait for him. For the last week I have been completely devastated and tried ...
A. 12 February 2017: For the record, I didn't expect that this guy would find me again. I put up my profile because I know it takes a couple weeks to weed out the weirdos lol. He found me w/in an hour of me putting up my profile, he was never creepy just really sweet.... (read in full...)
Communication issues with LDR boyfriend. Is it normal not to talk every day?
Q. I've been having issues w/communication frequency and attention w/my bf. We met online and have met in person a couple times. He came up for almost 2 weeks almost a month ago and everything is always amazing w/us when we are physically together ...
A. 25 January 2017: An update: Its been pretty frustrating as he hasn't initiated contact in 3 days unless I have contacted him 1st. He told me he would change and that he f'ed up. Granted I did get on his case yesterday again, but I think its done and he isn't ... (read in full...)
Communication issues with LDR boyfriend. Is it normal not to talk every day?
Q. I've been having issues w/communication frequency and attention w/my bf. We met online and have met in person a couple times. He came up for almost 2 weeks almost a month ago and everything is always amazing w/us when we are physically together ...
A. 25 January 2017: I do love him, but its hard w/someone that doesn't make an effort. I know that if I leave him, he will regret it, not that I'll take him back or anything, but in my experience they always come crawling back. I started seeing a guy (before my ... (read in full...)
Communication issues with LDR boyfriend. Is it normal not to talk every day?
Q. I've been having issues w/communication frequency and attention w/my bf. We met online and have met in person a couple times. He came up for almost 2 weeks almost a month ago and everything is always amazing w/us when we are physically together ...
A. 24 January 2017: He does as he has mentioned it before. I told him it hurt me, but this time, I'm putting my foot down, I haven't been super harsh on him or really demanded anything from him. In a couple months, I am supposed to visit him, but I will tell him I am ... (read in full...)
My LDR boyfriend hasn't wanted to video chat. Does it mean that he does not miss me?
Q. So far in my LDR, I have been the one to mostly initiate video calls, though we text throughout the day. I have asked for more vid chats, shorter times, but I usually have to ask for vid chat. It wears on me that I usually have to always hint/ask....
A. 15 January 2017: I have talked to him again and hopefully he calls me when he said he would. Video chat is something we can't seem to get past lol. I had the same issues w/him communicating via messages everyday, but after expressing how disconnected I felt, it ... (read in full...)
My previous LDR did not work. My current LDR treats me better. Based on how things are working out does this current LDR have a chance of working out for the best?
Q. My bf came down to visit me for a little while and we talked about the future. The thing is he is younger then me and much less stable then me. I guess when I started dating him, I should have walked away, but I couldn't and we fell in love. ...
A. 12 January 2017: This is why I brought up all these issues because in the past I was blindly in love. its also the reason I asked flat out if he wanted to break up, I want to know and even if the truth hurts I don't want to be delusional.... (read in full...)
My previous LDR did not work. My current LDR treats me better. Based on how things are working out does this current LDR have a chance of working out for the best?
Q. My bf came down to visit me for a little while and we talked about the future. The thing is he is younger then me and much less stable then me. I guess when I started dating him, I should have walked away, but I couldn't and we fell in love. ...
A. 12 January 2017: That's what I plan on doing. I'm going to see him in 2 months time and I will see what has happened in that time.... (read in full...)
I'm not going to stop seeing my LDR Bf because a friend doesn't like him. But how do I best handle the situation?
Q. I haven't been dating my boyfriend for very long. He treats me well, loves me and cares about me. We are long distance, so most of my friends have not met him. The thing is my best friend got offended by what he posted online because he has d...
A. 23 December 2016: The problem figured itself out. After I told her not to meddle in my business, she blocked me online and isn't texting me, oh well.... (read in full...)
I'm not going to stop seeing my LDR Bf because a friend doesn't like him. But how do I best handle the situation?
Q. I haven't been dating my boyfriend for very long. He treats me well, loves me and cares about me. We are long distance, so most of my friends have not met him. The thing is my best friend got offended by what he posted online because he has d...
A. 22 December 2016: Actually I have met him in person, twice. I talked to him for over 2 months (vid chat, facebook, texting) before we actually met up. Thank you and have a happy holidays!... (read in full...)
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