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17 July 2008: After reading an abnormal amount of questions along the lines of "He looked at me, does that mean he likes me?!", I got to thinking about how much easier life could be if there was some sort of way we could communicate emotions without confusion. ...
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He liked me back....well I thought he did.
Q. I really liked this boy on a school trip, he liked me back, well i thought he did. His msn broke down, and so i added him on bebo, and he blocked me from bebo. I don't know why but i can't stop thinking about him, and i know he can't stop thinking...
A. 19 May 2008: If he is not in contact with you and has blocked you from Bebo, then odds are he may not like you as much as you thought.
Did you leave him a lot of messages, or text him constantly? This comes off as clingy, and no-one likes a stalker.
I don't k... (read in full...)
He said he likes me, and I like him, what should I do?
Q. i meet this guy he said he like me i have feelings for him what should i do...
A. 17 May 2008: Ask him out, of course.
Go to a movie or for a drink - get to know one another better.... (read in full...)
No oral sex. Is this the end of our marriage?
Q. Anyways I need help, what do I do in my situation.... I've been married a year, my wife is nice.. we fight sometimes, and sometimes things are good.. I think we fight mroe than the normal couple but it's nothing we can't solve by the time we go ...
A. 16 May 2008: Keep in mind that this woman is your /wife/. You are committed to one another, and I'm assuming that you love one another.
If she does not feel comfortable performing oral sex on you, then that is entirely her decision. It may be a bit of a blow a... (read in full...)
Am I a whore for liking so many guys?
Q. am I a whoRe because I like so many guys i.e. 2-6 I just can't decide between them I know which ones I like more but it does really change much some I think are cute some I really like but its hard to choose which one to go for?...
A. 16 May 2008: It doesn't make you a whore, it makes you a hormonal teenage girl - in other words, pretty normal. Who you /like/ does not determine whore-i-ness, it's what you /do/.
As for deciding which one to 'go for', be sure to weigh up all the pros and cons... (read in full...)
Odd rash, should I see a doctor?
Q. I'm 15(16 next month) and a virgin but a few days ago I noticed--umm, I'm not exactly sure what it is... like, red and white bumps/rash/or whatever located on the outer lips of my vagina. it is extremely itchy and I am worried about what it could ...
A. 16 May 2008: If you are a virgin then there's very little chance it could be an STD.
However, (and understand that I'm no doctor), there are probably a bunch of other nasty things it could be.
Definitely go and get it checked out, and for the time being, ... (read in full...)
Is he crossing the line?
Q. Alright try to make this short, been with my bf for a year and I have an issue with some flirting I found out he was doing. First off I know he flirts, as long as he doesn't do anything I don't care, he's coming home with me anyways haha. Oh a ...
A. 16 May 2008: Flirting is one thing, but texts like that suggest a whole lot more, and that is never on - /regardless/ of his sobriety at the time.
I'd advise you to confront him - this is not the sort of issue you 'just drop' because he's 'with you' - him bein... (read in full...)
I want to give her a good romantic time but I can't get it up!
Q. hi im 22 i can get any girl i want i've been with more than 8 girls i did every thing with them but sex, i just get so nervous when it comes to sex most of the time i get orgasm during the oral sex and it last for a minute, or some times i cant just ...
A. 16 May 2008: PeterPan is pretty much spot on - you're worrying too much about pleasing her. Relax and just let it happen, rather than dwelling on it.
Also, don't go thinking that this girl will leave you /just/ because you've had a couple of issues with per... (read in full...)
It's been two weeks since I heard from him... I'm confused!
Q. I recently started dating a guy 2 months ago. We immediately hit it off and started spending a lot of time together. About 2 in a half weeks ago, he ended up moving out of the state back to his parents house since his brother had been murdered about ...
A. 16 May 2008: Ah, poor girl.
Having someone you care about move away is always difficult.
Keep in mind that two weeks is really not that long. The lad has just moved interstate - he could well be busy with getting settled, moving things around, etc etc.
If... (read in full...)
Shaven or Hairy?
Q. I have been trimming my pubic hair regularly. But am not sure its what guys like. The guy I was planning to have sex with likes it shaven. Should I continue shaving or do guys prefer hairy?...
A. 15 May 2008: Each guy has different preferences - some like it shaved, some find shaved girls too much like a child, some like it all natural... It's all down to individual preference.
Whether you want to shave or not is entirely your decision. But keep in ... (read in full...)
I met a girl and got her number, but now she won't respond
Q. I met this girl at a gig about 10 days ago. we start talking and after 20min chatting i asked her for her number and she said yes but only if you give me yours too. two days later i called but she didnt pick up the phone so i send a txt asking her ...
A. 15 May 2008: Leave her alone for a while - she probably feels smothered. No-one likes a stalker, and 'twist of fate' has it right - neediness is a turn off, especially in people you only recently met.
Don't be constantly waiting for texts or phone calls. I... (read in full...)
I love him but have problems trusting him
Q. I have a boyfriend,we started dated 2 yrs ago,at first things were not that great,there was no trust, we loved each other but he still had his girlfriend and that ruined our relationship because sometimes she will call and i will get jelouse but i ...
A. 15 May 2008: Trust is an essential part of any relatonship. Without it, things do not look good.
However, you need to learn that if you want your partner to be trustworthy, then he should be able to trust you as well - which means NOT cheating on him, REGARDLE... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and dealing with an abusive boyfriend, I don't want to leave him, any ideas?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 3 years now. He's 17, and I'm 16. Things were really great for the first couple of months into the relationship, and after that, they just kind of spiraled down hill from there. First, it star...
A. 15 May 2008: I'd advise you to leave him.
If he is abusive towards you then he obviously does not have the proper respect for you.
It is always hard to leave someone that you have been with for a long time, and despite his abuse it is natural for you to s... (read in full...)
I'm not a big fan of going on top, am I doing something wrong
Q. I never found the girl on top position to be all that great. I constantly hear how satisfying it feels for women, but I never get much out of it. Could I be doing it wrong?...
A. 15 May 2008: I wouldn't fret about 'doing it wrong'- there's not a lot to get wrong.
It could just be that this particular position is not for you. Keep in mind that what feels good for one person may not do so for another - everyone has different pref... (read in full...)
Can anyone offer any advice on how to cope with a difficult break up?
Q. I dont know whats going on with me. Ii hate and love my bf all at the same time so I have decided to leave him for us both. But what happens when they're not there anymore? After coming out of a 2 year relationship in which we are and were very ...
A. 14 May 2008: I'll do my best here with the information you've supplied. The first thing I wonder is why you lost your friends because of the relationship. A relationship that causes you to lose /all/ of your friends does not sound like a healthy one. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend only cares about himself. Where is his respect for me?
Q. i know i am only young.. but i really would like an answer to this problem if anyone can.. ive been with my boyfriend a year and a half and one time when we had sex i didnt want to do anything because i wasnt in the mood and just wanted to spend ...
A. 14 May 2008: You should never be coerced into doing things that you don't want to do. This goes for all things, not just sex.
Keep in mind that sex is not the only part of a relationship. It's a perk and a way to show love and affection to someone you love, no... (read in full...)
I'm scared of failing to please him. Giving him oral isn't working.
Q. I have recently hooked up with a new partner. After a certain amount of guidance from me he can give me fantastic oral. I have been told many times previously that my blow jobs were the best ever but I don't seem to have what it takes any more. Last ...
A. 14 May 2008: The best advice I can think to give you is to come out with it and ask him. You said he needed a certain amount of guidance - maybe you do as well.
Even if you have previously been told you give great oral, keep in mind that every person has diff... (read in full...)
I'm scared about losing my virginity and keep thinking he will pursue someone else if I make him wait longer... ?
Q. I'm about to lose my virginaty in a few days with my bf who i have been with for 1 year. Im so scared its going to hurt he tells me its going to be fine and it wont hurt and i know it will im so scared and when he fingers me im so tight he can get ...
A. 14 May 2008: Take the advice you have been given - it's all good stuff.
Take into consideration that if your boyfriend has been with you for a year, he should respect you enough to wait until you are ready.
Hell, I made my first wait /more/ than a year, so... (read in full...)
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