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| | TRASHED_LOST_STRUNGOUT's profile:Hi...I come from Scotland & I'm 18...I know that sounds rather young but over the years I've been in a few bad Relationships,had a few bad brake-ups & other trobles that I have over came and would like to help other people over come them same as I did!!
I'm also traing to be a nurse.
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I found hair on the carpet that wasn't mine, is he cheating?
Q. So, today I was waiting for my boyfriend to get back to our apartment and I was sitting on the floor with our puppy. Well, I brushed my hand across the carpet and my finger got (grossly) tangled in some hair. I absolutely hate loose hair...but ...
A. 3 July 2008: Hair gets everywhere & sticks to ur carpet...just the other day I found a big red hair on mine Ive not had red hair for 2 years.
Also the hair might have been brout in on clothes or shoes.... (read in full...)
I care about a boy who has a girlfriend already, what should I do?
Q. Hey i've got a slight problem. Me and this guy dated when we were 12-14 and i was totally in love with him, and him with me but we kinda drifted apart. But now we've suddenly become close again and started hanging out, but he has a girlfriend. He ...
A. 3 July 2008: Stay well clear =)... (read in full...)
I am looking into bugging his briefcase when he travels and puting a GPS devise on his car. What else should I be doing?
Q. My husband travels for business (first class air and hotels) and he has started drinking in the hotel bars and also when he entertains clients. He does not drink at home and he's home every night after work. He was not a drinker before nor did he ...
A. 11 June 2008: I know ur worried for ur marriage but do u really think stalking him is a good idea?
Maybe u should talk to him about ur concerns am sure he'd be very hurt if he found out u were stalking him.
And perhaps this woman at work is having a hard time ... (read in full...)
He wants to be free. I don't understand what I did or how to move on
Q. Hi, im 19 been with this guy since i was 17 and he is my 1st love, my heart is breaking at the moment as he has decided randomly that we fight too much and he is better off without me. He just wants to be the happy care free person he was before he m...
A. 8 May 2008: I think what u really need to do is stop texting him & looking for him out the bus window...& go out have fun & enjoy life as u as a single woman.
Thats oboiosly what he is doing.
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Still in love and can't understand why...?
Q. I have not been in a relationship for over a year now, however, I am still in love and I don't see this changing. I've tried everything--seeing new people, being friends with my love, completely avoiding him, envolving myself in my passions--and it ...
A. 1 April 2008: You need to talk to your ex and ask what you've been longing to ask ''WHY??''
Then you have a clean slate to move on... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and getting ready to have sex but I'm embarrassed about stretch marks!
Q. Im sixteen years old,and a virgin.I think in the next couple months around summer time my best guy friend and i are going to lose our virginity to each other. He's seventeen. But im very insecure about my body,i have stretch marks on my stomach and ...
A. 27 March 2008: If YOU can't notice them how will he?... (read in full...)
Unsure Of My Sexuality
Q. I have a question about my sexuality. I am a girl that checks out other females. I messed around with some including having sex with them, but this girl wants a relationship with me. It feels akward. I don't know how to explain but, shes cute ...
A. 3 October 2007: Maybe ur just bi-curious... (read in full...)
I think I've got a drug problem does anyone have any advice?
Q. i dont even no if this is relevent most questions on here are about relationships, but i think i have a serious problem and need help. ever scince i was 13 iv took extacy pills on most weekends. every weekend i would up my dose to see how bigg my ...
A. 13 September 2007: I take Es too & am around them same age,
I was a bit like you I took them almost every weekend.
But I just stoped its easyer to say NO than you think, maybe try hanging out with a new group of friends who DONT take them.
Es can cause problems wit... (read in full...)
We talk about marriage all the time but still no proposal after 7 years together!
Q. 7 years into a relationship and no proposal... I don't know what to do. up until last year I have had no real urge to get married but since hitting 34 I just feel a need to settle. My boyfriend and I get on brilliantly. We've travelled a lot ...
A. 8 May 2007: You dont HAVE to marry someone to settle down with them.
Marrage is a peace of papper it dosent make a realationship.... (read in full...)
Should I write my number down on a piece of paper and give it to her?
Q. Hi, Just wondering as there is a girl I like who is in my regular cafe lol, I like her n I think she likes me because of the way we look at each other, If I wrote my number down an passed it to her on a piece of a paper? Is that a good idea or a b...
A. 2 May 2007: I think that’s a great idea =)... (read in full...)
We broke up and he's had several gfs'...so why does he still insist on remaining in touch with me?
Q. Hi, having ex problems!! Had a really intense relationship for five years, then he broke up with me, saying he still loved me but needed to sort himself out on his own, job, money, etc. etc. He had never had a girlfriend before me and he admitted he ...
A. 17 January 2007: Why dont you explain 2 him that you dont contact him becoz your just trying to move on & by contacting you hes causing you alot of pain.
Best wishes... (read in full...)
She has told be she has cancer and I think she's lying! How do I deal with this?
Q. I have been in this relationship a year now and we both love each other very much. The thing is I think she has lied to me about somthing big. She has told be she has a serious cancer and it is fatal she wont give me any specific detail on it, but ...
A. 17 January 2007: I know this situation isnt the same but I have a very good friend lie to me about having a physical illness.
Anyway I found her out & after awhile managed to get to the bottom of why she'd being lieing.
She explained to be she was feeling real... (read in full...)
I'm 13, started my periods but I think my body is too small for tampons!
Q. I started my period, the next one is due next week and im really worried. i cant wear towels, im 13 but my pant size is very small and the towels are sticking out of them. they irrate me and go up my butt its digusting! I want to try tampons but i ...
A. 12 December 2006: Its not that ur bodies to small u just need to get the hang on it dont worry hen!!... (read in full...)
He said he doesn't want anything to do with me!
Q. He says he doesnt want anything to do with me plz help! Sometimes he says things like this and doesnt mean them but this time it sounds serious. I sent him a email expalining some things. He mailed me back being mean and said...I dont want anything ...
A. 10 August 2006: Your question isnt very detailed....but maybe you should just leave him for awhile in time he may realize he wants to see you or what ever.
If not forget him and move on...NO ONE is worth your tears.
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She's gonna be leaving and I haven't asked for her new phone number yet...
Q. 2 years ago a girl and i used to text each other everyday and we both liked each other but never used to speak in school. we are both kind of shy and at the end of the year she got a new phone number. i never bothered to ask for it but ever since ...
A. 2 May 2006: Just go for it you only live once and you may regretit for a long time if you dont just go for it.... (read in full...)
Changed my name... But wondering if it was right!
Q. I legally changed my birth names 10 years ago because I hated my names, but now wonder if it was a wise thing to do, my family are totally confused around me and not sure what to call me.I feel I made a mistake, but like my present name.I worry ...
A. 7 February 2006: If U like ur present name stick to it and make sure that a close family member or friend knows that when U die ur present name is the one U want on ur grave...hope I helped X... (read in full...)
I want to help my new teammate, but afraid that the truth might get her kicked off the team!
Q. I'm a 16 year old softball player. There is this new girl on our team who has amazing talent. She's really quiet though, and she should be used to the new team by now. But recently I have discovered that it might not be because of the new team: ...
A. 21 January 2006: If she has a problem she needs help...more than she needs a softball team. Ask her if she wants help addicts first step is to admit the want the help if she says no then leave her.
If she admits she needs help go with her (if she wants U to)
too a... (read in full...)
My ICT teacher is so sexy... but his behaviours are confusing me!
Q. I really fancy my ICT teacher; he is the sexiest loveliest man I have ever met and I want to be with him. But he confuses me. You see one minute he's tender and warm and he gets very close to me and touches me hesitantly and shyly and then another ...
A. 19 January 2006: U may fancy him but its not right...teachers arent aloud to have realtionships with students. So please get this fantacy out of ur head b4 it turns dangerous.
He could lose his job & never be aloud to teach again if U make a move on him.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was upset after his uncle died, so he kissed another girl (with tongues)! Does this count as cheating?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years kissed another girl (with tongues)the other day, he found out in the morning that his uncle had died and he says he was upset, so he went with this girl we both know to a coffee shop where they chatted for a bit before ...
A. 16 January 2006: Theres never any excuse to go with someone else...I mean whats he gona do next time hes up-set?
Talk to him seriosly about that kiss and that will tell u weather or not U two have a future.
Best wishes x... (read in full...)
I need him but he's jealous and threatening and he wants me to have his child...help!
Q. I'm 15 years old.. And I met and fell in love with a 22 year old. He never asked me to have sex.. It was my choice to give it to him. Now that were sexually involved he talks about me havin his child.. And he does things like take the condom off ...
A. 16 January 2006: Having a baby does not save a bad realtionship...do U really want to bring a child into this world with an aggressive & jealous father thats no kind of life for U or a child. Tell u're parents or a teacher or some other adult that u really trust to ... (read in full...)
Should I risk going out with the guy with the reputation?
Q. Im a 17 year old girl who hasn't really had a boyfriend before and there's this guy at my school who has a reputation for having been out with a LOT of girls. I'm definately attracted to him but many girls are. I get the impression that he wants to...
A. 8 December 2005: I have been in this situation and believe me guys like that are best left well alone all he'l done is muck you about its not a good idea to get invold with him go for a guy who has less of a rep with girls!!... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with this guy, but we've only known each other for 2 months!
Q. Can you be in love with someone after 2 months? I'm confused as I've never felt this way about someone before. I think he feels the same, but should I tell him or just wait for him to say it?...
A. 1 November 2005: Yeah I think u can be in love after 2 months!!... (read in full...)
She broke it off with me. What's my next step?
Q. I was just involved in a 4 month relationship with a female who I have been friends with and recently started to date me right after her divorce of 8 years. I knew I was taking a chance with her but decided anyways, she says she needs to mourn her ...
A. 20 October 2005: Just leave her alone! The more you push the futher she'l get.
Just leave her to get over her broken marrage...be her friend and suport her and you never know what might happen once she over her marriage!... (read in full...)
I lied to him so he'd break it off with me. Now I'd like to tell him the truth, but he won't believe me...
Q. I need your advice more than ever this time. I just hurt the man I love the most out of fear. I have never loved anyone like I love this man and it scares me. I am so afraid of rejection, ever since my divorce and the mental abuse this man put me ...
A. 2 August 2005: You must sit down and expain to him why you lied and that you felt like you had to lie. And the reasons why you are scared and that you never ment to lie but that you could see no other way out. Explain to him that you cant eat or sleep with out him ... (read in full...)
My bf is usually sweet, but lately he's really quite mean to me!
Q. I am 16 years old and have been with my boyfriend of 14 years old for over a year. He constantly tells me he loves me and I really do love him. Most of the time he is really sweet and would probably do anything for me but recently he's been acting ...
A. 2 August 2005: Yeah your relationship CAN work I have friends with a much bigger age gap and there very happy. If you keep telling yourself that the relationship wont work then the negitive attitude you have will start to show thow and he'll start to feel it to. ... (read in full...)
We're broken up, but he tells me he can't picture life without me. What's going on?
Q. I have just recentally broken up with my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years. I am 26 and he is 23. We lived together for a year. Even though we broke up we continue having a friendship and also have sex on ocassion. I have tried talking about our ...
A. 2 August 2005: I was in a simalr situation...for what I can see he does care about you...but maybe his love for you has faded into friendship and he cant picture u as his girlfriend but he cant picture u not there at all. Be just friends for awhile with means NO ... (read in full...)
I told the girl how I feel, but she said she wouldn't go out with me 'cause I'm too much of a mate!
Q. I'm friends with this girl. Recently I have told her that I fancy her and that I would like to go out with her. The thing is she is still trying to get over a break up with her boyfriend but he treated her so badly. When I told her how I felt she...
A. 31 July 2005: The prevoius realitionship that this girl was in was Obviously a vey horible realitionship indeed...girls take a very long time to get over bad breake ups. She probably doesn't want to get involved with you at the moment becoz she thinks that it ... (read in full...)
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