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I love him but have never had anyone else and now I find myself looking at others, why am I having these thoughts?

Q.   this may sound stupid and may sound as if im taking my boyfriend for granted. ive been with my boyfriend for two and a half years im 20 and hes 18 initially the age caused a few problems between us but we worked through all the problems that ar...

A.   28 November 2008: You are young, I think this is normal. I understand the love part, and I understand the wondering what it would be like to be with someone else. I had the reverse scenario. I was in a relationship with a guy who was a few years younger than I was ... (read in full...)

How much "baggage" should one take before bailing on a 6+ year relationship?

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend for 6+ years now. I love her, I know I do, and we get along very, very well. But there have been mounting problems over the last few years that have recently come to a head, and I'm finding myself helpless and stuck. ...

A.   28 November 2008: Counseling would be my suggestion IF you really want to work things out. Running up credit cards like that and not wanting to have sex, and not feeling good about yourself may all be about a bigger issue, i.e. self-esteem/self worth. This may root ... (read in full...)

My husband is never at home any more. All we do is argue. Sometimes I don't know why I stay...

Q.   My life is not the same anymore. I have been with my partner for quite a few years and we used to go everywhere together and was always together. Then he started to get into fitness started with jogging to begin with,which I didn't mind him doing. ...

A.   28 November 2008: I am not a big believer in cheating HOWEVER I understand why you or anyone else would. Not to mention ever person has their definition of what cheating is and who is to say that any of my ex's would be too happy that I spent time with my guy ... (read in full...)

Jiggly thighs!! What can I do to tone them up?

Q.   I want to know what I can to tighten my jiggly thighs. Besides excercise, is there anything that i can do or use to tone them. I hate the fact that my inner thighs rub together it is so annoying and uncomfortable i can't stand it. Any advice, ...

A.   26 November 2008: overall weight loss is number one. Although studies are now coming out and saying that there is such a thing as spot reduction, I think it is more that you can tone an area more than anything. Eating a clean diet, lean proteins, complex ... (read in full...)

I want to break up with my girlfriend. she doesn't cook, doesn't clean, is messy...I want her out !

Q.   i want to break up with my girlfriend. she lives with me and has no where really to go if i break up with her. she is a sweet girl. we lived together for about three months and things just aren't goin the way i thought they would. she doesn't cook, ...

A.   25 November 2008: You are how old? Question for you, why does she need to cook and clean, do you mean cook and clean for you? Did you do those things for yourself before? She is not your maid, she is supposed to be your girlfriend. As for the money thing, I've ... (read in full...)

How do I deal with a cheap boyfriend

Q.   I am at a loss. I have been in a relationship with this guy for 3 years. We lived together for 1.5 years and then moved out but decided to keep trying our luck at making the relationship work. The main issues (according to me!) were 1. money 2. ...

A.   25 November 2008: I guess I did not write everything in there - I am also trying to get my company up and going, and trying to get a job as well (that is now). While we were living together I was also working on my company BUT I was also quite ill from the amount of ... (read in full...)

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