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What qualifies me to help others well it isn't any certificates it is 39 years of life that has has given me so many very hard lessons and ways to deal with them. From a school age I was always the person people would come to for advice . I have suffered so much in my life and the battles I have face have shown me how to help others who need advice guidance. I never judge anyone I feel no anger towards people and have learnt to deal with life's roller coaster . I'm a straight forward woman and will ask questions to give the best advice I can. I am a single mother of 3 beautiful children and have battled for my children's needs.

I am very open to all experiences sexual , life everything and have had alot of years experiencing these. I look forward to helping you with what ever you need and please don't feel shy because if you don't ask you will never know

Love and happiness is what I wish for you all x x x x

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I feel jealous that my partner pays so much attention to our attractive friend

Q.   I am very embarrassed to ask for advice over this, because I hate to admit to being jealous. This is about my boyfriend of 4 and a half years and my friend. I think he has actual feelings for her. Me and my boyfriend moved to a new area 3 ...

A.   23 April 2012: No matter how you say it he is going to go on the defense you know why because it's a true fact... No man should show such disrespect towards his partner and no friends would bask in it all and leave you to the side .. You need to realize that he ... (read in full...)

I feel like I lost a friend for the wrong reason! Is it my fault?

Q.   Hello guys I hope you all are doing well As for me I could be doing better I had just official lost a friend today In my eyes, it was for no good reason So my question is Did I handle this situation the right way. I felt I could have han...

A.   23 April 2012: Your hurt and I understand but keep your cool don't lower yourself to the rest hold your head high just be you. He has handled this badly but you are both kids and other kids at school have a huge impact on others especially when you and him are ... (read in full...)

Do you think he can guess from what I told him that the boy I like is him?

Q.   Me and this boy have been close for nearly two years the other day e told me he like two girls and he named them but over te two years ive known him I think I have fallen for him! So when he told me he like these two girls he asked who I like so I ...

A.   23 April 2012: You think you have fallen for him you won't know for sure until you see him with someone else.. Keep your friendship relationships come and go and your both so young stay as friends and don't ruin what you have because if you be the friend you have ... (read in full...)

Girfriend has not orgasmed, am I doing something wrong?

Q.   I have had sex with my gf three times and fingered her millions of times but not once has she orgasim ,should i do it longer ? My gf said her playing with my penis turns her on, is this a good thing ?...

A.   23 April 2012: Don't put yourself under so much stress if she says she loves to watch you play with your penis then do it for her and enjoy putting on a show for her... As for her not having a orgasim all women are different can depend on her mood her thou... (read in full...)

I think he's a cross-dresser, I'm okay with that but how do I discuss it with him?

Q.   My Boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 yrs now . I discovered about 1 yr ago that he is a crossdresser , I'm almost sure he knows that I know and I think he is feeling guilty about this , I'm ok with him doing this and want him to be ...

A.   23 April 2012: If your happy for him to express himself then let him know dont be someone he feels he has to hide from tell him your feelings havnt. Changed tell him you support him make him realize he can be free to be himself around you. Your relationship will ... (read in full...)

After dating 4 years I am so bored!

Q.   Hey guys, So i am in need of advice! My boyfriend and i have been together for almost four years now. To get to the point here. I am bored!!!! Its a cnfusing situation tough because i do care for him dearly. The last time i tried breaking up...

A.   23 April 2012: Jenny if you feel there is nothing left then end it Hun we only live once and to be living a life that your not happy with is a waste. Your young and I think it's time you go and find yourself again we always tend to loose who we are when in a ... (read in full...)

I'm having a major hang up around my boyfriend's close friend who is a girl.

Q.   I'm having a major hang up around my boyfriend's close friend who is a girl. My bf has many girls as friends and I don't have any issues with any one of them except this one. I think it's important to understand their past to answer this question. ...

A.   22 April 2012: All I can say is this whole situation is causing you so much uncertainty and your health is being affected now it's not ever going to change they way your feeling no matter how many times they say no way why would it about each other.. That fact of ... (read in full...)

I feel jealous that my partner pays so much attention to our attractive friend

Q.   I am very embarrassed to ask for advice over this, because I hate to admit to being jealous. This is about my boyfriend of 4 and a half years and my friend. I think he has actual feelings for her. Me and my boyfriend moved to a new area 3 ...

A.   22 April 2012: Ok I'm going to stop you there where your say she has better job no kids bla bla stop making excuses for your partner he is a ass and is continuing to treat you like your nothing and hang off her he is a ass and is messing with you making you second ... (read in full...)

What is your opinion on a 25 year age gap ?

Q.   Is it too much ? Because for the past 2 years i have been really attracted to someone who is 25 years older . I am not looking for 'the father figure' or he isn't looking for 'sex' . But would it be stupid for us to try and date? Is the gap just too ...

A.   22 April 2012: I feel that it is a very large age gap you are from 2 different eras are you sure your not looking for a daddy figure I find it very hard to understand why you would look for someone so much older. Think of the future if you had children health ... (read in full...)

Am I being overly sensitive because he wants to go to a strip club with his friends?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years, i'm 48 he's 50.... we have a good relationship now, but it's been up and down over the years. I work hard staying in shape, looking good and pleasing him sexually. The other night he brought up that he ...

A.   22 April 2012: I think your being over sensitive because your older now and your husband will be looking at younger women I feel the issue lies with you being insecure and feeling you need to try and match the body's of younger women.. Ok he is going with younger ... (read in full...)

Should I divorce my husband? How would you feel about this?

Q.   Hello, I'm new to the site. I would like to see what others think of my situation. My husband does not come home to me from work. He goes to his parent's every single night for 2-3 hours after work. Yes that is Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday...

A.   22 April 2012: My heart is just feeling your pain I am shocked at this whole situation and it breaks my heart that you've been dealing with this for so many heart wrenching years has amazed me . You have done everything possiible to have your husband in your home ... (read in full...)

What is the right thing to do? I need help with my feelings for this man!

Q.   I'm going crazy here please help I'm 38 I have 3 children and have met a really lovely man who I've been talking to for months he is a security guard at a club I go to and we talk quite a bit. He has full custody of his two children but also has a ...

A.   22 April 2012: Auntyem She just jumped through my screen and slapped me silly I read this and was taking offence then said 'omg she is so right'. you told me flat out no holds barred and that is something I needed I thank you so much for making me feel what I n... (read in full...)

Why did my fiance's cousin act so disrespectful in front of me?

Q.   Yesterday me and my fiance went to a gathering with her family members. While there I was introduced to one of her cousins who looked at my fiance like he had not seen her in a while. He shook my hand and looked back at her and asked me if I minded ...

A.   22 April 2012: That man was extremely insecure around you and to cover that he was a complete arrogant person who is best being ignored. ... (read in full...)

I don't want to spend every moment telling b/f that I love him

Q.   I just started seeing this guy I met on the internet a few weeks ago. He is 20 and I am 21. I have always dated guys who are older than me because I have always just been attracted to someone who is more mature. But I decided to give this a try ...

A.   22 April 2012: Sorry to say but as soon as you said I love you to him after a week you opened up that can of worms . Love s a word that is used so freely but it should mean so much more . He on the other hand sounds very very strange and I would be thinking long ... (read in full...)

Why is my husband being so secretive?

Q.   My husband and I have been together for 15 years. We have had our share of issues, as any other relationship, but nothing so serious we would consider separating. Recently, due to his work he had to move to another city while I stayed and continue...

A.   22 April 2012: My best advice for you and it works every time is set yourself some quiet time alone no interruptions and write your husband a letter tell him what tou found tell him everything. Ask him all you are needing to know. Then place it in a envelope put ... (read in full...)

Can I get past someone's looks and fall for them?

Q.   after a not so great relationship for four years i am now dating. i have met nice man but in truth he does nothin for me! he is very.sweet kind etc and i no he feels a great deal for me. i no i sound shallow but im wonderng can u get past someon ...

A.   22 April 2012: Attraction to another is what makes you look at someone you look at them from across the room.. Something more has pulled you towards him if your not attractred to him what sent you in his direction. ... (read in full...)

Are Relationships Worth The Risk?

Q.   Relationships = Risk But is it really worth it? By Frank Kermit, Relationships Given that there is so much risk in getting involved in relationships, or having sex for that matter, is it at all worth it to even bother? After all, a broken hear...

A.   22 April 2012: I have had many failed realationships been broken hearted and my whole world has fallen apart but here I am smarter wiser and with no regrets because I've learnt something very important from each experience . I would not the person I am today if I ... (read in full...)

I'm female and keep having desires for women! Help!!!

Q.   I am 27 years old and have always had boyfriends. However, over the years I have been very curious about what it would be like to sleep with a woman. I dismissed it for a long time as literally just curiosity, however lately I find myself ...

A.   22 April 2012:  Hun your not a lesbian your bicurious and there is nothing wrong with that. Now you love your man and the sex with him right . You don't want to cheat on him . Have you ever thought of telling him how you feel and ask him if you could have the ... (read in full...)

I want a baby even though I'm in no position to have one!

Q.   Hiya! I am mum to a gorgeous little girl, who is due to turn 5 on Tuesday. The problem is, ever since she was two, I have been broody. And it has been getting worse and worse, to the point where it actually hurts sometimes. I am not in the righ...

A.   22 April 2012: Hun go to your dr and talk to them I'm sure there would be something to reduce the broody feelings. You know yourself your not in the position for another child concentrate on your beautiful little girl and know if you do decide to have another ... (read in full...)

I don't feel confident! What should I do?

Q.   Yesterday me and what I may now term my 'girlfriend' had our really first intimate encounter. We've kissed three times prior to yesterday, each encounter being more intense than the last. We chatted a week ago that maybe our kissing was too ...

A.   22 April 2012: Huni Your worrying much and this is making you feel the way you do. If she is more experienced then let her guide you go slow and relax for you to be trying to hard and worrying if she likes it will stop you become a great lover Everything grea... (read in full...)

After dating 4 years I am so bored!

Q.   Hey guys, So i am in need of advice! My boyfriend and i have been together for almost four years now. To get to the point here. I am bored!!!! Its a cnfusing situation tough because i do care for him dearly. The last time i tried breaking up...

A.   22 April 2012: I need to ask a few things so I can help you better 1. Have you told your bf how you feel? 2 are you confident within yourself ? 3.What are you willing to do to put that spark back into your realationship ? 4. Do you love him or just ca... (read in full...)

Should we swing with our friends?

Q.   A few months ago I asked for advice about me and my wife having a 3some with my best friend.The opinion was that it was a no no,so me and my wife shelved it and decided that if we do try it we will book a hotel and a pro male escort to 'test the ...

A.   22 April 2012: I was in a 5 year relationship with a younger man 6 years younger. Now from word go we both told each other we were into the whole swing thing difference was he had done it many times before with his ex as for me I had not but was very open to it. ... (read in full...)

If he's not interested then why did he text me?

Q.   So im an 18year old, and haven't been in any relationships. Not a single bf, not cause im not a attractive, but im waiting for that challenging guy that blows off my mind. Two weeks a go 3 weeks ago i went to this library with my friend and saw this ...

A.   22 April 2012: Sweetness never think your not attractive don't focus on flaws focus on your beauty and this will shine though and men will take note. Now as for this guy he is what I call a player he gave you his number for this reason if he hasn't gotten a ... (read in full...)

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