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His phone porn clips make me want to give my number to other men!

Q.   Please help, i'm not sure if i'm acting the right way. well my bf is 'obsessed' with porn videos or that's what i think. Because he has a whole lot of porn clips on his phone. about 2 months ago I told him to delete these things on his phone and ...

A.   17 September 2008:  I'd ignore the "advice" that says clips of other girls on his phone aren't anybody. They're hurting you, and your feelings. You would be best to try and have an honest discussion about this, and part if compromise is not possible. But don't en... (read in full...)

I'm hiding the fact that I like male-on-male porn from my girlfriend and I'm feeling disgusted by myself. How do I solve this?

Q.   I'm 25 years old and live with my girlfriend who's 23. In the past few months I've started becoming addicted to pornography, and have much self-hatred because of it. I've bought a lot of male-on-male porno and had to hide it somewhere in our hous...

A.   17 September 2008:  Neil, I heard - and this may be wrong - that by the time a man looks at gay male porn, he has already had at least one gay encounter. Maybe it would help you to get a little counselling just to explore this area in a non-judgemental envi... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is looking at child porn!!

Q.   Once about 2 years ago, I found that my boyfriend had looked at child porn on the cpu. I confronted him, and he said he was looking at porn in general, and was curious. I was still upset, but accepted this, as he does occasionally loo...

A.   17 September 2008:  He is sponsoring the abuse of children by his actions, which are criminal in nature. "He says he doesn't get any kind of sexual pleasure out of it, but he doesn't know why he looked at it." And... can you really believe that? The more he di... (read in full...)

He watches porn and I am disgusted!!!!!!

Q.   i have been living with my partner for 2yrs and planned marriage, i loved him so much but now he has broke my heart,he said he watched porn once in a blue moon but i discovered otherwise-and what he watches is making me sick,all the girls look ...

A.   17 September 2008: Sinaed, Please disregard the "male anonymous reader" below. He didn't have the courage to sign in under a username and sounds like a misogynist twit... You say you find your husband not attractive. He in turn describes the porn he watches in te... (read in full...)

My husband watches porn, but won't have sex with me.

Q.   My husband is not interested in sex with me, no matter what I do, and, believe me, I have tried everything. He prefers unusual porn sites (women trampling men, women smothering men) and I have offered to do these things to him but he says he does ...

A.   17 September 2008:  Sorry to hear... It might be helpful to try to have a through chat with him and explain your feelings. Just telling you that he's "curious" isn't really helpful to you. Presumably anyone who looks at porn does so out of curiousity.... (read in full...)

Why do men need porn?

Q.   If women get off without porn why can't men get off on the feeling alone also? Why is porn needed??...

A.   16 September 2008:  Hmmm. Some random thoughts... I've met some very talented female lawyers and judges at the top of their profession. In quiet moments, they would confide they worried about their weight, and whether they'd spent enough time with the childre... (read in full...)

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