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I love my boyfriend but don't want to be intimate with him... could this have anything to do with my pregnancy?

Q.   I love my boyfriend very much...we have fun he makes me laugh and were expected a baby in about 4months.but i just dont kno what happened.maybe becuz im pregnant but its like i dont wanna have sex anymore with him like i really dont like it.i just ...

A.   10 August 2009: it's just b/c u pregnant some woman have these out of control problem when they cant get often then some have that the just dont want to be touch that's all it's nothing wrong with u but if u really love him u doing the right thing by faking b/c u ... (read in full...)

Wow! Why is everything in my life going crazy?

Q.   Wow!! It's being a long time since i wrote Dear Cupid but i really need some help on this one. My (Best Friend??28) left agian to move to flordia but before she left we was not really talking to me and she chose a man over me we have been best ...

A.   25 July 2009: THank u so much for ur responds No his not married TRUST ME I LOOKED and no i have not talk to my sister she have done this to me four time already that is often ? her and for my friend she's gone and i have to live with that i just wish we were ... (read in full...)

Want to find out how you would act in a relationship, take this test.

Q.   After reading all these articles I decided to throw this in there too! I was given this test by a "relationship theropist" LOL yes that title does exist! However it was interesting to see just which one you pick....... Read the question, don't ...

A.   9 August 2008: i pick horse and that is so true but in my life i have children so i have to work or they dont eat.. So i guess you are right my money comes first so i can be a good mother to my kids then my relationships who hope to god say the same thing tonight ... (read in full...)

What's your view? I don't want to believe I got played...

Q.   Kinda long..sorry..I met this really cute guy at a night club. We danced last few songs. Got his number. A few days later I go to his place. We kiss and hug (didn't hit 3rd base), but after we talked and laughed for a few hours. I then saw him again ...

A.   9 August 2008: He's probably putting you through things because he is feeling bad about what happen that night or probably pushing you away because of what he did. So you are never going to know unless you ask him what is up and what we going to do next?? Make ... (read in full...)

Can he really want me even though I'm fat?

Q.   Hi Im 21 and iv got a dilema! Im thinking of loosing my virginity to a person i trust 100% although i trust him i cant help thinking about how turned off he will be when he see's the fat. Yes im a big girl and its not as if he doesnt know but he ...

A.   9 August 2008: First of all if he dont like big girls he would'nt have talk to you in the first place and if you are feeling him ask him why u and he should give you a great answers to your problem. Have more self-Confidence in yourself because if you dont you ... (read in full...)

What noises should I make during sex??

Q.   well im going to be losing my virginity soon as me and my boyfriend are ready for sex. but im really worried about how itll feel like but most of all what kind of noises to make. i mean, just soft moans or screams? what should i be saying?? what do ...

A.   5 August 2008: I say make the noises that comes to u and be safe! Take your time and make it a great day because u only got one chance to do this dont rush and try to enjoy it the best way you can HAVE FUN!!! ... (read in full...)

Should I try to save my marriage?

Q.   I feel my marriage is over but I am too scared to leave. I have been married for 9 years and he was my first ever boyfriend! We just no longer seem to get on. He shows no love or affection although he always tells me he loves me, he never sh...

A.   4 August 2008: I say saved the marriage. Try different things with him like try to get your passion for one other back take a trip or just date like you use to. Talk more not yell talk and try to have a positive out look on your marriage and just maybe things ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend likes porn a lot. Is this normal?

Q.   At first, I thought male are more likely get addicted in watching porn. The case now is my gf likes it a lot. She even asked me to watch with her. At first, I thought that is a way she tell me how she likes it. The more she get into porn, the m...

A.   30 July 2008: Hell yell that is normal i watch it all the time when i have a chance and my boyfriend loves it!! That a girl dont have to hide that fact that she love to watch porn is great because I know alot of girl who say it's nasty but be watching it ... (read in full...)

I don't want to hurt my wonderful fiance, but I don't want this amazing, loving affair to end.

Q.   In Love with two people! I'm 35. Fiancé 32, Lover 21! I can't believe I have let myself get into this situation, I have a really nice Fiancé, 2 kids aged 2 and 5 we don’t argue, we still have Sex a few times a week. My problem is this a year a...

A.   29 July 2008: Wow i cant believe you would do this to your kids and your lover too! You are about to get married and she had your kids been there though thick and thin!! Have you had a disagreement with this lady yet have you cried and experience pain with this ... (read in full...)

Any sex advice for a larger lady?

Q.   I'm very overweight and not very "attractive" but I've met a fella who accepts me as I am. We're now having regular intercourse for the first time in my life.To be honest I'm just glad to feel wanted and satisfy a man's needs in bed.Look...

A.   25 July 2008: Girl you better try doggle style it's helps and you can play with yourself at the same time and it's good exercise too!!! Start try to enjoy more watch porns it's help to see big girls and how they work it you going to get more confidence feel more ... (read in full...)

I'm trying to get pregnant. I need some advice.

Q.   I want to get pregnant really bad but my tubes is tied but i have read plenty of time that people still got pregnant without the surgery is there anybody who would no what sex moves would help me and what pills to get me and my boyfriend know what ...

A.   23 July 2008: YELL I QUESS YOU ARE RIGHT AND I WILL LOOK INTO IT AND HOPEFULY I WILL GET PREGNANT AFTER THE WEDDING!!... (read in full...)

I'm trying to get pregnant. I need some advice.

Q.   I want to get pregnant really bad but my tubes is tied but i have read plenty of time that people still got pregnant without the surgery is there anybody who would no what sex moves would help me and what pills to get me and my boyfriend know what ...

A.   22 July 2008: First of all i am not on walfare i have two degrees and make my own money second of all there not really his kids he just adopted them and we are getting married i just dont feel like he's my fincee what ever it's call we been together for so long ... (read in full...)

My love forever pt.2

Q.   Well for those of you who wanted to hear the rest of the story to where his "ex" was tormenting our lives here it is. So about a month into our relationship everything with us is okay. We went to graduation and he, I, and a few of our friends ...

A.   22 July 2008: That was great but keep your enemy closer then ever because she will do it again that was a great story u and your man need to be happy you saw him first!! good luck!!... (read in full...)

My love forever...

Q.   Well people. Here's my story. I'm 16 years old and I met my love nearly a year ago. Even though we've been together only 2 months. I met him at my schools "75th" annual pageant. I saw him hanging out with a crowd of guys and I couldn't help but ...

A.   22 July 2008: please tell me the rest that was good i need to know how she did you wrong!!... (read in full...)

Can my best friend date my much younger brother? Her marriage is basically over.

Q.   I have a best friend who just move back to me and her marriage is basically over! My brother comes and live with me every summer and this summer is no different. My best friend comes to my house everyday and her and my brother got closer she is 27 ...

A.   17 July 2008: I have a problem because my best friend is a hopper what i mean is she hops to one man then the other when she is done with them or done with her she knows what she is doing but i love her for who she is am not try to change her and now she doing it ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has driven me to depression. What do I do now?

Q.   Do you think that I should stay with my boyfriend even though I have found out how insensitive he is towards my feelings? 3 Years ago I had an abortion, which he knew about to my ex. We are now trying for a child and since we are going on ...

A.   15 July 2008: I went through the same thing i got my kids taking away from me for something so stupid and i was hurt like hell i was carrying he's twins and he was not supportive at all he call me name and told me that i screw up my life and the kids he was so ... (read in full...)

Me and my cousin are flirting a lot. I want to have sex with her...

Q.   okay i am 15 and my cousin is 14 and every time we're together i can't stop thinking about her and we always flirt every time we're together like at our family cottage me her and my sister slept in the top floor of our bunkhouse and me and her were ...

A.   10 July 2008: dont do it please take it from someone who know one who did it and its not pretty they had a baby and it was a big problem in the family so dont do it think of her like your sister and get over it please thank u !!... (read in full...)

I'm struggling to let him go because I want him back...

Q.   I went out with my boyfriend for four years. We split up 6 months ago which was mutual as he didn't want to live in my flat anymore and we ended up only seeing each other at weekends which stressed me out as I never ended up doing things that I ...

A.   10 July 2008: Sometime guys have to realize there self that what they got was gold until then let him have his freedom and you have your because knowing him he's enjoy his if you know what i mean so enjoy yours and find someone new or a BC and keep your head ... (read in full...)

Am I wrong to be upset because my boyfriend takes me for granted?

Q.   I'm having some problem with my boyfriend. I think he is taking me for granted and has no respect for me. For example, he plans to do something with me then he changes his mind for his friends. Obviously I go mad. Is this right and am I wrong he...

A.   10 July 2008: i feel like you should talk to him and if he still dont understand it's plenty fish in the ocean who wont do this to u!!... (read in full...)

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