I want my friend online to move to where I am
Q. well topic over someone i love that ive never meet. well here it goes, one of my friends plays x-box live with this guy, so were all hangin out he calls she answers, long story short me and this guy start to talk, we started texting 24/7.talked on ...
A. 26 May 2012: I have the same problem. On the one hand you want to tell him how you feel and you hope he will have the same feelings as you and then believe you two could have an amazing relationship. However on the other hand by telling him, you may be losing y... (read in full...)
Casual relationship with friend/roommate has become more for me but I don't know how to tell her
Q. I'm in a situation that I am very confused and emotionally frustrated about. At the beginning of the year I moved in to an apartment with one of my best friends (who is female). For awhile things were going as a normal roommate situation would... ...
A. 26 May 2012: Seriously, TELL HER! She's playing hard to get when she knows for a fact that she feels the same as you do. I reckon she's just waiting for you to make your move! So go for it! Good Luck.
E x... (read in full...)
Is he bailing out on me?
Q. Hello, I've known this guy along time. We had a great connection and began dating. We had a lot of fun together and I found myself developing some deep feelings for him. He explained early on he was "burnt" in a relationship years ago and aft...
A. 26 May 2012: I agree, it sounds as if he's juts using you for some company. I would just stop all contact. I know it may seem difficult if you like him but it's the best thing to do. Good Luck!
e x... (read in full...)
Does it ever happen that the guy falls for the girl who's been standing beside him all along?
Q. Hi, just wondering what are the possible outcomes for my situation here. This guy Josh is one of my closest ever friends..we tell each other absolutely everything, have helped each other through our hardest times (parents divorce, death). We had a ...
A. 26 May 2012: Of course it happens and it's only normal for things like this to happen. I would say that your best bet is to just tell him how you feel when you're having one of your heart-to-hearts. Just come right out with it and see how he reacts. It's most ... (read in full...)
Girl at school told me it's just a phase. It's not. What can I do about my love for my possibly gay PE teacher?
Q. Im 15 and i love my pe teacher but he never seems to notice me, my friend caught me staring at him in the cafateria and i had to spill my guts and she just told me its a phase and i'll get over it. but i know its not and i really want him both in a...
A. 22 October 2011: Okay alot of people say they "love" their teahcer but honestly. They don't!!! seriously it is a phase. Even if its not and he did feel the same he couldnt do anything about it because you under 18 and its illegal.... (read in full...)
What's the possible reason to why he's acting like this?
Q. Hi, So yesterday me and my boyfriend of almost 2 years went out together had a really nice day, even bought me one or two things too which was out of the blue but very very nice and kept telling me he loved me and missed me because we hadn't b...
A. 22 October 2011: Don't worry too much about it. He's probably just resting I guess. My boyfriend tends to be like that alot but in the end it just comes down to the fact he is busy and doesnt have time to text. Of course I know yours is a complete different ... (read in full...)
I haven't had a period for 5 months. Is this normal?
Q. I've been on my period for about 5 times they were normal and my last period was in March and I haven't been on it since. Is there anything wrong with me or is it just normal?...
A. 26 August 2011: If you just started your period then it's normal so dont be worried it's just your body adjusting. However if you have had sex then you may be pregnant, But it is most likely your body adjusting.... (read in full...)
How to kiss a shorter guy?
Q. How do you kiss a guy shorter than you without making it akward. He is 5ft 5" and I am 5ft 11"....
A. 5 June 2011: Just kiss whole sitting down and you will be fine im sure of it... (read in full...)
Did she purposely text me and pretend it was an accident to let me know that she's thinking about me?
Q. So I've been seeing this girl for about 2 months and about 3 weeks ago I found a text to her ex bf that lives out of state now and I approached her on it. For the next few weeks we have not hung out at all, we've been texting here and there, just ...
A. 16 May 2011: Maybe she is just trying to make you jealous ... (read in full...)
Should I meet this guy at a hotel?
Q. Should I meet at hotel? Hi, Any advice is really appreciated! Im just out of my only relationship 3 1/2 years and have never really 'dated'. Well i met someone when i was away down the country a few weeks ago, we kissed and me and my frien...
A. 16 May 2011: i agree that if you wnat to meet him meet him but do be careful not saying that anything bad will happen but nowadays you dont know who is about and dont know who you are dealing with maybe meet for dinner or coffee befor thinking about hotels and ... (read in full...)
My ex FWB is back, but he has a GF now. I don't know how to handle his advances.
Q. I've known this guy for a few years. We used to be 'friends with benefits', but then everybody found out, we both denied it like our lives depended on it, and then didn't speak for a while. Then last summer we started getting friendly, but nothing ...
A. 16 April 2011: Talk to him but dont send him any pictures you need to trust him so have conversations so you can gain his trust and so he can gain your trust. If he wants to have sex with you then obviously he cannot do it while he is still with his girlfriend but ... (read in full...)
Question about dating and sex in the later years.
Q. I'm a woman of 78 who has been alone a number of years. I joined a Senior Dating site recently. Now, this guy who's 68 contacted me. He is looking for a friend and a lover and asked me if I was interested. His first question to me was I still ...
A. 16 April 2011: Go for it it could be something which you will blossom and yes always wear a condom not matter what! Good LuCk ... (read in full...)
Father in law is creeping me out!
Q. Hello All!! So I have a problem. My father in law. He is starting to creep me out. He has always been very interetsed in me. Meaning he always trys to make conversation with me any time we are around each other. I am young and shy, so i dont really ...
A. 15 March 2011: I wouldn't say anything at the moment just see how things go but do at some point bring it up to your father in law if this continues. ask if your husband is supporting you that is what you reall need right now. Good Luck. E xx... (read in full...)
My wife's friends husband flirts openly with her...and she sees no harm in it. Am I the only one who thinks this is weird?
Q. My wife's best friend's husband will openly flirt with my wife at social gatherings at there home. She says it is just his way and I have excepted that, even though I find it dis-respectful. My wife says it means nothing. Recently I have learned ...
A. 15 March 2011: I dont think that it is fair for you wife to be texting this guy when she knows it is making you upset. You are her husband not him and she should understand why you are upset and respect your feelings and hep out and just stop texting this guy. You ... (read in full...)
We have a baby, but he's always talking to his ex!
Q. I have a problem with my fiance. Here is a little background about us. We started dating just about 2 years ago. We both were in relationships before for 4 years and broke up and began dating about 1 month later. We had problems with our ex's. His ...
A. 13 March 2011: He is obviously cheating on you i mean the texts prove that. But you need to sort things out. He cant keep you in the dark forever. Persuade him to come clean just do things that make you look suspicious and then see if he comes clean and admits it. ... (read in full...)
What is this fluid?
Q. I'm a 17-year old male , but i haven't any ejaculations yet , i only get seminal fluid (transparent fluid) at the tip of my penis but no cum or ejaculation at all , what would that be ??...
A. 2 March 2011: The transparent stuff is pre-ejaculate. Even though it is clear it still contains sperm cells. ... (read in full...)
After what my interfering father did, is the friendship salvageable?
Q. At the beginning of this year, I became really good friends with this guy in my class. We hung out and talked all the time for nearly seven months and flirted all the time. At my birthday party, we were dared to kiss and for a week after that, I was ...
A. 27 February 2011: Your father must have said some pretty hurtful and threatening things to this guy for him to be acting like that woth you. But he should'nt be taking it out on you! He should tell you what your father said and then see what happens. That is if he ... (read in full...)
I got upset, and confronted my new friends in a fit of anger. Now I don't have have any friends. Did I do the right thing?
Q. I’m new at a school, and I’m trying to get into a relationship with a girl. Every time I’m with her, my friends would come and interrupt the conversation. This happened quite a few times and I kept the anger bottled up. I have a short temper, so ...
A. 26 February 2011: Maybe you should not have had a go and threatened them just said calmly "back off a bit" but its not your fault your new. Just say sorry they may understand. Big move has got you stressed and you were upset.
Good Luck. E x... (read in full...)
Since announcing my engagement, I've noticed some of my female friends have dropped out of the picture. Why?
Q. I am a male in my late 40s and engaged to be married. I have several male and female friends who I've been friends with for several years. I became engaged this past summer and naturally told all my friends the good news. Since then, I've noticed ...
A. 26 February 2011: Maybe they are jealous because you have a good relationship (hopefully) and you are committed and they may feel that now you are engaged you will not be there to help them with their problems in theor marriges and relationships. Talk to them. Try ... (read in full...)
Why won't my boyfriend's friend talk to me anymore? It's very awkward!
Q. Why is he acting so weird? What’s his problem? My boyfriend’s friend has been acting really weird with me lately. I spent Christmas with him and my boyfriend. We got on really well, but now he hardly says a word to me whenever I am around. ...
A. 26 February 2011: To be honest i think that he either;
a) Likes you a lot and thinks that talking to you will make him fall in love with you so hes avoiding you. OR
b) He's jealous of you and your bf. He wants someone like you and he cant have you!
Either wa... (read in full...)
After dating for 3 years, I suspect my boyfriend is cheating! How do I approach him to ask if it's true?
Q. Do I or don’t I break up with my partner? We have been seeing each other for 3 years now and I suspect him of seeing some one else. How shall I approach him to ask him if it’s true? Help please!!!...
A. 26 February 2011: Dont approach him!! That is the worst possible thing you could do. You need proof that he actua;lly is cheating on you. Why would he after 3 years though? Listen to CaringGuy :)
Good Luck. E
Dont do anything drastic x... (read in full...)
I only attract men that are taken!
Q. I only seem to attract men who are already taken. I've been single for the last three years and I just attract one man after the other who already has a girlfriend. Any ideas why this is the case?...
A. 26 February 2011: No idea! sorry. But just try somewhere different and someone dfferent :)... (read in full...)
One night stand with married woman has left me fearful--her husband found out!
Q. a month ago i had a one night stand with a woman i met at a bar. we exchanged info and she wrote me about how it was nice to feel good for a night outside of her bad marriage.. i didn't know she was married. i wrote her i couldnt be involved with a ...
A. 26 February 2011: Definatley let it go. He may have forgiven his wife and made up with her but he will be mad at you. Apologising might make him flip aafter he has left you alone for a while. He may have gotten over it. Your writing to 'apologise' will only make ... (read in full...)
Has my teacher got feelings towards me? Or is he just being nice?
Q. I've reposted this question to hoping to get more answers I know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight away...
A. 23 February 2011: I think he has a crush but you want to be careful that one day he may offer you something and if you reject him it could end baadly. but tha probably wont happen. all in all i think you need to talk to eachother about where you stand .
Good Luck... (read in full...)
Why does my partner lose his erection during intercourse without ejaculating?
Q. My partner loses his erection during intercourse without ejaculating? Why? I did not have a this problem with my previous partner! ...
A. 22 February 2011: As dirtball said he could have many conditions and maybe you should talk to him about it. Ask him if he is ok when having sex? Etc.
Good Luck. E... (read in full...)
I'm gay and falling for my straight best friend!
Q. My name is Phillip and I am gay. This whole situation is going to get a little complex so bare with me. In November 2009 I told my friend Cory that I love him and since then he has avoided coming anywhere near me. I wasn't hurt because he was ...
A. 22 February 2011: I would tell him how you feel before he asks out your sister it could help him to think that maybe he likes you too. But it may not. Either way if he is a true friend he will stand by you even though you have admitted that you sort of like him. ... (read in full...)
What do I say to her to get her interested in going out with me?
Q. on satuday night one of my female friends had a birthday party and before i only knew 2 people who were going because they were my friends. i had a great night and met some really nice people girls and guys. but there was one girl who i t...
A. 22 February 2011: Talk to her more on facebook, about college or what she got up too over half term. Find out about what music she likes and be interested. Basically get toknow her and help her to get to know you. I nvite her to the cinema etc. Then tell her that you ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to notice me more?
Q. Hi, I really want this cute guy to notice me but hes the hottest guy around and always has his friends around him. I think he likes me but we are both kinda shy. It feels diffrent than any other crush I'v had, every time I see or even just think ...
A. 22 February 2011: Eveything KatieBudget says i am agreeing with :D
Good Luck. E xx... (read in full...)
He left me for another woman while I was pregnant. I need advice. Has this happened to others?
Q. I feel like am going through an emotional hell just now and any advice would be welcome. I am 20 weeks pregnant and my ex broke up with me just when we found out. To cut a long story short, we have had a very close friendship for over a year. We...
A. 22 February 2011: I havent been through that but thats because im like 15 but im sure plenty of people have and they have got through it. Talk to people: family, friends etc and get there advice see what they would do. All in all i dont know what to say really other ... (read in full...)
Is he cheating because he doesn't want sex?
Q. Hey, I really want my boyfriend to have relaxed sex but hes always too serious! He goes for about 2 minutes and then says stop being childish, I have to get rest. I'm thinking of breaking up with him because hes been not wanting to have sex, ...
A. 22 February 2011: Personally I dont think he is cheating. It may be that your boyfriend is very self concious and needs some more time to sort of come to terms of the idea and get some confidence. Ask him about it again and mention whether he is confident?
P... (read in full...)
He cant marry me because of his parents......
Q. I've been in an on/off relationship with this guy for many years now. We always break up due to one problem, his parents. Our parents come from the same country and religious background, however he strongly believes that his parents will never ...
A. 22 February 2011: To be honest why are you still with this guy if he wont tell his parents and make it official??? I think he owes it to you o tell them and so if he doesnt perhaps you should tell them yourself. Its not that bad of an idea and it could help the ... (read in full...)
I keep cheating on my partner with my ex! I know I am hurting others and myself, so how do I stop this?
Q. My ex and I had a baby, she is 2 now. We really never got along, but when we did it was great. About when my daughter was one there were more problems between us- just trying to get situated with all the changes. I ended up sleeping with a guy from ...
A. 22 February 2011: You really need to stop cheating! Its not doing anyone any good. If you dont wanna cheat anymore tell your ex that and make sure he understands it and make sure it doesnt happen again because your boyfriend may not be so forgiving if he finds out ... (read in full...)
Sex has never happened for me and I'm worried I will end up an old maid!
Q. Looking for some advice; I'm a 23 year old female, and I've never had sex. It's not a question or beliefs, or prudishness- it's just not something that ever happened. In highschool and university I hung out mainly with other girls, and I never ...
A. 22 February 2011: I know that this may seem weird and all but have you ever thought of online dating. I mean it could help you to find someone who you can be in a relationship with and then you can have sex with. To be honest it kind of makes sense but you seem so so ... (read in full...)
I still love her, what should I do?
Q. I have like a female friend for about 6-7 years already. Initially, we only started texting each other but we progressed to talking on the phone everyday. This happens everynight after school(we are classmates). Eventually we realize that we love ...
A. 22 February 2011: Sit her down and tell her how you feel, that you still like her, always have and ask her about her feelings. I mean if she likes you then she will either tell you straight up, to your face or she will try and deny it. Its what most women do. But ... (read in full...)
I'm am taking medication to gain weight, but I need support, as well! What should I do?
Q. I'm a 23 year old married female. I've always been thin just like my father. He has trouble gaining weight and I now am having the same issues. I'm 5'5 and weigh 97 pounds. My ideal weight is and was 120-125. I try to eat as much as I can, but ...
A. 22 February 2011: Im not expert so I cant tell you what you can do but all i will say is that maybe you should express your concerns more deeply with a nutrisionist and see where it goes from there.
Good Luck. E x... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a man gives you a drawer?
Q. I have a man I'm seeing long distance. We started this relationship in early November We are two hours apart... we email and talk on the phone a few times a week... I go to visit him since he cannot be around my dogs. I have been up to see h...
A. 22 February 2011: It means you are in a committed relationship and that he wants to be with you more and for you to spent more nights, weekends, holidays there. Well done. Seriously it's a great thing and you should be honoured that you have that drawer. I hope it ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and in love with my brother's 21 year old friend...
Q. I am a 15. I have never told anyone this, but I think I'm in love with my brother's best friend. He is 21, and dating someone. Who he loves. I don't know if she loves him. From what I know, she doesn't. Here's the thing. I know he flirts with me ...
A. 21 February 2011: Whoa!!!
Tell him how you feel but i mean he's in a relationship and you say that he loves this person so its most likely just flirting and he probably doesnt feel anything. But i may be wrong.
But sure tell him he may feel the same and you could li... (read in full...)
Can I still have children?
Q. hi is it possible to have children if you have been treated for candidas?...
A. 21 February 2011: Im sure it wouldnt decrease your chances of having children. However go and talk to your nurse or doctor about it and get some advice
Good Luck
E... (read in full...)
Break through bleeding on the pill......
Q. I've been on the pill for about 9 months now but this past week i've experienced a lot of break through bleeding. Its nothing like a proper period but is enough to stop me having sex as much and i am wearing a pantyliner to aviod the inconvience of ...
A. 21 February 2011: Breakthrough bleeding is sometimes a common experience in women who have just started taking the contraceptive pill (especially during the first month).
In the majority of cases it does, and never happens again.
I do think you should discuss t... (read in full...)
He wants me to kiss him all the time but I cant bring myself to do it! Help!
Q. Ok so i have been dating this guy, lets call him J, since 9/11 of last year. I truly love him, with all my heart. He my total ideal guy. I really do think it was fate that brought us together, and i think that when we are older, i want him to be the ...
A. 21 February 2011: OMG!!! That is the exact same thing with my boyfriend. We have been going out 7 months and kissed like twice. Because im really shy.
But im determined to make it work
Next time your with him just kiss him and tell him that your a bit shy when it ... (read in full...)
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