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I can't keep it up! Help!!!

Q.   i have problems in the bedroom department. i cant get it up for more than 5 minutes and my girlfriend is going to chop my d*** off if i dont last longer can u save my small penis. gavin moon...

A.   8 July 2006: Please visit your GP erection failure can be a serious sympton of diseases. Make sure you do not drink alcohol, and also discuss any medication you may be on as they may be causing this.... (read in full...)

I'm too moody with my boyfriend!

Q.   Lately I seem to be having some really bad mood swings, or what I think are mood swings, when it comes to me boyfriend. I get either cross or upset for the smallest things, like when he calls me later than he said he would or I get jealous of any ...

A.   8 July 2006: If you are sexually active it might be worth getting a pregnancy test, how long has this been going on? could it be PMT/PMS and finally, maybe your bf is upsetting you, talk to him, explain you feel a bit sensitive right now and need him to be extra ... (read in full...)

I'm a gay teen, have met another guy 16 on the interweb but feel so down because we're not together!

Q.   Hi, Im 15 and I met this 16 year old boy on the net, and he's the nicest thing in the world - he's so sexy, but hes also funny, kind, polite and well fun to talk to n he says the same about me. We talk every night, and we both have webcams so ...

A.   8 July 2006: maybe you could arrange to meet up half way to where he lives one weekend. I know how much the gay/lesbian scene here in the uk sux, but check ur local phone numbas there shud b sum gay support line, ask them where u can go. good luck and remember, ... (read in full...)

I'm 16. He's 21. Is he too old?

Q.   I am 16- my birthday was in February. My boyfriend is 21- going to be 22 in August. Is he too old? When i tell people they are shocked, i was when he told me but i am over that now. I really have never met anyone like him before......

A.   2 July 2006: pete? i mean DrPsych.. sorry i think i may be loosing my mind....... (read in full...)

I'm 16. He's 21. Is he too old?

Q.   I am 16- my birthday was in February. My boyfriend is 21- going to be 22 in August. Is he too old? When i tell people they are shocked, i was when he told me but i am over that now. I really have never met anyone like him before......

A.   2 July 2006: My bloke is four years older than me, and it never troubles us. It sometimes makes other people worried, but thats their problem. I agree with pete, dont feel pressurised and take it easy! you'll be fine Best of luck T... (read in full...)

I have trust issues with my man!

Q.   I have a trust issue with my man. I've been seeing him since September last year. In March this year I went on holiday with him, and whilst we were away he asked me to move in with him. He goes to London weekly overnight as he works in the Civil Se...

A.   2 July 2006: Im afraid i disagree with smiler. You should confront him, if you cant trust him, you cant be in a proper relationship, you need to talk to him and work things out before it gets too bad and you cant trust him again. Try marriage/relationship ... (read in full...)

Confused about my love life!

Q.   hi guys Have a bit of a problem here. I split up with my ex b/f like 1 month a half ago... I was in a band with him. We had just found a bassist, who 2 weeks later became my current boyfriend. Anyways, during these two weeks that i split from my ...

A.   2 July 2006: ah, you have two guys after you. The guy you are going out with, is he good to you? and friendly? If you feel for one more than the other then go with them and ask the guy you dont like as much to leave you alone. If you like your bf more, and you ... (read in full...)

I want what I can't have... Why?

Q.   I just broke up with my boyfriend of exactly 1 year because i find that it has been a long time that i felt any attraction between us and i don't get happy or excited when i see him. He is very very good to me, the best boyfriend i have ever had but ...

A.   2 July 2006: ok, the ex who you feel safe and comfy with, just doesnt do it for you. it is over, no passion means the end of a sexual relationship. talk to him about being friends, explain how you feel and ask if he wants to be friends and if he can cope with ... (read in full...)

How do I get through the World Cup ? Need some attention from him, any ideas!?

Q.   I know many women will be able to sympathise with me on this problem - I'm sick of my man leaving me alone to watch the World Cup!!! He's mad about football but now, there's like 3 matches on a day and I never get any attention whatsoever!! Mos...

A.   12 June 2006: get white and milk choc syrrup or bodaypaint, draw a football on ur tummy and make sure he is going 2 c u b4 he goes out or goes to sleep! make sure he knows how u feel and give him a bit of space, after all they do put up with us when we get PMT... (read in full...)

14 years old & pregnant. What do I do?

Q.   I am 14 and i know you are all probably thinking what is 14 year old doing with a sex life and I know I shouldn't be thinking of boys and sex yet, but I slept at my boyfriends house for the first time and we ended up having sex for the first time. ...

A.   11 June 2006: Please tell someone close to you, sister, mum, dad or auntie. dont have an abortion without support, and make sure its what you want. There are other options, adoption or even letting your mum/sister/auntie etc adopt the baby. If you talk to your ... (read in full...)

Should my baby have my surname or his??....

Q.   I'm pregnant and my babies father 4 years older than me and he wants the baby to have his last name......

A.   11 June 2006: I have a baby and my partner and I arent married but I am comfortable in the relationship, I chose for my son to have my partners name, the choice is YOURS dont let him dictate what you do. There is 4 years between my partner and I, it never gets in ... (read in full...)

My step-sister is blackmailing me for money and sex

Q.   I am a 12 year old boy from the uk and my problem is that my 14 year old stepsister caught me smoking cannabis 3 months ago and ever since then she has been blackmailing me by threating to tell my mum at first she was only demanding money but since ...

A.   11 June 2006: Please dont warn her you are going to tell a parent. Just go straight to your mum or dad and be honest. Yes cannibis is illegal, and you are a bit young to be trying it, but if they are normal british adults i bet they have tried it before. Please ... (read in full...)

Fourteen and pregnant! What do I do?

Q.   Hi, I am 14 and I am in trouble. I know you think "you are only 14. What are you doing thinking about sex already?" I know I shouldn't be, but I have and I have ended up pregnant. I have took 2 posative tests and I don't know what to do. Should I...

A.   11 June 2006: If you think that you REALLY want an abortion, talk to your mum and the boy who got you pregnant. Please DONT do anything without telling someone, whatever you decide to do, it is your choice. DONT let anyone bully you into keeping/letting someone ... (read in full...)

My sisters half my age and pregnant

Q.   hi i am lou age 26 and my little sister age 13 is very out going and she is settled with her boyfriend as she says. the other day i was looking after her while her mum was out and i went in her room to ask her what she wanted for her tea and she was ...

A.   10 June 2006: hi hun, i was 16 when i got pregnant, and I know younger women with babies. Accidents happen. Please dont forget that no matter how young she is, with support she could make a brilliant mother, and please dont try to talk her into an abortion or ... (read in full...)

How do I hide my sexaulity, without avoiding people I care about and becoming lonely and depressed ?

Q.   When I was little I was always a tom boy. I'm 18 now, and I'm not TOTALLY like that anymore, but I have been hiding the fact that I'm homosexual for as long as I can remember. When I look back it's obvious that I've liked girls since I was in 1st ...

A.   10 June 2006: Ok firstly I think its important you accept yourself for who you are. You are a girl and im sure you have a great personality, But instead of sharing it with everyone and feeling free, you are bottling up your emotions and making yourself feel bad. ... (read in full...)

Is friend making hints at me??

Q.   I posted a question earlier on this site, but i didn;'t make it clear, so here goes again: There is this girl who is my friend and i really love her. We are both girls. Earlier this year a m8 sent around a rumour that h.j was a lesbian. I thoug...

A.   10 June 2006: you both sound a little confused. personally i'd either do one of two things. option A, go for it, express how you feel and hope that roumours dont get around about you if it all goes wrong. Option B you could sit back and wait for her to (unlikely) ... (read in full...)

I'm bi-curious. Can someone tell me what it's like to be with another woman?

Q.   I'm bi-curious... I've looked at other girls and I know it is normal for most teens (I am 18) but I keep wondering what it would be like to be touched by another woman... When women have sex with each other what do they do?...

A.   10 June 2006: sex with a woman is similar to with a man, but instead of certain anatomy, 'props' are often used like dildos. most lesbians and bi women in a relationship with the same sex rely on oral sex in the '69' position to gratify both partys. Its normal to ... (read in full...)

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