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Should I be worried, or is it just curiosity?

Q.   my eleven year old daughter was looking up quite a bit of pornography and lesbian porn on my laptop. should i be worried or is it just curiosity at eleven? when i was eleven... i was far from thinking about that. kids mature too fast. How shoul...

A.   15 July 2010: i think u should sit down and talk to her about wat she done and ask why she was watching lesbian porn ..... it could be her mind askin or it could be herr way of saying shes a lebian but try talk to her it won't do any harm..... xxx... (read in full...)

My daughter's lie about her dad raping her broke up our marriage...

Q.   Please help me on this.... How can you get your family back on track when a lie so big destroyed it. It started on 7/7/09. I've been with this man since I was 18 at that time I had 2 kids and later found out I was pregnant but not from him with my ...

A.   15 July 2010: omg sorry but i think your man should stay away from your family because none of your children are his nd your daughter told that terible lie sorry but as a victim of rape lying about it is unforgiveable and i feel sorry for your man because after ... (read in full...)

We were talking about losing our virginity to each other, but then 2 weeks later he lost his to another girl! Now he wants me more than ever I don't know what to do....

Q.   Well, i have been talking to this guy and weve liked each other since childhood.one day we asked each other about our virginity and we both admitted we were. I believe in abstinence,none the less i was willing to loose my virginity to him. But a ...

A.   13 July 2010: don't feel pressured into having sex with anyone you do it when you feel the time is right for you but to be honest you should really wait until you are in a stable relationship with someone and you are both ready.. expalain to this boy how its made ... (read in full...)

What's going through his head?

Q.   I have been in an on and off relationship with one of my long time guy friends. After one of the breakups I realized I loved him. Not just stupid teen love where you think you do. I love everything about him even his flaws I can trust him 100 ...

A.   12 July 2010: i think he has feelings for you but just doesn't want too admit it to be honest so try sit down and talk to him and try get him to admit it by telling him exactkley how u feel xxx GOOD LUCK XX ... (read in full...)

Advice for young teenagers thinking about having sex for the first time.

Q.   i was going out with my boyfriend for only 2 months. we did have sex and it wasn't as pleasurable as anything on the tv/in magazines suggest it is. it was embarrassing and to be honest it was so painful (he has to break your hymen after all.) i was ...

A.   12 July 2010: your right because when i lost my verginity it was a BIG misstake becuase i was going with my boyfriend for a couple of months and he started messing my head so we broke up nd i kept takling him back nd my mum nd dad said he was just using me for ... (read in full...)

She's shy about showing me her lady parts

Q.   ok so me and my gf have been together for 7 months now and we are beyond the sexual level of our relationship...well just lately i been having an issue because she wont show me her LADY part (vagina), now thats not the problem. The problem is ...

A.   12 July 2010: Don't give up on your girlfriend just becuase she isn't showing you her parts she may just hate the way her vagina looks, i was the same at one time until my boyfriend offered me oral sex with lights off and i agreed and from then i haven't been shy ... (read in full...)

Never in the mood for sex anymore!

Q.   I have been married for eight years.I have three kids.For the last two years I don't feel like having sex often.My husband is a wonderful man and he means the world to me.It makes me feel bad when he tells me why I'm not in the mood like I was ...

A.   10 July 2010: go to the doctors and see if he could maybey prescribe some drugs to help get you going or maybey even try watching porn or a romantic night with your man without the kids xx... (read in full...)

Spotting, uncomfortable feeling, what could be the problem??

Q.   I am fourteen years old. I have only had oral sex ( recieving . ) but it was three months ago. Since then I have been masturbating . Recently, I've felt the urge to pee a lot more and it comes without warning . When I go to use the restroom almost ...

A.   10 July 2010: OMG!!! go to the doctor and expalain and also ask for some STD tests. you may have and STD.... Get it checked as soon as possible ...... GOODLUCK!!!!! xxxxxx... (read in full...)

Separated, girlfriend got pregnant, had abortion, he wants her friendship but wants us to work it out, how??

Q.   my husband and i have had our ups and downs and so on may 30th 2010 i left him and during the 3wks i was go he met someone else and they had ben having sex and i coame back so we could work things out and things were going fine and then i find out ...

A.   10 July 2010: Hi, i can't help feel sorry for you becuase your husband must not LOVE you because you leave him then during the three weeks you were gone he met another girl and got her pregnant talk about moving on.... this was wrong for him to do to you come on ... (read in full...)

I'm so upset my 16 year old daughter lost her virginity

Q.   Im a mother with strong beliefs .right know i can't think straight just found out that my sixteen year old (girl)lost her virginity and im so hurt im purely old school hey you want that you got to pay the responsibility. my husband wants to beat the ...

A.   10 July 2010: Sorry but to be honest i think you should get over it because at least your daughter is in a relationship with the boy she has lost her verginity too.I'm a 15 year old girl and i lost my virginity at 14 and i wasn't in a ralationship and when my mum ... (read in full...)

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