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My boyfriend needs a place to stay, I want my parents to take him in!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. We are very happy together. The problem is he has a bad home life to the point that he had to leave and move in with a friend. Now that hes at his friends house new problems have arrived because ...

A.   17 December 2010: question.. it doesn't really seem like either of you have the financial stability (I may be wrong) so how are you going to support yourself and each other if you're moving out in like two months...?... (read in full...)

Do you always bleed your first time?

Q.   Dear Cupid, My boyfriend of one and a half year wanted to have sex with me some time ago i cried and told him i was a virgin so he should please exercise patient because i want to get married before having sex. He understands that but said it isn't...

A.   16 December 2010: It is not necessary for you to bleed when you're a virgin.. usually as women get older, the hymen deteriorates too (and some people are born without one). If you use tampons or engage in some more active sports, it is likely you may have torn it ... (read in full...)

Why is my boyfriend behaving like this?? Am I overreacting?

Q.   Why is my boyfriend behaving like this?? Am I overreacting? whenever i see something nice my boyfriend would like i buy him it when i have the money and also cos i know he would like it. my birthday is next week and i don't want him to spend ...

A.   11 December 2010: If it's not your birthday yet, it may be possible that he just wants to surprise you or he may have different plans as to what to get entirely. So at least in regards to that, it's a bit too early to get angry yet. About the gift buying thing, i... (read in full...)

I treated her so badly she has finally snapped, will she ever come back?

Q.   Hi Everybody I need some serious help and please don't say things like that's what I get because I already know it's all my fault. I just loss my gf and I'm I think for good this time. I took her for granted and not once was insecure about h...

A.   8 December 2010: Why today? Why NOT. Depending on what the problem is, usually people can forgive the same thing a couple of times. Some extra patient and understanding people can go on for more. But these things build up. Drops and drops of water will eventual... (read in full...)

I don't want him, but I don't want anyone else to have him either!

Q.   So my boyfriend came over today, and he doesn't have anywhere to go. I don't have any feelings for him, he knows that we are not together, but I don't know if he thinks that Im serious. I'm not in love with him anymore because of the past. I will ...

A.   8 December 2010: The answer you can pretty much give to any relationship question, talk to him about it. If you want him to be a part of your child's life then you REALLY need to talk to him about it because you don't want the relationship between you two to g... (read in full...)

Thinking of marriage but want to experience other men first!

Q.   Im 16 and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. I'm completely in love and my mom has given him her permission to marry me when we graduate. The thing is, is that ive been wanting to experience sex with someone ...

A.   8 December 2010: Like many of them have mentioned before, cheating is cheating, whether it's before or after marriage. There's just isn't as many legal consequences, hence why it seems more "acceptable". If you're wanting to go out to experience other guys, th... (read in full...)

Everyone says it's not right we're dating because she's under 18?

Q.   Hey everyone, So my girlfriend is 17 years old and i'm 19. Everyone keeps saying that it's not right for us to be dating because she is under 18. I don't think it's a big deal but I was wondering what you all think. So do you think it's okay or is ...

A.   8 December 2010: It's only wrong if that's the only reason you're dating her for.. (because she's young) I don't see why everyone else is making such a big deal about it since you're only two years apart. Or perhaps they think it's "wrong" because she's still in... (read in full...)

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