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I'm seventeen, and thus i'm currently going through the hormonal stage, so i can relate to people who are aswell. If any of my friends are upset, they know they can come to me for confidential advice, or just some comfort. I'm straight at the moment, but a while ago i wondered whether i was gay, but as it stands i'm in to men/boys(:P).
What makes me tick?
- People who are egotistical and not in the comic way.
- People who rely on other's opinions as they can't make their own.
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I have a huge dilemma! Five girls to choose from...what should I do?
Q. ok. i have a dilemma (and no it isn't my spellings) right. i'm a bit of an accidental player...in that i'm a flirt. i'm totally in love with this girl (not naming names so we'll call her 1) i love (1). and yet i have 4 other girls try...
A. 18 November 2009: Dump two you don't like her, go out with one you love her. *simples tch tch. ... (read in full...)
I am sweating too much!
Q. i really dont know what is wrong with me, my under arms keep sweating that i cant wear sleeved tops anymore because it leaves big wet marks, i bath 2 times a day, i have always taken care of myself. when i sweat it dont usually smell or anything, ...
A. 18 November 2009: use deodorant? ... (read in full...)
I am depressed, my mom is an alcoholic and I fear losing my b/f!
Q. Hey there, This is a pretty hard topic to talk about and I dont really know where to stsart, i guess first things first is my mom is an alcholic and i really dont know how to handle it, i turned to smoke, then quit that cuz my bf helped me stop, an...
A. 17 November 2009: tbh, it's better for your sake that your brother lives with you as your mum's an alcoholic. So he can take care of things if they get out of control, As for your boyfriend stop worrying or it'll cause even more pressure for him and that's not ... (read in full...)
Was I a hit and run or did he actually have feelings for me?
Q. last night i went to a club with my sisters.there was this guy i kinda knew he said hi to me and gave him a hug.later on he kept on passing by me and talking to me and everything he would talk his lips were two inches away from mine.then he wanted ...
A. 17 November 2009: It's a club you go to get some action, you didn't really know him before so don't judge him but like a club is hardly the place to start a budding romance, so you were probably just a pull of the night.... (read in full...)
I'm losing my writing mojo because of the teacher's hard-headed method of teaching!
Q. I aspire to be a writer but in the high school creative class I'm in, the teacher makes us all write the same thing basically (we can't express much individuality) and when we do, he gives us strict critiques and I lose my interest in my favorite ...
A. 17 November 2009: Remember he is teaching so that you pass an exam, write leisurely how you like at home ... (read in full...)
Why did he ask me to go to the gym with him? Does he think I'm fat???
Q. This question may sound a bit silly but i just want to know what my boyfriend meant by this. We were talking one night and he said hes going to start going to the gym and he asked "maybe you can come to keep me company" I felt a bit offended...
A. 17 November 2009: He probably just wants you there so you can have a laugh and he can check you out while you work out! As he said he likes you the way you are and you aren't fat. ... (read in full...)
I prefer older guys! Should I hold off on dating?
Q. this may sound bad but im 16 and i've noticed lately that im more atracted to guys in like there late late teens or like 22, so like 18-22... i just ind guys my age anoying and inmucher....i just want to find some one to cuddle with and feel safe ...
A. 16 November 2009: It's fine being attracted to older guys but there will be some more MATURE (not macchur!) guys your age xxx... (read in full...)
Am I over reacting if my boyfriend has a wedding on the day of my birthday and I do not want to attend?
Q. Am I over reacting if my boyfriend has a wedding on the day of my birthday and I do not want to attend? I am not close with the couple that is getting married and my birthday is the only day out of the year that it is all about me. He gives me a ...
A. 16 November 2009: Celebrate your birthday the day before or the next week, it's not a big deal to have your party later. ... (read in full...)
I've been in love with my sister for 3 years!
Q. i need help i'm in love with my sister shes 17 and really beautiful and i'm 15 and i cant stop thinking about her every time i see her i want to grab her and kiss her and never stop this has bin going on for about 3 years now and i dont know if i ...
A. 16 November 2009: Don't tell her, get out more and forget about her, it's wrong. And i bet she doesn't think of you at all in that way ... (read in full...)
I need advice about my feelings for my teacher!
Q. This is probably going to be long, so bear with me. To start with, I don't want to hear how wrong you think/know these kind of relationships are, and how they will not work out and only cause trouble. I know this already. I'm old enough and matur...
A. 14 November 2009: Btw, it's regulation to have the door open when a male tutor and a girl pupil are alone in the room -so don't make a big deal out of that. Many other girls will fancy this teacher as well, I am not so sure that you're any different . ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and am in love with my teacher!
Q. So i'm 14 years old, and there's this teacher at school, she is amazing, like really amazing and i really really like her, she acts so nice to me and like i think i might be in love with her. She acts strange though, telling me i'm beautiful...
A. 13 November 2009: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1218804/Woman-teacher-exposed-predatory-paedophile-sexually-abused-young-children-followed-public-toilets.html
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My boyfriend flinches at my touch and doesn't like my teenage son. What's wrong?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years,when i first met him he had been on his own for 10 years and had drugs/drink problem and was very depressed. I supported him completely whilst he was coming off the drugs and drink and did everythi...
A. 13 November 2009: maybe he doesn't fancy you any more, or he never was in love with you - he was on drugs when he met you after all. ... (read in full...)
Anyone got advice on my army asthma situation?
Q. hey, this is more of a medical question but I'd appreciate any advice. Basically I'm 19, I'm asthmatic and I want to join the army. The army's policy is that your doctor has to verify that you're asthma-free for 4 years consecutively before you can ...
A. 13 November 2009: As an asthma sufferer I doubt that you shall be able to prove that you're asthma free for four years, especially as even in military training you have to run around in the cold not very well equipped and that always brings my asthma on. ... (read in full...)
How do we tell her parents about this? Is this normal?
Q. I had my neice and my son over. My neice is 10 years old and my son is 11 years old and they are second cousins. After I made dinner, I went to my sons room to get them for dinner and when I open the door, they were both laying on the bed naked...
A. 11 November 2009: tell them now xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
My views on animal rights are conflicting with my relationship, what should I do?
Q. I need help! Ive been with my boyfriend for about two years now and we are both so happy together. Im buddhist so i have strong views about a lot of things. One of them is animal rights. I know this is a really extreme veiw but i think animals are ...
A. 11 November 2009: Did he eat the food afterwards?... (read in full...)
My best friend is dating a boy I have a crush on. I am SO confused!
Q. Dear Cupid, I am having a huge crisis with boys and my best friend!! A few weeks ago she asked out a guy that I really like, but before she did... I never told her I liked him. He accepted and now I am really confused. In school they are not...
A. 11 November 2009: Come on, Move on, he likes her she likes him, distance isn't an issue, and sometimes it's good not to be in all the classes with your boyfriend as that makes it hard to talk to your other friends.... (read in full...)
How would I date an amputee without making him feel uncomfortable?
Q. I moved into a new place and caught a glimpse of a guy who is lives few blocks away. I was very drawn to him. Only on the fourth time i saw him completely to realise he didn't have an arm. I was shattered! i was hurt and felt like throwing up. I ...
A. 11 November 2009: Don't make a point of it but don't ignore it completely, say that you love it xxx... (read in full...)
Eloping this weekend... then how do I tell my parents when we get back?
Q. i have been seeing an older man secretly for a year my parents know him but don't know about us he is not married he has a farm right next to us and i help him all the time we our going to get married this weekend when we go to a cattle sale in ...
A. 9 November 2009: Wahey! Hope that your wedding is amazing xxxxx... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my gorgeous aunt
Q. My Aunt is a gorgeous redhead with an amazing body. I fell in love with her about three years ago and ever since then I cant stop thinking of her in a sexual way. Every time I see her I flirt with her and sometimes I suspect she knows this and ...
A. 8 November 2009: Get over it. She is your aunt, has a husband etc. she doesn't fancy you. ... (read in full...)
What do you think she's playing at?
Q. i am a man of 57years and work as a plumber and in the last 9 months have had a 21year old female working with me and we have been getting on like a house on fire but she has been constantly flirting with me ie touching my arms, gentle punching and ...
A. 8 November 2009: exploiting the boss perhaps, or you're a father figure x... (read in full...)
Eloping this weekend... then how do I tell my parents when we get back?
Q. i have been seeing an older man secretly for a year my parents know him but don't know about us he is not married he has a farm right next to us and i help him all the time we our going to get married this weekend when we go to a cattle sale in ...
A. 8 November 2009: Don't marry him without your parent's knowledge, it is the biggest insult ever. ... (read in full...)
Should I pursue my gay cousin?
Q. Okay, so, I am gay, and my 3rd cousin twice removed is as well (homosexual and male), and i'm not going to beat around the bush, i want to hook up with him and have even thought about dating him. 1. Is this bad? 2. What do i do about it?...
A. 8 November 2009: That's not bad, he's not really a relation -go for it! ... (read in full...)
I'm dating my lesbian cousin and I'm scared...
Q. i'm dating my lesbian cousin and i'm scared... i mean, i like her but i'm scared of what the family will do... when i told my mom i was bi, she almsot sent me to a different state to live with my grandmother... if i tell her ...
A. 8 November 2009: How did you start going out in the first place? Don't you know any other lesbians? I think that you should come out to your dad if he doesn't know already, and as regards to your cousin, I wouldn't say anything yet. ... (read in full...)
My friends are talking about having sex, I feel ashamed.
Q. ok this is a really embarrasin thing to ask but here goes...all my friends are 13-14 year olds but talking about already have sex, im still a virgin and when im with my friends it feels like something i should be ashamed of i dont know what to do ...
A. 7 November 2009: To be honest, i bet most of them are lying dear. ... (read in full...)
Through wife-swapping, we fell in love, but are distraught about the hurt we've caused!
Q. Here is my heart-hurting situation. I have been with the mother of my son for almost 15 years. We met when we were in our late teens. About two years ago, we began something that has made me realize I wasn't really in love with my fiancee but more...
A. 6 November 2009: I know that he was in love with my ex (cause he told couple of people about it) but my ex was not in love with him (or maybe she does not know what love is). - She knew what love is, she was in love with you. Stupid. ... (read in full...)
If you lose weight can it make your penis bigger?
Q. So, my penis isn't really that big. I'd say maybe 4 inches when erect. I know that 4 inches is long enough to satisfy a girl, but I would rather be average of maybe 5.5 inches. That would make me feel more confident with myself. I'm also a bit on ...
A. 4 November 2009: It will look bigger in proportion to your body if you lost weight. ... (read in full...)
My brother asked me to look at his because to judge its size
Q. My older brother asked me if I could look at his erect penis and tell him what I thought about its size. I know he is really self conscious about it and I just wanted to help him out. I've seen his dick before when we were really young. But never ...
A. 4 November 2009: You have a boyfriend and even if you didn't, looking at your brother's penis is odd. Tell him to go see a doctor.... (read in full...)
At 16 I'm Pregnant with my teacher's child
Q. MOD NOTE: Poster is in a vulnerable situation, aunts DO NOT give nasty or negative advice PLEASE!!! Oh my God!Even me myself don't know what to do. I'm 16 years old.For the past year,since I started high school(it's the way in Macedonia-from 15...
A. 1 November 2009: Hmmm, well it is up to you :), he said that he'd stand by you whatever your decision so it is up to you whether or not you would like to keep the baby. If you want an abortion, as he works he could probably help pay for the costs without you asking ... (read in full...)
Should I take revenge... or should I forgive and forget?
Q. Back near the end of May I was in P.E and I didn't do it that day. I was sitting with a few of my closest friends and I suddenly got upset because I had a secret and knew it was going to blurt out. So I ran to the toilets in tears and my best ...
A. 31 October 2009: She probably told one person then they went and told their friends who told their friends......etc. So don't think that she went round individually to everyone. But yes you should confront her and say how much she hurt you. ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my friend I'm bi-sexual?
Q. I'm Bisexual, but haven't come out to anyone yet apart from my friend who is now my girlfriend, we got together like 3 days ago after months and months of holding back and im soooooo happy i finally have her. One thing is this weekend we decid...
A. 30 October 2009: She's your best friend, tell her. Otherwise she'll be miffed. ... (read in full...)
On the second date would you rather be asked before he kissed you, or just kissed?
Q. Hi, this question's to the ladies. Imagine you were out on your second date and the guy wanted to kiss u. Would u prefer it if he looked into your eyes and asked "would u mind if i kissed u?" and kissed u only if u said 'yes' or would u prefer it if ...
A. 30 October 2009: Just be kissed... (read in full...)
My 17 year old daughter hasn't had her period. Any advice?
Q. I have a 17 year old daughter that has not started her period. I have taken her to several doctors. Does anyone have advice or information on this subject?...
A. 30 October 2009: If she is underweight for her age, this could be the cause. Or she could have an unusual amount of tetosterone for a girl.... (read in full...)
I don't feel I cheated, but I was awkwardly busted. Do I explain the situation to him?
Q. Thanks so much in advance for your insight(s). After years of quick flings, NSAs and not-quite-rights, (I'm 47) I all but shut down my sexual activity and adpoted a "been there done that" mentality, I'm recently re-inspired. I believe that ...
A. 30 October 2009: I am not sure that you being loyal at heart makes a damn difference dear, as you seem to have contradicted that by your internet use! I mean if you think of him as your longterm partner, why do that bozo!?!... (read in full...)
Why does my ex argue with me?
Q. My boyfriend and i agreed to just be friends - we talk to each other a lot, but whatever i say he always argues about it, even if it's just my own opinion, and i dont know why?...
A. 29 October 2009: OBviously he is bitter about you breaking up.... (read in full...)
I fancy my driving instructor...does he think I'm stupid?
Q. Hey, I've been having driving lessons for a while now (over a year - embarrassing - I was crap at first). My driving instructor has been really supportive... But I really fancy him! I know he's married and I'm engaged but I can't stop thinking ab...
A. 29 October 2009: It probably makes him a bit uncomfortable because he is only with you for professional reasons, as you are paying him! Please forget about him and pass your test already ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my dad about my girlfriend?
Q. I've been in a relationship with one of my best girl friends since early May, though we admitted we had feelings for eachother late last year. It's been about 6 months now, all our friends now know about us, after having kept it secret for around 5 ...
A. 29 October 2009: I agree with the other poster, why is it necessary to tell your dad? Why bring up something that'll cause problems, wait till uve been going out for lik a year, i don't know why parents have to be informed about their children's relationships until ... (read in full...)
Proper grammar please!!!
Q. this is not to do with relationships or anything like that but i just had to point it out: why doesn't anybody use grammar properly on this website or anywhere else! nobody seems to know the difference between to and too or between there, they're ...
A. 28 October 2009: Well you aren't using capitals after using punctuation marks, such as '! comments' and 'r! it really' However, i do agree with what you are trying to say, it is just a tad unfortunate however, that you failed to carry it out in a way that doesn't ... (read in full...)
I had sexual experiances with my aunt!
Q. it is long time back when i was a teen i used to get lot of sexual urges to ,my aunt. she was not a super beauty. we used to stay in the same house. i remember it started after when i noticed that she, when such a situation occurred, kept her brea...
A. 28 October 2009: YOU ARE MARRIED FORGET ABOUT IT ... (read in full...)
How can I make a girl fall in love with me?
Q. hello to everyone well i saw a girl on dating website i really like her,i wrote her couple of messages but she dind't reply me,i wanna make her mine as she is already looking for her prince charming,so plzzzzz i request u help me out if you can,i re...
A. 28 October 2009: IF you sent her a couple of messages and she hasn't replied, she probably thinks that you are a creep, i hope you didn't write 'you are so beautiful i want you now' kinda things... (read in full...)
How do I overcome the bullying? I feel so ugly compared to her.
Q. I'm sat here in tears thinking over the events of yesterday and I really just need someone to listen and I would welcome any sort of advice on how to move on... By way of a brief introduction I'm 27, single mother, working part-time with m...
A. 27 October 2009: Nothing they were horrible, and I am glad to hear that Clara went and told them off, it shows that she is a good person. Ignore them. ... (read in full...)
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