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I'm seventeen, and thus i'm currently going through the hormonal stage, so i can relate to people who are aswell. If any of my friends are upset, they know they can come to me for confidential advice, or just some comfort. I'm straight at the moment, but a while ago i wondered whether i was gay, but as it stands i'm in to men/boys(:P).
What makes me tick?
- People who are egotistical and not in the comic way.
- People who rely on other's opinions as they can't make their own.
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My friends are talking about having sex, I feel ashamed.
Q. ok this is a really embarrasin thing to ask but here goes...all my friends are 13-14 year olds but talking about already have sex, im still a virgin and when im with my friends it feels like something i should be ashamed of i dont know what to do ...
A. 7 November 2009: To be honest, i bet most of them are lying dear. ... (read in full...)
Through wife-swapping, we fell in love, but are distraught about the hurt we've caused!
Q. Here is my heart-hurting situation. I have been with the mother of my son for almost 15 years. We met when we were in our late teens. About two years ago, we began something that has made me realize I wasn't really in love with my fiancee but more...
A. 6 November 2009: I know that he was in love with my ex (cause he told couple of people about it) but my ex was not in love with him (or maybe she does not know what love is). - She knew what love is, she was in love with you. Stupid. ... (read in full...)
If you lose weight can it make your penis bigger?
Q. So, my penis isn't really that big. I'd say maybe 4 inches when erect. I know that 4 inches is long enough to satisfy a girl, but I would rather be average of maybe 5.5 inches. That would make me feel more confident with myself. I'm also a bit on ...
A. 4 November 2009: It will look bigger in proportion to your body if you lost weight. ... (read in full...)
My brother asked me to look at his because to judge its size
Q. My older brother asked me if I could look at his erect penis and tell him what I thought about its size. I know he is really self conscious about it and I just wanted to help him out. I've seen his dick before when we were really young. But never ...
A. 4 November 2009: You have a boyfriend and even if you didn't, looking at your brother's penis is odd. Tell him to go see a doctor.... (read in full...)
At 16 I'm Pregnant with my teacher's child
Q. MOD NOTE: Poster is in a vulnerable situation, aunts DO NOT give nasty or negative advice PLEASE!!! Oh my God!Even me myself don't know what to do. I'm 16 years old.For the past year,since I started high school(it's the way in Macedonia-from 15...
A. 1 November 2009: Hmmm, well it is up to you :), he said that he'd stand by you whatever your decision so it is up to you whether or not you would like to keep the baby. If you want an abortion, as he works he could probably help pay for the costs without you asking ... (read in full...)
Should I take revenge... or should I forgive and forget?
Q. Back near the end of May I was in P.E and I didn't do it that day. I was sitting with a few of my closest friends and I suddenly got upset because I had a secret and knew it was going to blurt out. So I ran to the toilets in tears and my best ...
A. 31 October 2009: She probably told one person then they went and told their friends who told their friends......etc. So don't think that she went round individually to everyone. But yes you should confront her and say how much she hurt you. ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my friend I'm bi-sexual?
Q. I'm Bisexual, but haven't come out to anyone yet apart from my friend who is now my girlfriend, we got together like 3 days ago after months and months of holding back and im soooooo happy i finally have her. One thing is this weekend we decid...
A. 30 October 2009: She's your best friend, tell her. Otherwise she'll be miffed. ... (read in full...)
On the second date would you rather be asked before he kissed you, or just kissed?
Q. Hi, this question's to the ladies. Imagine you were out on your second date and the guy wanted to kiss u. Would u prefer it if he looked into your eyes and asked "would u mind if i kissed u?" and kissed u only if u said 'yes' or would u prefer it if ...
A. 30 October 2009: Just be kissed... (read in full...)
My 17 year old daughter hasn't had her period. Any advice?
Q. I have a 17 year old daughter that has not started her period. I have taken her to several doctors. Does anyone have advice or information on this subject?...
A. 30 October 2009: If she is underweight for her age, this could be the cause. Or she could have an unusual amount of tetosterone for a girl.... (read in full...)
I don't feel I cheated, but I was awkwardly busted. Do I explain the situation to him?
Q. Thanks so much in advance for your insight(s). After years of quick flings, NSAs and not-quite-rights, (I'm 47) I all but shut down my sexual activity and adpoted a "been there done that" mentality, I'm recently re-inspired. I believe that ...
A. 30 October 2009: I am not sure that you being loyal at heart makes a damn difference dear, as you seem to have contradicted that by your internet use! I mean if you think of him as your longterm partner, why do that bozo!?!... (read in full...)
Why does my ex argue with me?
Q. My boyfriend and i agreed to just be friends - we talk to each other a lot, but whatever i say he always argues about it, even if it's just my own opinion, and i dont know why?...
A. 29 October 2009: OBviously he is bitter about you breaking up.... (read in full...)
I fancy my driving instructor...does he think I'm stupid?
Q. Hey, I've been having driving lessons for a while now (over a year - embarrassing - I was crap at first). My driving instructor has been really supportive... But I really fancy him! I know he's married and I'm engaged but I can't stop thinking ab...
A. 29 October 2009: It probably makes him a bit uncomfortable because he is only with you for professional reasons, as you are paying him! Please forget about him and pass your test already ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my dad about my girlfriend?
Q. I've been in a relationship with one of my best girl friends since early May, though we admitted we had feelings for eachother late last year. It's been about 6 months now, all our friends now know about us, after having kept it secret for around 5 ...
A. 29 October 2009: I agree with the other poster, why is it necessary to tell your dad? Why bring up something that'll cause problems, wait till uve been going out for lik a year, i don't know why parents have to be informed about their children's relationships until ... (read in full...)
Proper grammar please!!!
Q. this is not to do with relationships or anything like that but i just had to point it out: why doesn't anybody use grammar properly on this website or anywhere else! nobody seems to know the difference between to and too or between there, they're ...
A. 28 October 2009: Well you aren't using capitals after using punctuation marks, such as '! comments' and 'r! it really' However, i do agree with what you are trying to say, it is just a tad unfortunate however, that you failed to carry it out in a way that doesn't ... (read in full...)
I had sexual experiances with my aunt!
Q. it is long time back when i was a teen i used to get lot of sexual urges to ,my aunt. she was not a super beauty. we used to stay in the same house. i remember it started after when i noticed that she, when such a situation occurred, kept her brea...
A. 28 October 2009: YOU ARE MARRIED FORGET ABOUT IT ... (read in full...)
How can I make a girl fall in love with me?
Q. hello to everyone well i saw a girl on dating website i really like her,i wrote her couple of messages but she dind't reply me,i wanna make her mine as she is already looking for her prince charming,so plzzzzz i request u help me out if you can,i re...
A. 28 October 2009: IF you sent her a couple of messages and she hasn't replied, she probably thinks that you are a creep, i hope you didn't write 'you are so beautiful i want you now' kinda things... (read in full...)
How do I overcome the bullying? I feel so ugly compared to her.
Q. I'm sat here in tears thinking over the events of yesterday and I really just need someone to listen and I would welcome any sort of advice on how to move on... By way of a brief introduction I'm 27, single mother, working part-time with m...
A. 27 October 2009: Nothing they were horrible, and I am glad to hear that Clara went and told them off, it shows that she is a good person. Ignore them. ... (read in full...)
Is being a close friend a turnoff?
Q. I dont understand people sometimes they say they wont go out with someone because they see them as a close friend. But people usually say to have a good relationship friendship should be there. I dont understand why being a close friend is a turn ...
A. 27 October 2009: Isn't it obvious?, they are afraid that if they break up with them, they won't be as close anymore. ... (read in full...)
How do I get through to him that it's not funny?
Q. soo me and my boyfriend have been on and off for 5 months now. we're jus coming back from a huge fight and break up and arent exactly together, jus working on things. so this weekend has been very good and we're happy, but today, i was at my ...
A. 26 October 2009: Text him saying that your jealousy is insane and it's starting to drive me crazy, i will never, ever EVER get with my step brother, that is an abonomable idea, and if you mention it again, you are dumped. ... (read in full...)
This feels so wrong to be flirting so openly with him while his girlfriend has no idea!
Q. Ok, so this is a very complicated situation. I have been in a relationship for the past 9 months. It is a very dysfunctional relationship, so we're taking some time apart right now. When I first met this guy, we started hanging out with his cous...
A. 26 October 2009: Why don't you ask him if he'd leave his girlfriend for you... (read in full...)
I went off sex so allowed my sister to have sex with my husband, but now I don't see why they should continue this arrangement!
Q. Dear Cupid, I gave birth about a year ago. For the first few months after, I was not up for sex at all (although I did allow him to perform oral sex on me). My husband was very patient with me, but I could tell he was stressed by this. I didn...
A. 26 October 2009: Well OBVIOUSLY you'd have a problem with it! Because he now craves sex with her as much, maybe even more than you! Yes you should pull the plug x... (read in full...)
Is he just being a show off or does he like me?
Q. This one guy I know is starting to confuse me. We are not very close, but I had a class with him last year and he wanted me to give him a random high five one time and seemed kind of mad when I talked to other guys. On the last day of school I went ...
A. 26 October 2009: Yeah you do! So you can get to know them better, that is the point of asking someone out ... (read in full...)
B/f's boyfriend says he loves me behind her back
Q. My best friend is going out with a boy I've liked for 2 years and its very awkward to be around. He would say he loves me in proper behind her back once and again and I don't know how to re-act to this. Any advice? ...
A. 25 October 2009: Tell your best friend!!!!... (read in full...)
What first? Remaining a ladyboy or castration?
Q. my age is now 18 i want to be a female please say me what i have to do first is achieving feminity possible or only i be remained as a ladyboy please say to me about castration also please...
A. 25 October 2009: Well obviously before you even consider the op you'd have to take female hormones, and to get those you'd have to convince your gp that you actually were meant to be born a girl, and this is not easy, as it is very difficult judging whether someone ... (read in full...)
Is he just being a show off or does he like me?
Q. This one guy I know is starting to confuse me. We are not very close, but I had a class with him last year and he wanted me to give him a random high five one time and seemed kind of mad when I talked to other guys. On the last day of school I went ...
A. 25 October 2009: Yeah he likes you.. ... (read in full...)
I would like some advice on how to stand up to racist comments!
Q. Hey I know this isn't really a relationship question at all but it can sorta relate... cause racism happens in EVERY SITATUATION including ones with BFS and GFs around... Haa Ok so like I'm a 17 year old asian chick right and I've always had to de...
A. 24 October 2009: JUst keep saying 'is it cos im black?' and make humourous comments! ... (read in full...)
Why am I the abused in this relationship?
Q. I am very confused. Currently sleeping on the bathroom floor after being called a liar, being spit on, having multiple small objects thrown at me, and I was the one called the abuser. When I heard him say this, I stepped out of the washroom and...
A. 24 October 2009: No, keep standing your ground, come on. Literally this guy is not worth your time ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with this girl I got pregnant? She won't stop hanging around me.
Q. Yeah I kinda did it with my little sisters best friend awhile back, couple of months, and now she says she's pregnant and wont stop hanging around me like im her boyfriend. Im perfectly willing to help raise and pay for the kid and everything b...
A. 24 October 2009: Tell your FIANCEE, that you cheated. And find out fast if that girl is lying.... (read in full...)
As I leave for work, the only words he has for me: "Are you wearing a dress to make it easier for him?"
Q. I love dresses, I have always loved dresses. My boyfriend of two years, speaks about marriage with me and how he loves me and wants to spend the rest of our lives together. I love him dearly but there are things about him that don't seem...
A. 23 October 2009: I would have drawn the line ages ago to behonest, two years ago, as soon as it started ... (read in full...)
He is deeply spiritual and senses spirits around him. Should I stay away?
Q. Hello Advice please asap Ive met a great guy online and plan to meet me him on Sunday. He is deeply deeply spiritual, says he feels things, knows things, senses spirits and that he feels them around him all the the time.... His mother was...
A. 23 October 2009: If you don't meet him then you won't find out how much he talks about it in real life, not virtually. ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend lying when he says he doesn't want me to get a boob job?
Q. Okay I want an HONEST answer from the guys here. I have small breasts, like B cup or so. There is enough there for a bit more than a handful, and I can make them look bigger with a push up bra but I hate to do that because I am aware that I am ...
A. 23 October 2009: Your boyfriend goes crazy over your boobs- quoting you, Thus obviously he doesn't want you to get a boob job! He finds them a turn on the way they are, get a grip ... (read in full...)
Aries male crazy over a Saggittarius girl. Need Help!
Q. Classic Aries male in his 30's and I have a professional relationship with a classic Saggittarius female who's been driving me crazy. This girl could possibly be put on earth to be my soulmate. I love everything about her. Now the problem is two ...
A. 23 October 2009: You have to decide who you want more, your partner or her. It is a risk, and if you leave don't expect to be able to get back with your partner ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend cheating or am I being selfish?
Q. Please help me, I'm having a bit of a problem with my boyfriend and this girl he has been texting, it started a couple of months ago when he started talking to a girl that he has known for a while but I don't know at all. He told me once he had a cr...
A. 21 October 2009: To be honest you have been pushing him towards her, I think this makes him feel uncomfortable and has been giving the other girl the wrong signals! ... (read in full...)
Am I a lesbian?
Q. Ok. I have been wondering about this for a long time... I think Im a lesbian. I have a crush on a girl at school and have for a year. But I have always been attracted to girls since primary school. I really like big hands too. I also like short ha...
A. 21 October 2009: Tbh, only you can know what sex preference you like ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, he is 26. Is this bad?
Q. right well im 15 .. and ive been going out with this lad who is 26 ... but ive been with him for nearly a year .. and where so happy .. he treats me like a princess and buys me what i want and loves me loads ... and evryone says im a very mature 15 ...
A. 21 October 2009: Yeah especially if you have been going out for a year, which makes you like only fourteen when you started! and him twenty five......that is a bit too far... (read in full...)
She doesn't remember what she did when drunk - or does she?
Q. I moved into a new flat a few months with two girls who were friends of my friend. i got a crush on one of the girls and then a month ago me, her and one of our friends got drunk and kissed her and touched her boobs but we couldn't do much. ...
A. 19 October 2009: No no no of course not, she is choosing to not remember what happened, so don't discuss it further ... (read in full...)
I just want to know the truth, am I fat?
Q. umm.... wel i've always been really consious bout the way i look and my weight. and now it's just worse than eva because i just read this article about this model that got fired because she was to big and she was a size 8 (british size) t...
A. 16 October 2009: OBviously not, that's the model world. As long as your not really really short and size eight you are healthy ... (read in full...)
What can I do, my boyfriend raped me?
Q. help Im 16 and my boyfriend is 25 andw when we were in his car he drove far away and raped me and he keeps sayind and texting he'll do it agian when hes not busy.It hurts and hes mates say and have tried too have sex with me help!...
A. 16 October 2009: phone police you. Go. ... (read in full...)
Over drinks my boyfriend brought up a threesome. Am I a drama queen for how I reacted?
Q. about two weeks ago my partner and a friend of mine were having a good old drink or two, when my partner suggested a 3 some and within seconds of him saying this my friend a girl, then came onto me. i responded at first as my partner was glaring me ...
A. 16 October 2009: YOU are NOT comfortable with a threesome! Gosh please please tell your partner that it's just you or nothing! Xxxxxx... (read in full...)
Why do I keep attracting nerds?
Q. So I have this tiny problem where I attract the wrong guys. Okay, I think there has to be some kind of physical attraction and not to be mean but i keep attracting nerds. Lik no joke. They are the only ones to talk to me and it just bugs me. W...
A. 15 October 2009: Define nerd.... (read in full...)
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