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I feel inadequate after seeing a photograph of my boyfriend's ex. But am I just being silly?

Q.   I've been in a reltionship with my boyfriend for 4 months. We love each other very much, and I am completely open with him. His last relationship was with a girl that lasted 2 years, and they were engaged. He told me he broke up with her because he ...

A.   23 January 2007: in a way you are just being silly. so what shes got a car and a big house but that don't mean ought. i know 2 years may seem like a long time to you but he'd still be with her if he really liked her.stop thinking your not worth it everyone is worth ... (read in full...)

I think my girlfreind is going to dump me after valentines day! What should I do?

Q.   It all started when my girlfriend started texting my mate telling him that she's dumped me and fancies him. And she asked him if he would go out with her. Now I think she fancies him and her mates told me that she's going to dump me after ...

A.   23 January 2007: you have to make sure your information is correct before you take any action. if the information is correct, i know it may sound bitter, but you would be alot happier if you broke up with her first. not to get one over on her but she's obviousl... (read in full...)

Should I leave my boyfriend and get back with my ex?

Q.   Help! I went out with my ex for about 3 years. We split up the year before last and he started going out with someone else-although that finshed because he said he couldn't stop thinking of me. We drifted back together-but the relationship was ...

A.   23 January 2007: Firstly if you don't feel your bf is right for you what are you doing with him? secondly it sounds as though your ex still likes you very much, but have you considered why he needed space in the first place? maybe if you thought about it you'd see ... (read in full...)

Do I accept the relationship is over and move on... or try to save it?

Q.   my partner of 11 years has recently told me that she wants to seperate,she says that there is no one else involved and that she simply does'nt love me anymore.we have an 8 year old son who has'nt been told yet.the family home has been sold and she ...

A.   23 January 2007: i'm sorry to hear this. maybe space is what you need, after 11 years together maybe a bit of space is what you need. just make sure that your child is informed in everything that goes on as not telling can traumatise a child and make them think it's ... (read in full...)

My bf left me for a friend of mine. I need closure from all this...please help?

Q.   The floor fell out from under my feet when after two years of what I thought was a good relationship my boyfriend told me that he was seeing my close girlfriend ( I believe he put it as a “midlife” crisis). It suddenly made sense why she had been ...

A.   23 January 2007: you feel hurt because in all this you've lost a friend. it sounds as though he doesn't love you as much as you love him. and where i'd normally say no love is forbidden and all love is there for a reasson i don't think that deep down inside you ... (read in full...)

My husband takes me for granted so I cheated on him with a guy at work. But this guy is married aswell. Who should I choose? My husband or the married guy at work?

Q.   I have been married for 20 years to a guy who takes me completely for granted, we have no kids because he doesn't want any (I do!)Just lately I have been attracted to another man at work. I got a new job working in the same office as this man, I ...

A.   23 January 2007: if you're not happy in yor marriage you should get out of it, an unhappy marriage is never a good one. it might be complicated with this other guy though but if you like him and he likes you and you're wiling to wait around my view is wait. but w... (read in full...)

My friend tells my secrets so I stopped sharing them w/ her. Now she's angry about it!

Q.   Well I have a bit of friend trouble!! I've got a friend called "Mary" and i cant trust her!! If I have a secret or something thta I dont want anyone to know and I tell her and tell her not to tell anyone! The first thing she does after is tell ...

A.   23 January 2007: have you told her why you don't tell her? maybe she doesn't realise she's doing it. i'm not taking her side but maybe she can't help it. i'm not gonna tell you that you shouldn't call her your best mate cos she tells everyone your secrets cos who am ... (read in full...)

My uncle is touching me inappropriately and offering me money! What should I do?

Q.   Hello. My uncle has been touching me up around the chest area and i don't know what to do. He also keeps texting and asking to see me and offering me money. My Ex-Boyfriend has given me a few choices as follows. - Tell police. - ...

A.   23 January 2007: at the age 16 that means your parents will have to be informed. try telling your uncle that you're not interested and than if he doesn't back off tell your parents. i know your afraid of telling them but hiding it or running away ain't gonna he... (read in full...)

My Mother called me a 'waste of space ' and a 'failure'! What can I do?

Q.   I am fed up at home. I am 16 so take my GCSE's in the summer and have just done my mocks. The problem is that my mum's expectations for me are huge. apparently I have always been very bright etc. but I am under a lot of pressure with my gcse's. ...

A.   23 January 2007: i just did my gcse's in the summer just gone and i'm currently doing my A levels. i have been given scholorships at 6 different universitys all over the uk for a september entry, at the age of seventeen that means i will be one of the youngest ... (read in full...)

I'm 16 and in love! But he doesn't feel the same. Should I just forget him then?

Q.   i am 16 and in love! The problem is the guy i love doesn't like me like that! he flirts all the time with me but tells me he doesnt like me! He has told me a few times that he likes me but if i confront him about it he acts like he was joking. ...

A.   23 January 2007: sounds like this guy likes you he's just too afraid to admit it cos you were 'popular' at school. maybe if you relaxed more around him he might get the picture that you don't care what he was like at school and that you now like him. as for your... (read in full...)

He lies to me about everything ..why?

Q.   My boyfriend cheated on me in past but now we are back together. Whats bothering me is that he continues to tell white lies ALL the time - like if i say are you still at work he'll say yes but then at end conversation he'll say no he's at home. O...

A.   23 January 2007: it sounds like this guy is immature, he gets cheap laughs from lying to you. he ain't worth your time and he needs to grow up before anyone can put up with him. remember immaturity is never really a good point about a man Hope i helped SweetSi... (read in full...)

She hooks up with guys in front of me! I love her and this annoys me! What can I do?

Q.   I have this problem with an ex-girlfriend of mine. We were dating for six months and I fell deeply in love with her. Then one day in May 2006 she just decided to break up with me because I was "chocking" her (not giving her time with her friends, ...

A.   23 January 2007: i don't mean to cause offense by my answer but i am only 16 so i know what you and this girl are going through. you're using the word love too lightly. okay so you went out with her for 6 months but how old are you 14/15 at that age the word love to ... (read in full...)

I really want to date this guy and would like for us to be more than we are. What can I do?

Q.   I am in high school. I like this guy. I have heard great things about him. He loves sports like me, he is nice and that we would be good together. The thing is we aren't friends with the same goups of people. Wednesday is the last class together ...

A.   23 January 2007: hanging out in a group is a brilliant idea it gives you a chance to see what this guy is really like and how he behaves. but you still wanna let this guy know that you like him but don't over do it, try talking to him about something you both like ... (read in full...)

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