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| | *weet Dreamer xxx's profile:Being a young naive girl, I fell in love with the wrong guy. I pushed my friends away for telling me how stupid I was instead of taking their advice and I ended up just surviving for him even after he cheated on me. It took me five and a half years to realize how dumb I was and dump his butt. I grew up, made new friends, got a job and headed to uni. I fell in love with the most considerate loving guy in the world. Thats right I got through the first, second and third love and met the one I hope will be my forever. I want to help people get through their issues and get to the happiness!
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My boyfriend’s ex-partner is a nightmare! I feel like we are constantly looking over our shoulders!
Q. My boyfriend's ex partner is a nightmare - and I feel like we're constantly looking over our shoulders. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. Things are great between the two of us and we are very happy. The problem we have ...
A. 19 February 2019: Ignore the messages she posts. If you just let it role over your shoulders and ignore her she will eventually get fed up. She is posting these things hoping that you will read them, which means she's winning at her objective at trying to get to you. ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a restaurant owner who's 10 years older and struggles with money. Is it worth it?
Q. Hi everyone, It's a bit long but please be patient with me. I'm currently dating a restaurant owner for almost a month. We met a supermarket and he took courage to ask me out on a date. We really hit it off after the first date and continue ...
A. 19 February 2019: Firstly please stop listening to your friends and start listening to your own feelings! Secondly if you are both happy what is the problem with an age gap, my step mother is ten years younger than my father and I've never met a couple happier,... (read in full...)
I’m bi, my friend is straight, but she said it was okay to flirt with her! What does her behaviour mean?
Q. I am bisexual, turning 18 in March. I have a friend, who I think I am in love with... I told her I liked her but she told me that she is straight. But she also said before all this shit, that it's okay to flirt with her. One time, she and my ot...
A. 19 February 2019: Sadly many girls can be egotistical, she could just be using your crush to fill that need. Stringing you along is a way to conitinously get this fill.
You need to distance yourself, this isn't a friend, this her abusing that so called frie... (read in full...)
I really like her and want to continue communication with her, but she’s on holiday! I don’t want to put a foot wrong, so I need advice!
Q. Hey everyone, This feels really pathetic but any advice will help. Basically I’m messaging a girl who I met a few weeks back. She lives just over an hour away and i met her on a night out. Since then I went back the following weekend to see...
A. 19 February 2019: Let her enjoy the holiday, she may be the type of person that does not like constantly messaging and on top of that she might want to fully immerse herself in her travels.
As you already said it is only for 2 weeks, that time won't make you look... (read in full...)
Do you think he’s basically telling me to leave?
Q. So last night my S/O and I got into an argument. We were at walmart leaving and our daughter stopped to whine about getting some gumballs so I wasn't paying attention to where I was walking and accidentally bumped into the entrance doors of the ...
A. 19 February 2019: I have to agree with your mother, you should not be taking this type of abuse. It clearly was an accident, who would purposely go into a door? Relating back to the issue, I do not think it matters what he thinks, What does matter is your feelings. H... (read in full...)
Should I pursue a relationship to push away the feelings for my best friend?
Q. I'm majorly confused here and need some kindly advice. I've fancied my best friend for over a year now, we share a house at uni together and often hang out and have a lot of fun. However, she does a have a boyfriend who she goes home to see every ...
A. 14 February 2019: I agree, you can't help who you fall in love with, but you can help what you do about it. You best friend sounds like she loves you as a friend and may get a little jealous of another girl getting all your attention but I don't think she cares for ... (read in full...)
My ex unblocked me but didn’t contact me?!
Q. My ex and i broke up 4 monthes ago , he broke up with me , i kept begging and pleading until he blocked me on everything, after that i decided to go no contact after 1 month of no contact I realized that he has unblocked me on facebook ( we have ...
A. 14 February 2019: Well done to sticking to your guns and not trying to contact him. I believe the reason as to why he has unblocked you is to see if you would message him.
His mum should stay out of this, telling you that he loves and misses you could give you fals... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is preoccupied with his size and performance
Q. Recently my B/f has become paronoid about not being able to please me. He ususaly lasts a min or two and then that is it. Plus he worries that as he isnt as big as he would like to be that I might not be enjoying our love life as much as I could. ...
A. 14 February 2019: I understand where you are coming from completely. My partner does not last very long either, but that doesn't stop me loving him any less, in fact it is the most amazing feeling to be intimate with someone you are in love with, be that two minutes ... (read in full...)
In a polyamorous relationship and the woman is pregnant. How do I deal with the pregnancy?
Q. I'm in a very unfamiliar type of situation and not sure where to turn for advice. I am a woman dating a married couple (FMF polyamorous triad) for about 6 months, and we have all been getting along great to where we spend most days together, and ...
A. 14 February 2019: I think this arrangement has ran its course sadly. I don't see being in a relationship with a couple as a bad thing, however now that a child is involved I think the best thing to do is step back. This may cause issues for the child growing up. A... (read in full...)
We live together and have 3 kids but he hasn't talked to me in 7 days because of trust issues.
Q. Tomorrow will be a week since we last talked. My bf of 3 years, father of my 3 children, stopped talking to me unexpectedly. I am unsure why, though I suspect it could be because of a message from an old hs friend. The message was completely ...
A. 8 February 2019: I have to agree that this is just childish, however I don’t agree that you should just leave him. I can understand the point that it may be his way of emotionally abusing you, however this behaviour normally happens throughout the relationship. Has ... (read in full...)
I want to travel but I'm bad at long distance and at the same time don't want to break up with my boyfriend. What should I do?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for three and a half years. We've lived together for two of those, at least during semesters - we go to the same college. The rest of the time we go home to our families at opposite ends of the country. I will be grad...
A. 8 February 2019: I completely understand your struggles here, I'm a big traveller and am lucky enough to have met someone that shares my love of travel, however previously my ex refused to travel, or follow me somewhere that he didn't like the look off. He would try ... (read in full...)
I still might have feelings for my best friend , but we’re both with other people! What to do?
Q. hi, i'll try and keep this short as possible. almost 2 years ago, my best friend (let's call him j) and i both discovered we had feelings for each other, but we couldn't be together as he's with someone already (who's now become another one of my ...
A. 7 February 2019: You stopped the kiss because you'd never been kissed before, not because you were both with other people, this tells me that although you love your boyfriend you have far larger feelings for your best friend, even if you don't get together with J ... (read in full...)
Does it sound like my boyfriend is married or not?
Q. I found out my boyfriend had someone else a couple of years ago.this woman has phoned me a few times claiming to be his wife but what she says doesn't add up.he admits to having had a relationship with her but denies they are married.when I first ...
A. 7 February 2019: It sounds like she took his last name, but did not marry him. Try to catch her out next time and ask for their marriage certificate. This would be able to tell you if there are any truth to her words. But why is she messaging you still? Is there ... (read in full...)
She kissed another man and my feelings will never be the same!
Q. I and my gf were in a close relationship for 2 years and recently we moved to our respective cities and were in a long distance relationship for 5 months...and one fine day she called me and told that a guy kissed her in a weak moment and she didn't ...
A. 7 February 2019: I'm sorry this happened to you.
You have said it yourself, you will never feel the same again. If there is no trust, there is no relationship. That being said it is easy to judge a relationship from the outside.
But, you went through her mess... (read in full...)
Money, my relationship, my girlfriend's friend and her boyfriend "chipping in". How do I deal with all of this?
Q. Hey, I been with my gf for 3.5 years. We are living apart due to finances. Throughout our relationship I have been supporting and providing. Recently I have not been able to due to my work, our meeting has been suffering, we are unable to do ...
A. 7 February 2019: By the sound of it, the guy didn't pay FOR her, he paid for his girlfriend to go out with her best friend, this is probably what she meant by saying he is so sweet. But you need to make her see this has upset you, explain it in the same way as you ... (read in full...)
On the one hand her behaviour is awful and she's constantly picking up fights but on the other hand she's very keen on moving in together! What's going on here?
Q. Hi I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years. We're making plans to move in together soon. Everything was pretty much perfect until about 6 months ago when she started picking fights with me and usually there wasn't a clear reason, nothing I had do...
A. 7 February 2019: She seems extremely insecure, has she always been like this? Or is this new behaviour? I understand the fighting is new but has something been said in the past that may have made her feel you might not feel much for her anymore? I know this may ... (read in full...)
I fear I will fall apart because of the distance that his military life has created
Q. My boyfriend left a few weeks ago to study at the army’s university for four years until he finishes his course and begins a full time job as an officer. I spent the last couple of years of my life by his side day in day out without ever spe...
A. 7 February 2019: About five years ago I was exactly in the same position as you are now, my partner at the time joined the military and I couldn't imagine how my life would go without him, we'd see each other every day and spend most nights together. To top off the ... (read in full...)
My friend’s study habits really bother me and may affect my education!
Q. So this isn’t anything to do with love but I don’t know who else to ask. I am currently in my second year of university and have made some incredible friends, throughout the first year they pushed me to achieve the best grades so when coming to g...
A. 7 February 2019: Sadly the option of not taking classes together is not possible, our degree lines up majority of our lectures and this module was vital for my career route.
With regards to the projects this is part of our curriculum, if I could I would due to proj... (read in full...)
Should I send my crush a Valentine’s card?
Q. hey everyone, i consider myself a shy-ish person and so talking about any of my crushes is a bit difficult for me. no one has ever known who i've liked or do like. i am trying to open up. anyways, there's someone i like currently, let's ...
A. 7 February 2019: Hiya,
I personally think you should, ask yourself what could go wrong?
Guys can give off the impression of being intimidating and having feelings for them can mix the imitation up with nervousness. Do you suffer with panic attacks often? I... (read in full...)
How Do You Flirt With An Introverted Guy?
Q. So I have a major thing for this Scottish guy I recently met, who just moved down to England from Glasgow. :P He's stunningly cute, and very, very intelligent and passionate about what he does (he's an engineer, and my firm is paying for employee ...
A. 28 August 2014: Opposites attract! Never forget that. I would say go for it and ask him out, what have you got to lose? It could be that he likes you and is just worried about asking you out? Or it could be like you said, he is too into his work to worry about re... (read in full...)
Is it arrogant to think that you're "too good" for someone?
Q. Is it okay to think that you're too good for someone (or that you want to reject them based on your high standards), provided you don't say it to anyone else? To merely think it as part of making a decision? Just found out a male acquaintance sec...
A. 28 August 2014: Weirdly enough my ex boyfriend is just the same as this guy.
Your not arrogant to think your too good for him, intact you're smart!
I spent the last five years with a guy that was good looking, but his attitude stunk, and because I thought ... (read in full...)
My controlling parents want me to live at home forever and I feel trapped.
Q. I am stressed and in need of advice. I'm 18 and living with my parents to go to community college but ever since I was 14, I have been wanting to move out. I can't move out just yet because I have no job or car. Although I have money saved from when ...
A. 28 August 2014: I'm so sorry about how you are feeling. This is a tricky situation to deal with, sadly some parents can attach themselves to their children, either wanting them to live the lives they never got or because they are worried about losing the relation... (read in full...)
High school Homecoming: I need advice, which girl might be the best choice to ask?
Q. Hey people of DC, Forge is back again... with more high school "fun." Ready to help? The issue is Homecoming. By far the biggest school event I've been to. The dance, pep rally, football game, you know, eventful stuff. I have time on this, than...
A. 28 August 2014: I'm from the Uk which means I don't understand the whole 'Homecoming' thing you guys have out there. However I think I can help you out with your dilemma. The fact that you have mixed emotions about five girls seems like your not ready to date an... (read in full...)
Is it just wedding nerves or am I having second thought's about marrying my fiancé?
Q. I'm not sure if it's just wedding nerves or if I'm having second thought's about marrying my fiancée. It's two months away and the more and more closer it gets, the more I seem to be confused. I love my fiancée, he is the one I want to spend ...
A. 27 August 2014: You're not unsure though, you know exactly what you want. You said it yourself at the start of the question, your in love with him and have been throughout the thick and thin. You know you guys are not going to let things get in the way!
You just... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't look at other girls...lying?
Q. Basically, my boyfriend lies about looking at other girls. I've always known that men, even in a committed relationship, look at other women. Obviously I know some do it more than others and for some there's just glance. My boyfriend claims he ...
A. 27 August 2014: Instead of believing that he his lying why don't you just give him the benefit of the doubt?
Okay men do look at other women and watch porn, but not ALL men. You seem to be worrying about nothing here, if he is lying he is probably worried abou... (read in full...)
New school, new friends?
Q. So I changed schools during the summer and the only person i know is my cousin. Well I get kind of lonely without my friends. As you can probably tell im kind of shy. Can someone please give me some advice on how to make new friends. Thank you!...
A. 27 August 2014: What always worked for me is chatting to someone you sit next to in lessons. The problem of moving to a new school that has a singular person you know means you hang on to them without realising and this then makes you feel more nervous about ... (read in full...)
In an emotional mess after the break up and not sure where to go from here
Q. Over seven weeks ago me and my boyfriend of over two years split due to him falling in love with someone else. I met someone 4 weeks later, and knew in my heart that it really was too soon. First date went well, but I did cry on him as was still ...
A. 27 August 2014: Have you ever heard the saying "You can't help who the person is that you fall in love with"?
It's not his fault that he's fallen for you, just like your ex couldn't help falling in love with his current girlfriend (while still with you!) and just... (read in full...)
I love him to bits but he is hurting me all the time! Should I stay or should I go?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years, but lately we are having a lot of arguments. He has started to become friends with these other guys, at first I kept telling him to go out with them because I didn't want him to feel lef...
A. 27 March 2012: Thankyou for all your advice, I've ordered the book 'walking on egg shells' and I have broken up with him!
Turns out he didn't even stay on his own the nights he said so alittle more annoyed!
I've blocked his number and deleted him on facebook... (read in full...)
I love him to bits but he is hurting me all the time! Should I stay or should I go?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years, but lately we are having a lot of arguments. He has started to become friends with these other guys, at first I kept telling him to go out with them because I didn't want him to feel lef...
A. 26 March 2012: Thanks for all the advise, just one quick question before I meet up with him, shall I ask for the PS3 back, or shall I just leave it? Xxx... (read in full...)
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