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I found out my boyfriend has been cheating. Should I take him back?

Q.   I been with my bf for 4 months. I love him more than anything, supported him through everything, helped him a little through his financial problems. Anyway, I kinda always been a jealous gf but never checked through his personal things.(I see him ...

A.   27 November 2009: Sounds bad, he wouldn't admit anything and then even though you have "evidence" of something going on he still tries to lie. I'd say leave him, he's not worth any more of your time. I've been through the same and the lies will just get more clever ... (read in full...)

My husband is on a number of dating and sex sites, what are the chances that he has cheated or will do in the future?

Q.   Hi cupid, I have been married for 7 years and have always been honest and faithful to my husband. My husband is extremely possessive and controlling, he does not even let me wear any thing that I look sexy in when we go out. He gets angry if any m...

A.   27 November 2009: OMG!! Get out of this relationship now. He is abusing you!!... (read in full...)

How can I rebuild my trust for him after I found these texts on his phone?

Q.   Iv been with my partner for a couple of months now, and he knows i suffer from really bad trust issues due to a past relationship. But yesterday i was looking on his mobile ( yeah i know its wrong but its something i do to make myself feel better) ...

A.   27 November 2009: Dump him. If he hasn't cheated already then he is planning to. Sorry to say this :0(... (read in full...)

He promised to quit smoking but its been 9 months..how can I not hate it!

Q.   well here's the story.. i met him as a smoker.. i did not want to date him because of that but he insisted and insisted and insisted promising that he will quit if i gave him a chance..but he have been together now for 9 months now and he still ...

A.   27 November 2009: Wow, Army Medic, that's great. You met someone special and you stopped.. My story..I too met someone special.. I knew he smoked and drank heavily but still I fell in love. Then he got cancer.. really serious.. after an operation earlier in the y... (read in full...)

Is it normal to masturbate "to porn" while in a relationship?

Q.   I have been with this guy for 3 years and I was just wondering if it is normal to masturbate "to porn" while in a relationship. I understand that it is a natural thing but when I think of him masturbating to another naked women it makes me feel ...

A.   26 August 2009: Well, the porn question. I'm a woman and I quite enjoy it too. I think the problem with porn begins when it affects a relationship in a detrimental way, for example when the use of porn is preffered over actually having sex with the partner. This ... (read in full...)

Why do married men ogle other women?

Q.   Why do men when they are married 'lech/ogle' women and flirt with them? Are they insecure, are they trying to boost their own ego, are they not happy with their own marriage?...

A.   11 July 2007: Well this is a subject I have been giving much thought to over the past few days. My boyfriend of 5 months was out with me the other night, and we had just had a lovely dinner in the house, followed by amazing lovemaking and a real growing intimacy ... (read in full...)

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